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SUMMARY:SF: Dating While Kinky with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Whether you prefer online dating\, speed dating\, blind dates\, or the million other ways we meet people\, it’s hard enough to be yourself and just get to know the someone — or several someones — best for you. \nAdd a desire for fetish/ kink/ leather/ BDSM to the mix\, and things get even trickier. When do you talk about kink? How do you talk about it? How do you get what you want safely? \nIn this Kink 101 session\, we’ll talk about a variety of strategies for navigating the dating world as a kinkster\, including: \n\nDating resources in the kink community\nOnline dating sites/ apps that work for kinksters\, and a lot that don’t . . .\nHow to navigate those first few crucial dates\nRed flags and green lights to watch for\nBasic negotiations\nChoosing Mx. Right Now\, and Mx. Right\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for twenty years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \n$35 suggested. Sliding scale available for those for whom cost is a barrier to participation. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/13d3b3d440
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-dating-while-kinky-with-miriam-green-2/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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SUMMARY:SF: Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:New to the local public scene? This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on the San Francisco BDSM scene\, and is perfect whether you’re new to kink\, new to the public scene\, or want to learn more about local BDSM play and education. Join us for this quick orientation to the local kink scene. This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the San Francisco kink scene. This class is also a perfect intro to etiquette and protocols if you’re planning to get involved with local play parties and organizations. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for 20 years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They are also the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nTickets: $20 – $50 in advance\, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/11a6c01da9
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-welcome-to-the-sf-bay-area-scene-with-miriam-green-7/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T140000
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LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T004516Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Negotiation Skills for subs & Bottoms with Faun
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’re brand-spanking new to the scene\, or you’ve been involved for years\, negotiating a new scene or with a new partner can be a daunting concept for kinky submissives and anyone on the lower side of the D/s slash. \nIn this workshop led by a sub with extensive experience Domming\, we’ll examine the do’s and don’ts of effective negotiating communication\, how to navigate the scene\, ways to identify important traits in compatible play partners\, and guide kinksters of all levels and experiences to co-creating the scenes they’ve always wanted to have! \nThere will also be a live demonstration of pick-up play negotiation and an open Q&A at the end. \nPRESENTER: \nFaun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years\, he always felt that something was missing. One day\, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories\, and the rest is history. Now\, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun\, and on Fet as deerfaun. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1b04693c63
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-negotiation-skills-for-subs-bottoms-with-faun-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T200000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260331T182124Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T014123Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Making rules\, tasks\, and ongoing protocol is one of the cornerstones of D/s dynamics. But it can be daunting to figure out where to start\, how to create different structures of protocol for different spaces\, and how to maintain the strict container. \nWe’ll go over some tools that help make protocol easier to experiment with and implement\, such as the cartography of control areas\, the protocol game\, and levels of protocol. Ultimately\, protocol is all about creating adjustable\, adaptable guidelines that feed the dynamic and enhance D/s headspace. You’ll come away from this discussion with tools and structure to elevate your protocol in any situation. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ff2cee7972
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-high-protocol-for-d-s-with-sinclair-sexsmith-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260507T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260507T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Seducing Your sub: How to Create Erotic Tension & Keep Your sub Coming Back For More with Marla Renee Stewart
DESCRIPTION:If you’ve been in the D/s world\, you know that some subs can be finicky on their search for the right Dominant. Finding the sub that works for you takes patience\, but most of all it takes the Dominant to pick up on the right cues that would draw the sub in. \nIn this workshop\, you’re going to understand how to use seduction to your advantage to get your subs to not only do what you want when you want it\, but for them to beg you for more attention and more erotic play time. Whether you are a beginner or a professional\, this will help you run the long (and successful) game when it comes to your kinky endeavors. This workshop is for every gender identity and sexual orientation. \nPRESENTER: \nMarla Renee Stewart\, MA\, CSE (she/her) is a 3x award-winning sexologist\, author\, and sexual strategist at Velvet Lips Sex Education. With over two decades in kink\, Miss Marla proudly identifies as a sensual sadist and professional top\, specializing in techniques such as impact play\, breath play\, dirty talk\, and sensual genital torment. Her work centers on empowering erotic autonomy and dismantling sexual shame—especially for Black\, queer\, and kinky communities. As Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference\, Marla co-created the largest BIPOC dungeon in the world\, offering a transformative space for exploration and healing. She also trains therapists\, counselors\, and educators in understanding and supporting the unique needs of Black queer and kinky relationships with cultural competency and care. Through her workshops\, writings\, and fierce advocacy\, Marla continues to lead the movement for sexual liberation with unflinching power and sensuality. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1ca7b17af2
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-seducing-your-sub-how-to-create-erotic-tension-keep-your-sub-coming-back-for-more-with-marla-renee-stewart/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260512T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260512T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes\, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene. \nJoin us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about: \n\nNegotiation styles\nPre-scene negotiations\nHow to negotiate without killing the mood\nChecking in during and after the scene\nNegotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics\n\nDrawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a0f2b6209a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-101-bdsm-negotiation-basics-with-miriam-green-11/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260514T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260514T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Crafting A Psycho-Emotive Ritual Scene with Keiden Bren
DESCRIPTION:Have you been looking to add that sacred element into your kink scenes? Learn how to bring the Woo into your kink scenes with psycho-emotive elements to create deep emotional experiences. In this class we will discuss various elements of sacred sexuality\, what goes into creating ceremony and ritual\, and what a psycho-emotive experience entails to learn how to craft your scene. \nPRESENTER: \nKeiden Bren is a neurodivergent queer kinky pagan artist living with MS. They have a deep passion for identity\, communication\, and language which fuels their desire to create safe spaces for people to just be themselves and to generate learning experiences to grow. With a professional background and volunteer experience in Security and Event Operations\, they have developed a penchant for the technical writing of operations\, policies\, and procedures with a focus on inclusive training and revising outdated content. They have taught classes and lead workshops in various communities on a wide range of topics with a focus on well-being\, connection\, sexuality\, and spirituality. \nIn addition to their work in security and education\, Keiden is also a drummer\, a sacred fire tender\, a member of the Universal Temple of Spirits\, a first-degree initiate in the Stone Circle Wicca tradition\, an ordained Priest by the Order of the Golden Gryphon\, a graduate of Gryphon’s Grove School of Shamanism\, and an honorary member of the Seattle based Night Crew Paranormal Society. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d8a85d204c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-crafting-a-psycho-emotive-ritual-scene-with-keiden-bren/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260515T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260515T210000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260430T021843Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T021843Z
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SUMMARY:Wicked Grounds Play Lab: R&R!
DESCRIPTION:​Wicked Grounds Play Lab: Rope & Restraint!\n​​Play Lab is a kinky skill share\, come indulge in your passions or learn something new!\n​​This month’s topic: Rope & Restraint with Day Dream \n​Rope\, cuffs\, chains\, zip ties\, clothes\, plastic wrap\, and other creative ways to tie and restrain will be available for use\, come and play with us! \n​​An immersive experience for all skill levels. \n​Join us for this community-forward collaborative space where we tackle a different topic each month. \n​​Bring your favorite gear\, tools and toys if you have them. If you don’t have a thing or are just starting out\, bring an open mind and a willingness to soak it all in. \n​​We welcome those of all experience levels! Curious newbies and seasoned kinksters alike can come together to build knowledge and practice in a casual setting. To keep things open to folks at all experience levels\, this space will be both sex positive and sex free. \n​​Our hosts and space monitors will be present to provide assistance and create a safer container for us to play and explore. (If you are an experienced kink practitioner interested in volunteering for free or reduced entry\, contact nick@wickedgrounds.com for vetting.) \n​​Here’s a look at our schedule: \n​6:30: Doors open \n​7:00: Host presentation \n7:15: DOORS CLOSE (Please pre-plan for transport and parking\, see below for more info) \n7:15 – 7:30: Review of rules and guidelines\, toys and gear show-and-tell \n7:30-8: Group negotiation \n​​ 8 – 9: Conversation\, mingling\, practice\, kinky games\, demos\, and more! \n​9:30: Lights on\, clean up\, everyone out! \n​ \n\n\n​​Rules & Guidelines \n\n\n​​Advice and feedback require consent granted unless it is a safety concern\, in which case inform a space monitor or host \n\n\n​​No critique without a compliment\, stay constructive without judgement \n\n\n​​Sex (any sort of hand\, mouth\, genital\, etc. to genital contact with intent to arouse) is not permitted \n\n\n​​We ask that genitals be covered\, however uncovered nipples are permitted \n\n\n​​No phones or photography allowed for the duration of this event \n\n\n​​Voyeurism is permitted\, please watch and expect to be watched! \n\n\n​​FWB space etiquette review \n\n\n\n\n​​ABOUT OUR HOST: \n​Day Dream is a professional pervert and amateur aerialist. She has been tying for four years as a sub-leaning switch and self-suspender. \n​​TICKETING: \n​​Tickets: $30-$50 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \n​​The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \n​​​​We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. \n​​If the regular ticket price is too much\, use code KITTY to take $10 off our regular ticket price. \n​​This event is an inclusive\, queer\, and sex-positive safe space.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/wicked-grounds-play-lab-rr/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260516T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260516T130000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Mindful Brainwashing with Aidan Sunassee
DESCRIPTION:If you have engaged in brainwashing or conditioning in kink\, you have probably spent time wrestling with the implications of your practice. To what extent is it acceptable to deliberately shape someone’s mind\, their responses\, their sense of self? Dynamics built around long-term conditioning carry their own particular stigma\, even within kink communities\, and that stigma makes it harder to think clearly about what’s happening. \nSome people find their way into sustainable\, deeply satisfying dynamics that focus on shaping one partner to the other’s liking\, and then have to reckon with the discomfort that comes with it. How do you talk honestly with someone who is actively being shaped to think in particular ways\, even when they asked for that very change? Some also run into rougher territory\, such as identity confusion or dynamics that started with good intentions and lost the plot somewhere along the way. \nWhile brainwashing is a word often heard in the kink community\, research into influence\, behavior shaping\, and identity is only now beginning to catch up with what communities have been doing for decades. The goal is also to sit with the word brainwashing itself and learn about what it means to each of us\, the history it may carry\, and what about it might be worth reclaiming. \nPRESENTER: \nAidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist\, educator\, researcher\, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware\, grounded in inclusive practices\, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience\, creating spaces where community voices are centered\, respected\, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM\, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA\, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research\, he has developed and led community education programs on kink\, consent\, trauma awareness\, and ethical non-monogamy. \nAt the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/af0f9455c3
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-mindful-brainwashing-with-aidan-sunassee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260517T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260517T130000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260430T022910Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T022910Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Strangers in the Night: Fray Sexuality\, Relationships & YOU! with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:Fray Sexuality is often described as an attraction to new and/or unfamiliar people\, often with little to no interpersonal connection previously. \nBeing Fray Sexual doesn’t mean you can’t have or maintain relationships. It doesn’t mean you’re cold or “not capable of love”. Its just a different layer of how someone is sexually attracted to people & practices their sexuality. \nFray Sexuality is often looked down upon instead of celebrated for what it is. This class helps us understand what Fray Sexuality is\, how to navigate being Fray Sexual\, & how to support a partner who’s Fray. \nJoin Lady V in the messy fray that is Fray Sexuality! In this class we’ll cover: \n\nSetting & maintaining boundaries with primary partners\nGetting needs met and navigating points of safety when getting intimate with strangers\nMaintaining primary & romantic relationships while being fray sexual\nCreating connection points outside of sexuality & romance\nBalancing respect with (sub)conscious objectification\n\nThis class is geared towards fellow fray sexuals\, partners of fray sexuals & the curious! The class is heavily geared toward consensual non-monogamy. \nCan’t make it? Recording available for 7 days! \nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & pro domina. \nUsing her background in film\, Lady V is able to use the power of improv to switch on a dime. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nYou can view more of her work at https://TheLadyV.Net or Fetlife at @‌The_Lady_V. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5d70f380ca
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-strangers-in-the-night-fray-sexuality-relationships-you-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260519T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260519T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Simplest Toybag: Creative Uses for One Rope with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:Tired of lugging around a full toybag? Imagine grabbing a single length of rope and having everything you need for a night of delight. In this class\, we’ll explore how one piece of rope can become a leash\, an improvised whip\, a gag\, a blindfold\, a makeshift vibrator\, a tool for intense sensation play\, and more. Bring a 15-30 foot rope if you’d like to play along and discover how versatile this familiar friend can truly be. Let’s unlock new possibilities and learn fresh tricks with the rope you already love or have just begun to explore. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/693ffb5f25
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-simplest-toybag-creative-uses-for-one-rope-with-lee-harrington/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260520T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260520T200000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260501T010946Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260501T010946Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Blood\, Sweat\, & Fears: The Art and Thrill of Blood Play with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Enter into the visceral and intoxicating world of Blood Play\, where sensation and surrender meet danger and transcendence. From the sharp kiss of spiked implements to the intimate precision of cutting and cupping\, we’ll explore how pain\, pleasure\, and power bleed together. For those who crave the sting\, the drip\, and the rush— this is for you. \nLearn safety essentials\, techniques\, and the dark delicious creativity of drawing blood with intention. Whether you’re a seasoned player or a curious explorer\, come ready to revel in the exquisite agony of broken flesh. Each drop of blood is a story\, a sacrifice\, a thrill. This isn’t just play—it’s art\, ritual\, and raw intensity. \nThere will be an explicit live demo not for the faint of heart \nOpen to all genders\, sexualities\, and experience levels. Come and play! \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8368ce590a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-blood-sweat-fears-the-art-and-thrill-of-blood-play-with-jamie-joy-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260523T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260523T160000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260501T011404Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260501T011404Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Intro to Verbal Humiliation: Off the Cuff\, On Your Knees with Dolly Diatima
DESCRIPTION:Words can sting. Words can seduce. In the right hands\, they can do both at once. \nIn this class\, we will explore verbal humiliation through the lens of improv comedy\, and you’ll learn how to use “yes and” to make them say “yes\, mistress” or “yes\, sir.” Using techniques like commitment\, quick decision-making\, and bold choices\, you will learn how to build connections\, stay in control\, and maintain chemistry. \nThroughout the class\, we will build skills in tone\, pacing\, eye contact\, and volume\, and discuss how to use these tools to create a playful cruelty that feels collaborative and consensual rather than just mean. \nBy the end of the class\, you will be able to move without hesitation\, use your voice without apology\, and create a very special tension that will hum and vibrate throughout your entire dynamic or scene. \nOnce you find your voice\, you won’t want to hold it back. \nPRESENTER: \nDolly Diatima is a Persian American professional dominatrix\, writer\, fetish model\, and lifestyle kinkster. As a nonbinary and neurodivergent sex worker on the ace spectrum\, they offer a unique perspective into kink and sexuality which they work to bring into their sessions as a domme as well as into their writings and classes. They are currently one semester away from a BA in Philosophy and can often be found discussing the intersection of kink and philosophical concepts on their blog. After graduation\, they plan to pursue an AASECT sexuality educator certification. In their spare time\, they enjoy drawing in the pop surrealism style\, watching extreme horror films\, and collecting vintage fashion. They reside in the San Francisco Bay Area with their big beautiful tuxedo cat\, Ligeia. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4f12de7e15
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-intro-to-verbal-humiliation-off-the-cuff-on-your-knees-with-dolly-diatima/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260524T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260524T130000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260501T011734Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260501T011734Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Creating Your Risk Profile with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:The purpose of this workshop is that everyone leaves with a better sense of where they are on the risk spectrum and how they can use harm and pleasure management to minimize unwanted risks. \nWe will have a hands-on approach and go through reflection questions as well as exercises\, while holding space so that everyone can share their own experiences and thoughts. \nWe will also offer extra material so everyone can repeat the process at their own pace and as many times as they need! \nFirst part: \n\nIntroduction to harm\, risk\, and pleasure from different points of view\nIntroduction to the history of harm reduction and why it applies to kink\nPolitics of harm and risk\nRisk aversion\, risk seeking\, risk acceptance\nSome questions to start thinking about how we relate to harm\, risk\, pleasure\, and loss\nSelf-consent: why it matters and how we can practice accountability\n\nSecond part: \n\nIntroduction to risk profiles: What are those? Why do I want one?\nHow to make your own risk profile\nQuestions to explore how risk feels in our body/mind\nExercises to map our own profile\nGroup discussion and sharing\n\nINSTRUCTORS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink\, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics\, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression\, and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet\, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/7372f93a19
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-creating-your-risk-profile-with-mel-and-memi/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260526T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260526T200000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260501T012223Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260501T012223Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Protocol Game with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Creating\, implementing\, and enforcing protocol in M/s dynamics can be hard. But it can be easier. \nCome create your own Protocol Game and create\, implement\, and enforce 52 protocols in the next year. \nIn this workshop\, you’ll learn: how to create a “training wheel” of categories that will drive your protocol\, how to implement new protocol so it actually sticks\, and how to enforce new protocol with the minimum of effort. And you’ll walk away with your own Protocol Game to play. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long-term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6210481ae7
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-protocol-game-with-sinclair-sexsmith/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260527T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260527T200000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260501T012722Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260501T012722Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Creating Energetic Containers for Kink with HG Wyndell
DESCRIPTION:BDSM scenes can bring up powerful energies. Creating a clear container and intention for those energies can help the scene become even more powerful. \nThrough this class\, you’ll discover how to align your play across all your physical and emotional senses to deepen your connection and power. Learn how to call in your own power\, shore up your partner’s power\, align your goals for the scene\, and turn even the simplest scene ideas into powerful engagements. We’ll discuss strategies for simple rituals to open and close our scenes\, helping our scenes have a clear storyline starting with our first ideas\, building momentum\, and ramping up to a strong peak. \nWe will explore: \n\nMindfully setting intentions and goals for our scene\nHow to deeply incorporate myth\, story\, and ritual to build strong stories for play and transformation\nIncorporating language\, symbols\, and supplies to enhance our experience\nCalling in all our physical and emotional senses to support the scene’s story\n\nPRESENTER: \nHG Wyndell is an activist\, educator\, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder\, and in our experience\, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship\, genuine gender expression\, ceremony\, creative arts\, chronic illness\, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f9b8480cba
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-creating-energetic-containers-for-kink-with-hg-wyndell/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260528T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260528T210000
DTSTAMP:20260610T020846
CREATED:20260501T013835Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260501T013835Z
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SUMMARY:Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:5/28 7pm Mountain: Tucson\, CA: Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam Green\nbyWickedGrounds \nSex Magick for Kinksters\nwith Miriam Green\nDesert Dominion\, 3843 East 37th Street Tucson\, Arizona\n5/28 7pm Mountain\nTicketing will be available at the door — please arrive early for ticketing and hanging out before the class! \n— \nThe traditional definition of magick is “the art and science of changing consciousness in conformity with Will.” We could also say it’s a way of moving and transforming energy and perception. In terms of our life work\, magick is a set of tools that allows us to get out of our own way to more effectively do our work in the world. \nThe magickian’s tool kit includes techniques such as ecstatic trance\, symbolic ritual\, polarity work\, breathing techniques\, sensual immersion\, and more. The sex magickian specifically works with the energies raised in solo or partnered play as fuel for their spellwork or life Work. \nThose tools should seem very familiar to us kinksters. You may not be a magickian\, but most of us are playing around in the magickian’s tool kit. \nThis class will explore some basic information on how to understand the potent energies invoked in D/s and S/m. We’ll talk about the nature of the soul\, how to engage the deeper mind\, creating a safe container for a scene\, and what one can do with the energies we raise in BDSM play. Whether you believe in magick\, want to believe in magick\, or think this is all just a fun metaphor for how the mind works\, you are sure to gain new tools and perspectives on BDSM play by attending this class! \nPresenter\nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of kink classes online and in person throughout the Southwestern US. As an initiated witch and ceremonial magickian\, Mir has been teaching to magickal communities since long before teaching on kink. They also are the owner of BDSM and kink education company Wicked Grounds. \nTicketing & Access\nEvent Type – “OPEN TO THE PUBLIC” \nCost of Entry – $5 for Members and Reciprocals | $10 for Non-Members \n\nMust be 18+\nPhoto ID Card required\n\nRefreshments\nDesert Dominion will have bottled water and sodas available for purchase at $0.50 each. Feel free to bring your own snacks or beverages! We also offer free coffee and tea.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sex-magick-for-kinksters-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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