Diving Deep

Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires

(November 2 – December 13, 2025)

The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?

This six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase).

This six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase).

Together, we’ll explore:

• Discovering and honoring what turns you on
• Safely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism
• Trying new skills in the bedroom and beyond
• Deepening your insights into your own desires
• Disentangling from others’ erotic projections
• Finding your voice and speaking freely
• Sharing the desires you’re afraid to voice

Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s leader in BDSM education and community building.

How we’ll engage

The six week course will run live from November 2 – December 13, 2025.

This class will include six total weeks of content and homework, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Sunday afternoons (all recorded for later participation if needed), and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.)

Our three live sessions will be offered via Zoom on Sunday, November 2, Sunday, November 23, and Sunday December 7 – all at 10 am Pacific / 1pm Eastern / 6pm GMT.

Sessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live.