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Check out our latest classes & events below – including individual classes, daylong and multi-week intensives, and more! Love us? Make a ​monthly membership contribution​. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Links below are to ​Forbidden Tickets​. If you’re a Plura member, check the ​Plura​ app. We typically have Plura tickets ready between 2-4 weeks before each event; at this moment, each of the events listed below has ticketing available on both platforms. Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach out for one-time or ongoing coaching sessions at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​. Not sure if coaching is the right fit for you? We offer ​10-15 minute exploration sessions​ to learn more and ensure we’re a good fit. The Roundup! Daylong & Multi-week Intensives January 2026: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​ (ONLINE) 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) February – March 2026: ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​ (ONLINE) May 2026: ​Kink Class Incubator​ (ONLINE) November – December 2026. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires​ (ONLINE) S/m & the physical side of play 12/13 2pm PST: ​Violet Wands 101 with Electro Girly​ (ONLINE) 12/16 7pm PST: ​Holiday Fetish Games with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 1/3 2pm PST: ​Fun with Wax! with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory​ (ONLINE) 1/4 2pm PST: ​Violet Wands 102 with Electrogirly​ (ONLINE) 1/7 7pm PST: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with imposssiblepain​ (San Francisco, CA) 1/11 11am PST: ​Discipline and Punishment with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) 1/11 2pm PST: ​Make Me a Masochist: Changing Your Relationship With Pain with vahavta​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/25 11am PST: ​Feel The Impact with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) Bondage & Fetish 12/8 6pm PST: ​Chain Bondage for Beginners with CTW​ (ONLINE) 12/15 6pm PST: ​Entangled Desires: Rope for Sex and Intimacy with Jamie Joy​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/5 6pm PST: ​Chain Bondage For Beginners Part 2: In-Line Single Columns with CTW & Fischer Garrett​ (ONLINE) 1/12 6pm PST: ​Twisted Ties: Sadististic Rope Play with Jamie Joy​ (ONLINE) D/s, role play & the mental side of play 12/13 6pm PST: ​Finding Your Powers: The 10 Sides of What Gets called “D/s” with Lee Harrington​ (ONLINE) 12/14 11am PST: ​From Little Princess to Rebellious Teen: An Ageplay Workshop with Mel and Memi​ (ONLINE) 12/14 2pm PST: ​Domination 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Developing Your Dominant Side with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) 12/29 6pm PST: ​When No Doesn’t Mean No: Negotiation and Communication for Consensual Nonconsent with vahavta​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/6 6pm PST: ​KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations – Relationships, Dynamics, and Contracts with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/7 6pm PST: ​So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101 with Lady V​ (ONLINE) 1/11 11am PST: ​Discipline and Punishment with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/17 11am PST: ​Ass to Grass: Fitness as a Tool of Domination with MF Dom​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/17 2pm PST: ​Busting the Binary In Your Energy Play with Keiden Bren​ (ONLINE) 1/18 11am PST: ​Rules and Rituals for Power Play with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/18 2pm PST and 1/29 6pm PST: ​The Archetypes of Power & Surrender: A Two Part Series with Sacred Fire Kink​ (ONLINE) Polyamory 12/9 6pm PST: ​Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory​ (ONLINE) 12/17 6pm PST: ​Long Distance Polyamory with HG Wyndell​ (ONLINE) 1/15 6pm PST: ​WTF is Relationship Anarchy? with Laura Boyle of Ready For Polyamory​ (ONLINE) Hypnokink 1/24 11am PST: ​Hypnokink 101 with Faun​ (ONLINE) Movement 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) Sexy Times 12/18 6pm PST: ​Advanced Blowjobs: Mastering Techniques for Ultimate Pleasure with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) 12/22 6pm PST: ​The Ultimate Guide for Teasing and Orgasm Control with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) 1/10 2pm PST: ​Vaginal Fisting with Mel and Memi​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/22 6pm PST: ​Squirting Secrets: Techniques for Discovering and Enhancing Pleasure Through Ejaculation with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) Self-knowledge, negotiation & consent 12/9 6pm PST: ​Kink 101 BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 12/21 2pm PST: ​BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda​ (ONLINE) 12/23 6pm PST: ​Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/3 Noon PST: ​Welcome to the SF Bay Area Kink Scene with Miriam Green​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 1/3 3pm PST: ​This is Your Brain on Kink. Any Questions? with Miriam Green​ (San Francisco, CA) 1/7 6pm PST: ​Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 1/13 6pm PST: ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) Community: Friends, dating, relationships & kink culture! 12/17 7pm PST: ​Kinky Speed Friending with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/21 2pm PST: ​BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda​ (ONLINE) 12/30 6pm PST: ​Get This Party Started: Event Organizing & Hosting with Lady V​ (ONLINE) 1/10 11am PST: ​Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them with Hardy Haberman​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/21 7pm PST: ​Kinky Speed Friending with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) Spirituality, Magick, and Occult (with Magickal Crossroads) 12/28 2pm PST: ​Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam BatAsherah Green​ (ONLINE) January 2026: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​ (ONLINE) February – March 2026: ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​ (ONLINE) Self-Directed Digital Downloads ​Diving Deep (video class)​ ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics (video class)​ ​KINK 202: Advanced Negotiation for Dynamics & Relationships (video class)​ ​Private Joy: Sadomasochism for Solo & Distance Play (video class)​ ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook (self-directed template)​ ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​

Hello kinksters – We had some of the best feedback you can ever want in our business last night, from a couple of different people in different conversations. In essence: your classes gave me permission to play the way I’ve always wanted to play. That’s the thing about kink and sex-positive culture. Yes, there are lots of tropes out there. And sure, there are people in the kink world that will put forth their ideals as the One True Right and Only Way. But in the real world of thriving play and relationships, there isn’t one way. There is a wide range of potential, and what works great for one person might not for another. Our goal has always been to help people find the next steps on their own personal erotic roadmaps, by building tools for developing confidence, banishing guilt, and allowing room to evolve as individuals in relationships and communities. I am delighted when we’re able to get it right and make a difference. This also seems to be a theme of the week, as several of our instructors explore the many right ways of doing things, from D/s and polyamory to age play and bondage! We have a lot of classes this week, including both online classes and several live in the SF Bay Area. Let’s take a look at what you can expect this week: This Week! Thursday, Dec 4 Online: Let’s make some magic! Join Madam Rosie Rose online tonight for her second class on bringing full moon energy into play, Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM. (This is a free-standing class, and you do not need to have attended the previous class to take part!) Advanced ticketing required. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, Dec 5 No live programming today, but you can always check out our video classes and other digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, Dec 6 It’s first Saturday, which means we have some great programming for you in San Francisco! San Francisco, CA: Is this the year you’ll get out and get connected with the San Francisco Bay Area kink scene? Let’s make it happen for you! Join us for Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Wicked Grounds’ Miriam Green, where we’ll explore all the venues, organizations, instructors, parties, and more that make the San Francisco Bay Area scene so special. You’ll learn how to benefit from participating in your local scene, events, and parties and how to make the most of it all! Door tickets will be available, but advanced ticketing is always recommended. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. San Francisco, CA: Get a unique perspective on the world of violet wands, zappers, TENS units and other electroplay toys today in our live class Electro Play from the Bottom with pangressive. Tops and bottoms alike will learn all about the wide variety of sensations and pain that can be inflicted using electricity. The instructor, pangressive (he/they), will be bottoming, assisted by demo top Addy (she/her). pangressive will explain the similarities and differences of a wide range of electro toys, and will describe what they feel like. Advanced ticketing is recommended, and can be obtained through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, Dec 7 We have both in-person and online classes today! Oakland, CA: Whether you’re curious about stripping for personal play, or want to take your burlesque, drag, bondage, or other erotic performances to the next level for the stage, you’ll want to join Alexandria from Click Your Heels in Oakland today. Starting at 10am, we’ll explore the personal side of building confidence and personal style into stripping in a 3.5 hour workshop Stripping 101. You’ll learn everything you need to know to make the most of stripping for the bedroom, dungeon, or other personal play. Want to truly master the art of stripping for an audience? Make the day of it and stick around after our lunch break for Stripping for the Spotlight. We have ticketing available to attend just for the morning, or for the full-day workshop, at ​Forbidden Tickets​ and ​Plura​. Online: Join UK educator and kink-aware therapist Sarah Butcher online today for An Introduction to Submission: Exploring Submissive Roles. This class will be valuable for tops and bottoms alike to understand the wide range of possibilities in submission and other authority exchange. Advanced ticketing required to either attend live online or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: This afternoon we will also offer part two of our Shadow, Power & the Erotic Self: A Ritual Descent with Sir Scott, however, registration is already closed. Monday, Dec 8 Online: Looking for something a little different in the world of bondage? Join us online tonight for Chain Bondage for Beginners with CTW. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording within one week of the class date. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday, Dec 9 We have two online classes tonight! Online: If you’re brand new to kink – or you’re just frustrated with how your scene communication is going – join us online with Miriam Green for BDSM Negotiation Basics. We’ll cover the basic ideas around consent in kink, the best questions to ask (and how), and even what’s going on in your brain that impacts how you communicate – or have challenges communicating – before, during, and after your scenes. Drawing on twelve years of teaching and thousands of conversations with kinksters like you, Mir will help you demystify scene communications. Advanced ticketing required to attend either live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: There are a lot of styles of non-monogamy, and not all styles are right for all people and relationships. Let’s widen the frame on some models that work tonight in Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory. Advanced ticketing required to attend either live or through the recording. Get yours

We have a LOT of new events coming up for the end of this year and the beginning of the next one. We invite you to join us for the ones that best fit your journey right now. We recognize that every kink journey is different, which is part of why we’re committed to offering a range of classes on sex-positive culture, non-monogamy, kink, BDSM, and even the world of sacred sexuality for everyone from beginner’s to advanced practitioners. Love us? Make a ​monthly membership contribution​. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Links below are to ​Forbidden Tickets​. If you’re a Plura member, check the ​Plura​ app. We typically have Plura tickets ready between 2-4 weeks before each event; at this moment, each of the events listed below has ticketing available on both platforms. Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach out for one-time or ongoing coaching sessions at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​. Not sure if coaching is the right fit for you? We offer ​10-15 minute exploration sessions​ to learn more and ensure we’re a good fit. The Roundup! Daylong & Multi-week Intensives 12/7 2pm PST – 5pm PST: ​Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria from Click Your Heels​ (Oakland, CA) January 2026: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) February – March 2026: ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​ (ONLINE) May 2026: ​Kink Class Incubator​ (ONLINE) November – December 2026. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires​ (ONLINE) S/m & the physical side of play NEW 12/3 7pm PST: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with imposssiblepain​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/6 3pm PST: ​Electro Play from the Bottom with Pangressive​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/13 2pm PST: ​Violet Wands 101 with Electro Girly​ (ONLINE) NEW 12/16 7pm PST: ​Holiday Fetish Games with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 1/4 2pm PST: ​Violet Wands 102 with Electrogirly​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/7 7pm PST: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with imposssiblepain​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 1/11 11am PST: ​Discipline and Punishment with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/11 2pm PST: ​Make Me a Masochist: Changing Your Relationship With Pain with vahavta​ (ONLINE) Bondage & Fetish 12/8 6pm PST: ​Chain Bondage for Beginners with CTW​ (ONLINE) NEW 12/15 6pm PST: ​Entangled Desires: Rope for Sex and Intimacy with Jamie Joy​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/12 6pm PST: ​Twisted Ties: Sadististic Rope Play with Jamie Joy​ (ONLINE) D/s, role play & the mental side of play 12/4 6pm PST: ​Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM with Madam Rosie​ (ONLINE) 12/7 11am PST: ​An Introduction to Submission: Exploring Submissive Roles with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) 12/13 6pm PST: ​Finding Your Powers: The 10 Sides of What Gets called “D/s” with Lee Harrington​ (ONLINE) 12/14 11am PST: ​From Little Princess to Rebellious Teen: An Ageplay Workshop with Mel and Memi​ (ONLINE) 12/14 2pm PST: ​Domination 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Developing Your Dominant Side with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) 12/29 6pm PST: ​When No Doesn’t Mean No: Negotiation and Communication for Consensual Nonconsent with vahavta​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/11 11am PST: ​Discipline and Punishment with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/18 11am PST: ​Rules and Rituals for Power Play with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) Polyamory 12/9 6pm PST: ​Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory​ (ONLINE) 12/17 6pm PST: ​Long Distance Polyamory with HG Wyndell​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/15 6pm PST: ​WTF is Relationship Anarchy? with Laura Boyle of Ready For Polyamory​ (ONLINE) Hypnokink 1/24 11am PST: ​Hypnokink 101 with Faun​ (ONLINE) Movement 12/7 10am PST – 1:15 pm PST: ​Stripping 101 with Alexandria​ (Oakland, CA) 12/7 2pm PST – 5pm PST: ​Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria from Click Your Heels​ (Oakland, CA) NEW 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) Sexy Times 12/7 10am PST – 1:15 pm PST: ​Stripping 101 with Alexandria​ (Oakland, CA) 12/7 2pm PST – 5pm PST: ​Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria from Click Your Heels​ (Oakland, CA) 12/18 6pm PST: ​Advanced Blowjobs: Mastering Techniques for Ultimate Pleasure with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) 12/22 6pm PST: ​The Ultimate Guide for Teasing and Orgasm Control with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) NEW 1/10 2pm PST: ​Vaginal Fisting with Mel and Memi​ (ONLINE) Self-knowledge, negotiation & consent 12/9 6pm PST: ​Kink 101 BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 12/21 2pm PST: ​BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda​ (ONLINE) 12/23 6pm PST: ​Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/7 6pm PST: ​Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/13 6pm PST: ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) Community: Friends, dating, relationships & kink culture! 12/6 Noon PST: ​Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Miriam Green​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 12/17 7pm PST: ​Kinky Speed Friending with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/21 2pm PST: ​BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda​ (ONLINE) 12/30 6pm PST: ​Get This Party Started: Event Organizing & Hosting with Lady V​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/10 11am PST: ​Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them with Hardy Haberman​ (ONLINE) Spirituality, Magick, and Occult (with Magickal Crossroads) 12/4 6pm PST: ​Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM with Madam Rosie​ (ONLINE) NEW 12/28 2pm PST: ​Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam BatAsherah Green​ (ONLINE) January 2026: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​ (ONLINE) February – March 2026: ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​ (ONLINE) Self-Directed Digital Downloads ​Diving Deep (video class)​ ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics (video class)​ ​KINK 202: Advanced Negotiation for Dynamics & Relationships (video class)​ ​Private Joy: Sadomasochism for Solo & Distance Play (video class)​ ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook (self-directed template)​ ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​

This morning, we’ve revealed the last of our triptych of discount code for this weekend’s Black Friday sale – and the discounts are in place through Monday to thank you for a year of being with us. Do you like getting discounts all year long? Explore a new membership with us on ​Patreon​ and get 20% off your first month of membership at any level. Use your membership to get great deals for you, or to pay it forward with contributions to the Wicked Grounds scholarship fund. (Speaking of the scholarship fund, it’s been pretty empty this year. If you’d like to help us fill it back up, we’d love to hear from you!!!) ​You can also keep track of it all on our FetLife event​. Coaching & Consulting Use code SELFCARE to get 20% off all coaching & consulting sessions with Miriam Green. You may use the code to book a single session, use it to sign up for monthly sessions with an ongoing subscription option, or even use it to get an entire year of weekly coaching (50 sessions) in one premium coaching package. You can use this for: ​10 Minute Coaching Exploration Session​ – just enough time to see if we’re a good fit before committing to something longer. ​30 Minute Quick Consult​ – great for quick tactical questions of limited scope. ​60 Minute Coaching Session​ – best for ongoing work or longer single questions. ​One Year Personal Journey​ – kind of like your own personal coach and educator on tap! You’ll have a full year of regular weekly coaching, including homework between sessions, at a significant savings off the regular retail price. Multi-Week Intensives Now through Monday at Midnight, get 30% off all Digital Downloads at ​Wicked Grounds Annex​ with code THANKS. AND get 20% off all scheduled multiweek intensives for 2026 with code BLACKANDBLUE. Included in this sale: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​: January 2026. ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​: February – March 2026. ​Kink Class Incubator​: May 2026. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires​: November – December 2026. Digital Downloads Here are all of Thurdays’s specials, ranging in value from about $3 over $400 in savings, with code THANKS at checkout. ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​. Normally $5, now $3.50. ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook​ Normally $7, now $4.90. ​Your Kink Year in Review Workbook​ Normally $9, now $6.30. ​Video Class: BDSM Negotiation Basics​ Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Kink Desires​. Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Private Joy: Solo & Distance S/m Play​. Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Advanced Negotiations for Relationship & Dynamics​. Normally $19.95, now $14. ​Quarterly Event Pass for January – March 2026​. Normally $300, now $210. ​Annual Event Pass for 2026​: Normally $1200, now $840. Plus, we’ll throw in the codes for December 2025 for free with your purchase, a $100 value.

All weekend long we’ll be running an epic Black & Blue Friday sale to help you get the most of your kink journey in the coming year. Today, we’ll showcase our digital downloads – everything from workbooks to video classes to full quarterly & annual event passes. Look out for updates tomorrow with specials on our 2026 multi-week intensives and coaching & consulting sessions and packages. ​You can also RSVP to our FetLife event​ to be able to see everything all in one place as each day’s discount codes drop. Multi-Week Intensives Now through Monday at Midnight, get 30% off all Digital Downloads at ​Wicked Grounds Annex​ with code THANKS. AND get 20% off all scheduled multiweek intensives for 2026 with code BLACKANDBLUE. Included in this sale: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​: January 2026. ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​: February – March 2026. ​Kink Class Incubator​: May 2026. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires​: November – December 2026. Digital Downloads Here are all of Thurdays’s specials, ranging in value from about $3 over $400 in savings, with code THANKS at checkout. ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​. Normally $5, now $3.50. ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook​ Normally $7, now $4.90. ​Your Kink Year in Review Workbook​ Normally $9, now $6.30. ​Video Class: BDSM Negotiation Basics​ Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Kink Desires​. Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Private Joy: Solo & Distance S/m Play​. Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Advanced Negotiations for Relationship & Dynamics​. Normally $19.95, now $14. ​Quarterly Event Pass for January – March 2026​. Normally $300, now $210. ​Annual Event Pass for 2026​: Normally $1200, now $840. Plus, we’ll throw in the codes for December 2025 for free with your purchase, a $100 value. Keep checking our ​FetLife event​ or wherever you got this message for discounts on coaching & consulting tomorrow.

It is Thanksgiving in the US, and we at Wicked Grounds are so thankful for YOU! We are profoundly grateful to be among your trusted guides to the world of kink – whether you’re brand new or fellow educators. All weekend long we’ll be running an epic Black & Blue Friday sale to help you get the most of your kink journey in the coming year. Today, we’ll showcase our digital downloads – everything from workbooks to video classes to full quarterly & annual event passes. Look out for updates tomorrow with specials on our 2026 multi-week intensives and coaching & consulting sessions and packages. ​You can also RSVP to our FetLife event​ to be able to see everything all in one place as each day’s discount codes drop. I’m particularly happy about one of today’s highlights, because this weekend is the second anniversary of our publishing my ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook​. Originally developed over the course of twenty years for my own personal evolution, this workbook was first created for public use for my first Diving Deep intensive in 2023. On a bit of a whim, I published it for the world at large Thanksgiving weekend that year, and was delighted to see it help hundreds of kinksters since. Here are all of today’s specials, ranging in value from about $3 over $400 in savings: ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​. Normally $5, now $3.50. ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook​ Normally $7, now $4.90. ​Your Kink Year in Review Workbook​ Normally $9, now $6.30. ​Video Class: BDSM Negotiation Basics​ Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Kink Desires​. Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Private Joy: Solo & Distance S/m Play​. Normally $19.95, now $14 ​Video Class: Advanced Negotiations for Relationship & Dynamics​. Normally $19.95, now $14. ​Quarterly Event Pass for January – March 2026​. Normally $300, now $210. ​Annual Event Pass for 2026​: Normally $1200, now $840. Plus, we’ll throw in the codes for December 2025 for free with your purchase, a $100 value. Keep checking our ​FetLife event​ or wherever you got this message for even bigger sales tomorrow, as we launch codes for our multi-week intensives. Then Saturday is The Big One!!!

Hello kinksters – It is Thanksgiving weekend here in the US, and I want to say how very grateful we at Wicked Grounds are for our kink community, everywhere! Starting this Thursday, we will be running a progressive Black & Blue Friday sale with significant discounts on digital downloads, multi-week intensives, and coaching. We’ll send a quick daily note with the codes for new sales dropping each day, and all of the sales will be good through Monday, December 1st at midnight. See the weekly update for a sneak peek at what to expect!!! Let’s take a look at what else you can expect this week: This Week! Thursday, November 27 No live classes today. Please enjoy your feasting and know that we are thankful for you. (International friends, why not feast just for fun?!) Our Black & Blue Friday weekend will launch today with 30% off all digital downloads, including our workbooks, video classes, and . . . wait, did someone say that annual and quarterly class passes are classified as digital downloads??? We’ll distribute all the discount codes on FetLife, via email, and on ​Patreon​ Thursday morning Pacific time. Friday, November 28 Our Black & Blue Friday weekend sale continues. Today, we’re adding the ability to book any of our scheduled multi-week intensives for 2026 at a 20% discount! We’ll distribute all the discount codes on FetLife, via email, and on ​Patreon​ Thursday morning Pacific time. Saturday, November 29 Our Black & Blue Friday weekend sale continues, with the final drop! Book any coaching session or series of sessions for 20% off. This represents a significant discount, especially if you book one of the two packages available for an entire year of weekly coaching! We’ll distribute all the discount codes on FetLife, via email, and on ​Patreon​ Thursday morning Pacific time. Fort Bragg, CA: It’s not technically a Wicked Grounds event, but it’s not not a Wicked Grounds event. 😉 Join Miriam Green and a couple-score Northern California Kinksters for the monthly Mendocino Munch!. This month, we’ll meet at Tall Guy Brewing in Fort Bragg, CA from 1-3pm. If the weather is nice, there might be a quick trip to stroll the beach after and walk off some of that autumn feasting. We’ll see! Online: As you might have noticed from some of our programming, tarot can be a powerful tool for personal insights and creativity. Many kinksters gain significant value from making tarot part of their self-awareness practice! Join Alexandria to learn more about a specific legacy take on tarot from a queer leather femme in Tarot for Real Life: A Legacy Perspective. Advanced ticketing required whether you plan to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, November 30 Online: Join former movie producer turned dominatrix, Lady V, in using the art of the angle to make your bits look their best in Erectile Artistry: Taking Delicious Dick Pics. Advanced ticketing required, whether you plan to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Join us online (or later through the recording) to explore consensual power exchange in Intro to Dominance/submission (D/s) with Mel and Memi. Advanced ticketing required, whether you plan to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Monday, Dec 1 Today is the last day to lock in some great savings on your educational journey in our Black & Blue Friday Sale! Sales end at midnight, and you won’t see discounts like these again until the end of the year. Online: It’s the dark time of the year, and that can lead to keep and productive introspection and shadow work. Join Sir Scott online tonight for the first part in his two-part workshop Shadow, Power & the Erotic Self: A Ritual Descent. (Part 2 will be held Sunday, 12/7 at 2pm Pacific.) Advanced ticketing is required whether to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday, Dec 2 Online: It’s getting chilly out, but we can still play with heat! Join us tonight online for Burn Baby Burn: Sensual and Sadistic Fire Play with Jamie Joy and you can learn to create your own human candelabra! Advanced ticketing required to attend live online or through the recording later. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Wednesday, Dec 3 San Francisco, CA: Join us in San Francisco for the most fun you can have on a Wednesday night! It’s our monthly SpankLab!, hosted by impossiblepain. Start your evening with us in San Francisco’s original impact play peer skillshare, then head over to the Cat Club for their weekly fetish dance night PlayXLand! Space for SpankLab is limited, and advanced ticketing is always recommended. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Thursday, Dec 4 Online: Let’s make some magic! Join Madam Rosie Rose online tonight for her second class on bringing full moon energy into play, Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM. (This is a free-standing class, and you do not need to have attended the previous class to take part!) Advanced ticketing required. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, Dec 5 No live programming today, but you can always check out our video classes and other digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, Dec 6 It’s first Saturday, which means we have some great programming for you in San Francisco! San Francisco, CA: Is this the year you’ll get out and get connected with the San Francisco Bay Area kink scene? Let’s make it happen for you! Join us for Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Wicked Grounds’ Miriam Green, where we’ll explore all the venues, organizations, instructors, parties, and more that make the San Francisco Bay Area scene so special. You’ll learn how to benefit from participating in your local scene, events, and parties and how to make the most of it all! Door tickets will be available, but advanced ticketing is always recommended. Get

Hello kinksters – Have we mentioned lately that we are thankful for YOU? We are truly blessed to live a life of creating pleasure, play, and frolic, and thank you for being part of that journey. Next week, keep your eyes open for some fantastic progressive sales for Black & Blue Friday on digital downloads, class passes, coaching, intensives, and more! We’ll start with little things on Thursday and build up to some truly epic sales by the end of the weekend. You won’t want to miss it! Keep your eyes peeled on FetLife, ​Patreon​, or our ​newsletter​ to be sure you see it all. (This is one of the few times of year we’ll be sending you the latest daily.) Let’s take a look at what else you can expect this week: This Week! Thursday, November 20 Online: Unlock the potential of your hands with Fingering Fundamentals: Techniques for Ultimate Pleasure with Lilithfoxx, a class dedicated to exploring the art of giving pleasure through touch. Learn techniques to stimulate sensitive areas with confidence, from gentle caresses to deeper, more rhythmic movements that build arousal. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. San Francisco, CA: Ready to make some new friends, connections, and maybe play partners in the Bay Area? Join us tonight at our space near 5th & Mission for Wicked Grounds + Plura Present: Kinky Speed Friending. Space is limited, and new ticketing will allow us to carefully balance the mix of tops seeking bottoms and vice versa. We even heard the Trellis bar might be open during the start of the event! Join us by getting your advanced tickets ​exclusively on Plura​. Friday, November 21 No live classes today. Check out our on-demand video classes and digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, November 22 Online: Sometimes in kink, things do go wrong. We talk a lot about what consent is and how to reach good consent in play and with partners. Yet consent injuries happen all the time. What happens after things go wrong, and a consent incident shakes up a person, a couple, or a community? Let’s talk about it! Join Sir Panda today for What Now? Responding to Consent Injuries. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: As the weather cools, it’s a great time to explore creativity and warmth! Join Laura Boyle online today for Fun with Wax! for ways to safely bring the artistric and connection of erotic wax play into your scenes. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, November 23 Online: Kink is for everyone! Whether you are neurodivergent, have a partner who is neurodivergent, or just want to create more accessible kink cultures, we hope you’ll join UK educator John Pendal online today for Autism & Kink. Can’t or prefer not to attend live? No problem! The class will also be recorded for later viewing. Just get your tickets on ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​ to attend either way. Monday, November 24 Online: What fun is having a lot of great toys if you don’t use them? If you’d like to become more skilled with your impact play, join Miss Mackenzee online tonight for Impact Toys 201: Wielding with Confidence. We’ll get you feeling great about a range of impact play! Advance ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday, November 25 Online: Somewhere in you there’s an inkling that you might just like being a daddy, isn’t there? Or maybe you are pretty sure that your partner is a daddy, but they just don’t know it yet? Come join Sinclair Sexsmith tonight for Daddy 101 and talk about the fundamental components that make up a daddy, how to start a daddy dynamic, how to add a daddy dynamic into an existing dynamic, or how to encourage someone that they might just be a daddy (even if they don’t know it). Please note: This class is not recorded, so make your plans to attend live online. Ticketing available through ​Plura​ or ​Forbidden Tickets​. Wednesday, November 26 – Friday, November 27 Black & Blue Friday is here! No live classes on these days. US friends, please enjoy your feasting and know that we are thankful for you. (International friends, why not feast just for fun?!) Do keep an eye on FetLife, ​Patreon​, or our ​newsletter​ for some progressive sales this weekend for digital downloads, intensives, coaching, and more! Saturday, November 28 Fort Bragg, CA: It’s not technically a Wicked Grounds event, but it’s not not a Wicked Grounds event. 😉 Join Miriam Green and a couple-score Northern California Kinksters for the monthly Mendocino Munch!. This month, we’ll meet at Tall Guy Brewing in Fort Bragg, CA from 1-3pm. If the weather is nice, there might be a quick trip to stroll the beach after and walk off some of that autumn feasting. We’ll see! Online: As you might have noticed from some of our programming, tarot can be a powerful tool for personal insights and creativity. Many kinksters gain significant value from making tarot part of their self-awareness practice! Join Alexandria to learn more about a specific legacy take on tarot from a queer leather femme in Tarot for Real Life: A Legacy Perspective. Advanced ticketing required whether you plan to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, November 29 Online: Join former movie producer turned dominatrix, Lady V, in using the art of the angle to make your bits look their best in Erectile Artistry: Taking Delicious Dick Pics. Advanced ticketing required, whether you plan to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Join us online (or later through the recording) to explore consensual power exchange in Intro to Dominance/submission (D/s) with Mel and Memi. Advanced

Hello kinksters – We are moving into the end of year, and that means it’s course development time here at Wicked Grounds. We’re working on our 2026 plans, which involve some new multi-week intensives and also expanding live classes beyond the Bay Area. Thanksgiving is just a couple of weeks away. Will we have Black & Blue Friday specials again this year? You bet we will! In fact, we’ll have some fresh offers for you every day of the Thanksgiving weekend, so watch your inboxes or FetLife for our daily specials each day that weekend. We’ve had a couple of last-minute adjustments to our calendar this week. (I’m side-eying you, Mercury Retrograde!) But we still have a VERY full slate of classes and events both online and in San Francisco. Let’s get into it! This Week! Thursday, November 13 and Friday, November 14 Our tarot class with Lee Harrington is being reschedule to January – a great time to be thinking about new tools to explore a new year! No live classes today. Check out our on-demand video classes and digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, November 15 Online: Today we run part two of our two-part workshop on Energy Persona Mastery with Sir Scott. Please note that our Violet Wands 102 – originally scheduled for today – will be rescheduling to December 2025. Please stand by for more details. Already have tickets? We will move them to the new date! Sunday, November 16 Online: Join Lady V today for Service Styles to dive into ways we can better serve the needs of our partners. Service is a way for us to feel utilized & engaged within the dynamic without a whole big scene. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Polarity can enhance our scenes and our energy play, but there are a lot of different ways to expand the use of energy! Join us online today for Busting the Binary In Your Energy Play with Keiden Bren. You can attend live this afternoon, or through the recording all week with your advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Monday, November 17 Online: Ready to explore trance for hypnoplay or other kinky rituals? Join Keiden Bren online tonight for Trance Work 101. Attend live or through the recording with your advanced ticketing from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday, November 18 San Francisco, CA: Ready to learn the ropes? Join us for a special three-hour Getting Started with Rope Primer with Psychokitty Ryan, live in San Francisco from 7-10pm. We’ll cover all the material you’ll need to know to get started with single and double column ties, box ties, futomomo, and more! Bring rope if you have it, and your curiosity! You may come with a partner or plan to practice on someone you meet at the workshop. Advanced ticketing is available through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​ and is recommended; limited door tickets may be available if space allows. Wednesday, November 19 Online: Getting mindful about how we end things is often just as important as how we start things – whether it’s a scene, a project, or a relationship. But how do we create meaningful rituals for endings? Join H G Wyndell tonight for Close the Doors You Open: Rituals for Endings and Transitions. You may attend live or through the recording later. Either way, you’ll want advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Thursday, November 20 Online: Unlock the potential of your hands with Fingering Fundamentals: Techniques for Ultimate Pleasure with Lilithfoxx, a class dedicated to exploring the art of giving pleasure through touch. Learn techniques to stimulate sensitive areas with confidence, from gentle caresses to deeper, more rhythmic movements that build arousal. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. San Francisco, CA: Ready to make some new friends, connections, and maybe play partners in the Bay Area? Join us tonight at our space near 5th & Mission for Wicked Grounds + Plura Present: Kinky Speed Friending. Space is limited, and new ticketing will allow us to carefully balance the mix of tops seeking bottoms and vice versa. We even heard the Trellis bar might be open during the start of the event! Join us by getting your advanced tickets ​exclusively on Plura​. Friday, November 21 No live classes today. Check out our on-demand video classes and digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, November 22 Online: Sometimes in kink, things do go wrong. We talk a lot about what consent is and how to reach good consent in play and with partners. Yet consent injuries happen all the time. What happens after things go wrong, and a consent incident shakes up a person, a couple, or a community? Let’s talk about it! Join Sir Panda today for What Now? Responding to Consent Injuries. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: As the weather cools, it’s a great time to explore creativity and warmth! Join Laura Boyle online today for Fun with Wax! for ways to safely bring the artistric and connection of erotic wax play into your scenes. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, November 23 Online: Kink is for everyone! Whether you are neurodivergent, have a partner who is neurodivergent, or just want to create more accessible kink cultures, we hope you’ll join UK educator John Pendal online today for Autism & Kink. Can’t or prefer not to attend live? No problem! The class will also be recorded for later viewing. Just get your tickets on ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​ to attend either way. Intensives! We offer several intensives throughout the year, both in person and ​online​. ​Stripping 101 & Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria: a Daylong Stripping Intensive​ (Oakland, CA) ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters 2026​: Registration now open for January 1

Hello kinksters – We have a great lineup for you this week, with a very full slate of online classes and resources for you. Let’s dig into it! This Week! Thursday, November 6 Online: The moon is getting full. Ready for some magic? Join Madam Rose online tonight for the first of two full moon classes, Elemental Magic in BDSM. Explore all the ways to bring the classical magical elements into your kink play! Advanced ticketing required, whether you plan to attend live or through the recording. Get yours from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, November 7 No live classes today. Check out our on-demand video classes and digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, November 8 Online: Join us today for Tease and Denial with Mel and Memi. In this workshop we will go over the psychological impacts of teasing, discuss how to find your tease, give examples of how to use these components in scenes and demo some examples. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, November 9 We have three classes today! Online: Stepping into our full selves as kinksters doesn’t always come easy. Sometimes we need to first release some shame or early conditioning. But it can be done! Join Dolly Diatima online today for Forbidden Fruit: Stepping into Kink Positivity to explore ways to embrace your desires and your full capacity as a kinkster! Advanced ticketing required to attend either live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online:Energy Persona Mastery with Sir Scott is a 2-part online series that teaches you how to consciously shift your energetic presence for play, ritual, or everyday life. Across two live sessions, you’ll learn practical tools, practice exercises, and leave with a personal Energy Persona Map you can use immediately. We’ll meet today and again on 11/15. Both sessions will be recorded for later viewing if you can’t attend live. Get advanced ticketing through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Have you ever been curious about trance work or trance states but didn’t know where to start? If you have ever been curious about different pathways into altered states of consciousness, join us today for Trance Work 101 with Keiden Bren! Advanced ticketing required to either attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Monday, November 10 Online: Want to incorporate more kinds of play and sensation into your scenes? Let’s get you started! Join us tonight for Sensations Playground: Exploring Edge, Sensuality & Intensity with Electro Girly, or sign up in advance to watch the recording any time this week. Advanced ticketing is available through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday, November 11 Online: The best way to improve your scenes is to improve your communication. Learn all about the basics of consent, negotiation, and keeping great rapport throughout your scenes tonight online with Miriam Green in BDSM Negotiation Basics. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or via the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Wednesday, November 12 Online: Polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy can be wonderful, but it can also increase the complexity of issues in managing our relationships. Sometimes you just need a new perspective from someone who’s been there! Join us online tonight for a special polyamory workshop with Alexandria – Polyamory Troubleshooting: The Coach Is In!. We’ll help resolve those sticky questions, together! Advanced ticketing required, and while this will be recorded, we recommend live attendance so that you can get your own questions answered live! Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Thursday, November 13 Online: A tarot workshop from an experienced kink-aware practitioner? Yes, please! Join Lee Harrington online tonight for Choosing and Connecting with Tarot and Oracle Decks. (Mir can vouch for Lee’s excellent taste in decks!) Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording, and you can get them through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, November 14 No live classes today. Check out our on-demand video classes and digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, November 15 We have three classes today! Online: Join us online for a critical three-hour deep dive into consent collisions, violations, and conflicts in From Harm to Healing with Adam and Ash of Consent Academy. This framework concentrates on finding ways for individuals, relationships, and communities to recover from conflict. Advanced ticketing required, and the session will be recorded if you’re unable to attend live. Get your tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Today we run part two of our two-part workshop on Energy Persona Mastery with Sir Scott. For ticketing details, see our listing for part one on Sunday, November 9 above! Online: Ready to go deeper with electro play? Join us today online for Violet Wands 102 with Electro Girly! Advanced ticketing required to either attend live online or through the recording. Get yours through Forbidden Tickets or Plura. Sunday, November 16 Online: Join Lady V today for Service Styles to dive into ways we can better serve the needs of our partners. Service is a way for us to feel utilized & engaged within the dynamic without a whole big scene. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Polarity can enhance our scenes and our energy play, but there are a lot of different ways to expand the use of energy! Join us online today for Busting the Binary In Your Energy Play with Keiden Bren. You can attend live this afternoon, or through the recording all week with your advanced tickets through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Intensives! We offer several intensives throughout the year, both in person and ​online​. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Kink Desires​: Registration now open for November 2 – December 13, 2025 (ONLINE) ​Stripping 101 & Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria: a Daylong Stripping Intensive​ (Oakland, CA) ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters 2026​: Registration now open for January 1 – January 31, 2026. (ONLINE)