Month: February 2025

Podcast: Seeking your input!

February 19, 2025 By Miriam Green

With the support of our Patreon subscribers, we launched Kinky Queer Revolution — the Wicked Grounds podcast — back in August. (You can find archived episodes on iTunes — just search for Kinky Queer Revolution!)  Since then, we’ve partnered with the TPOK network to broadcast live on a network dedicated to sex-positive content. Now, you can listen along and participate in real time!  So far we’ve included guests such as Ms. Alameda County Leather, Ryan from Kink BNB, Maggie Mayhem, and more! In the coming weeks we’ll be talking with Alice in Bondage Land and Siouxsie Q. (We’re so excited!)  As we plan for 2018, we’d love your input and suggestions.  Is there a special guest you’d really love to hear? (Or would you like to be a guest host for a day?)  Is there a particular topic that you’d like us to explore?  Do you have questions about the kink community you’d like answered on air?  This podcast is very much YOUR project, so please let us know what you’d like to see in the coming year, and we’ll try to make it happen!  xoxo Mir & the Kinky Queer Revolution team 

With gratitude

February 19, 2025 By Miriam Green

I wanted to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for your generous support and involvement over the past year. With your help, we’ve made Wicked Grounds stronger and better . . . and this is just the beginning.  So far this year through Patreon, we’ve launched an online advice column, a series of other kink articles, and have re-launched a Wicked Grounds podcast — all due to the generous support of our Patreon subscribers.  Your support has also allowed us to increase our outreach at conferences and events. So far this year, we’ve returned to Oakland Pride and are planning to go to Convolution, and we’ll be at the Northwest Leather Celebration in Sacramento next year, in addition to the many street fairs and conventions already in our plans.   As we go into the dark season of the year, we’re digging deeply back into our education program, starting with a live KINK 101 class next week and plans to record classes for access anywhere over the next few months.  Perhaps most importantly, we recently celebrated the first anniversary of offering our support coffees, which we hope to offer for many years to come.  Thank you, for everything you do to build community — here at Wicked Grounds and everywhere else. We are grateful to you. We are grateful for you.  With love and thanks –  Mir and the team at Wicked Grounds 

Community Support Coffees

February 19, 2025 By Miriam Green

For the last year, Wicked Grounds has been offering “community coffees” (and other basic drinks) for free to anyone who asks. Here’s the way we describe it on Facebook:  Queer & Trans & Kinky folks who need coffee in a safe space – Wicked Grounds currently has dozens of pre-paid coffees or herbal teas available to you, absolutely free, just for the asking. Just ask for a “Support Coffee”. Several of our customers have already bought you coffee, so that everyone can afford a quality beverage in a welcoming environment. Whether you want to come in to rabble-rouse for the queer revolution, attend one of our events, or just need a space to hang out, please do not hesitate to come in and ask for a “support coffee” or tea. This is good as long as supplies last. (Given the generosity of our community so far, we expect to have these available for the long term.) The project started the day after the 2016 election. Several of us were honestly in shock, and figuring out how to mobilize to support and protect our local community. Some baristas and patrons wrote signs of support and hung them throughout the cafe. (You can still find them on our political action wall near the bathroom.) We were desperate to think of more tangible means of support.  Zane Rose (whose Patreon you can check out here, and who later became the 2017 Ms SF Leather) said they wished there was a way to buy free coffee for folks who might need a safe space but couldn’t afford it. As Mir struggled to figure out how that would work, Zane and Johnny the Barista hashed out details on a simple way to ring up and track the drinks. The first seven “support coffees” were added to our whiteboard wall with little hearts, and the movement was started.  Word got out quickly, locally and around the country. Wicked Grounds customers started buying pre-paid drinks for the wall in person, via PayPal from Texas and Oregon, and even by grabbing us in the hallways at the Dark Odyssey conference the following weekend. The wall began to fill with so many pre-paid drinks, we couldn’t imagine giving them all out.  That changed quickly. Over the last year, we’ve given out literally hundreds of drinks through the generous support of our customers.  Many are to regular customers from the LGBTQ/ kink communities who are having a rough week or just struggle to make ends meet in the difficult SF economy. Many more are to our local SOMA neighbors who are homeless or housing insecure and just need a hot or cold beverage to get through the day.  The support coffees allowed us — quite unexpectedly — to participate in a Bay Area general strike on January 20th, 2017. As you may already know, Wicked Grounds has a policy to stay open every day of the year to ensure that our community always has a welcoming environment to be with friends and chosen family. The general strike posed a challenge: how to stay open and closed at the same time? The support coffees made it possible. Our owner, cafe manager and previous owner volunteered to serve just support drinks all day — no money exchanged, no staff scheduled, but we met our mission to keep the doors open throughout a day when many really needed the space.  As we come up on the first anniversary, we want to give a huge shout out to everyone who made this possible — to Zane for the idea, to the baristas who created the system, to the community who bought and consumed the drinks, to the Trans and Queer Bay Area Free Pile group which allows the local community to share resources, and everyone else who has made this small gesture of support possible.  In honor of our first anniversary, we will donate one support coffee for each and every Patreon subscriber at the end of November. If you’re already a subscriber, thank you. If you are not yet a subscriber, consider joining now to make your support even more valuable to the broader community.  And everyone: we love you, ok?  xoxo Mir and the team at Wicked Grounds  PS: Do you want to contribute more drinks to the support wall? You can help by either asking your friendly barista to ring up a community support drink on site, or sending funds by PayPal to Mir@WickedGrounds.com with a note specifying that they are for community support coffees. (Each coffee is $3.30.) Or join our Patreon at the Support Coffee level to have a coffee added to the wall every month like clockwork! 

Kinky Queer Revolution hits Episode 5!

February 19, 2025 By Miriam Green

We are so excited to keep recording the Kinky Queer Revolution podcast, which was made possible by the generous support of this Patreon! Check out the latest episodes at Podbean using the link above.  In Episode 5, we interview Psychokitty — the founder of Wicked Grounds, co-founder of KinkBNB, and serial artist and entrepreneur in the SF Bay Area kink scene. Check it out, and share this podcast with other kinksters who want a taste of the Wicked Grounds experience from everywhere. 

New episodes of Kinky Queer Revolution!

February 19, 2025 By Miriam Green

Hello Patreon peeps!  One of the many projects made possible through your generous support is the Kinky Queer Revolution podcast.  If you haven’t yet had a chance to listen, go check out the link and click “Follow” to keep up with new episodes as they are launched. So far, we’ve been recording every two weeks like clockwork, as we explore new topics in the kink community.  Do you have a topic you’d like us to explore? A comment to share? A question? Email those to AskWickedMir@gmail.com and we will get to them as we can in future shows!  xoxo Mir