Howdy kinksters –
This is truly the harvest time of year for West Coast kinksters. Last week, we celebrated the Folsom Street Fair — a huge outdoor celebration of all things kink and leather. Toward the end of October, many of us (Wicked Grounds included) will be at Dark Odyssey: Surrender in San Jose. It feels very festive, indeed!
This week we also celebrate our first Saturday of the month, so if you’re in the SF Bay Area, join us for a big weekend of in-person classes! (And of course we’ll have online classes all week, too!)
Now is also the time to join the fall cohort of our six-week intensive Diving Deep: Discovering and Voicing Your Erotic Desires.
Read on for this week’s events, and plan ahead by checking out all our ticketed events.
This week!
Thursday 10/3
Polyam folks are often advised to cultivate compersion in relationships. But what is it, and how does it work, anyway? Join us only at 6pm Pacific for The Art & Science of Compersion with Marie Thouin. Marie will discuss her “compersion roadmap”, which will help every attendee understand what promotes and hinders compersion for them. She will also demystify some of the main myths you might have heard around compersion, and tackle some controversial questions regarding the topic. Get advance ticketing through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.
Saturday 10/5
It’s first Saturday! This month, we’ll be live in San Francisco at Noon for our Welcome to the SF Scene class live at our space in Trellis! If you just got curious about the SF kink scene at Folsom, now is the time to learn about all the spaces, organizations, events, and culture that make San Francisco extraordinary! This is a live class with Miriam Green. Get your advanced tickets through Forbidden Tickets or Plura. Door ticketing is available, but please arrive by 11:55am to ticket on site.
Then stick around for Negotiation Improv with Wiley Elote at 2:30pm to learn the basics of Negotiation and how to find your voice in different realistic negotiation scenarios. This live workshop is the best way to develop confidence in negotiations — fast. Get advance tickets through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.
Sunday 10/6
Our Diving Deep: Discovering and Voicing Your Erotic Desires six-week workshop officially goes live today! If you’d like to go really, really deep in your kink journey, please commit to yourself and sign up for our fall cohort.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only one experiencing what you feel in submission, we assure you — you are NOT alone. Often it’s helpful to talk with other folks on the same side of the slash to share experiences and ideas. Join us live in San Francisco at 11:30am for Submissives in Solidarity, a discussion group facilitated by Miriam Green. We’ll meet in the cozy Mukunda Studios in SOMA. Advance ticketing recommended. Get yours on Forbidden Tickets or Plura.
Then join us at 2pm in San Francisco for Erotic Movement with Alexandria from Click Your Heels. ALL bodies, ALL genders, all orientations, all ages, all ethnicities! YOU are welcome as you are for this dance and movement class to express your own erotic identity. Advance ticketing strongly recommended, as space is limited. Get your tickets on Forbidden Tickets or Plura. (As of this exact moment, we have five spaces left.)
Monday 10/7
All relationships are valid as long as they meet the needs of those in them. Relationships don’t all need to lead to the same place, and when we have many relationships, that’s particularly critical to know! Join polyamory educator Laura Boyle to think about all the many models of successful relationships in Non-Escalator Relationships: Strategies and Challenges at 6pm Pacific online. Get your advance tickets through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.
Tuesday 10/8
Want to add more structure to your D/s dynamics? Learn from power-slave Hannah the Scribe tonight online and find a few that might fit your life in How to Learn Protocols. Get your advance tickets through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.
Wednesday 10/9
If you’re in the San Francisco Bay Area and want to meet new people, come join us at 7pm for Kinky Speed Friending + Dating at our offices near 5th and Mission in downtown SF. You’ll need advance tickets for this one, and Plura is the place to get them!
Thursday 10/10
Sometimes it’s a scene we feel low after. It might be a weekend of fun. Heck, it might be Folsom Street Fair! Drop is a very real phenomenon that can catch us off guard after a wide variety of kink experiences. It’s not just “sub drop,” but can happen to all kinds of kink and edge players. Join us at 6pm Pacific tonight online for Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green to find out what drop is, why it happens, and ways to mitigate it. Get your advance tickets on Forbidden Tickets or Plura.
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Mir & The Wicked Grounds Team
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