ONLINE: Erotic Humiliation with Mel and Memi

In this workshop we will offer guidance, ideas, and tips on how to start playing with shame, humiliation, embarrassment and degradation/ objectification. We will cover several kinks through the lens of trauma-informed practices and queer politics, looking into the complexities of the intersection between the sexual politics of shame and pleasure.

We will cover negotiation strategies, self-consent, risk management and scene ideas.

Topics covered:

• What is erotic humiliation
• What is not
• Politics of shame (intersectionality and care)
• Differences between embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation/ objectification
• Pre-care and self-consent tips
• How to negotiate from a top and bottom perspective
• Demo of a negotiation
• Subtypes of kinks: bimbofication, sissyfication, forced petplay/ ageplay, dumbification, dollification, playing with bodily fluids, verbal humiliation, nakedness, and a couple more!
• How to dirty talk for humiliation
• Demo and reflection

INSTRUCTORS:

Mel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events, support groups and workshops for the kinky, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster, he has been doing kink for the last ten years, identifies as sub-leaning switch, and is a sex worker (ProDomme).

One of his greatest passions is thinking about power, risk, and self-consent in the context of kink and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink, pleasure, risk, and depathologization for the last nine years.

Memi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person, who is a lifestyle kinkster, a history teacher, and an early-career researcher in history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a big variety of kinks, relationships, dynamics and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power, oppression and the complex history behind kink, the space where didactics and kink meet and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around.

TICKETING:

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