Author: Miriam Green

10 Reasons to Become a Wicked Grounds VIP Today!

March 23, 2025 By Miriam Green

“Ok, Mir. I see that you really want me to become a member this week. Tell me more about what the VIP membership means.” I’m so glad you asked! VIP members are the core of making Wicked Grounds’ operations possible, and their memberships benefit both themselves and the community at large. ​You might want to become a VIP. If so, click here!​ What do VIPs get? VIP membership has some pretty cool privileges! Miriam Green teaches for Wicked Grounds 4-6 times per month. With VIP membership, you get every single one of their classes for free. Love our other in-person and online classes? Binge! With VIP membership, you get all the classes you want for $10 each, significantly lower than our usual sliding scale. Love our digital downloads? Get them for 10% off. Want personalized coaching and consulting? That’s also 10% off for VIPs. Best of all, get a whopping 30% discount on our multi-week classes like Diving Deep or Stepping Into Pride. What does the community get because Wicked Grounds has VIPs? Because VIPs allow us some flexibility in budgeting, we can take a step back from the hustle periodically to stay sharp and give back. VIPs allow us to invest in: Professional development for kink educators not just at Wicked Grounds but beyond through our accessibility-focused yearly Kink Class Incubator Community moderation services on FetLife. Our staff help moderate many of your favorite SF- and education-based FetLife groups pro bono to maintain a more pleasant FetLife experience. Vetting, community-building, and networking. Maybe you’re one of the hundreds of folks that rely on us to help with basic vetting and community management. We’re able to budget for spending whatever time this takes in part because we have a membership-provided administrative budget. New class development. We like to keep it fresh around here! Your faith in us allows us time for creative development on new classes, and periodically reviewing everything we offer. Taking chances. Whether it’s taking a chance on a new instructor, a new topic, or a very niche course, having a bit of slack allows us to focus on what’s right for education over time, not just on the classes that are guaranteed “sexy topics” that will sell out. But don’t take our word for it. I reached out recently to ask a few VIPs what they thought you should know. Here are some of the things they shared: I love being a Wicked Grounds VIP! It makes it super low-barrier to drop into many of the online classes every month, and I’ve received great discounts on the 6-week Diving Deep course and on highly impactful 1:1 coaching with Mir. Having Wicked Grounds as a resource has made a huge positive impact on my kink journey! – I Ever since I first attended a Wicked Grounds event over a decade ago, it has been important to both my kink and gender journey. One of the munches they used to host was critical as I first started discovering my non-binary identity! The classes they now host are high-quality staples for both local and online kink education, a powerful keystone for community members to safely expand their interests. – Anonymous Wicked Grounds is the best source of eduction opportunities I’ve seen for everyone on the BDSM path. They consistently have standout teachers who come prepared with quality content, relevant experience, and infectious enthusiasm. I know every time I sign up for a class I’m guaranteed to learn something in community with other great kinksters. – AHP In my almost-decade of being around the Bay Area scene, with all its highs and lows, I’ve never seen anyone as dedicated and driven as Mir is in making sure that community isn’t just a word, but a real place of learning and improvement. Their 101s helped me start, but it’s everything they did to build and foster initiatives and loci of learning that helped me flourish. If one of Mir’s classes sounds interesting to you… do not wait! Take the chance!”– Aura V. ​If you are able, please join. It makes an enormous difference.​

This Week with Wicked Grounds (3/20 – 3/30)

March 20, 2025 By Miriam Green

Howdy kinksters – A very happy Spring Equinox to you! A few big things are on the horizon! First, we’ll be hosting Jamie Joy for a series of live classes in San Francisco this weekend – two rope classes Saturday and two D/s classes on Sunday. I’d love to see our local folks there for some or all of the weekend! Speaking of D/s, one of my very favorite live D/s classes is coming back next month as a daylong intensive. Get your tickets now for Leading and Following: Nonverbal Communication for D/s for the full afternoon and early evening of Sunday, April 13. ​Space is very limited, so don’t wait to get tickets.​ We also recommend looking into the ​Dom/ sub Dynamics Virtual Summit​ March 31 – April 3. The summit is packed with live online classes from our favorite instructors, and upgrading to a VIP pass gives you access to the full summit and many other resources throughout the year. It’s a great way to learn a lot about D/s. Finally, our annual ​membership​ and ​scholarship fundraising drive​ officially launches tomorrow, but there’s no need to wait! You can sign up to ​support us with a monthly or annual pledge​ at any time, and doing it now will allow us to go into the week with a strong start! Speaking of going into the week, let’s look at that calendar! This week! Thursday 3/20 Join us online tonight at 6pm Pacific to explore the thrill of the hunt with author and educator Lee Harrington, in Primal Play: Hunter, Hunted, Predator, Prey. Whether you’re curious about primal play or want new ways to explore this embodied and powerful kink, this is your class! Join us through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday 3/21 Today we launch our Patreon membership drive! Patreon members at every level make literally make everything we do possible, and our VIP program comes with some very nice benefits. If you’d like to make a regular contribution toward building top-quality kink education for yourself and your community, please ​join us at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds​ and help us spread the word about this crucial membership drive! Rumor has it there might be some prizes for new members! Some folks prefer to give directly without using Patreon, so we’ve also set up a ​GoFundMe​ for direct contributions to the scholarship fund. ​We also have an event listing on FetLife that we’ll keep updated with information.​ Saturday 3/22 We have TWO live rope bondage classes in San Francisco today! Just getting started? Need a refresher? Join us at noon for Let’s Get Knotty: Rope Bondage for Beginners with Jamie Joy to learn all the basic ties you’ll need to create truly excellent rope scenes. Tickets available at ​Forbidden Tickets​ and ​Plura​. Interested in combining rope play with other forms or impact or sensation play? Whether you’re a beginner at rope or an advanced rigger or rope bottom curious about adding more to your scenes, please join us at 4pm for Bound to Thrill: The Art of Rope and Sensation Play with Jamie Joy. Get your tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. We’ve added a generous amount of time between the two classes so that folks who want to can step out for a break or late lunch – but Miriam Green will be on site at the Folsom Street Community Center between the classes, and you are welcome to just hang out (or bring a bag lunch)! Sunday 3/23 Join us online today for Pigs in Blanket: Intro to Piggy Play with Lady V. Whether you’re experienced human animal or handler looking to expand your horizons, or brand new to the world of human animals, we invite you to learn more in this online class at 11am Pacific! Get your tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. If you’re in the San Francisco Bay Area, we have two exciting D/s classes today with traveling instructor Jamie Joy. Attend one or both! (Personally, I am a HUGE fan of people taking classes not just targeted to their own side of the D/s slash but both.) We’ve added a generous amount of time between the two classes so that folks who want to can step out for a break or late lunch – but Miriam Green will be on site at the Folsom Street Community Center between the classes, and you are welcome to just hang out (or bring a bag lunch)! At noon, join us for Command and Control: The Art of Domination with Jamie Joy. We’ll explore everything that thrills and excited about the D side of the slash! Get your advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​, or take your chance on getting on-site tickets at the door. Then at 4pm, join us for Serve and Surrender: The Art of Submission with Jamie Joy and learn the fine arts of letting go and exploring your own submissive style. Get your advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Monday 3/24 If you love exploring pain and sensation, processing skills are critical! Join us online at 6pm Pacific for Pain Processing: Learning to Endure and Suffer with Miss Mackenzee. Advanced ticketing available through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday 3/25 Join us online at 6pm Pacific for Negotiating and Communicating for Emotional S/M with the legendary vahavta. Advanced ticketing available through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Wednesday 3/26 No live classes today, but check out our digital downloads and video classes at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​. Thursday 3/27 Join us online at 6pm Pacific for Getting Freaky in the Spreadsheets: Consent, Negotiations, & Neurodiversity with Lilith Foxx. Get your advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday 3/28 No live classes today, but check out our digital downloads and video classes at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​. Saturday 3/29 Our fundraising period is winding down for the year. ​Have you signed up for our Patreon yet?​ Sunday 3/30 Join us online at noon Pacific for Wax, Fire, & Ice Play with Jamie Joy! Advanced ticketing required. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Support. Follow. Share. Join our ​Patreon​ for personal benefits and to stabilize our long-term trajectory. Annual memberships now available! Book ​with us​ for coaching and consulting time with Mir. Use our ​Venmo​ for one-time

3/31 – 4/3: Wicked Grounds Recommends: The Dom/ Sub Dynamics Virtual Summit

March 17, 2025 By Miriam Green

The Dom/ sub Dynamics Virtual Summit A free (or upgraded) Virtual Summit from Dom/sub Dynamics A virtual ticket with free live-only access or a small upgrade gets you unlimited access March 31 – April 3, 2025 ​Get your tickets here!​ The Dom/ sub Dynamics Virtual Event is back this year, and we’re very excited about this. Imagine your favorite kink conference. Now imagine all of that education and community building available to you right from the comfort of your home with worldwide and world-class kink instructors. We were delighted to partner with the virtual summit last year, and are delighted to recommend it again this year. ​You may get a free ticket right here!​ When you sign up, you’ll also have the opportunity to upgrade your ticket to a VIP ticket – and when you do that it benefits the instructors, the summit, and even Wicked Grounds as a promoter. We think it’s a great deal. The VIP tickets are only $97 (and potentially discounted further), and give you full access to $2,700 (that’s not a typo) of BDSM educational resources on an ongoing basis. Whether you get a ​free ticket​ or sign up for the full shebang, we think you’ll get a lot out of this!

Wicked Grounds Full Class Roster! (last updated 3/14/25)

March 14, 2025 By Miriam Green

Howdy kinksters! First things first: if you love everything we do, I need to personally ask you to be a part of it. Sex education is already starting to face backlash in this country, and we need all our resilience to fight the fuck back. Your memberships allow us to make time for class development as well as to offer sliding scale and scholarship seats for our all programming. If you value what we do, please make a ​monthly membership contribution​. (VIPs get some particularly sweet benefits, like discounts and even some free classes!) It is impossible for me to overstate how important this is to our long-term goals. And: thank you! Links below are to our primary ticketing via ​Forbidden Tickets​. If you’re a Plura member, check the ​Plura​ app for ticketing there as well. Need personal coaching & guidance for those sticky issues around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach out for one-time or ongoing coaching sessions at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​. Not sure if coaching is the right fit for you? We now offer ​10-15 minute exploration sessions​ to learn more or answer the quickest of questions. The Roundup! Multi-week Intensives ​Wicked Grounds’ Kink Class Incubator – May 2025​ ​Stepping into Pride: A five week workshop to discover your own pride in your LGBTQ+ identity – July 2025​ NEW 8/10 – 9/20: ​The Pentacle Path: A Six-Week Online Tarot Intensive with Miriam Batasherah Green​ ​Diving Deep: Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires – November – December 2025​ ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters 2026​ Super Important! Our Membership Drive! 3/21 – 4/1: ​Wicked Grounds Membership Drive​ We are running a membership drive this month to get back on a path to long-term sustainability and we need every single person who cares about our mission to be a part of it! ​Get your own membership here​ and spread the word to your kink loving friends! There’s no need to wait till the equinox – feel free to do it now! Special April 20th Deep Dive: Cannabis & Kink! 4/20 11am PDT: ​The High Life: Cannabis, Intimacy, and Kink with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) 4/20 2pm PDT: ​Blunt Talk: Boundaries and Consent While Using Cannabis with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) 4/20 4:20 PDT: ​Canna Service with Auntie Vice​ (ONLINE) S/m & the physical side of play 3/24 6pm PDT: ​Pain Processing: Learning to Endure and Suffer with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) 4/2 7pm PST: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with impossiblepain​ (San Francisco, CA) 4/3 7pm PDT: ​The Edge of Desire: Knife Play 101 with Jamie Joy​ (San Francisco, CA) 4/11 11am PDT: ​Fatal Follicles: Hair Pulling for Harlots! with Lady V​ (ONLINE) 4/19 2pm PDT: ​Exploring Pleasure Through Pervertibles with Princess Rara​ (ONLINE) NEW 5/7 7pm PDT: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!​ (San Francisco, CA) 6/18 6pm PDT: ​Pedi Pain: Impact and Pressure Points for Feet with HG Wyndell​ (ONLINE) Fetish 3/26 6pm PDT: ​Dressed & UnDressed: Playing With Wardrobe with HG Wyndell​ (ONLINE) Bondage 3/22 Noon PDT: ​Let’s Get Knotty: Rope Bondage for Beginners with Jamie Joy​ (San Francisco, CA) 3/22 4pm PDT: ​Bound to Thrill: The Art of Rope and Sensation Play with Jamie Joy​ (San Francisco, CA) 5/26 6pm PDT: ​Boundless Creativity: Innovative Ways to Use Rope in Play with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) D/s, role play & the mental side of play 3/16 6pm PDT: ​The Art of Ownership with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) 3/20 6pm PDT: ​Primal Play: Hunter, Hunted, Predator, Prey with Lee Harrington​ (ONLINE) 3/23 11am PDT: ​Pigs in Blanket: Intro to Piggy Play with Lady V​ (ONLINE) 3/23 Noon PDT: ​Command and Control: The Art of Domination with Jamie Joy​ (San Francisco, CA) 3/23 4pm PDT: ​Serve and Surrender: The Art of Submission with Jamie Joy​ (San Francisco, CA) 3/25 6pm PDT: ​Negotiating and Communicating for Emotional S/M with vahavta​ (ONLINE) 4/7 6pm PDT: ​Sir! Yes Sir!: Exploring Protocol in Power Exchange Dynamics with Lee Harrington​ (ONLINE) 4/15 7pm PDT: ​Improv for Naughty Play with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 4/19 11am PDT: ​Crafting A Psycho-Emotive Ritual Scene with Keiden Bren​ (ONLINE) 4/20 4:20 PDT: ​Canna Service with Auntie Vice​ (ONLINE) 4/22 6pm PDT: ​Daddy 101: Build the Foundation with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) 4/28 6pm PDT: ​Unlocking Euphoria: Navigating Subspace Together with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) 6/8 12pm PDT: ​Leading and Following: Nonverbal D/s with Alexandria​ (San Francisco, CA) Movement workshops 3/16 11:30am PDT: ​Lap Dancing Daylong Intensive with Alexandria​ (San Francisco, CA) 4/6 Noon PDT: ​Erotic Movement with Alexandria​ (San Francisco, CA) 6/8 12pm PDT: ​Leading and Following: Nonverbal D/s with Alexandria​ (San Francisco, CA) Sexy Times 4/20 11am PDT: ​The High Life: Cannabis, Intimacy, and Kink with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) 4/24 6pm PDT: ​Finding the Unicorn: Navigating the World of Threesomes with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) 5/27 6pm PDT: ​Cock Confidence with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) 6/17 & 6/24 6pm PDT: ​Writing Spicy: A Two-Part Workshop with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) 6/26 6pm PDT: ​Safe(r) Play: Navigating STI/STD Safety in BDSM with Lillith Foxx​ (ONLINE) Polyamory & ethical non-monogamy 3/30 11am PDT: ​Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle​ (ONLINE) 4/24 6pm PDT: ​Finding the Unicorn: Navigating the World of Threesomes with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) 5/22 6pm PDT: ​Unf*ck Your Relationship Escalator: (Re)Building Healthy Relationship Foundations with Lilithfoxx​ (ONLINE) 5/28 6pm PDT: ​Long Distance Polyamory with HG Wyndell​ (ONLINE) Self-knowledge, negotiation & consent 3/15 11am PDT: ​This is Your Brain on Kink with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 3/17 6pm PDT: ​KINK 101: Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 3/27 6pm PDT: ​Getting Freaky in the Spreadsheets: Consent, Negotiations, & Neurodiversity with Lilithfoxx​ (ONLINE) 4/1 6pm PDT: ​KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 4/5 2:30pm PDT: ​Negotiation Improv with Wiley Elote​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 4/6 11am – 2:30pm PDT: ​From Harm to Healing: A Guide to Community Accountability with Adam and Ash of Consent Academy​ (ONLINE) NEW 4/10 6pm PDT: ​Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 4/20 2pm PDT: ​Blunt Talk: Boundaries and Consent While Using Cannabis with Lilithfoxx​ (ONLINE) 4/21 6pm PDT: ​Kink 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 5/22 6pm PDT: ​Unf*ck Your Relationship Escalator: (Re)Building Healthy Relationship Foundations with Lilithfoxx​ (ONLINE) 6/26 6pm PDT: ​Safe(r) Play: Navigating STI/STD Safety in BDSM with Lillith Foxx​ (ONLINE) Community: Friends, dating, relationships & kink culture! 3/31 6pm PDT: ​Dating While Kinky with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 4/5

This Week with Wicked Grounds (3/13 – 3/23)

March 13, 2025 By Miriam Green

Howdy kinksters – Last night in San Francisco, I saw a group of brave kinksters come out to meet one another. Our Kinky Speed Friending host has a little ritual at the beginning of the event, slowly encouraging attendees to be willing to say – some for the first time – “I am a proud pervert.” We talk a lot about pride in queer and kink communities. I think pride is extremely powerful. When we are truly centered in who we are, what we want, and the spaces we want to create for ourselves and one another, we become much more resilient. That is powerful. I’d go so far as to call it magic. Speaking of pride, we will be launching our annual membership drive on Friday, March 21st – right at the spring Equinox. We need the support of our community to keep building the strongest possible kink education and keep making it accessible toward the widest group of people. If you value what we do, please ​join us with a membership pledge here​, and tell others that you value what we do. Now, let’s get into this week’s activities. (San Francisco folks, take note! There are a lot more in-person workshops this week than most!) This week! Friday 3/14 No live classes today, but check out our digital download classes on ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​! Saturday 3/15 Curious about what’s going on in the brain when you do kinky things? Whether it’s the fascinating ways that our perceptions change during scenes, the delightful ways that kink can alleviate our stress or mood, or the less-fun ways that drop impacts our lives, understanding the neurochemical impacts of kinky play can help us negotiate better, be more present, and get the most out of our play. Join Miriam Green online at 11am Pacific for This is Your Brain on Kink to learn much more! ​Advanced ticketing here on Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday 3/16 Join us in San Francisco for a full day Lapdancing Intensive with Click Your Heels! You’ll learn everything Alexandria teaches in her 101 and 102 course, plus a lot more! Whether you dance professionally, just want to learn some moves for sexy times, or honestly just want to feel much more at home in your own body, you are warmly invited to join us in San Francisco from 11:30am – 6:30pm for a full day of movement and self-empowerment. All genders and all experience levels are warmly welcomed! Advanced ticketing is available through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Monday 3/17 It’s back! It’s been a while since I’ve been able to teach my Kink 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics live due to my other coursework, but I’ll be here for you this Monday for one of our two core classes on building the skills you need to be more safe and have more fun in BDSM play and relationships. We’ll meet online at 6pm Pacific. Get your advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Or, get this and all Miriam Green classes included with your membership when you sign up at the VIP or higher level on our ​Patreon​! Tuesday 3/18 No live classes today, but check out our digital download classes on ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​! Wednesday 3/19 Interested in exploring or going deeper with D/s? Join author and educator Sinclair Sexsmith tonight for The Art of Ownership online at 6pm Pacific! Sinclair will explore all the ins and outs of connected, ethical, and HOT D/s dynamics. You may get advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Thursday 3/20 Join us online tonight at 6pm Pacific to explore the thrill of the hunt with author and educator Lee Harrington, in Primal Play: Hunter, Hunted, Predator, Prey. Whether you’re curious about primal play or want new ways to explore this embodied and powerful kink, this is your class! Join us through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday 3/21 Today we launch our Patreon membership drive! Patreon members at every level make literally make everything we do possible, and our VIP program comes with some very nice benefits. If you’d like to make a regular contribution toward building top-quality kink education for yourself and your community, please ​join us at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds​ and help us spread the word about this crucial membership drive! Rumor has it there might be some prizes for new members! ​We also have an event listing on FetLife that we’ll keep updated with information.​ Saturday 3/22 We have TWO live rope bondage classes in San Francisco today! Just getting started? Need a refresher? Join us at noon for Let’s Get Knotty: Rope Bondage for Beginners with Jamie Joy to learn all the basic ties you’ll need to create truly excellent rope scenes. Tickets available at ​Forbidden Tickets​ and ​Plura​. Interested in combining rope play with other forms or impact or sensation play? Whether you’re a beginner at rope or an advanced rigger or rope bottom curious about adding more to your scenes, please join us at 4pm for Bound to Thrill: The Art of Rope and Sensation Play with Jamie Joy. Get your tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. We’ve added a generous amount of time between the two classes so that folks who want to can step out for a break or late lunch – but Miriam Green will be on site at the Folsom Street Community Center between the classes, and you are welcome to just hang out (or bring a bag lunch)! Sunday 3/23 Join us online today for Pigs in Blanket: Intro to Piggy Play with Lady V. Whether you’re experienced human animal or handler looking to expand your horizons, or brand new to the world of human animals, we invite you to learn more in this online class at 11am Pacific! Get your tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. If you’re in the San Francisco Bay Area, we have two exciting D/s classes today with traveling instructor Jamie Joy. Attend one or both! (Personally, I am a HUGE fan of people taking classes not just targeted to their own side of the D/s slash but both.) We’ve added a generous amount of time between the two classes so that

I just did something slightly insane . . .

March 9, 2025 By Miriam Green

. . . but who knows? Maybe you’re ready to do something slightly insane with me. For the past two years, I’ve dedicated myself to providing comprehensive personal development education for kinksters. I’m passionate about offering guidance that spans from foundational concepts for beginners to advanced, in-depth programs for experienced practitioners and fellow instructors. Through individual coaching sessions, I’ve helped kinksters address core questions about their personal growth. We’ve also developed specialized intensive programs for queer, kinky, and spiritual adventurers. ​This year, I’m launching exclusive one-on-one customized coaching, reserving several hours weekly to work intensively with one student at a time. I can only accept five students at a time while delivering this level of personal service. This program requires serious commitment. Participants should expect to invest significant time, energy, and, yes, money. The program includes weekly coaching sessions, a personalized curriculum, and extensive independent work, requiring 1-3 hours of your time on the average week. ​If this level of dedicated coaching and exploration appeals to you, you can enroll here. ​ Interested in coaching but not ready for a full-year commitment? I understand completely. You can schedule individual sessions or book a complimentary 10-15 minute consultation to discuss how I might help you achieve your goals. Warmly,Mir ​