ONLINE: Kink and Kids: The Many Facets of Practising Kink as Parents with Ancilla L

Amongst the most common questions I receive from people is this oneL how do you balance your sexuality/fetish and being parents? There are many questions about sounds, exposure, information and intersection, and this class aims to cover as many of them as possible:

• Communicating with kids of different ages about the subject.
• Social, familial and personal influences on what you can and cannot say.
• How much do I want my kids to know?
• Ideology versus practice.
• Various approaches to kink and parenting: Handling disclosure, boundaries, preparedness, discovery etc.
• Secrets versus Boundaries: How to set them.
• The intersection of parenting and power-exchange: Figuring it out ethically for yourself and your children.
• Marks, signs, equipment, hiding and how to decide where to stand.
• Balancing parental responsibility and play.
• Dating a non-parent as a parent (or vice versa) in a kink set-up.
• Representation and children: What do visible aspects of your kink say to them?
• And much more!

PRESENTER:

Ancilla L is a kink educator, erotic author and podcaster based in India. She identifies as a polyamorous, pansexual masochist. She is the founder of Ancillary Kink Support, a woman, queer, and bottom-led educational platform for fetish and BDSM. Her classes focus on depth, individualised approaches to desire, research and are primarily experience-based. Ancilla L is also the creator of The Sextbook Initiative, as part of that she writes stand-alone textbooks on individual fetishes that serve as detailed, adaptable frameworks. The three titles currently available are The Power-Exchange Sextbook, The Masochism Sextbook and The CNC Sextbook.

TICKETING:

$30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.

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