ONLINE: Consensual Non-Consent: When No Means Yes with Sarah Butcher
February 9, 2026When No Means Yes: Exploring CNC role play.
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When No Means Yes: Exploring CNC role play.
A class for ESM players who are familiar with their desires and ready to develop the skills needed for long-term sustainability in psychological edgeplay.
Come hear two dirty talkers explain how to think things through beforehand to find the right words in the moment. We are going to be exploring everything from negotiation and care to orders and commands.
Together we’ll look at pre-verbal, toddler, school-age, teen, and adult roles, as well as familial archetypes and other “adults,” honoring the many ways we express power, care, rebellion, and delight.
Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships.
Through guided demonstration and hands-on practice, we will cover body, chest, and strap-on harnesses (dildos provided) for all shapes, sizes, and genders.
Explore your interest in emotional play, discuss some of the possibilities for its directions (both good and bad!), and learn how to communicate with partners to minimize harm and maximize the experience you want.
Join Miriam Green for a new class on building and using kink-focused social media profiles and protecting your privacy online.
This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on the San Francisco BDSM scene. It’s perfect whether you’re new to kink, new to the public scene, want to learn more about local BDSM play and education!