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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Blood\, Sweat\, & Fears: The Art and Thrill of Blood Play with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Enter into the visceral and intoxicating world of Blood Play\, where sensation and surrender meet danger and transcendence. From the sharp kiss of spiked implements to the intimate precision of cutting and cupping\, we’ll explore how pain\, pleasure\, and power bleed together. For those who crave the sting\, the drip\, and the rush— this is for you. \nLearn safety essentials\, techniques\, and the dark delicious creativity of drawing blood with intention. Whether you’re a seasoned player or a curious explorer\, come ready to revel in the exquisite agony of broken flesh. Each drop of blood is a story\, a sacrifice\, a thrill. This isn’t just play—it’s art\, ritual\, and raw intensity. \nThere will be an explicit live demo not for the faint of heart \nOpen to all genders\, sexualities\, and experience levels. Come and play! \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8368ce590a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-blood-sweat-fears-the-art-and-thrill-of-blood-play-with-jamie-joy-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260911T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260911T193000
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CREATED:20260825T013650Z
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UID:6708-1789149600-1789155000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:LA: Back to School with Wicked Grounds presented by Killmeat Nick
DESCRIPTION:Wondering what awaits you in the mysterious land of kink and BDSM? Looking to explore\, but not quite sure where to start? How do we differentiate a kink from a fetish? A top from a bottom? How does negotiation work? Bring your questions and queries to this judgement-free space. Let’s unpack our perverse desires with care and curiosity. Learn all the basics in this orientation style class! \nRight before our Wicked Grounds Play Lab! Find out more about this month’s skill share here: https://luma.com/61ukyxbd \nINSTRUCTOR: \nKillmeat Nick (he/they/it/she) is the Events Manager for Wicked Grounds\, educator\, house Dom/Top offering Emcee-ing\, kink tasters\, performance\, and party hosting. Dungeon Monitor with kink-aware CPR and bloodborne pathogen training. A queer trans gender transcend-er\, erotic scholar\, actor\, model\, legacy clown\, and Emotional Support Animal. Entranced by kink via Folsom Street Fair in 2015\, active in the SF Bay Area scene since 2018\, educator since 2021\, and active in the LA scene since 2023. With over 10 years of navigating kink and the queer community\, their direct communication and connection driven practice has developed into a Community Restoration Specialist role. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c06ba2e07c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/la-back-to-school-with-wicked-grounds-presented-by-killmeat-nick/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260914T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260914T200000
DTSTAMP:20260910T005847Z
CREATED:20260910T005847Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Negotiation Skills for subs & Bottoms with Faun
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’re brand-spanking new to the kink scene\, or you’ve been involved for years\, negotiating a new scene or with a new partner can be a daunting concept for kinky submissives and anyone on the lower side of the D/s slash. \nIn this workshop led by a sub with extensive experience Domming\, we’ll examine the do’s and don’ts of effective negotiating communication\, how to navigate the scene\, ways to identify important traits in compatible play partners\, and guide kinksters of all levels and experiences to co-creating the scenes they’ve always wanted to have! \nThere will also be a live demonstration of pick-up play negotiation and an open Q&A at the end. \nPRESENTER: \nFaun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years\, he always felt that something was missing. One day\, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories\, and the rest is history. Now\, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun\, and on Fet as deerfaun. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/7b63ba9036
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-negotiation-skills-for-subs-bottoms-with-faun-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260915T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260915T200000
DTSTAMP:20260910T012519Z
CREATED:20260910T012519Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260910T012519Z
UID:6741-1789495200-1789502400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Arcane D/s: Energetic Feeding and Conscious Inequality with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:When we talk about power exchange in BDSM\, the actual exchange of power is often assumed rather than examined yet it’s a profound force worth exploring. Whether you identify as kinky or not\, consciously shaping the dynamics between people can open doors to life force\, intimacy\, and the energetic dance that lives between individuals or groups. \nIn this class\, we’ll look at both intentional and unconscious power exchange patterns\, why someone might step into them for a night or for a lifetime\, and how these tools can support your magical work\, energetic feeding\, or broader life path. We’ll also bring awareness to astral connections\, accidental bonds\, and the ways these dynamics can veer into harm if left unchecked. Power is power\, and inequality is not inequity – so let’s walk into this conversation with curiosity\, courage\, and our eyes wide open. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/efe54c7dca
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-arcane-d-s-energetic-feeding-and-conscious-inequality-with-lee-harrington/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260919T184500
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260919T204500
DTSTAMP:20260910T015358Z
CREATED:20260731T014719Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Ownership Dynamics with Ancilla L
DESCRIPTION:This class is about ownership as a concept in relationships and as a power-dynamic. Ownership can look different depending on the relationship you are in and can also be a tricky situation to navigate\, so we will cover it from lots of different perspectives: \n\nHow do you view ownership?\nHow does ownership manifest in different power dynamics?\nOwnership as objectification\nOwnership as a component of a dynamic and ownership as the basis.\nHow do you want ownership to look in your dynamic?\nFiguring out the aspects of ownership that work for you.\nIntersections with ownership: CNC\, ESM\, TPE etc.\nThe mechanics of consent in ownership dynamics\nPower and play in ownership dynamics\nCommonly faced issues in ownership dynamics\nNegotiating for ownership\nPsychological and neurological impacts of ownership.\nCare and toxicity in ownership dynamics.\n\nAnd much more! \nPRESENTER: \nAncilla L is a kink educator\, erotic author and podcaster based in India. She identifies as a polyamorous\, pansexual masochist. She is the founder of Ancillary Kink Support\, a woman\, queer\, and bottom-led educational platform for fetish and BDSM. Her classes focus on depth\, individualised approaches to desire\, research and are primarily experience-based. Ancilla L is also the creator of The Sextbook Initiative\, as part of that she writes stand-alone textbooks on individual fetishes that serve as detailed\, adaptable frameworks. The three titles currently available are The Power-Exchange Sextbook\, The Masochism Sextbook and The CNC Sextbook. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d2809f7918
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-ownership-dynamics-with-ancilla-l/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260921T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260921T200000
DTSTAMP:20260910T015703Z
CREATED:20260717T022151Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260910T015703Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: When No Means Yes: Exploring Consensual Non-Consent with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) is an exhilarating and often misunderstood facet of sex and kink. This interactive workshop delves into the psychological dynamics\, ethical considerations\, and practical tools that make CNC play consensual and fulfilling for everyone involved. Together\, we’ll discuss how to negotiate boundaries\, build trust\, and maintain safety while embracing the power of surrender and control. \nLearn how to explore all the diverse styles of CNC play\, including physical resistance\, role play scenarios like kidnapping and interrogation\, orgasm control\, medical fetishes\, coercion\, blackmail\, forced intoxication\, incest play\, cuckholding\, bimbofication\, fuck toys\, service\, seduction\, and more. Whether you’re curious about incorporating CNC into your dynamic or looking to deepen your understanding\, this workshop offers insights and guidance to approach this edge play with confidence and care. Come discover how BDSM can be used as a powerful tool for healing! \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0723e71917
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-when-no-means-yes-exploring-consensual-non-consent-with-jamie-joy/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261001T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261001T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T215841Z
CREATED:20260914T215841Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T215841Z
UID:6776-1790877600-1790884800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Contract Systems with HannahtheScribe
DESCRIPTION:In this class\, we’ll cover how to create and maintain a customizable contract system for power exchange dynamics. We’ll explore how to create a vow/ oath that grants overarching power to your dynamic throughout any changes in details\, recommended things to include in your main contract\, and tips for how to organize it. \nWe’ll also talk about having multiple contracts within your system\, that may cover things like switching\, role play\, special situations\, polyamory\, training\, or projects\, as well as how to officialize not necessarily enforced information. For other important pieces beyond power exchange\, we’ll talk about self contracts. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session. \nPRESENTER: \nHannah The Scribe (she/her) is a 24/7 high protocol service slave/ homemaker and lifestyle masochist in an irrevocable consent dynamic. She’s also a Leathergirl\, the author of more than a dozen books\, and a kink educator. She’s the founder of Las Vegas TNG (The Next Generation) and serves on the Board of Directors of the Leather Leadership Conference\, as well as organizing vanilla meetups. She lives in Las Vegas with her Mistress/wife and their two cats. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3be9d73cd3
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-contract-systems-with-hannahthescribe/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261004T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261004T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T220044Z
CREATED:20260914T220044Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T220044Z
UID:6779-1791136800-1791144000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations - Relationships\, Dynamics\, and Contracts with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Join us for a Kink 201 session exploring negotiating how to think about and create long-term D/s dynamics and kinky relationships that work! We’ll talk about: \n\nSetting your own must-haves and red flags\nNegotiating for play partner relationships\nD/s relationships & contracts\nHow to maintain relationships over time\nAnd more!\n\nBuilding on our negotiation basics\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. \nThis workshop is designed for kinksters with some experience and knowledge of how to negotiate for BDSM play and scenes but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications in ongoing relationships. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for over 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \nTICKETING: \n$20\, $30\, and $40 price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9da4e37f0a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-201-advanced-bdsm-negotiations-relationships-dynamics-and-contracts-with-miriam-green-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261008T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261008T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T220551Z
CREATED:20260914T220551Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T220551Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Sub drop. Top drop. “A case of the Mondays.” \nWhatever we call it\, post-scene drop is frustrating\, irritating\, and isolating. It often makes us question — at least in the moment — what was otherwise an awesome scene. \nWhat is this awful mood we fall into after a scene\, and what the heck can we do about it? \nIn this class\, Miriam Green will draw on what we know about the neuropsychology of BDSM to help us better understand drop\, and build strategies for resilience when we face it. We’ll talk about: \n\nCommon misconceptions about drop\nWhat’s going on in the mind\, brain and body\nMind-body strategies for before\, during and after the scene to help us bounce back\nHow to change our narrative to avoid making drop worse\nThe best ways to effectively communicate after a scene — for good scenes and bad\n\nYou’ll come away with better self-understanding and a self-care toolkit to draw on when drop comes calling. Join us! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/95399eca57
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dealing-with-drop-with-miriam-green-6/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261012T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261012T200000
DTSTAMP:20260924T110238Z
CREATED:20260924T110238Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260924T110238Z
UID:6842-1791828000-1791835200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM Negotiation: From Awkward to Awesome with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Ever felt that pre-scene flutter of nerves when it comes to expressing your boundaries or deepest desires? You’re not alone. But being honest about your desires and voicing them out loud is critical for safe\, hot scenes — and it’s what experienced players will expect from you. \nEffective kink negotiation isn’t always intuitive\, especially when you’re just starting out. But it can be learned\, and we’re going to do just that. \nThis Kink 101 session is designed to transform hesitant conversations into confident\, connection-building dialogues. You’ll walk away with practical tools to ask for exactly what you want\, making your play hotter\, safer\, and incredibly fun. \nWe’ll explore: \n\nNegotiation styles for your own style and voice\nMastering pre-play agreements that set the stage for thrilling scenes\nHow to negotiate without breaking the mood\nNailing communication during and after the scene\nHow to adapt scene negotiations within existing BDSM relationships\n\nThis workshop welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nDrawing on the psychology of peak experiences\, we’ll learn how to collaborate as partners\, using negotiation not as a chore\, but as a powerful act of co-creation. Whether you’re curious about kink\, a relative newcomer\, or a seasoned kinkster looking to sharpen your communication\, you’ll walk away with new perspectives and skills. \nGet ready to navigate your desires with a newfound swagger and make every negotiation count! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/them) has been active in the public kink scene for over twenty years and an instructor for more than twelve\, focusing on communication skills\, impact play\, and advanced kink techniques. As the owner of kink education company Wicked Grounds\, Mir collaborates with dozens of other educators to offer a wide range of classes for kinksters at every stage of their BDSM journey. \nOver the past dozen years\, Mir has taught several hundred BDSM classes through Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Arizona Power Exchange\, Dark Odyssey\, Boundless Events\, and other respected kink organizations and conferences. They particularly enjoy leading intensives\, helping students deepen their kink skills over a day\, weekend\, or multiple weeks online. You can also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with Mir at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/432652ca44
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-negotiation-from-awkward-to-awesome-with-miriam-green-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261017T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261017T130000
DTSTAMP:20260914T224514Z
CREATED:20260914T224514Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T224514Z
UID:6803-1792234800-1792242000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Your Kink Is Not My Kink - But Is Your Kink OK? with Sir Panda
DESCRIPTION:The guideline of “Your Kink Is Not My Kink” (YKINMK) has become foundational in the sex positive and BDSM communities as the standard for acceptance of diversity – and as the gold standard to avoid shaming. But what happens when we struggle with another’s kink\, to the point of becoming judgmental\, disturbed\, or even triggered? \nThis class will review types of play (including edge play) that might “squick” or trigger us\, and why. We’ll examine how to overcome our own biases\, discuss what to report and what not to report\, and how to reach the tolerance of Your Kink Is OK. \nPRESENTER: \nSir-Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant living in the Kansas City metro area. He has been a kink educator since he began teaching consent and BDSM basics at Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture in 2011. He has taught for Fetish Con\, Leather Reign\, the Kink Center\, Pragmatic Kink\, Wicked Grounds\, and the Venusian Society. He especially focuses on the mental and relationship aspects of kink and polyamory\, drawing on over 30 years of experience and a passion for research. \nSir Panda is a Certified Professional Life Coach\, an Accredited Relationship Coach\, a Mental Health First Aider\, a consent advocate\, and a member of the Social Psychology Network. Find him on FetLife as Sir-Panda or Instagram and Substack as RealSirPanda. To learn more or to book a coaching session\, please visit www.dsoutreach.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/939f0b3229
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-your-kink-is-not-my-kink-but-is-your-kink-ok-with-sir-panda/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261020T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261020T210000
DTSTAMP:20260924T112654Z
CREATED:20260924T112654Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260924T112654Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Are You Sure You Want To Do That? Risk Profile: An Introduction! with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:Ever heard the expression ‘risk aware’ and wondered what it means and why we use it so much these days? \nThis workshop explores pleasure\, risk and harm and ways we can navigate decisions to lessen unwanted impact and enjoy wanted risks. \nOur idea is that everyone leaves with a better sense of where they are on the risk spectrum and how they can use the idea of “harm and pleasure management” as well as reflect on how they relate to the possibility of harming/hurting others and/or ourselves. \nWhat the workshop will cover: \n-Introduction to harm\, risk\, and pleasure from different points of view\n-Introduction to the history of harm reduction and why it applies to kink\n-Risk aversion\, risk seeking\, risk acceptance\n-Self consent: why it matters and how we can practice accountability\n-Introduction to risk profiles: What are those? Why do I want one?\n-How to make your own risk profile \nPRESENTERS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink\, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics\, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression\, and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet\, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \n$30 – $60 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/317aaff023
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-are-you-sure-you-want-to-do-that-risk-profile-an-introduction-with-mel-and-memi/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Kink\, Trauma Play\, and Healing: A Research-Informed Deep Dive with Aidan Sunassee
DESCRIPTION:If you have engaged in trauma play in kink\, this class gives you a straightforward way to understand what was happening. Many kink practitioners who work with traumatic experiences through kink recognize the territory but often lack the language to describe it. Some leave a scene feeling steadier\, while others feel more shaken\, largely because no one ever taught them how to name the processes they just went through. People have been working through difficult emotions in kink for a long time\, and research is only now beginning to catch up. \nThis class brings together community insight and current research tidbits to offer a clearer picture of the patterns\, mechanics\, and meanings people often find in trauma play. Without idealizing or pathologizing the practice\, it provides a space to look closely at something many people know intimately and want to finally understand. Join us for a kinky deep-dive\, with plenty of time for questions and chit-chat! \nPRESENTER: \nAidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist\, educator\, researcher\, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware\, grounded in inclusive practices\, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience\, creating spaces where community voices are centered\, respected\, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM\, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA\, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research\, he has developed and led community education programs on kink\, consent\, trauma awareness\, and ethical non-monogamy. \nAt the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8aab075396
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-trauma-play-and-healing-a-research-informed-deep-dive-with-aidan-sunassee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261101T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261214T180000
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SUMMARY:Diving Deep Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires - A Six Week Course with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out\, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \n\n\nEngage in a journey of self-discovery\n\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \nDiscovering and honoring what turns you on \nSafely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism \nTrying new skills in the bedroom and beyond \nDeepening your insights into your own desires \nDisentangling from others’ erotic projections \nFinding your voice and speaking freely \nSharing the desires you’re afraid to voice \n\nAbout Miriam Green\n\nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds\, San Francisco’s leader in BDSM education and community building. \nHow we’ll engage\nThe six week course will run live from November 1 – December 14\, 2026. \nThis class will include six total weeks of content and homework\, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Monday evenings (all recorded for later participation if needed)\, and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.) \nOur three 90-minute live group sessions will be offered via Zoom on Monday\, November 2; Monday\, November 23; and Monday\, December 7 – all at 6pm Pacific time. \nSessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live. \nIs this course for you?\n\nDo you get stuck when asked “what do you want in intimate relationships?”\nAre you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks?\nHave you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism?\nDo you want a deep understanding of the physical and psychological responses you have to kink?\nDo you want to connect deeply with others?\n\nThen yes: this course is for you! \nPrevious students say …\n“Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have\, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years\, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do \nTICKETING: \nhttps://wickedgroundsannex.teachable.com/p/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-your-desires_2026
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-erotic-desires-a-six-week-course-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261130T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261130T200000
DTSTAMP:20261111T205804Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM Negotiation: From Awkward to Awesome with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:BDSM Negotiation: From Awkward to Awesome\nwith Miriam Green\na live and recorded online class from Wicked Grounds\n11/30 6pm Pacific\nAdvance ticketing required to attend live or through the recording. Get yours through Forbidden Tickets or Plura. \nAnd RSVP on FetLife to let friends know you’re coming. \nEver felt that pre-scene flutter of nerves when it comes to expressing your boundaries or deepest desires? You’re not alone. But being honest about your desires and voicing them out loud is critical for safe\, hot scenes — and it’s what experienced players will expect from you. \nEffective kink negotiation isn’t always intuitive\, especially when you’re just starting out. But it can be learned\, and we’re going to do just that. \nThis Kink 101 session is designed to transform hesitant conversations into confident\, connection-building dialogues. You’ll walk away with practical tools to ask for exactly what you want\, making your play hotter\, safer\, and incredibly fun. \nWe’ll explore: \n\nNegotiation styles for your own style and voice\nMastering pre-play agreements that set the stage for thrilling scenes\nHow to negotiate without breaking the mood\nNailing communication during and after the scene\nHow to adapt scene negotiations within existing BDSM relationships\n\nThis workshop welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nDrawing on the psychology of peak experiences\, we’ll learn how to collaborate as partners\, using negotiation not as a chore\, but as a powerful act of co-creation. Whether you’re curious about kink\, a relative newcomer\, or a seasoned kinkster looking to sharpen your communication\, you’ll walk away with new perspectives and skills. \nGet ready to navigate your desires with a newfound swagger and make every negotiation count! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/them) has been active in the public kink scene for over twenty years and an instructor for more than twelve\, focusing on communication skills\, impact play\, and advanced kink techniques. As the owner of kink education company Wicked Grounds\, Mir collaborates with dozens of other educators to offer a wide range of classes for kinksters at every stage of their BDSM journey. \nOver the past dozen years\, Mir has taught several hundred BDSM classes through Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Arizona Power Exchange\, Dark Odyssey\, Boundless Events\, and other respected kink organizations and conferences. They particularly enjoy leading intensives\, helping students deepen their kink skills over a day\, weekend\, or multiple weeks online. You can also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with Mir at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4e35c7c653 \nPlease note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level\, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up! \nIf cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale\, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat. \nACCESS: \nAttend online anywhere via Zoom! To participate\, you will need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class. This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event. \nThis class will be recorded and provided to ticketed attendees the day after the class and will be available to watch for seven days after it is emailed.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-negotiation-from-awkward-to-awesome-with-miriam-green-4/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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