Kink Community. Everywhere!
Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn't necessarily come naturally -- especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.
Deal with harm in a way that supports the person harmed, foster accountability for the person who did harm, & manage the response for the community at large transforming the conditions that allowed harm. This helps create more resilient communities.
Have you seen people pulling out rope for a bondage scene, and it looks fun but overwhelming? This three-hour hands on workshop is perfect for you.
The basics of wax play!
In this workshop, we look at the overlap between autism and kink. This workshop isn't just for autistic folk, it can help anyone who feels like an outsider or would like to create a more inclusive environment.
Uncover ways to help you choose the right toys for you, creating your own unique and authentic approach to this type of play. Our time will help you to expand your repertoire in ways you never would expect.
Join former movie producer turned dominatrix, Lady V, in using the art of the angle to make your bits look their best! Penises can be so much prettier if you just don't shoot them straight down your belly with all of your trash on the floor in the background. Mmm is that month-old Taco Bell, baby?
This workshop will cover types of power dynamics and how to play with them. We will discuss how to create scenes that fulfill your dominance and/or submission fantasies and needs, as well as what style of d/s works for you.
Through poetic reflection, shadow persona work, kink-informed ritual tools, and energetic excavation, you’ll meet the parts of yourself that dominate, collapse, mask, and burn.
If you have been burning with curiosity about Fire Play, this is a perfect space to ignite that spark ⚡️
SpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted, low-pressure space.
New to the local public kink scene? This Kink 101 class gives you the basics.