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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Welcome to the Public Kink Scene with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:New to the local public scene? This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on how to get involved with your own local BDSM scene and is perfect whether you’re new to kink\, new to the public scene\, or want to learn more about local BDSM play and education. You’ll learn about scene culture\, reputable resources\, what happens at a play party\, and much more! \nJoin us for this quick orientation on joining your local kink scene- almost anywhere! This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the public kink scene. This class is also an ideal intro to etiquette and protocols if you plan to get involved with local play parties and organizations. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 sliding scale \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6e452a6e7e
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-welcome-to-the-public-kink-scene-with-miriam-green-2/
LOCATION:CA
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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SUMMARY:SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! A hands-on monthly impact playshop!
DESCRIPTION:Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! \nA peer-led skill share to explore impact play \nHosted by @impossiblepain \nSpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play— We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted\, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play\, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them\, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play\, and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction. \n7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!) \n7:15: DOORS CLOSE \n7:15-7:30: Review of rules and guidelines\, toys show-and-tell \n7:30-9: Socialize\, observe\, and practice impact play! \nSpankLab Rules & Guidelines \nFurther explanation will be provided at the event\, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife\, or email eventsassistant@wickedgrounds.com beforehand if you have questions \n\nAsk before touching people\nAsk before touching toys\nAsk before giving feedback\nUse common sense and trust your gut!\nSex-positive space\, not sex-active\nNo phones or photography\nVoyeurism is participation — It’s okay to just watch\nDungeon etiquette review\n\nPRESENTER \nimpossiblepain is an impact switch\, gleeful sadist\, and accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe\, creative\, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021. \nYou are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain \nGROUP \nWant to learn more about SpankLab? Join our new group on FetLife! \nTICKETING \nTickets: $20-$40 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/52293798b0
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-wicked-grounds-presents-spanklab-a-hands-on-monthly-impact-playshop-2/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250510T110000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: An Introduction to Submission with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand your submissive desires more deeply? Do you want to feel confident in what you want and find a Dom that’s right for you? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or still don’t know if submission is your thing\, this workshop is for you. \nPerhaps you have a little experience but the experiences you’ve had so far don’t quite live up to your expectations\, or you want some tips on how to fully embrace your submissive side with a new or existing partner… \nI am welcoming subs/switches of all genders and orientations to this introduction to submission\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the different elements of submission\, how it works\, and how to find a Dom that’s right for you. Topics we’ll cover include: \n\nWhat is a submissive?\nWhat are the benefits of submitting?\nBlocks to submission\nmaking the most of your submissive experience\nSubspace/subdrop\nYour responsibilities as a submissive\nEmbracing your feminine energy\nWhat to look for in a Dom\nSaying “no”\n\nThis workshop will encourage you to think about what you want and feel confident in your kinks. \nMy workshops provide a safe space for open-minded people who are curious to learn more about BDSM practices. \nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but the level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience in the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events\, and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/360107486f
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-an-introduction-to-submission-with-sarah-butcher/
LOCATION:CA
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250511T110000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Domination 101 with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be getting the results you desire\, this workshop is for you! \nI am welcoming Dominants/switches of all genders and orientations to The Art of Domination\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the basics of Domination\, how it works\, and how to find and create a fulfilling D/s dynamic with a partner whose kinks align with yours. Topics we’ll cover include: \n\nWhat is a Dom?\nQualities of a good Dominant\nBlocks to Domination & confidence building\nStepping into your masculine energy\nWhat type of Dominant are you?\nYour Dominant responsibilities\nLimits\, safewords & aftercare\nFinding the right submissive\nTraining your submissive\nTaking on board feedback\n\nThis workshop will encourage you to really think about your desires and reflect on how to adapt your Dominant style to get the most out of your BDSM experiences. \nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5eba3348fc
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-domination-101-with-sarah-butcher/
LOCATION:CA
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250514T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250514T210000
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SUMMARY:SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty
DESCRIPTION:Get tickets exclusively on Plura! \n— \nFeeling social pressure to find someone to connect with? \nWe can’t promise love\, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people\, a lot of people\, fast. \nOur purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. \n– Find people with similar kinks as yours. \n– Find people with whom to explore new kinks. \n– Find new friends. \n– Find new people to play with. \n  \nPeople will be separated by appetite\, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. \nThe evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite\, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting\, even if they aren’t your appetite. \nOnce the event has started\, we can not add new people\, so please be on time. \nPRESENTER: \nRyan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade\, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender\, or hosting events at the SF Citadel\, Catalyst\, and of course Wicked Grounds. \nACCESS: \nIn SF\, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. \nPlease do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave\, regardless of vaccination status.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-kinky-speed-friending-with-psychokitty-3/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250522T190000
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SUMMARY:SF: Getting Started with Rope Bondage Pt 1 with PsychoKitty
DESCRIPTION:Have you seen people pulling out rope for a bondage scene\, and it looks fun but overwhelming? This class is perfect for you. \nWe will talk about how to choose the best rope for particular bondage styles\, including samples of rope types to feel and explore the different advantages they offer. \nWe will work on some fundamental ties that can get you started\, like single and double-column ties. And most importantly\, the good places on the body to put rope. \nWant to learn even more? We’ll have a Part 2 on 6/17 6:30 PM! Tickets here: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3f0e849c37 \nPRESENTER: \nRyan PsychoKitty is a performance artist and improv actor\, starting at the Annoyance Theater of Improv of Chicago in the late 90s and has performed in New York\, San Francisco\, London\, Kobe\, and Osaka\, with performance images in Skin Two. He has presented classes at the SF Citadel\, Shibaricon\, TNG4\, Boundless\, and others. \nHe is the host of the new Dirty Talk Game Show here in San Francisco\, a former host of Shibaricon in Chicago\, is one of the founders of Wicked Grounds Kink Café and Boutique. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/36cd71fcf8
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-getting-started-with-rope-bondage-pt-1-with-psychokitty/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250524T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250524T160000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Budget Friendly BDSM: Big Kink\, Small Budget with Princess Rara
DESCRIPTION:Think kink has to come with a hefty price tag? Nope. In this fun and approachable workshop\, you’ll discover how to turn everyday items from your home\, office\, or even the dollar store into tools for play. No fancy toys required—just a little creativity and curiosity. \nEveryday Kink Magic:\nExplore how common household items—like spatulas\, scarves\, or clothespins—can be transformed into playful tools for impact\, restraint\, sensation\, and more.\nLearn to spot the kinky potential in the things you already own. \nUsing Pervertibles Responsibly:\nGet tips on prepping\, cleaning\, and maintaining household items so they’re ready for repeated kinky fun.\nLearn how to incorporate pervertibles into your scenes with clear communication and enthusiastic agreement. \nPractical Applications:\nGet tips on prepping\, cleaning\, and maintaining household items so they’re ready for repeated kinky fun.\nLearn how to incorporate pervertibles into your scenes with clear communication and enthusiastic agreement. \nCreative Inspiration:\nDiscover fun\, imaginative ways to bring pervertibles into your scenes—from playful punishment games to spicy roleplay scenarios that make the most out of what’s already in your drawers. \nInteractive Learning:\nLearn new ideas to spark your creativity and add excitement to your dynamic without blowing your budget. \nBudget Friendly BDSM proves that you don’t need expensive gear to enjoy kink—you just need a bit of imagination and a willingness to play. \nPRESENTER: \nPrincess Rara (she/her) is a seasoned sadomasochist with nearly a decade of experience in the kink community. As the founder of the Pink Kink Podcast\, she is dedicated to providing essential education and guidance in the world of kink\, focusing on both foundational and advanced topics. Rara’s classes cover a wide range of subjects\, including consent\, risk management\, specialized kink dynamics\, long-distance relationships\, practical skills\, and successfully integrating into the kink community. \nShe is committed to fostering a safe and inclusive environment for exploring BDSM. Rara shares her expertise at major events such as Dark Odyssey Winter Fire\, Studio 58’s Naughty conventions\, Black Rose Education\, Kink School\, and Reign of Fire. In the DC area\, she contributes actively as a munch host\, Demo/House Top\, occasional Pro Domme\, and party host in her private dungeon. Through her diverse roles\, Rara empowers kinksters to communicate effectively\, assert themselves confidently\, and prioritize consent throughout their kink experiences. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/38177384f3
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-budget-friendly-bdsm-big-kink-small-budget-with-princess-rara/
LOCATION:CA
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250531T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250531T130000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Consent\, Accountability\, and Neurodivergence: Pt 1 with Adam and Draven
DESCRIPTION:This class has been extended into 2 parts! It is not required to attend both\, merely recommended. Here is the link for the other: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/79b286fdcf \nHow does neurodivergence affect consent mistakes\, incidents\, and violations? How does it affect boundaries\, grappling with hurt and harm (and discerning between the two)\, and accountability at the personal\, interpersonal\, and community levels? \nIn this participatory workshop\, we will dive into these questions with case studies and real-life examples. We’ll look through a trauma- and disability justice-informed lens\, and talk about common patterns\, subjective interpretations\, ascriptions\, and communication–based on neurotypes\, socialization\, and lived experience. There will be opportunities for community members to share their experiences. \nINSTRUCTORS: \nAdam is a community organizer\, mediator\, conflict transformation facilitator\, kink and consent educator\, and ongoing learner. Their passions lie at the intersections of disability justice\, neurodivergence accessibility\, trauma-informed care\, consent\, embodied somatics\, harm reduction\, and systems transformation. They desire to help people relate in safer\, skillful ways that are trauma-\, power-\, and risk-informed. Adam is an educator with several groups including The Consent Academy\, advocating for consent from the individual level to the systemic. They do consent and accountability work in many contexts and community spaces\, from organizing spaces to the sex+ world. Adam sees this work as intersectional\, directly connected to the better\, more liberatory world they want to live in. \nDraven is a Trauma-Informed Sexuality Educator with Dynamic Education and Counseling and a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality student at the California Institute of Integral Studies. From a playful and authentic base\, Draven weaves research and stories to teach individuals how to process one’s trauma with themselves while being supported by a therapist. While teaching\, they knit stories in to include intersectional identities and how oppressive systems affect individuals and communities. As a Trauma-Informed Sexuality Educator\, Draven coaches neurodivergent individuals/couples/polycules\, provides trauma processing groups and conducts a variety of workshops on healthy sexuality. Draven also volunteers at The Consent Academy as a Consent Educator and at Queer Space as the Founder and LGBTQ+ Liaison. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d282fb12c9
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LOCATION:CA
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