ONLINE: BDSM & Attachment Styles w/ Sir Panda
October 28, 2025This presentation will examine the basics of Attachment Theory, how attachment styles are expressed, and how they are manifested in different BDSM identities and roles.
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This presentation will examine the basics of Attachment Theory, how attachment styles are expressed, and how they are manifested in different BDSM identities and roles.
We will cover the basics for anyone interested in diving into ageplay, and show how tender, fun and sexy playing with age can be, knowing that we are doing a radical act of vulnerability with the intent of making people feel accepted & welcome.
Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.
Whether you’re in a relationship or single, you’re completely new to BDSM or still don’t know if submission is your thing, this workshop is for you.
Dive into ways we can better serve the needs of our partners. Service is a way for us to feel utilized & engaged within the dynamic without a whole big scene.
Expect nerdy-meets-sacred vibes, plenty of guided practice, and an easy aftercare exhale you can use anywhere.
In this workshop, we’ll examine the do’s and don’ts of effective negotiating communication, how to navigate the scene, ways to identify important traits in compatible play partners, & guide kinksters of all levels!
Using simple concentration, somatic and dance techniques, we explore the internal mind/body connection for Dominants and submissives, nonverbal communication between the leader and follower, and how this works in scenes, 24/7 relationships, and more.
In this evocative and powerful two-part online series, you’ll explore the deep currents of power, submission, polarity, shadow, and ritual through the lens of archetypes. These aren’t roles you act out—they’re energies that move through you.
Join us for a Kink 201 session exploring negotiating how to think about and create long-term D/s dynamics and kinky relationships that work!