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The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?
This interactive discussion examines the difference between service as a practice and service as identity, and what happens when they collapse into each other. We’ll explore the grief of service change or loss, the shame that can surface when you are the one driving the need to stop, and the disorientation of not knowing who you are when you’re not useful.