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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260819T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Grounding and Centering for Kinksters: An Introduction to Defining Space and Self with HG Wyndell
DESCRIPTION:There is deep power in being rooted with purpose\, with intimate awareness of yourself and the currents of the intended scene. In the bedroom\, creating a container separate from the doldrums of daily life can create more meaningful and satisfying play. At a public play event\, it is particularly important to be able to define the boundaries of both ourselves and the space for a scene\, to keep that which is outside the scene outside\, and mind your splash zone. \nIn this class\, we will learn techniques for being present within your own body for better play and creating containers for fulfilling scenes. \nPRESENTER: \nHG Wyndell is an activist\, educator\, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder\, and in our experience\, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship\, genuine gender expression\, ceremony\, creative arts\, chronic illness\, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/adc5102b17
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-grounding-and-centering-for-kinksters-an-introduction-to-defining-space-and-self-with-hg-wyndell-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260818T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260818T200000
DTSTAMP:20260723T003834Z
CREATED:20260723T003834Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260723T003834Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Bottom Responsibility: Agency\, Accountability\, and Risk Literacy in Kink with Sarai
DESCRIPTION:Bottoming is not passive\, and submission is not a waiver. This course confronts the cultural tendency to outsource responsibility to Tops while treating bottom education as optional. Using psychological frameworks including learned helplessness\, authority bias\, and cognitive avoidance\, alongside real-world scenarios\, we examine how unexamined conditioning\, deference to erotic authority\, and avoidance of risk literacy contribute to unsafe dynamics\, misattributed harm\, and repeated community conflict. We also address the distinction between regret and consent violation\, how harm narratives get distorted when decision-making is omitted from the story\, and why an educated bottom is significantly harder to exploit than an uninformed one. \nThis class is designed for bottoms who are willing to show up informed\, self-aware\, and accountable. It is not a validation space and does not center comfort. Participants may find their assumptions challenged and their feelings tested. Come prepared\, or don’t come at all. Growth requires honesty\, and honesty can sting\, but it also saves lives\, relationships\, and communities. \nPRESENTER: \nSarai311 (any/all) is a BIPOC kink educator\, poet\, and event organizer with a decade of experience across classroom and community learning spaces. She brings eight years of formal teaching and three years of active kink engagement into her work\, blending curriculum design\, emotionally grounded facilitation\, and embodied pedagogy. A doctoral candidate\, her research on identity development and culturally relevant pedagogy directly informs her kink education practice. \nWithin the kink community\, she has served as a Dungeon Monitor\, demo bottom\, and board member for Whippersnappers TNG\, and is the founder and lead organizer of BIPOC at Frolicon. She presents across the Southeast at events including Frolicon\, Southeast Leatherfest\, and Dark Odyssey\, and has been published thrice in Black Leather in Color Magazine. Sarai311 is also the author of ‘What We Could Never Be’ and ‘Unholy Attachments’\, and is known for creating spaces where kink\, identity\, and intentional self-exploration can safely coexist. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6c953c13eb
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bottom-responsibility-agency-accountability-and-risk-literacy-in-kink-with-sarai/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260816T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260816T160000
DTSTAMP:20260717T025523Z
CREATED:20260717T025523Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: What Now? Responding to Consent Injuries with Sir Panda
DESCRIPTION:We talk a lot about what consent is\, and how to reach good consent in play and with partners. Yet consent injuries happen all the time. What happens after things go wrong\, and a consent incident shakes up a person\, a couple\, or a community? \nThis class will briefly touch on what consent is and how to secure it – then go beyond and examine how to best react when a consent incident touches us. Let’s consider how we handle it as a stranger\, a friend\, or an event host. We’ll look at some recommended responses including caring for the harmed\, incident reporting\, and consequences such as apologies\, punishments\, and restorative justice. \nPRESENTER: \nSir-Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant living in the Kansas City metro area. He has been a kink educator since he began teaching consent and BDSM basics at Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) in 2011. Today he especially focuses on the mental and relationship aspects of kink\, drawing on over 17 years of experience and a passion for research. Sir Panda has taught for Leather Reign\, the Kink Center\, Pragmatic Kink\, Wicked Grounds\, and the Venusian Society. He has served in various community roles over the years including event planner\, party host\, house top\, support group facilitator\, and Program Lead for KinkFest 2023. Sir Panda is a lifestyle coach\, a consent advocate\, a Mental Health First Aider\, and a member of the Social Psychology Network. \nFind him on FetLife as Sir-Panda or Instagram and Substack as RealSirPanda. To learn more or book a personal consultation\, please visit www.dsoutreach.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8b356d2ce2
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-what-now-responding-to-consent-injuries-with-sir-panda-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260815T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260815T160000
DTSTAMP:20260717T025007Z
CREATED:20260717T025007Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260717T025007Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: DIY Power Dynamics with Empress Oxblood
DESCRIPTION:When you hear the term “Dominant/submissive relationship” a specific image may come to mind: a leather-clad domme with a high-heeled boot on her bound and gagged submissive’s back or perhaps a handler leading their masked pet around on a leash made of heavy chains. \nThere’s a reason these aesthetics captivate. They’re sexy\, dangerous\, intriguing\, and spark something deep and primal. \nBut what if none of that works for you? Where do you fit in? Join Empress Oxblood as we strip away the leather\, unhook the leash\, remove the collar\, and explore the core skills you actually need to DIY a dynamic that’s unique to you. Whether you’re casually interested\, completely new\, or an experienced player\, you’re invited to discover your own power (or lack thereof). \nPRESENTERS: \nEmpress Oxblood (she/her) brings a bright\, nurturing touch to even the most sadistic of scenes. She’s a pervertable witch\, Trickster Goddess\, and mischievous dominant who fucks a lot of trans women. She is the proud owner of her service dog\, nadya oxblood\, and serves as the treasurer for Sex Positive Portland\, operations lead for Carnal Abyss\, and an educator for Hitchin’ Bitches PDX. \nnadya oxblood (she/her) is a writer\, activist\, submissive\, and all-around dumb slut who seeks stillness through bondage and calm through pain. when she’s not serving on her knees or exploring the outer limits of what trans bodies can do\, she likes to gaze longingly out the window and wonder why she’s like this. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; sliding scale available for accessibility. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b0b8b0c076
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-diy-power-dynamics-with-empress-oxblood/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260815T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260815T130000
DTSTAMP:20260717T024615Z
CREATED:20260717T024615Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260717T024615Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Sustainable Dominance: Managing Capacity in Long-Term Leadership with Aidan Sunassee
DESCRIPTION:Long-term dominance asks a great deal of a person. While maintaining a dynamic is a shared responsibility\, many Doms choose to carry a significant share of the structure\, planning\, co-regulation\, and day-to-day care that keeps it running. Over time\, that responsibility can become exhausting\, particularly if they feel expected to remain endlessly capable\, composed\, and available. \nThis class focuses on the emotional and practical work of sustaining authority over time\, without falling into the dreaded pit of burnout. We will discuss decision fatigue\, Dom drop\, resentment\, inconsistent capacity\, unrealistic expectations\, and the pressure to be “the stable one” through every demand life places upon you and yours. \nYou will learn ways to communicate boundaries and capacity clearly\, receive support\, and build systems that involve submissive partners in maintaining the relationship they are also part of. If you’re a D-type who loves holding responsibility (perhaps a little too much)\, an s-type who wants to learn more about D-type burnout\, or anywhere in between\, this is the class for you! \nPRESENTER: \nAidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist\, educator\, researcher\, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware\, grounded in inclusive practices\, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience\, creating spaces where community voices are centered\, respected\, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM\, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA\, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research\, he has developed and led community education programs on kink\, consent\, trauma awareness\, and ethical non-monogamy. \nAt the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f1689c15e9
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-sustainable-dominance-managing-capacity-in-long-term-leadership-with-aidan-sunassee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260811T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260811T210000
DTSTAMP:20260717T022359Z
CREATED:20260717T022359Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260717T022359Z
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SUMMARY:SF: Improv for Kinksters with Psychokitty
DESCRIPTION:Have you ever been ready in a scene\, fully decked out in a sexy costume along with your partner\, but you had trouble making up words to say? Then this workshop is perfect! \nAfter a short introduction\, we will explore improv exercises to build and develop skills that you can bring back to your own scenes. Character play builds upon words you can bring. These are exercises to start you on the road to the right sexy words for your scene. \nThis is a learning-by-doing workshop. Class participation is highly encouraged. \nPRESENTER: \nRyan PsychoKitty is a performance artist and improv actor\, starting at the Annoyance Theater of Improv of Chicago in the late 90s and has performed in New York\, San Francisco\, London\, Kobe\, and Osaka\, with performance images in Skin Two. He has presented classes at the SF Citadel\, Shibaricon\, TNG4\, Boundless\, and others. \nHe is the host of the new Dirty Talk Game Show here in San Francisco\, a former host of Shibaricon in Chicago\, is one of the founders of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nSpace is limited to no more than 20 attendees\, so advanced ticketing is strongly recommended. \nTickets: $20 – $40 in advance\, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/17b04b7219
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-improv-for-kinksters-with-psychokitty/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260809T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260809T160000
DTSTAMP:20260717T021812Z
CREATED:20260717T021812Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260717T021812Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Honk! An Intro to Clown Kink with Killmeat Nick
DESCRIPTION:Coulrophilia? I hardly know ya! \nWhether it’s erotic humiliation\, unserious antics\, childish whimsy\, or frightful fear play you’re after\, the clown’s got your tongue\, so let’s banter about it! \nJoin as we: \n\nBrief the history and philosophy of clowning\nTake a peek at archetypes across genres\nExplore crossovers into other kinks\nDiscuss real clown tricks and tips\nBuild your clown-sona!\n\nAcross the world and for centuries\, clowns have mesmerized\, terrified\, and tantalized folks. Let’s break down what exactly makes them so fascinating and learn how to implement their uncanny high jinks into your next scene. Gaze into the fun-house mirror\, confront the clown in you… it might be staring right back! \nPRESENTER: \nKillmeat Nick (he/they/it/she) is a queer trans gender transcend-er\, sex educator\, erotic scholar\, and events manager at the BDSM education resource\, Wicked Grounds. With a B.A. in cinema followed by experience in stand-up comedy\, character acting\, and clowning\, they infuse their kink services with humor to entice those intimidated by perceived seriousness. He’s been active in the SF Bay Area scene since 2018\, a sex educator since 2021\, and active in the LA scene since 2023. \nIn vanilla life\, Nick is a Community Restoration Specialist and conflict mediator. You can connect with Nick on social media via @killmeat6 across platforms. If you are interested in teaching with Wicked Grounds\, you may email them at nick@wickedgrounds.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/18000aeee4
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-honk-an-intro-to-clown-kink-with-killmeat-nick/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260809T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260809T130000
DTSTAMP:20260717T015629Z
CREATED:20260717T015629Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260717T015629Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Turning Mistakes Into Mastery with Karebear
DESCRIPTION:Join us for an insightful and interactive session exploring what happens when a BDSM scene doesn’t go as planned. This engaging class will cover real-life experiences\, essential safety protocols\, and effective communication strategies to help you navigate challenges with confidence. \nYou’ll learn how to turn mishaps into meaningful moments\, ensuring that both trust and connection remain intact. Perfect for beginners and seasoned players alike\, this event promises valuable insights and a supportive community atmosphere. Don’t miss your chance to enhance your skills and deepen your understanding of BDSM dynamics! \nPRESENTER: \nKare Bear (she/her): Kink Educator | Lifestyle Mentor | CG/L Specialist \nWith over a decade of experience in the lifestyle and six years of teaching and event facilitation\, Kare Bear brings a blend of practical knowledge\, empathy\, and grounded realism to kink education. She specializes in age play\, age regression\, and the Caregiver/little (CG/L) dynamic\, while also offering a wide range of 101 and intermediate-level classes for both newcomers and evolving practitioners. \nKare Bear’s teaching style centers on creating spaces that are safe\, accessible\, and engaging—where curiosity is welcomed\, communication is prioritized\, and complex or stigmatized topics can be explored with care and clarity. Whether she’s breaking down foundational skills or diving into nuanced dynamics\, her goal is to equip people with tools they can actually use. Education doesn’t have to be dry—she aims to keep it approachable\, impactful\, and just a little bit spicy. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6d9341f62e
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-turning-mistakes-into-mastery-with-karebear/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260804T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260804T200000
DTSTAMP:20260717T013254Z
CREATED:20260717T013254Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260717T013254Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: This is Your Brain on Kink. (Any Questions?) with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:While our relationships with kink are deeply personal and sometimes idiosyncratic\, the neuroscience of peak experiences can tell us a lot about what we all have in common. Learning about what happens in our brains when we play can lead to better communication and better scenes. \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \n\nThe four major neurotransmitters behind building a kink headspace\nHow and why edgeplay makes even well-planned scenes less predictable\nHow to stay in communication before\, during\, and after each scene\nWhat to know when negotiating for relationships\nThe link between frenzy and New Relationship Energy\nThe causes of post-scene drop\, and how to deal with drop when it occurs\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8ce26456bd
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-this-is-your-brain-on-kink-any-questions-with-miriam-green-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260729T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260729T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T224001Z
CREATED:20260615T224001Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T224001Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Full Moon Class: Elemental Magic in BDSM: A Two Part Series with Madam Rosie Rose
DESCRIPTION:This two-part course meets on both 6/30 and 7/29 at 6pm Pacific each evening. \nPart 1:\nWhen your energy is aligned\, your dominance flows with clarity and presence—and your submission anchors into loyalty\, devotion\, and clarity of purpose. This immersive two part series teaches you how to return to that alignment using the four elements as practical tools for energetic mastery. \nYou’ll explore how air\, fire\, water\, and earth each influence your unique power dynamic—and how to choose the right element to meet your needs in both dominant and submissive roles. \nFrom grounding and breathwork to advanced energetic tools\, each method is broken down by level and applied to your real-life dynamic. \nWe’ll conclude with a live altar demonstration\, a Q&A integration space\, and a brief introduction to flower essences—refined plant allies used in energetic recalibration. \nYou’ll leave with: \n● A deeper understanding of your energetic blueprint\n● Personalized tools to stabilize dominance or submission\n● Clear examples of how each element affects power exchange\n● A live altar-building demo using all four elements\n● An introduction to flower essence support for advanced energetic refinement \nOpen to all roles\, genders\, and experience levels. No prior energy work necessary. \nPart 2:\nThis extended version of Elemental Magic in BDSM deepens your connection to the lunar current—showing you how to layer the energy of the Full Moon into your power exchange practice. \nBuilding on the foundational teachings of Elemental Magic 1.0\, this class integrates lunar timing into your energetic blueprint\, exploring how moon phases can magnify your intention\, alignment\, and clarity in dominance or submission. Whether you’re leading or yielding\, you’ll walk away with tools that strengthen your flow through both chaos and stillness. Includes a live altar demonstration\, Full Moon attunement tools\, and a guided Q&A integration space. \nYou’ll leave with: \n● A full Elemental Magic overview plus advanced moon-based energetic timing\n● Tools to regulate emotional highs and lows within your D/s dynamic\n● A deeper map of intuitive timing\, intention\, and energetic support\n● A live altar-building demo and lunar alignment practices\n● Guidance on how to incorporate flower essences and energetic practices with lunar precision \nPRESENTER: \nMadam Rosie Rose\, the spiritual guide to Dommes\, subs\, and spicy content creators. Owner of Rose Garden of Kink\, a sacred store for the D/s dynamic. She blends energy healing\, flower essence work\, and divination to support power exchange as a path to alignment. Driven by a passion to create safe\, spiritually grounded spaces for healing within BDSM\, kink\, SWer\, and polyamorous communities. \nTICKETING: \n$40-$80 sliding scale for the two-class series. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/93d3228fd1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-full-moon-class-elemental-magic-in-bdsm-a-two-part-series-with-madam-rosie-rose-2/2026-07-29/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260726T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260726T130000
DTSTAMP:20260617T013439Z
CREATED:20260617T013439Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260617T013439Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Why We Don't Speak Up with John Pendal
DESCRIPTION:A lot of discussion about consent relies on being able to speak up. For example: \n• Standing up for yourself in negotiations\n• Being able to clearly state your needs\, wants\, desires and limits\n• Agreeing to AND BEING ABLE TO USE a safe word during the scene \nBut there are occasions when our voices may leave us\, e.g. feeling that everyone has invested too much in the scene and we don’t want to let others down\, flooded with endorphins or adrenaline\, reliving past trauma\, falling in love with your play partner\, autistic shutdown – and that’s what this workshop covers. \nWe examine the many reasons why anyone may stay silent during a kink scene – whether they are a novice or experienced player. What to do if someone is triggered\, and different strategies to help people communicate – even if they’ve had a lifetime of ‘people pleasing’ or don’t know who they are. \nPRESENTER: \nExperienced BDSM educator and comedian John Pendal joins us all the way from London\, England. \nIn 2003\, John became the 25th person (and only Brit) to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then\, he has traveled worldwide teaching SM education\, giving speeches\, acting as a master of ceremonies\, or doing stand-up comedy. \nHe has taught workshops at Down and Dirty (Melbourne)\, Inferno\, Lupercalia (Edmonton)\, Minnesota Leather Pride\, Mr. Leatherman Toronto\, Palm Springs Leather Pride\, Rome BDSM Conference (Italy)\, SINSations in Leather\, Spring in the South (Atlanta)\, Tribal Fire (Oklahoma)\, and Thunder in the Mountains (Denver). \nwww.johnpendal.com \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c4ac822ab2
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-why-we-dont-speak-up-with-john-pendal/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260725T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260725T130000
DTSTAMP:20260616T002434Z
CREATED:20260616T002434Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260616T002434Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Total Power Exchange: The Unsexy Logistics with Aidan Sunassee
DESCRIPTION:Total Power Exchange can involve intimacy\, devotion\, and surrender. It also involves calendars\, budgets\, household decisions\, health emergencies\, disagreements\, paperwork\, boundaries\, and figuring out what happens when life throws chaos your way. \nThis class will break down some practical structures that help TPE relationships function over time. We will discuss division of responsibility\, decision-making authority\, financial oversight\, privacy\, limits\, accountability\, and the legal realities of authority-based relationships. You will also be introduced to practical safeguards\, including emergency planning\, independent support systems\, powers of attorney\, medical decision-making documents\, and other legal tools that may matter when a dynamic becomes deeply intertwined with ordinary life. \nFor anyone building\, considering\, or already living within a long-term TPE dynamic\, this class offers a grounded look at the responsibilities that make surrender safer and authority worth trusting. \nPRESENTER: \nAidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist\, educator\, researcher\, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware\, grounded in inclusive practices\, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience\, creating spaces where community voices are centered\, respected\, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM\, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA\, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research\, he has developed and led community education programs on kink\, consent\, trauma awareness\, and ethical non-monogamy. \nAt the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/81be64bb6b
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-total-power-exchange-the-unsexy-logistics-with-aidan-sunassee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260725T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260725T170000
DTSTAMP:20260616T002213Z
CREATED:20260616T002213Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260616T002213Z
UID:10000434-1784973600-1784998800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: Kink Self-Exploration Deep Dive: A Daylong Intensive with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:​Whether you’re new to exploring BDSM play or are an experienced player looking to go deeper\, we invite you to join us for a special daylong BDSM intensive in San Francisco! Miriam Green will be leveraging a dozen years of kink education and coaching to dive deeply into refining your personal kink roadmap and how to get the most out of your kink journey. \n​Throughout the day\, we will cover: \n\n​Discovering and honoring what turns you on\n​Disentangling from others’ erotic projections\n​Safely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism\n​Troubleshooting common challenges in communication\n​Managing ecstasy\, frenzy\, and drop\n​Trying new skills in the bedroom and beyond\n​Finding your voice and speaking freely\n​Sharing the desires you’re afraid to voice\n\n​This work will be completely accessible to brand new players\, while deeply valuable for experienced kinksters. A lot of folks turn to this workshop when they’re feeling “stuck” — and we have the the tools to get you unstuck! \n​The day’s format \n​We will meet from 10am – 5pm in a private downtown workshop space. The day’s work will be a mixture of lecture style\, discussion\, and a couple of breakout sessions. You will go home with optional homework! \nThere is a large common space to relax in during breaks. \n​Please bring a notebook\, pens\, a water bottle\, snacks\, and a prepared sack lunch. (We can refrigerate for you!) We will also provide some light snacks. We will have two 10-minute breaks and one 45-minute lunch break throughout the day. \n​Previous students say: \n​”Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have\, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years\, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do \n​​PRESENTER: \n​​​Miriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, APEX\, Boundless\, Plura\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for over 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \n​​​TICKETING: \nSpace is limited to 16 total attendees. Advanced ticketing is strongly recommended. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1c871528db
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-kink-self-exploration-deep-dive-a-daylong-intensive-with-miriam-green/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Intensives
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260722T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260722T200000
DTSTAMP:20260616T001403Z
CREATED:20260616T001351Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260616T001403Z
UID:10000432-1784743200-1784750400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Long Distance Polyamory w/ HG Wyndell
DESCRIPTION:Whether your partners are two hours away or halfway around the world\, it can take a lot more than Google Calendar to make long-distance polyamorous relationships functional\, healthy\, and fulfilling. \nSometimes the distance is a six-month job placement\, sometimes it’s living thousands of miles apart. Distance will multiply the complexity already present in polyamorous relationships. \nWe’ll discuss the challenges\, additional dynamics\, and helpful approaches to long-distance polyamory based on lived experience. Hopefully leaving you with more tools in your toolbox for figuring out how to make it work in healthy and fulfilling ways for you. \nPRESENTER: \nHG Wyndell is an activist\, educator\, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder\, and in our experience\, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship\, genuine gender expression\, ceremony\, creative arts\, chronic illness\, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a86b53e7ac
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-long-distance-polyamory-w-hg-wyndell-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260716T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260716T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T234819Z
CREATED:20260615T234819Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T234819Z
UID:10000425-1784224800-1784232000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Art of Dirty Talk with Marla Renee Stewart
DESCRIPTION:Are you a little shy when it comes to expressing yourself in the bedroom? Or maybe you’re good in bed\, but you want to bring your sexual life to new level? Whatever it is\, this workshop will help you to speak up in bed\, as well as get you and your partner to a more sexually arousing state. \nPracticing words\, power\, intonation and intention\, we will help you to magnify your sexual potential. We will use our creative imaginations to guide us in imagery that enhances our sexual energy and also learn ways to stimulate our hormones to achieve our sexual goals. Get ready to experience just how dirty you can get! \nPRESENTER: \nMarla Renee Stewart\, MA\, CSE (she/her) is a 3x award-winning sexologist\, author\, and sexual strategist at Velvet Lips Sex Education. With over two decades in kink\, Miss Marla proudly identifies as a sensual sadist and professional top\, specializing in techniques such as impact play\, breath play\, dirty talk\, and sensual genital torment. Her work centers on empowering erotic autonomy and dismantling sexual shame—especially for Black\, queer\, and kinky communities. As Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference\, Marla co-created the largest BIPOC dungeon in the world\, offering a transformative space for exploration and healing. She also trains therapists\, counselors\, and educators in understanding and supporting the unique needs of Black queer and kinky relationships with cultural competency and care. Through her workshops\, writings\, and fierce advocacy\, Marla continues to lead the movement for sexual liberation with unflinching power and sensuality. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b467be0f4e
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-art-of-dirty-talk-with-marla-renee-stewart/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260715T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260715T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T234613Z
CREATED:20260615T234613Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T234613Z
UID:10000424-1784138400-1784145600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Strategies For Switching: Fulfilling Your Diverse Desires with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:The term “switch” has a lot of baggage attached to it in a polarized BDSM community\, where you are expected to be a Top or a Bottom\, a Master or a Slave – but there are a thousand reasons why many of us feel a calling to cross over from time to time – while others are born to ride a wide variety of sides of their souls. \nWe will be addressing why people switch (Tops who want to know what it feels like\, Slaves who want to serve masochistic Masters\, greedy versatile pigs who want it all)\, strategies to finding play partners or relationship structures (one partner many roles\, play partners outside of monogamous relationships\, polyamory\, swinging\, open relationships\, self-play)\, and create ways to check in with ourselves about what our own needs are. \nLet’s look at switching\, and see what notions we are ready to embrace\, and which need to be switched around. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d152af13de
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-strategies-for-switching-fulfilling-your-diverse-desires-with-lee-harrington/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260714T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260714T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T234353Z
CREATED:20260615T234353Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T234353Z
UID:10000423-1784052000-1784059200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM Negotiation: From Awkward to Awesome with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Ever felt that pre-scene flutter of nerves when it comes to expressing your boundaries or deepest desires? You’re not alone. But being honest about your desires and voicing them out loud is critical for safe\, hot scenes — and it’s what experienced players will expect from you. \nEffective kink negotiation isn’t always intuitive\, especially when you’re just starting out. But it can be learned\, and we’re going to do just that. \nThis Kink 101 session is designed to transform hesitant conversations into confident\, connection-building dialogues. You’ll walk away with practical tools to ask for exactly what you want\, making your play hotter\, safer\, and incredibly fun. \nWe’ll explore: \n\nNegotiation styles for your own style and voice\nMastering pre-play agreements that set the stage for thrilling scenes\nHow to negotiate without breaking the mood\nNailing communication during and after the scene\nHow to adapt scene negotiations within existing BDSM relationships\nThis workshop welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles\n\nDrawing on the psychology of peak experiences\, we’ll learn how to collaborate as partners\, using negotiation not as a chore\, but as a powerful act of co-creation. Whether you’re curious about kink\, a relative newcomer\, or a seasoned kinkster looking to sharpen your communication\, you’ll walk away with new perspectives and skills. \nGet ready to navigate your desires with a newfound swagger and make every negotiation count! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/them) has been active in the public kink scene for over twenty years and an instructor for more than twelve\, focusing on communication skills\, impact play\, and advanced kink techniques. As the owner of kink education company Wicked Grounds\, Mir collaborates with dozens of other educators to offer a wide range of classes for kinksters at every stage of their BDSM journey. \nOver the past dozen years\, Mir has taught several hundred BDSM classes through Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Arizona Power Exchange\, Dark Odyssey\, and other respected kink organizations and conferences. They particularly enjoy leading intensives\, helping students deepen their kink skills over a day\, weekend\, or multiple weeks online. You can also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with Mir at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/51cd806fda
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-negotiation-from-awkward-to-awesome-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260713T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260713T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T234131Z
CREATED:20260615T234131Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T234131Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Bottoming Safety 201: Negotiating Edgeplay Safely as a Bottom or Submissive with Laura Boyle of ReadyforPolyamory
DESCRIPTION:Most folks\, when they enter a local scene or join a dungeon space\, are required to take a basic negotiation class. These classes seldom touch on how to negotiate more intense scenes – or assume that one will automatically have gained the confidence and communication skills to express boundaries while negotiating a scene near the edge of one’s comfort level. \nThis class will address generally asserting boundaries with a top or dominant from a bottoming or submissive role; but also include safety issues to be aware of some of the most popular “edgy” play – understanding that one person’s edge is another’s bread and butter\, so there is no way for the class to be comprehensive for everyone in that. \nThis class explicitly covers and includes handout resources and links for information on negotiation for knife play\, breath play\, a variety of fear play\, fire\, sadistic floor rope\, suspension\, and wax; and sometimes more by discussion within the class group. \nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a writer\, polyamorist\, and educator who has been teaching classes on polyamory\, sexuality\, boundaries\, kink\, and the intersection of those on a local level and at conventions since 2018. She is the author of Ready for Polyamory: A Pragmatic Guide to Consensual Non-Monogamy. After more than 15 years in consensually non-monogamous relationships\, in polycules that have ranged from temporarily closed Vs to constellations whose shapes are increasingly indescribable depending on which relationships folks consider worth including\, she loves to share practical information learned from years of fixing her own mistakes and missteps. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several ticketing tiers\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/7fa2b65f82
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bottoming-safety-201-negotiating-edgeplay-safely-as-a-bottom-or-submissive-with-laura-boyle-of-readyforpolyamory/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260712T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260712T160000
DTSTAMP:20260615T233949Z
CREATED:20260615T233949Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T233949Z
UID:10000421-1783864800-1783872000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Trauma Informed Caregiver/Little Dynamic\, Age Play & Dark Age Play with Kare Bear
DESCRIPTION:Join us for an informative and supportive event exploring age play\, age regression\, and the CG/L (Caregiver/Little) dynamic. This event is perfect for beginners\, offering a safe space to learn about the basics\, explore healthy dynamics\, and understand the psychological and emotional aspects of these practices. \nWe will cover a variety of topics\, including the different types of age play (including dark age play) and how to engage in these dynamics responsibly\, safely\, and consensually. Whether you’re curious or just starting your journey\, this event will provide a welcoming environment to ask questions\, share experiences\, and build confidence in exploring these intimate dynamics. \nPRESENTER: \nKare Bear (she/her): Kink Educator | Lifestyle Mentor | CG/L Specialist \nWith over a decade of experience in the lifestyle and six years of teaching and event facilitation\, Kare Bear brings a blend of practical knowledge\, empathy\, and grounded realism to kink education. She specializes in age play\, age regression\, and the Caregiver/little (CG/L) dynamic\, while also offering a wide range of 101 and intermediate-level classes for both newcomers and evolving practitioners. \nKare Bear’s teaching style centers on creating spaces that are safe\, accessible\, and engaging—where curiosity is welcomed\, communication is prioritized\, and complex or stigmatized topics can be explored with care and clarity. Whether she’s breaking down foundational skills or diving into nuanced dynamics\, her goal is to equip people with tools they can actually use. Education doesn’t have to be dry—she aims to keep it approachable\, impactful\, and just a little bit spicy. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/59b898c5db
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-trauma-informed-caregiver-little-dynamic-age-play-dark-age-play-with-kare-bear/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260709T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260709T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T233423Z
CREATED:20260615T233423Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T233423Z
UID:10000419-1783620000-1783627200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Reclaiming Your Inner Villain: A Fantasy Roleplaying Workshop with Lila Hades\, The Unconventional Plutonian
DESCRIPTION:This workshop is a playful discovery of the villain archetype within to embody power\, pleasure\, and confidence in fantasy roleplaying. Through improv games\, roleplaying demos\, and writing prompts\, transform shame into curiosity for scenecrafting and self-acceptance\, explore your erotic narratives\, and learn consensual ways to engage shadow desires. \nPRESENTER: \nLila Hades (she/they) is a queer\, neurodivergent word witch & author; trauma-informed conflict resolution practitioner; BDSM & kink educator; and astrologer who founded The Unconventional Plutonian (also known as UP). \nUP’s mission is to empower and inspire courageous personal & communal transformation through a radical and queer lens. Rooted in astrology\, storytelling and the mythic imagination\, BDSM and kink exploration\, and conflict resolution practices\, UP designs events\, kink coaching\, and classes as containers for embodiment\, consent\, and liberatory self-expression. The Unconventional Plutonian exists to cultivate acceptance\, resilience\, and more imaginative ways of being—with ourselves\, with one another\, and with the places we inhabit. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; sliding scale available. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6b46c86af5
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-reclaiming-your-inner-villain-a-fantasy-roleplaying-workshop-with-lila-hades-the-unconventional-plutonian/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260708T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260708T210000
DTSTAMP:20260615T233158Z
CREATED:20260615T233150Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T233158Z
UID:10000418-1783537200-1783544400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty
DESCRIPTION:We can’t promise love\, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people\, a lot of people\, fast. \nOur purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. \n– Find people with similar kinks as yours. \n– Find people with whom to explore new kinks. \n– Find new friends. \n– Find new people to play with. \n  \nPeople will be separated by appetite\, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. \nThe evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite\, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting\, even if they aren’t your appetite. \nOnce the event has started\, we can not add new people\, so please be on time. \n  \nPRESENTER: \nRyan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade\, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender\, or hosting events at the SF Citadel\, Catalyst\, and of course Wicked Grounds. \n  \nACCESS: \nIn SF\, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. \nWe cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun)\, so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded. \nPlease do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave\, regardless of vaccination status.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/kinky-speed-friending-with-psychokitty/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260707T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260707T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T232906Z
CREATED:20260615T232906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T232906Z
UID:10000417-1783447200-1783454400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations - Relationships\, Dynamics\, and Contracts with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Join us for a Kink 201 session exploring negotiating how to think about and create long-term D/s dynamics and kinky relationships that work! We’ll talk about: \n\nSetting your own must-haves and red flags\nNegotiating for play partner relationships\nD/s relationships & contracts\nHow to maintain relationships over time\nAnd more!\n\nBuilding on our negotiation basics\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. \nThis workshop is designed for kinksters with some experience and knowledge of how to negotiate for BDSM play and scenes but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications in ongoing relationships. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \nTICKETING: \n$20\, $30\, and $40 price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2220f6a645
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-201-advanced-bdsm-negotiations-relationships-dynamics-and-contracts-with-miriam-green-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260630T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260630T200000
DTSTAMP:20260615T224001Z
CREATED:20260615T224001Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T224001Z
UID:10000410-1782842400-1782849600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Full Moon Class: Elemental Magic in BDSM: A Two Part Series with Madam Rosie Rose
DESCRIPTION:This two-part course meets on both 6/30 and 7/29 at 6pm Pacific each evening. \nPart 1:\nWhen your energy is aligned\, your dominance flows with clarity and presence—and your submission anchors into loyalty\, devotion\, and clarity of purpose. This immersive two part series teaches you how to return to that alignment using the four elements as practical tools for energetic mastery. \nYou’ll explore how air\, fire\, water\, and earth each influence your unique power dynamic—and how to choose the right element to meet your needs in both dominant and submissive roles. \nFrom grounding and breathwork to advanced energetic tools\, each method is broken down by level and applied to your real-life dynamic. \nWe’ll conclude with a live altar demonstration\, a Q&A integration space\, and a brief introduction to flower essences—refined plant allies used in energetic recalibration. \nYou’ll leave with: \n● A deeper understanding of your energetic blueprint\n● Personalized tools to stabilize dominance or submission\n● Clear examples of how each element affects power exchange\n● A live altar-building demo using all four elements\n● An introduction to flower essence support for advanced energetic refinement \nOpen to all roles\, genders\, and experience levels. No prior energy work necessary. \nPart 2:\nThis extended version of Elemental Magic in BDSM deepens your connection to the lunar current—showing you how to layer the energy of the Full Moon into your power exchange practice. \nBuilding on the foundational teachings of Elemental Magic 1.0\, this class integrates lunar timing into your energetic blueprint\, exploring how moon phases can magnify your intention\, alignment\, and clarity in dominance or submission. Whether you’re leading or yielding\, you’ll walk away with tools that strengthen your flow through both chaos and stillness. Includes a live altar demonstration\, Full Moon attunement tools\, and a guided Q&A integration space. \nYou’ll leave with: \n● A full Elemental Magic overview plus advanced moon-based energetic timing\n● Tools to regulate emotional highs and lows within your D/s dynamic\n● A deeper map of intuitive timing\, intention\, and energetic support\n● A live altar-building demo and lunar alignment practices\n● Guidance on how to incorporate flower essences and energetic practices with lunar precision \nPRESENTER: \nMadam Rosie Rose\, the spiritual guide to Dommes\, subs\, and spicy content creators. Owner of Rose Garden of Kink\, a sacred store for the D/s dynamic. She blends energy healing\, flower essence work\, and divination to support power exchange as a path to alignment. Driven by a passion to create safe\, spiritually grounded spaces for healing within BDSM\, kink\, SWer\, and polyamorous communities. \nTICKETING: \n$40-$80 sliding scale for the two-class series. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/93d3228fd1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-full-moon-class-elemental-magic-in-bdsm-a-two-part-series-with-madam-rosie-rose-2/2026-06-30/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260621T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260621T160000
DTSTAMP:20260615T222332Z
CREATED:20260615T222332Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T222332Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Literal Servant Leader with Hannah the Scribe
DESCRIPTION:In this class\, we’ll cover being a successful community leader for those on the right side of the slash. Well talk about overcoming stigma\, leveraging common strengths\, balancing your identity\, managing submission in a dynamic combined with community leadership\, and more. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session. \nPRESENTER: \nHannah the Scribe (she/her) is a 24/7 high protocol service slave/homemaker and lifestyle masochist in an irrevocable consent dynamic. She’s also a Leathergirl\, the author of more than a dozen books\, and a kink educator. She’s the founder of Las Vegas TNG (The Next Generation) and serves on the Board of Directors of the Leather Leadership Conference\, as well as organizing vanilla meetups. She lives in Las Vegas with her Mistress/wife and their two cats. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/717cf0c8e7
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-literal-servant-leader-with-hannah-the-scribe/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260621T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260621T130000
DTSTAMP:20260615T222050Z
CREATED:20260615T222050Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260615T222050Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Daddy Issues: Daddy Dynamics & You A class with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:NOTE: Workshop is accessible to ALL genders of Daddy & sides of the slash….yes\, even subby daddies. We <3 submissive & switchy daddies. This workshop is not necessarily geared towards ageplay or ABDL\, but inclusive of it. \n\nDaddy\, don’t stop! No\, seriously\, dude.\nLearn about Daddy Dynamics in this workshop dedicated to the Daddy who understands from the inside & out (& its not just because their fist is inside me). \nWhat are Daddy Dynamics?\nA Daddy dynamic is a relationship or short-term play where one player is “Daddy” & typically plays a parental or semi-nurturing type figure within the scene or short to long-term dynamics. \n“Daddy” dynamics are HIGHLY influenced by the people involved & the interests in their preferred types of play. Daddies can be scary sadists to submissive sweethearts who want to please their Princex\, Princes\, & Princesses. \nDaddy Dynamics can be everything from light & fluffy to dark & demented…maybe even a mix of both depending on your tastes! \nIn this class\, we’ll dive into:\n\nFiguring out what kind of archetype resonates with you as a Daddy or finding the right Daddy(s)\nFiguring out what type of dynamic works best (ex. Daddy Dom/little\, Princex/daddy sub\, etc.)\nPickup play or short-term dynamics & integrating Daddy elements into play\nKeeping things fresh & healthy in long-term Daddy dynamics\nHow to heal after a dynamic has ended\nIncluding others into dynamics such as other submissives\, Princexes\, & other Care Givers.\nHow any gender can be “Daddy” & what it means to be “Daddy” to someone\n\nWhy Learn From Lady V?\nLady V has been in & out of Daddy/girl dynamics for the last several years. While once swearing up & down she could never call a man “Daddy”\, now EVERYONE’S HER DADDY. \nMany of her dynamics have been everything from long term relationships (LTRs) to occasional play partners to pick up play. Some include submissive daddies to Daddies with strong backhands. \nWhile not currently in a Daddy dynamic\, Lady V still plays with DD/lg & Princess/daddy sub dynamics as a Pro Domme & a lifestyle switch. \n\nDISCLAIMER: We do not advocate for incest or anything in a similar vein. This is only roleplay between consenting adults. Also\, not all of us have Daddy issues because of our biological Fathers\, but thanks for assuming. 🖤\nPRESENTER: \nLady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. You can perv more of her social media & body of work by clicking HERE \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several TICKETING tiers\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a387c84c61
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-daddy-issues-daddy-dynamics-you-a-class-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260617T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260617T210000
DTSTAMP:20260609T023233Z
CREATED:20260609T023233Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260609T023233Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Intro to Dominance/submission (D/s) with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:This workshop will cover types of power dynamics and how to play with them. We will discuss how to create scenes that fulfill your dominance and/or submission fantasies and needs\, as well as what style of D/s works for you. \n\nIntro to kink basics (what is a kink\, what is BDSM\, and everything you need to know to be up to speed)\nPower and intersectionality from a queer perspective\nHow to play with power in an ethical way\nDifferent roles\, kink dynamics and archetypes from a Dom and Sub perspective\n24/7 D/s and D/s relationships\nHow to plan\, negotiate and execute a D/s scene\nTips and ideas to take care of each other and reduce risks and harm\nCommon D/s mistakes and how to avoid them\nD/s scene ideas\nD/s demo\nAftercare in D/s\n\nPRESENTERS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink\, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics\, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression\, and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet\, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \n$30 – $60 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4e387b3413
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-intro-to-dominance-submission-d-s-with-mel-and-memi-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260616T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260616T200000
DTSTAMP:20260609T022733Z
CREATED:20260609T022733Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260609T022733Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda
DESCRIPTION:Attachments are emotional bonds formed in childhood\, and whether we form secure or insecure attachments is dependent upon how our needs for attention\, love\, and growth are met. The patterns set in place carry forward to how we form adult attachments\, including friendships\, romantic partners\, and the bonds of power exchange. \nThis presentation will examine the basics of Attachment Theory\, how attachment styles are expressed\, and how they are manifested in different BDSM identities and roles. The class will also touch on how to encourage secure attachment in ourselves and in our relationships with others. \nPRESENTER: \nSir Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant and kink educator living in the Kansas City metro area. He started his educational journey in 2011\, teaching consent and BDSM basics at the Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) in Seattle\, WA. Sir Panda has served in a variety of roles in the kink community over the last 15 years\, including discussion group facilitator\, event planner and host\, communications director\, house top\, and Program Lead for KinkFest. \nSir Panda has presented classes and workshops for the CSPC\, Wicked Grounds\, Pragmatically Kinking\, the Kink Center\, the Venusian Society\, and Leather Reign. He has been a guest on the podcasts for Erotic Awakening and Interview My Kink. \nSir Panda can be found online as Sir-Panda on FetLife\, RealSirPanda on Instagram and Substack\, and through his educational organization D/s Outreach\, www.dsoutreach.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/eb7f46cad1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-attachment-styles-with-sir-panda/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260610T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260610T210000
DTSTAMP:20260609T011504Z
CREATED:20260609T011504Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260609T011504Z
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SUMMARY:Miriam Green invited you to Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty
DESCRIPTION:Get tickets exclusively on Plura! \n— \nFeeling social pressure to find someone to connect with? \nWe can’t promise love\, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people\, a lot of people\, fast. \nOur purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. \n– Find people with similar kinks as yours. \n– Find people with whom to explore new kinks. \n– Find new friends. \n– Find new people to play with. \n  \nPeople will be separated by appetite\, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. \nThe evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite\, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting\, even if they aren’t your appetite. \nOnce the event has started\, we can not add new people\, so please be on time. \nPRESENTER: \nRyan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade\, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender\, or hosting events at the SF Citadel\, Catalyst\, and of course Wicked Grounds.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/miriam-green-invited-you-to-kinky-speed-friending-with-psychokitty/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260609T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260609T200000
DTSTAMP:20260609T004355Z
CREATED:20260609T004355Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260609T004355Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes\, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene. \nJoin us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about: \n\nNegotiation styles\nPre-scene negotiations\nHow to negotiate without killing the mood\nChecking in during and after the scene\nNegotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics\n\nDrawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c8583cea91
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-negotiation-basics-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260606T184500
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260606T204500
DTSTAMP:20260521T233112Z
CREATED:20260521T233112Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260521T233112Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Kink and Kids: The Many Facets of Practising Kink as Parents with Ancilla L
DESCRIPTION:Amongst the most common questions I receive from people is this oneL how do you balance your sexuality/fetish and being parents? There are many questions about sounds\, exposure\, information and intersection\, and this class aims to cover as many of them as possible: \n\nCommunicating with kids of different ages about the subject.\nSocial\, familial and personal influences on what you can and cannot say.\nHow much do I want my kids to know?\nIdeology versus practice.\nVarious approaches to kink and parenting: Handling disclosure\, boundaries\, preparedness\, discovery etc.\nSecrets versus Boundaries: How to set them.\nThe intersection of parenting and power-exchange: Figuring it out ethically for yourself and your children.\nMarks\, signs\, equipment\, hiding and how to decide where to stand.\nBalancing parental responsibility and play.\nDating a non-parent as a parent (or vice versa) in a kink set-up.\nRepresentation and children: What do visible aspects of your kink say to them?\nAnd much more!\n\nPRESENTER: \nAncilla L is a kink educator\, erotic author and podcaster based in India. She identifies as a polyamorous\, pansexual masochist. She is the founder of Ancillary Kink Support\, a woman\, queer\, and bottom-led educational platform for fetish and BDSM. Her classes focus on depth\, individualised approaches to desire\, research and are primarily experience-based. Ancilla L is also the creator of The Sextbook Initiative\, as part of that she writes stand-alone textbooks on individual fetishes that serve as detailed\, adaptable frameworks. The three titles currently available are The Power-Exchange Sextbook\, The Masochism Sextbook and The CNC Sextbook. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1b831dbc0a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-and-kids-the-many-facets-of-practising-kink-as-parents-with-ancilla-l/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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