Month: September 2026

How not to learn about kink, from my own experience!

September 18, 2026 By Miriam Green

When I was a baby submissive back in the early 2000s, I was eager to learn. I’d read a few books about BDSM over the previous decade, and as I entered my first serious D/s dynamic, I was starving for more. Unfortunately, I did something pretty stupid. Because I was in an ongoing dynamic (with, it turned out, an extremely inexperienced dominant), I let my dominant guide not just our relationship but my education. I read the books she wanted me to read, and she forbade me from reading others. I avoided local classes because of her anxieties. I was young, I didn’t know better, and I truly believed that her authority in our dynamic extended to my whole relationship with BDSM and kink. That was a profound mistake. One of the first things I did after leaving that relationship was demolish the funhouse-mirror image of kink I’d built and start over. Ever since, one of my core approaches has been to listen to as many voices as I can. Voices I agree with, voices that challenge me, voices I respectfully disagree with, and maybe even a few I judge a bit in my head. I’ve very intentionally used my own experiences and journey in kink as a sounding board to figure out what’s right for me — and what might be right for others but not for me. I’ve taken the same approach as we’ve built education at Wicked Grounds. I never wanted this to be the “Miriam Green show.” I wanted a showcase for the best minds in kink education, all working to figure this out together. That’s one of the reasons we’re so proud to be part of this year’s ​Kink Bundle from Dom/Sub Dynamics​. Like us, Dom/Sub Dynamics works hard — through their conferences, bundles, and other resources — to bring a wide variety of voices to the table. You get all those perspectives, and that’s just the start of plotting your own journey. When I finally got serious about building my own kink roadmap, I probably spent hundreds of dollars in the first year alone building a library, taking classes, going to events, and attending my first conferences. This week, the ​Kink Bundle from Dom/Sub Dynamics​ gives you a far bigger set of resources — valued at over two thousand dollars — for just $99. Whether you’re new to your journey or just looking for a transformation, I urge you to check it out. The offer is live through next Wednesday, but ​why not take a look now​ and see how you might broaden your horizons? Warmly, Mir

Kink Bundle: Lock in $2,046 of kink education for only $99 this weekend!

September 17, 2026 By Miriam Green

At Wicked Grounds, our goal is always to help kinksters find their next step on their journey. Sometimes that means classes with us. Often, it means that we recommend other books, classes, or resources to help people along. That’s why we’re so excited to be featured in this year’s ​Kink Bundle from Dom/ Sub Dynamics​. You can learn absolutely everything you’d ever want to know about the bundle ​over here​, but as a quick overview: It includes over $2,000 worth of courses, trainings, and products You pay only $99 for access to all of it The bundle is only available until this coming Wednesday at midnight PT It’s packed with 39 offers from experts who are ready to help you live kinkier lives and improve your relationships This includes resources from several of your favorite Wicked Grounds educators such as Miriam Green, Miss Mackenzee, LilithFoxx, Princess Rara, and Auntie Vice as well as dozens of other educators and authors. The ​Kink Bundle​ currently has a 95% discount, but it will disappear for good once the sale is over. Are you excited?! (We are!) Get your kink bundle now! ​Head over to the website to learn more and grab your bundle​. More information will be sent straight to your inbox afterwards. Warmly, Mir and the Wicked Grounds team

Wicked Grounds Full Events Roster (updated 9/16)

September 17, 2026 By Miriam Green

Read on for an assortment of classes in Los Angeles, San Francisco, and online! Can’t attend live? Many of our online classes are recorded for viewing within seven days of the class. Just check the “ACCESS” section at the bottom of each listing to see if the class is recorded. Want to go deeper? Our next kink intensive Diving Deep launches in just six weeks in early November. ​Find out more and register here​​!​ The Roundup! Daylong & Multi-week Intensives November – December 2026. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires​ (ONLINE) January 2027. ​Month of Mindfulness (for Kinksters)​ 2027 (ONLINE) S/m & the physical side of play 10/5 6pm PDT: Blood, Sweat, & Fears: The Art and Thrill of Blood Play with Jamie Joy. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/7 7pm PDT: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with impossiblepain. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (San Francisco, CA) 10/11 11am PDT: Knife Play: Fear and Sensation with Laura Boyle. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/15 6pm PDT: Ethical Self-Harm with Lady V. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/26 6pm PDT: Safe and Sexy Impact Play with Blood with Miss Mackenzee. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) Fetish 9/17 6pm PDT: Latex 101 with Dolly Diatima. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/10 11am PDT: Monster Fucking in a Mundane World with Faun. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/17 2pm PDT: Feel the Burn: Smoke, Ash, & Power Play with Jamie Joy. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura.​ (ONLINE) 10/21 6pm PDT: Energetic & Fluid Vampirism with Lady V. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) D/s, role play & the mental side of play 9/19 11am PDT: Receiving Service Well: Is This Meaningful to You? with Aidan Sunassee. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/19 6:45pm PDT: Ownership Dynamics with Ancilla L. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/20 11am PDT: Power Points: Power vs. Authority in BDSM Relationships with Sir Panda. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/20 2pm PDT: Is it Hypervigilance or Anticipatory Service with Oak. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/21 6pm PDT: When No Means Yes: Exploring Consensual Non-Consent with Jamie Joy. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/22 6pm PDT: Daddy 101: Build the Foundation with Sinclair Sexsmith. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/28 6pm PDT: Mind Games and Predicament Play with Miss Mackenzee. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/1 6pm PDT: Contract Systems with HannahtheScribe. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/4 2pm PDT: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations – Relationships, Dynamics, and Contracts with Miriam Green. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/10 11am PDT: Monster Fucking in a Mundane World with Faun. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/10 Noon PDT: Leading and Following: D/s Body Language with Alexandria. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (San Francisco, CA, 3 hr class) 10/11 2pm PDT: Long Distance D/s 101: Presence without Proximity with Oak. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/27 6pm PDT: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE, NOT RECORDED) 10/28 6pm PDT: Power Exchange with Rope with Lee Harrington. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (San Francisco, CA) 10/29 6pm PDT: Dark Roleplaying with Lee Harrington. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) Bondage 10/28 6pm PDT: Power Exchange with Rope with Lee Harrington. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (San Francisco, CA) Movement and creativity 10/10 Noon PDT: Leading and Following: D/s Body Language with Alexandria. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (San Francisco, CA, 3 hr class) Sexy Times 9/29 6pm PDT: How To Bake a Sex Party (And Other Delicious Experiences) with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/24 6pm PDT: Edging and Tease Techniques: How to Build Anticipation and Prolong Pleasure for Maximum Satisfaction with Lilithfoxx. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/18 2pm PDT: Pleasure on the Edge: Tease, Denial, & Orgasm Control with Jamie Joy. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/22 6pm PDT: Backdoor Basics: A Guide to Anal Play with Lilithfoxx. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) Self-knowledge, negotiation & consent 9/23 6pm PDT: Invisible Toybox with HG Wyndell. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/8 6pm PDT: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/19 6:30pm PDT: Grief and Kink with pangressive. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/20 6pm PDT: Are You Sure You Want To Do That? Risk Profile: An Introduction! with Mel and Memi. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​.(ONLINE, 3 hr class) 10/31 11am PDT: Kink, Trauma Play, and Healing: A Research-Informed Deep Dive with Aidan Sunassee. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) Community: Friends, dating, relationships & kink culture! 9/29 6pm PDT: How To Bake a Sex Party (And Other Delicious Experiences) with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/4 2pm PDT: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations – Relationships, Dynamics, and Contracts with Miriam Green. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/14 7pm PDT: Wicked Grounds + Plura Present: Kinky Speed Friending. ​Tickets exclusively through Plura​. (San Francisco, CA) 10/17 11am PDT: Your Kink Is Not My Kink – But Is Your Kink OK? with Sir Panda. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 11/9 6pm PDT: Tips for House Topping with Miriam Green. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) Spirituality, Magick, and Occult (with Magickal Crossroads) 9/15 6pm PDT: Arcane D/s: Energetic Feeding and Conscious Inequality with Lee Harrington. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 9/23 6pm PDT: Invisible Toybox with HG Wyndell. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/17 2pm PDT: Astrokink 101: Discovering Your Erotic Archetypes with Lila Hades. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/18 11am PDT: Astrokink 201: Mapping Your Erotic Ecosystem with Lila Hades. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) 10/28 6pm PDT: Spicy Tarot: Introduction to Tarot for Kinksters with HG Wyndell. ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. (ONLINE) Self-Directed Digital Downloads ​Diving Deep (video class)​ ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics (video class)​ ​KINK 202: Advanced Negotiation for Dynamics & Relationships (video class)​ ​Private Joy: Sadomasochism for Solo & Distance Play (video class)​ ​Dealing with Drop (video class)​ ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook (self-directed template)​ ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​ Go deeper! Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach

This Week with Wicked Grounds (9/10 – 9/20)

September 10, 2026 By Miriam Green

Howdy kinksters – It’s always back to school season at Wicked Grounds! Whether you’re brand new or want to deepen your kinky skills, we’ve got you covered. This week’s class lineup has a big focus on various aspects of power-exchange and D/s, and we also have a lot of gear and skills based classes for you. If you’re in the Los Angeles area, check out our newcomer’s orientation and impact play lab tomorrow in DTLA! And if you’ve been meaning to join our sex magick intensive Pentacles of Power, you’ll want to get on that. The six-week course is already in session, and ​late registration closes on Monday 9/14​. We only offer this course every two years, so we’ll be aiming for 2028 for the next one. Now, let’s dive into this week! This Week! Thursday, September 10 Online: The last time we offered Dating as Shadow Work: Turning Emotional Triggers into Pathways of Growth with Marie Thouin PhD, it was one of the most popular classes of 2026. Come find out why! Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid — abandonment, disappointment, shame, embarrassment, insecurity, grandiosity — and learn how to work with them skillfully. Join live or through the recording within one week with your advance tickets from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, September 11 Tonight, we offer two classes back to back in downtown Los Angeles! Los Angeles, CA: Wondering what awaits you in the mysterious land of kink and BDSM? Looking to explore, but not quite sure where to start? Join our own Killmeat Nick for Back to School! Bring your questions and queries to this judgement-free space. Let’s unpack our perverse desires with care and curiosity. Learn all the basics in this orientation style class! Advance tickets required to attend this live class at 6pm Pacific. Get yours through ​Luma​, ​Forbidden Tickets​, or ​Plura​. Los Angeles, CA: Join us at 8pm in downtown LA for our monthly Play Lab! This week, we’ll cover impact play with Killmeat Nick. We start with a short demo or discussion, then consent discussions, and then you’ll have plenty of time for learning-by-doing in a structured environment. Bring your toys and bring your curiosity to this live, hands-on playshop! Advance tickets required through ​Luma​, ​Forbidden Tickets​, or ​Plura​, and please be on time — late arrivals more than 15 minutes past start time cannot be admitted. Saturday, September 12 Online: Kinky with more than one partner, or want to be? Join us online today for Polyamory and Power Exchange Relationships with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory. This class breaks down some common problems encountered when combining D/s dynamics and polyamorous relationship styles, and offers strategies for working through those pitfalls. Join live online or by recording within one week with your advance tickets from ​Plura​ or ​Forbidden Tickets​. Online: Join Mel & Memi online this afternoon for Bratting and Brat Taming. We will be talking about roles, care, consent and tips for a good bratting and brat taming scene! Attend live or through the recording with your advance tickets from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, September 13 Online: Join us online today for Autism and Kink, a look at the neurodivergent experience in kink with UK kink educator and coach John Pendal. In this workshop we look at the overlap of autism and kink, and to a lesser degree other forms of neurodivergence and kink. This workshop isn’t just for autistic folk, it can help anyone who feels like an outsider or would like to create a more inclusive environment. Please note that this class will not be recorded, so mark your calendars for 11am Pacific time/ 2pm Eastern and get your advance tickets from ​Plura​ or ​Forbidden Tickets​. Monday, September 14 Online: Active engaged negotiation is a critical skill for everyone in a scene! If you’re an s-type and have faced challenges speaking up, you’ll want to join us tonight for Negotiation for Subs and Bottoms with Faun. In this workshop, we’ll examine the do’s and don’ts of effective negotiating communication, how to navigate the kink scene, ways to identify important traits in compatible play partners, & guide kinksters of all levels! Join live or by recording with your advance tickets from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: Today is the last day to join late registration for ​Pentacles of Power: A Six-Week Sex Magick Intensive for Kinky People​ with Miriam BatAsherah Green, and the date of our second live session. Tuesday, September 15 Online: Let’s talk about D/s as spiritual and magickal people! Whether you identify as kinky or not, consciously shaping the dynamics between people can open doors to life force, intimacy, and the energetic dance that lives between individuals or groups. Tonight, join author and educator Lee Harrington for Arcane D/s: Energetic Feeding and Conscious Inequality. Attend live or through the recording with advance tickets from ​Plura​ or ​Forbidden Tickets​. Wednesday, September 16 Online: Have you ever wanted to smack your partners balls around like a speed bag? Then you’ll want to join Lady V online tonight for Ballbusting & Testicle Play! Your advance tickets will let you attend live or within one week through the recording. Get yours from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Thursday, September 17 Online: Interested in rubber or latex? Join Dolly Diatima online tonight for Latex 101. You’ll learn about the history of latex as a fetish, how to care for latex and rubber gear, and fun idea for scenes. Attend live or through the recording with advance tickets from ​Plura​ or ​Forbidden Tickets​. Friday, September 18 No live programming today, but check out all of our digital downloads and other resources at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teacahble.com​! Saturday, September 19 Our whole weekend is about D/s and power exchange dynamics! Online: Join us online today for Receiving Service Well: Is This Meaningful to You? with Aidan Sunassee. This class is for anyone who wants to better understand what service actually means to them. We

This Week with Wicked Grounds (9/2 – 9/13)

September 2, 2026 By Miriam Green

Hello kinksters – Given the upcoming last big holiday weekend of the summer, you’re getting this week’s newsletter slightly early! There are a few things we’re excited about this week. First is the launch of Rebecca Blanton’s new book Kinky & Complicated: Navigating BDSM with Mental Illness or Neurodivergence coming up on September 8th. Rebecca (aka Auntie Vice) has taught for us for several years, including some excellent classes about BDSM and mental health based on her years of research. She was kind enough to send me an early paperback version of the book, since I told her I plan to return to this one frequently and need a version that I can mark up with all my notes!​ You can pre-order your copy here​! And keep an eye out for some new classes with her this fall. Our next six-week intensive launches next week, and I’ve already posted the first week of homework a bit early for those who are excited to dive in. If you’d still like to join us, we’ll have regular registration until the class starts Tuesday 9/8, and then we’ll have late registration for a slightly higher price for the first week of the course. Find out more by clicking through to ​Pentacles of Power: A Six-Week Sex Magick Intensive for Kinky People​. We only offer this intensive every other year, so grab your spot if you’re interested in deepening your power through intention and attention! And finally, it’s the start of a new month, so it’s the best time to take advantage of monthly, quarterly, or annual event passes. Get a month, three months, or a full twelve months of all our regular 90-120 minute classes at one low price, plus big discounts on intensives: ​​Sept 2026​​ ​​Quarterly 202609 to 202611​​ ​​Annual 202609 to 202708​​ Now, let’s get into what’s on offer over the next week or so in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and online! This Week! Wednesday, September 2 San Francisco, CA: Join us live and in-person in San Francisco for this month’s SpankLab hosted by impossiblepain. Learn all about impact play in this learning-by-doing environment. We start with a short demo or conversation, have consent discussions to keep everyone safe and comfortable, and then practice hands on in a peer-to-peer learning style for 90 minutes! Advance tickets are highly recommended through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Thursday, September 3 through Monday, September 7 No live programming today, but check out all our digital downloads and other resources on ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​ Tuesday, September 8 Online: Today is the launch of our next six-week intensive: ​Pentacles of Power: A Six-Week Sex Magick Intensive for Kinky People​ with Miriam BatAsherah Green. Our first live session for this intensive will be held tonight, and today is also the last day of pre-registration. We’ll allow late registration for one more week, through September 15th, with a $50 increase for late registrations. Get your seat early to have the chance to attend all sessions live and get the best price! Online: Into blood play? Want to learn how to have fun while being safe and risk-aware? Join Jamie Joy online tonight for Blood, Sweat, & Fears: The Art and Thrill of Blood Play. Advance tickets are required to attend either live online — our recommendation! — or within one week through the class recording. Get your tickets from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Wednesday, September 9 Online: Whether you’re into bootblacking for practical leather care, service, devotion, or all of the above, join Lady V online tonight for So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101. Your advance tickets will allow you to attend live, or you can watch through the recording within one week of the class. Get your advance tickets through ​Plura​ or ​Forbidden Tickets​. San Francisco, CA: Want to make a lot of new kinky friends (and potential partners?) fast! Join us tonight in downtown San Francisco for Kinky Speed Friending, hosted by Psychokitty Ryan. We’ll match up tops and bottoms, and you’ll meet a couple dozen new folks in a safe, moderated environment. You’re a switch? Of course you’re welcome!!! Just let us know at ticketing and you’ll have the option to choose who you’d most like to meet on arrival. Advance ticketing is strongly recommended, and we usually sell out. ​Get your tickets exclusively through Plura​. Thursday, September 10 Online: The last time we offered Dating as Shadow Work: Turning Emotional Triggers into Pathways of Growth with Marie Thouin PhD, it was one of the most popular classes of 2026. Come find out why! Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid — abandonment, disappointment, shame, embarrassment, insecurity, grandiosity — and learn how to work with them skillfully. Join live or through the recording within one week with your advance tickets from ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, September 11 Tonight, we offer two classes back to back in downtown Los Angeles! Los Angeles, CA: Wondering what awaits you in the mysterious land of kink and BDSM? Looking to explore, but not quite sure where to start? Join our own Killmeat Nick for Back to School! Bring your questions and queries to this judgement-free space. Let’s unpack our perverse desires with care and curiosity. Learn all the basics in this orientation style class! Advance tickets required to attend this live class at 6pm Pacific. Get yours through ​Luma​, ​Forbidden Tickets​, or ​Plura​. Los Angeles, CA: Join us at 8pm in downtown LA for our monthly Play Lab! This week, we’ll cover impact play with Killmeat Nick. We start with a short demo or discussion, then consent discussions, and then you’ll have plenty of time for learning-by-doing in a structured environment. Bring your toys and bring your curiosity to this live, hands-on playshop! Advance tickets required through ​Luma​, ​Forbidden Tickets​, or ​Plura​, and please be on time — late arrivals more than 15 minutes past start time cannot be admitted. Saturday, September 12 Online: Kinky with