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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:So — what’d you do this year to move your kink journey forward? Join Sinclair in this workshop and do some reflection about where you have been\, who you met\, what scenes you had\, what you learned\, and how you engaged with community. \nLooking back at this past year in your kink life can point you toward what you want to change or focus on for this next year — so we’ll use our reflections to make some goals\, ideas\, bucket list\, or bingo card for next year. Sinclair will bring plenty of ideas and worksheets for you to reflect on your year\, and plan the one ahead. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8e134f7b41
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-your-year-in-kink-with-sinclair-sexsmith/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251229T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251229T200000
DTSTAMP:20251029T023635Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: When No Doesn't Mean No: Negotiation and Communication for Consensual Nonconsent with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:How do you keep yourself safe when you want to feel you’re in real danger? How do you push someone past their breaking point and still leave room to repair the damage? Is there a way to forego hard limits and safewords and stay ethical in play? When you start to play on the edges of consent\, everything becomes a little bit trickier. \nIn this class\, vahavta draws on her experiences and stories from a decade years in a 24/7 consensual non-consent (“CNC”) relationship\, sharing tips and strategies for developing and staying within a personal risk profile\, playing with triggers\, communicating in-scene without “breaking character\,” and dealing with cognitive dissonance (“did I really want that?”) in drop. We will explore the mental and physical considerations and contingency plans needed to enter a CNC environment\, based on the desires and boundaries expressed by both bottoms and tops. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey eight years ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and Israel along the way. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service and is often found sporting large bruises\, writing\, or enjoying a good beer. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/34419a147c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-when-no-doesnt-mean-no-negotiation-and-communication-for-consensual-nonconsent-with-vahavta/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260103T150000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260103T170000
DTSTAMP:20251210T023012Z
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SUMMARY:SF: This is Your Brain on Kink. (Any Questions?) with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:While our relationships with kink are deeply personal and sometimes idiosyncratic\, the neuroscience of peak experiences can tell us a lot about what we all have in common. Learning about what happens in our brains when we play can lead to better communication and better scenes. \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \n\nThe four major neurotransmitters behind building a kink headspace\nHow and why edgeplay makes even well-planned scenes less predictable\nHow to stay in communication before\, during\, and after each scene\nWhat to know when negotiating for relationships\nThe causes of post-scene drop\, and how to deal with drop when it occurs\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com \nTICKETING: \nTickets: $20 – $50 in advance\, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b4ab3274d4
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-this-is-your-brain-on-kink-any-questions-with-miriam-green/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260106T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260106T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations - Relationships\, Dynamics\, and Contracts with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Join us for a Kink 201 session exploring negotiating how to think about and create long-term D/s dynamics and kinky relationships that work! We’ll talk about: \n\nSetting your own must-haves and red flags\nNegotiating for play partner relationships\nD/s relationships & contracts\nHow to maintain relationships over time\nAnd more!\n\nBuilding on our negotiation basics\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. \nThis workshop is designed for kinksters with some experience and knowledge of how to negotiate for BDSM play and scenes but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications in ongoing relationships. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \nTICKETING: \n$20\, $30\, and $40 price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/86f4d4654a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-201-advanced-bdsm-negotiations-relationships-dynamics-and-contracts-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260108T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260108T200000
DTSTAMP:20251125T025444Z
CREATED:20251125T025444Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251125T025444Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Sub drop. Top drop. “A case of the Mondays.” \nWhatever we call it\, post-scene drop is frustrating\, irritating\, and isolating. It often makes us question — at least in the moment — what was otherwise an awesome scene. \nWhat is this awful mood we fall into after a scene\, and what the heck can we do about it? \nIn this class\, Miriam Green will draw on what we know about the neuropsychology of BDSM to help us better understand drop\, and build strategies for resilience when we face it. We’ll talk about: \n\nCommon misconceptions about drop\nWhat’s going on in the mind\, brain and body\nMind-body strategies for before\, during and after the scene to help us bounce back\nHow to change our narrative to avoid making drop worse\nThe best ways to effectively communicate after a scene — for good scenes and bad\n\nYou’ll come away with better self-understanding and a self-care toolkit to draw on when drop comes calling. Join us! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/81e7134fd0
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dealing-with-drop-with-miriam-green-4/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260110T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260110T130000
DTSTAMP:20251125T030043Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them with Hardy Haberman
DESCRIPTION:Sacred cows make the best burgers. \nA frank and honest discussion of what is being called “old Guard” protocols and the myths and reality surrounding them. Provocative and entertaining\, this interactive program brings years of experience and a grasp of the true history of Gay Leather Culture into focus. \nPRESENTER: \nHardy Haberman is from Dallas\, Texas. He has been active in the leather community since the mid-70’s\, and a member of many BDSM and Fetish organizations including Dallas Motorcycle Club\, NLA-Dallas and a founding member of Inquisition-Dallas. \nConsidering himself a “Pain Technologist\,” he specializes in CBT and has an unusual fondness for clips clamps and clothespins\, as well as more esoteric SM play. Professionally he is a semi-retired marketing specialist and filmmaker. His documentary on the leather lifestyle “LEATHER” has won numerous awards and appeared in festivals around the world\, and his latest film\, “Out of the Darkness\, The Reality of SM” is currently being used by healthcare professionals around the world. \nOutside work\, he is a gay activist\, author & speaker on aspects of the SM/Leather scene. His books “The Family Jewels\, A guide to male genital play and torment” published by Greenery Press and “More Family Jewels”\, Playing With Pain” And “Soul of a Second Skin” published by Nazca Plain. His latest book “Shouts in the WIlderness\, Daily Meditations for Leatherfolk” is currently available on amazon.com. He also writes a regular column in the Dallas Voice newspaper. \nHe was awarded NLAI’s Man of the Year award in 1999 and the NLA-I Lifetime Achievement award in 2007. He received the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Leather Leadership award.He has also been honored to be a Judge at both IML and ILSb. \nHe previously served as co-chair of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation in Washington\, DC. \nHe and his boy Patrick have lived together in Dallas for the past 30 years with numerous cats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0572b8546a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-old-guard-protocols-and-why-you-dont-need-them-with-hardy-haberman/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260115T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260115T200000
DTSTAMP:20251210T032450Z
CREATED:20251210T032450Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251210T032450Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: WTF is Relationship Anarchy? with Laura Boyle
DESCRIPTION:Relationship Anarchy has gained in public awareness in recent years – but not without the generation of myths and misunderstandings about this philosophy of engaging in relationships. \nJoin Laura Boyle for a 90-minute workshop wherein she will: \n\nBust some of those myths\nDefine and give the history of relationship anarchy\, including contextualizing it with political anarchist movements\nBriefly look at the RA Manifesto\nDiscuss the practicalities of relating from the basis of this philosophical framework\, using her own experiences as well as those of others who have given permission to share their stories during this workshop. (what does it really mean to individually build your relationships from an RA lens? Do we get a smorgasbord worksheet out every time we make a new acquaintance? What about when we want commitments and stability with partners? Hasn’t Laura been with one of her partners for nearly a decade?)\nConsider whether Relationship Anarchy is a kind of polyamory\, or even rightly a kind of non-monogamy\, and how we contextualize that question\nLook at the positives to an RA approach to relating\nand answer audience questions.\n\nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a relationship coach\, educator\, and author of Monogamy? In this Economy? Finances\, Childrearing\, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory. She’s the voice behind the Ready for Polyamory blog and podcast\, and has been an expert voice on polyamory in such publications as The Boston Globe and Cosmopolitan. She’s been polyamorous for nearly 20 years and has been teaching since 2018. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/02c6d3f3b3
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-wtf-is-relationship-anarchy-with-laura-boyle/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260117T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260117T130000
DTSTAMP:20260102T024935Z
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LAST-MODIFIED:20260102T024935Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Ass to Grass: Fitness as a Tool of Domination with MF Dom
DESCRIPTION:Fitness is a multi-layered practice with benefits that extend far beyond aesthetics\, and in many ways\, kink operates the same way. Both can be tools for healing\, transformation\, power exchange\, and sensual exploration. The body’s responses to movement\, pleasure\, strain\, endorphins\, and challenge can be intentionally woven into kink to build richer\, more connected scenes or even empower a thriving 24/7 D/s dynamic. \nThis class explores how to integrate fitness principles with kink play. We will use the gym\, free weights\, bodyweight training\, conditioning\, and mobility work to prepare both doms and subs to experience kink through a heightened physical\, emotional\, and erotic lens. \nPRESENTER: \nMF Dom: Dominant | Educator | 8 Years Experience \nDominance is more than control; it’s an experience in trust. How do we set up a scene that allows the sub to trust you with whatever will happen next? How do we create and acknowledge boundaries and ensure they will be respected so that within them you both can revel in the pleasure of suspense\, pain\, and tension? With eight years of practice in BDSM\, MF Dom brings a grounded\, intentional approach to power exchange that gets you both there by balancing intensity with care. \nMF Dom specializes in impact play\, wax play\, electro play\, and aftercare. He guides partners and students through the physical and emotional rhythms of trust\, sensation\, and release. His demonstrations and lessons emphasize safety\, consent\, and connection\, inviting others to explore the power of awareness and touch. \nWhether leading a workshop or curating a scene\, MF Dom’s presence reminds participants that true dominance isn’t about taking\, it’s about both partners giving each other a mind-blowing experience built with trust and respect. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/94c9c2ddc0
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-ass-to-grass-fitness-as-a-tool-of-domination-with-mf-dom/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260117T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260117T160000
DTSTAMP:20251210T030243Z
CREATED:20250925T222944Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Busting the Binary In Your Energy Play with Keiden Bren
DESCRIPTION:Have you ever felt that something “extra intense” in a scene or a sexy moment that ebbs and flows like a wave\, and want to learn how to make that happen intentionally? Do your ears perk up at the words energy\, intention\, or magic? Are you drawn to explore where kink and sacred meet? \nThis class is for you if: \n– You’re curious about energy play and want to learn the basics\n– You want to learn some practical exercises to deepen the intensity of connection with others\n– You would like to include energy play/exchange in your kink negotiations and play \nLet’s talk about the basics of energy play in a real and down to earth way to learn how to navigate with\, in\, and around the flow. We will also discuss some ethical considerations of energy play and exchange. You will leave class with a few new connection exercises to deepen an experience with a partner(s) and the knowledge of how to weave your energies together. \nPRESENTER: \nKeiden Bren is a neurodivergent queer kinky pagan artist living with MS. They have a deep passion for identity\, communication\, and language which fuels their desire to create safe spaces for people to just be themselves and to generate learning experiences to grow. With a professional background and volunteer experience in Security and Event Operations\, they have developed a penchant for the technical writing of operations\, policies\, and procedures with a focus on inclusive training and revising outdated content. They have taught classes and lead workshops in various communities on a wide range of topics with a focus on well-being\, connection\, sexuality\, and spirituality. \nIn addition to their work in security and education\, Keiden is also a drummer\, a sacred fire tender\, a member of the Universal Temple of Spirits\, a first-degree initiate in the Stone Circle Wicca tradition\, an ordained Priest by the Order of the Golden Gryphon\, a graduate of Gryphon’s Grove School of Shamanism\, and an honorary member of the Seattle based Night Crew Paranormal Society. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c5dc963941 \nWe offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing. \nZoom now provides closed captioning\, which will be available for this event.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-busting-the-binary-in-your-energy-play-with-keiden-bren/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T130000
DTSTAMP:20260102T025159Z
CREATED:20260102T025159Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260102T025159Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Rules and Rituals for Power Play with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:BDSM goes way beyond a spank\, a choke and a hair pull\, so forget the fluffy handcuffs because in this workshop\, we will go beyond the surface to explore the powerful tools which are rules and rituals. \nWherever you are in your kink journey\, rules and rituals can provide a new and exciting way to incorporate power play into your kinky relationship or dynamic. In this workshop\, you will discover the psychological side of BDSM & Kink\, and how you can incorporate it into your play sessions to deepen your connection and go beyond bondage. \nWe will cover: \n\nThe roles of Dominant & submissive\nWhat are rules & rituals\nWhy use them?\nNegotiation and communication\nYour kinky love language\nHow to include rules & rituals into your play/lifestyle\n\nSingles\, couples and more welcome. All you need is yourself and an open mind. \nPlease note this is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework\, but the level of participation depends on what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/99d8bdd4b9
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-rules-and-rituals-for-power-play-with-sarah-butcher-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T160000
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UID:5974-1768744800-1768752000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Archetypes of Power & Surrender: A Two Part Series with FireOnTheMtnTop / Sir Scott and Lecee
DESCRIPTION:This is a two-part class to build on your skills! We’ll meet on both 1/18 and 1/29. \n🔥 BDSM isn’t just play—it’s transformation. 🔥 \nIn this evocative and powerful two-part online series\, you’ll explore the deep currents of power\, submission\, polarity\, shadow\, and ritual through the lens of archetypes. These aren’t roles you act out—they’re energies that move through you. Sacred. Primal. Mythic. \nWhether you’re Dominant\, submissive\, Switch\, or still finding your way\, this class offers an unforgettable map of the 18 core archetypes that shape how we love\, lead\, surrender\, resist\, and transform in kink. \nYou’ll get: \n\nA custom Archetype Quiz to identify your dominant energetic patterns\nA guided tour through each archetype’s essence\, shadow\, and ritual signature\nA set of archetype one-pagers for self-study and scene inspiration\nFrameworks for polarity pairing\, energy mapping\, and transformation scenes\nJournaling\, reflection\, and optional integration rituals between sessions\n\n✨ This is not a 101 class. This is for those ready to meet themselves in the fire. Expect laughter\, tears\, archetypal awakenings\, and mythic-level “aha” moments. \nSession One (Jan 18): \n\nIntroduction to archetypes in kink and power exchange\nHow to read and interpret your quiz results\nOverview of the 18 archetypes and their core patterns\nExploration of polarity\, projection\, and sacred role resonance\nJournaling + guided prompts\n\nSession Two (Jan 29): \n\nDeep-dive into selected archetypes based on quiz responses\nPairing dynamics: sacred matches\, mirrors\, challengers\nHow to build scenes and rituals based on archetypal energies\nIntegration practices\, shadow work\, and transformation pathing\nFinal collective invocation\n\nPresented by Sacred Fire Kink — where submission is a sacrament\, and Dominance is a vow. \nPRESENTERS: \n🔥 Scott – “FireOnTheMtnTop” \nScott is a lifestyle Dominant\, Sadist\, Daddy\, and Primal Edge Player with over 18 years in the kink community. He’s a founding Director of G.O.D.S.\, creator of Colorado KNKE Kinky Camping\, and a seasoned Dungeon Monitor\, lifestyle event Emcee\, and presenter. \nAs a Dominant\, Scott teaches that leadership in kink is sacred work—rooted in care\, emotional safety\, and integrity. He’s known for creating grounded\, real-world conversations about power and play that help people feel seen\, strong\, and turned on by their truth. \n✨ Lecee \nLecee is the “yin” to Scott’s Dominant fire—his little “s.” She’s been active in the lifestyle for 8 years and brings playful insight\, emotional wisdom\, and lived experience as a submissive. \nTogether\, she and Scott co-create containers that are intimate\, brave\, and authentic. Her presence helps others feel permission to explore new desires\, embrace vulnerability\, and rewrite the old stories they were told about sex\, surrender\, and and worthiness. \nTICKETING: \n$40-$80 sliding scale for the two-class series. \nPlease pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/232616f81a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-archetypes-of-power-surrender-a-two-part-series-with-fireonthemtntop-sir-scott-and-lecee-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260121T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260121T200000
DTSTAMP:20260102T034715Z
CREATED:20260102T034715Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260102T034715Z
UID:5981-1769018400-1769025600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Switchinatrix: Harnessing Your Power as a Switch with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:Switchinatrix is a class that is an exploration into authentically celebrating your “unconventional” self to enjoying kink & intimacy from every angle! Being switchy or versatile allows us to have so many different roles & experiences! Why be just a Top when you can be EVERYTHING (or whatever you want to be)? \nThis class helps us manifest & embody our power as switches in being able to get the most out of our relationships\, dynamics\, & sex lives by going into: \n\nSwitching within relationships & power exchange dynamics\nExploring different headspaces & personas\nSwitching simultaneously with partners\nBreaking down & moving past stigma in the community & dating\n& so much more!!\n\nWe will discuss how these expansive roles can work within our TPE dynamics & relationships & how we can fulfill the different needs of partners & ourselves…like switching with your Domme (scary\, I know. You’ll survive & thrive!). \nThis class is aimed at people in all roles & dynamics\, not just our switchy friends & partners. \nPRESENTER: \nLady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & Professional Switchinatrix. \nUsing her background in film\, Lady V is able to use the power of improv to switch on a dime. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b389e9f0e1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-switchinatrix-harnessing-your-power-as-a-switch-with-lady-v-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260124T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260124T160000
DTSTAMP:20260115T230715Z
CREATED:20260115T230715Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260115T230715Z
UID:5995-1769263200-1769270400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Protocols in the Vanilla World with Rio and Marilyn
DESCRIPTION:How do you handle the protocols in your hierarchical relationship when you’re with non-kinky people – relatives\, vanilla friends\, children\, co-workers\, and the like? In this class we’ll discuss the implications of exercising your protocols in vanilla space\, prioritizing which protocols you most wish to keep and in which situations\, and different strategies around handling those protocols. \nPRESENTERS: \nMarilyn and Rio\, Mistress and collared slave\, served as Northwest Master and slave 2023. Marilyn is a Master\, a sadist who likes to play very hard\, and a control freak with an intense blood lust. Rio is a butch leatherdyke\, a knife fetishist\, a hopeless romantic\, and is obsessed with service. \nTheir home club is the Exiles\, where they spent many years as officers. They are also active in MAsT San Francisco\, where Marilyn is the Director. Rio is currently the Secretary of the San Francisco Bay Area Leather Alliance\, and served as Ms. San Francisco Sober Leather in 2016. Together and separately they have taught\, judged\, MC’d\, tallied\, and sung at many events across the country\, including Northwest Leather Celebration\, Southeast Leatherfest\, Southwest Master/slave Contest\, International Ms. Leather/Ms. Bootblack\, Leather Leadership Conference\, the Folsom Street Fair\, and more. And they delight in welcoming people into the M/s\, leather and kink communities. \nIn her non-kink life Marilyn is a computer professional with two adult gender-variant children\, and is active at her synagogue. Rio is a career bookseller\, a published author\, and an award-winning painter. But nothing makes her happier than to be naked at home serving her Mistress. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c38eb59f3c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-protocols-in-the-vanilla-world-with-rio-and-marilyn/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260126T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260126T200000
DTSTAMP:20260121T005818Z
CREATED:20260121T005818Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T005818Z
UID:6010-1769450400-1769457600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Creating Paw-sitive Experiences: Puppy Play 101 with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:Step into an area of BDSM where the boundaries of identity and instinct blur. I welcome you to experience life from a different perspective not simply through human eyes\, but through the playful\, carefree lens of a dog’s spirit. Allow this to be your gateway to exploring a unique and liberating form of role-play that transcends the conventional. \nImagine stepping into a class that vibrates with energy and curiosity\, where the atmosphere is as inviting as a romp in the park. Whether you are a new pup eager to explore playful antics\, or a curious handler seeking to understand and nurture this dynamic\, this class is expertly designed to cater to all levels of interest and skills. \nBegin your journey by discovering the breed of dog that resonates with your inner pet persona. Does the keen loyalty of a Golden Retriever call to you\, or is it the independent\, adventurous spirit of a Husky that excites your sense of self? Each breed brings its own set of characteristics and quirks\, and learning to incorporate these into your play can provide a deeper connection to your inner animal. \nFrom sleek leather collars to ears that perk with delight\, the right accessories can enhance your time and help affirm your identity within this arena. Puppy play is not just about solitary exploration; it thrives on connection and relationships. What does puppy play offer the handler? This question is thoroughly explored\, revealing how handlers benefit from this unique relationship through empowerment\, control\, and a nurturing aspect that adds depth to their interactions. \nFurther conversations to be had will include: \n\nDiscover ways to deepen the bond between partners with this type of play\nEnsuring consent throughout your experience when one partner is nonverbal\nNavigating the complex yet rewarding process of training your dog\nHow this kind of play can seamlessly be integrated in D/s dynamics\nThe possible gear that complements and expresses your newfound interest\nExploring the psychological implications of pet play\nLive demonstrations to see these practical skills in action\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee comes from a queer\, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist\, BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Certified Hypnotist\, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach\, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University\, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses\, spicy digital guides\, clothing\, aftercare items\, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications\, been hired as an expert for various media outlets\, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play\, sex magic\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, sadism\, bedroom skills\, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter\, safer\, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality. \nTo view her full offerings\, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9cad6f7a8a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-creating-paw-sitive-experiences-puppy-play-101-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260127T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260127T200000
DTSTAMP:20260121T031947Z
CREATED:20260121T031947Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T031947Z
UID:6013-1769536800-1769544000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Making rules\, tasks\, and ongoing protocol is one of the cornerstones of D/s dynamics. But it can be daunting to figure out where to start\, how to create different structures of protocol for different spaces\, and how to maintain the strict container. \nWe’ll go over some tools that help make protocol easier to experiment with and implement\, such as the cartography of control areas\, the protocol game\, and levels of protocol. Ultimately\, protocol is all about creating adjustable\, adaptable guidelines that feed the dynamic and enhance D/s headspace. You’ll come away from this discussion with tools and structure to elevate your protocol in any situation. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/dbdb8a6970
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-high-protocol-for-d-s-with-sinclair-sexsmith-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260131T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260131T160000
DTSTAMP:20260121T033300Z
CREATED:20260121T033300Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T033300Z
UID:6018-1769868000-1769875200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Used & Abused: The Art of Erotic Objectification with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Erotic Objectification is a deeply charged facet of kink that centers power\, identity\, and desire through transformational play. This workshop dives into the deliciously dehumanizing world of becoming a thing — and how that experience can unlock profound connection and catharsis. \nTogether\, we’ll explore the psychological landscape of objectification\, how to negotiate boundaries\, design roles and scenes that are both hot and affirming\, and bring fantasies to life while embracing the healing power of surrender and control. \nGet ready to explore a wide range of objectification styles including toys\, tools\, holes\, props\, dolls\, displays\, furniture\, urinals\, ashtrays\, bimbos\, property\, and more!\nWhether you’re longing to be used or yearning to use someone well\, this workshop offers interactive exercises and explicit live demos to help you approach objectification with confidence\, creativity\, and care. Come discover how reducing someone to an object can build the deepest trust — and the dirtiest scenes. \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/da16d45717
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-used-abused-the-art-of-erotic-objectification-with-jamie-joy/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260205T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260205T210000
DTSTAMP:20260122T023125Z
CREATED:20260122T023125Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260122T023125Z
UID:6036-1770318000-1770325200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: Kinky Queer Speed Friending/ Dating/ Whatever Jumpstart Your Valentine's Shenanigans with @GreenMir and @impossiblepain
DESCRIPTION:You know that feeling when you meet a hot queer and you can’t tell if you want to kiss them\, go directly to the U-Haul rental\, or stay up all night talking about a shared interest? Queer relationships can be deliciously fluid\, defying categorization. \nJust in time for Valentine’s Day\, @GreenMir and @impossiblepain bring you a speed friending/ dating/ whatever for kinky queers who want to meet other kinky queers. We’ll provide a lighthearted\, low-stakes atmosphere with conversation starters in case you find yourself tongue-tied by the beautiful queers before you. \nYou bring an open mind\, adventurous spirit (this can be aspirational)\, and a bottle of water to stay hydrated. At the end of the evening\, drop a note and your contact info into the mailboxes of the cuties you want to connect with\, and see what unfolds! \nQueer\, trans\, and questioning kinksters of all genders and kinky proclivities are welcome. There will be no kinky play at this event — save that for the weekend! \nPRESENTERS: \nMiriam Green is a kink educator and coach with over twenty years’ experience in the public BDSM scene as a participant\, educator\, house top\, party host and former gear-slinger. Mir owns Wicked Grounds\, a kink and sex-positive education business to help playful people find and traverse their kink journeys. Mir is not\, in fact\, an extrovert — but will have you fooled by the end of the night! \nimpossiblepain is an impact switch\, a gleeful sadist\, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe\, creative\, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9f340c0987
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-kinky-queer-speed-friending-dating-whatever-jumpstart-your-valentines-shenanigans-with-greenmir-and-impossiblepain/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260208T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260208T160000
DTSTAMP:20260122T030001Z
CREATED:20260122T030001Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260122T030001Z
UID:6048-1770559200-1770566400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Negotiating and Communicating for Emotional S/M with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:Humiliation\, degradation\, objectification\, and other emotion-based play can\, for some people\, provide some of the most intense or playful kink experiences. But as a more abstract kink\, it can be challenging to negotiate effectively. Add the complicated nature of safewording when emotions have already been affected\, and you have a recipe for some potentially major pitfalls. In this class\, join experienced emotional masochist vahavta to explore your interest in emotional play\, discuss some of the possibilities for its directions (both good and bad!)\, and learn how to communicate with partners to minimize harm and maximize the experience you want. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey about a decade ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and internationally. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer multiple price points\, so cost is less of a barrier to attendance. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5dfee4bec6
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-negotiating-and-communicating-for-emotional-s-m-with-vahavta-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260302T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260302T200000
DTSTAMP:20260218T025732Z
CREATED:20260218T025732Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260218T025732Z
UID:6104-1772474400-1772481600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Mindfuck Me: Fear & Psychological Edge Play with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Fear is at the core of many facets of kink — an erotic edge that electrifies the body and makes the mind ache with anticipation. This workshop plunges into the thrilling world of psychological fear play\, taking play beyond the physical and into the deliciously twisted world of the mind. \nTogether\, we’ll explore the emotional landscape of fear\, how to negotiate boundaries\, and create scenes that are both terrifying and hot. From dark role plays to seductive dirty talk\, you’ll learn how to play with fear to deepen intimacy and connection. \nGet ready to explore a wide range of mindfuck styles including suspense\, threats\, tricks\, mystery\, confusion\, manipulation\, and more – while incorporating techniques such as knife play\, consensual non-consent\, orgasm control\, breath play\, sensory deprivation\, and blood play. \nWhether you crave the rush of being unraveled or the exhilaration of pulling the strings\, this workshop offers practical tools\, interactive exercises\, and live demonstrations to help you approach psychological edge play with confidence\, creativity\, and care. Come discover how getting inside someone’s head can unlock the deepest surrender — and the dirtiest fantasies. \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b46372216a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-mindfuck-me-fear-psychological-edge-play-with-jamie-joy-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260308T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260308T160000
DTSTAMP:20260220T204333Z
CREATED:20260220T204333Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260220T204333Z
UID:6125-1772978400-1772985600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Safety in the Shadows: Kink vs Toxicity in Dark Dynamics with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:Concepts such as consensual non-consent (CNC)\, degradation\, humiliation\, and the intentional imitation of abuse cycles are all valid ways to express power exchange and kink. They can also quickly blur the lines between “healthy” and “unhealthy.” \nThrough the sharing of stories\, research\, strategies\, and communication tools\, participants will be empowered to navigate these complex relationships and discern between dark dynamics and toxic behavior. We will emphasize the significance of communication\, active listening\, understanding\, boundaries\, and care within darker elements of total power exchange (TPE) and discuss preventive measures to minimize the risk of harm\, along with ways to course-correct if an unhealthy dynamic is identified. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey about a decade ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and internationally. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/07ac7256e9
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-safety-in-the-shadows-kink-vs-toxicity-in-dark-dynamics-with-vahavta/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260322T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260322T170000
DTSTAMP:20260225T032048Z
CREATED:20260225T032048Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T032048Z
UID:6154-1774173600-1774198800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:LA: Wicked Grounds: Kink Exploration Deep-Dive: A Daylong Intensive
DESCRIPTION:​Whether you’re new to exploring BDSM play or are an experienced player looking to go deeper\, we invite you to join us for a special daylong BDSM intensive in downtown Los Angeles! Miriam Green will be leveraging a dozen years of kink education and coaching to dive deeply into refining your personal kink roadmap and how to get the most out of your kink journey. \n​Throughout the day\, we will cover: \n\n\n​Discovering and honoring what turns you on \n\n\n​Disentangling from others’ erotic projections \n\n\n​Safely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism \n\n\n​Troubleshooting common challenges in communication \n\n\n​Managing ecstasy\, frenzy\, and drop \n\n\n​Trying new skills in the bedroom and beyond \n\n\n​Finding your voice and speaking freely \n\n\n​Sharing the desires you’re afraid to voice \n\n\n​This work will be completely accessible to brand new players\, while deeply valuable for experienced kinksters. \n​The day’s format  \n​We will meet from 10am – 5pm in a private downtown workshop space. The day’s work will be a mixture of lecture style\, discussion\, and a couple of breakout sessions. You will go home with optional homework! \n​Please bring a notebook\, pens\, snacks\, and a prepared sack lunch. We will have two 10-minute breaks and one 45-minute lunch break throughout the day. \n​Previous students say:  \n​”Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have\, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years\, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do \n​​PRESENTER: \n​​​Miriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \n​​​TICKETING: \n​​​Tickets: $90 – $180 in advance\, or $100 – $180 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \n​​​The regular ticket is $150. This is what most people should pay. \n​​​We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. \n​​​ACCESS: \n​​​Exact location details revealed upon registration\, FWB is located in Downtown Los Angeles. \n​​​Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave\, regardless of vaccination status. \n​​​This event is an inclusive\, queer\, and sex-positive safe space.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/la-wicked-grounds-kink-exploration-deep-dive-a-daylong-intensive/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Intensives
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260329T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260329T130000
DTSTAMP:20260225T042346Z
CREATED:20260225T042346Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T042346Z
UID:6172-1774782000-1774789200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Euphoric Sex for Trans Femmes with Lady V (feat. Empress & Nadya Oxblood)
DESCRIPTION:DISCLAIMER: This class is for trans femmes & people who love them. The class will explicitly show hands on nudity & sexuality. \nEuphoric Sex for Trans Femmes is all about fundamental techniques\, negotiation\, & language during intimacy. \nGender dysphoria is when someone has an emotional or physical feeling that feels misaligned with their gender identity. Euphoric Sex for Trans Femmes is geared towards helping ourselves\, our partners\, and other loved ones experience the opposite of dysphoria: gender euphoria! \nJoin Lady V\, Empress Oxblood & nadya oxblood in learning about affirming trans femmes mind\, body & spirit in sensual scenarios. Find out what can make sex & sensuality more affirming to one’s gender with a plethora of tips & tricks. \nWe’ll dive into: \n\nCreating euphoria through spicy & sensual words of affirmation\nAdapting to different forms of sexual & non-sexual touch\nTips for navigating trans-cis intimacy\nAnd\, of course\, practical techniques\n\nWe’ll explore how positive\, gender-affirming physical\, emotional\, & mental intimacy can make ourselves and others feel more aligned with our beautiful\, authentic selves. Let sexuality & sensuality become an affirming\, safer space to be embodied with one’s gender. \nCan’t make it? This class will be recorded & available for 7 days after the class to view on-demand. \nPRESENTERS: \nLady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nEmpress Oxblood (she/her) brings a bright\, nurturing touch to even the most sadistic of scenes. She’s a pervertable witch\, Trickster Goddess\, and mischievous dominant who fucks a lot of trans women. She is the proud owner of her service dog\, nadya oxblood\, and serves as the treasurer for Sex Positive Portland\, operations lead for Carnal Abyss\, and an educator for Hitchin’ Bitches PDX. \nnadya oxblood (she/her) is a writer\, activist\, submissive\, and all-around dumb slut who seeks stillness through bondage and calm through pain. when she’s not serving on her knees or exploring the outer limits of what trans bodies can do\, she likes to gaze longingly out the window and wonder why she’s like this. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; sliding scale available for accessibility. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b5925b9a9d
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-euphoric-sex-for-trans-femmes-with-lady-v-feat-empress-nadya-oxblood/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260329T120000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260329T140000
DTSTAMP:20260225T041951Z
CREATED:20260225T041951Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T041951Z
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SUMMARY:SF: The Art of Domination & Submission with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Are you ready to step into your Dominant side and step up your kinky play? Are you looking to sink deeper into your Submissive role? This workshop will take you on a thrilling and immersive journey into the erotic world of consensual power exchange. Discover the profound intimacy and pleasure found in the trust of dominance and submission\, where taking or giving up control can lead to more intense connection. Learn about all the types of Dominant and Submissive personas\, elevate your communication and dirty talk skills\, and gain essential tips in the areas of impact\, bondage\, and sensation play. \nThrough interactive practical exercises and explicit live demos\, you will walk away empowered to create unforgettable experiences with your play partners. This space is open to all genders\, sexualities\, and experience levels. Come and play! \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, pleasure\, and consent through community organizing. Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating\, playing sadistically with flaming floggers\, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e69f47e2cc
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-the-art-of-domination-submission-with-jamie-joy/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260331T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260331T200000
DTSTAMP:20260225T042807Z
CREATED:20260225T042807Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T042807Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Navigating Your Reputation in BDSM with Princess Rara
DESCRIPTION:In the kink community\, relationships and connections are deeply intertwined\, similar to a small\, close-knit village where everyone is connected. In this unique environment\, news and opinions about individuals can spread quickly. This means that your actions\, behaviors\, and interactions can significantly influence how you are perceived by others. Since everyone tends to know each other or share mutual acquaintances\, maintaining a positive reputation becomes crucial. This class will help you understand the dynamics of reputation within the kink community\, how it can impact your experiences\, and why it’s important to manage it thoughtfully. \nKey points include: \n\nCommunity Dynamics: Learn how the kink community is like a small village where information spreads quickly and everyone is connected.\nReputation Impact: Understand how both good and bad information can shape your reputation and affect how you’re seen in the BDSM lifestyle.\nConsequences of Reputation: Explore the benefits of having a positive reputation and the negative effects of a bad one\, including how it can impact you online.\nRisks of Ignoring Reputation: Recognize the risks of not paying attention to how your actions and behavior affect your reputation.\nBuilding a Positive Reputation: Get tips and strategies for creating and maintaining a good reputation in the kink community.\n\nPRESENTER: \nPrincess Rara (she/her) is a seasoned sadomasochist with nearly a decade of experience in the kink community. As the founder of the Pink Kink Podcast\, she is dedicated to providing essential education and guidance in the world of kink\, focusing on both foundational and advanced topics. Rara’s classes cover a wide range of subjects\, including consent\, risk management\, specialized kink dynamics\, long-distance relationships\, practical skills\, and successfully integrating into the kink community. \nShe is committed to fostering a safe and inclusive environment for exploring BDSM. Rara shares her expertise at major events such as Dark Odyssey Winter Fire\, Studio 58’s Naughty conventions\, Black Rose Education\, Kink School\, and Reign of Fire. In the DC area\, she contributes actively as a munch host\, Demo/House Top\, occasional Pro Domme\, and party host in her private dungeon. Through her diverse roles\, Rara empowers kinksters to communicate effectively\, assert themselves confidently\, and prioritize consent throughout their kink experiences. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. $30 suggested. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/92f86caabe
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-navigating-your-reputation-in-bdsm-with-princess-rara-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260411T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260411T170000
DTSTAMP:20260225T043752Z
CREATED:20260225T043752Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T043752Z
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SUMMARY:SF: Leading and Following: D/s Body Language Daylong Intensive with Alexandria of Click Your Heels
DESCRIPTION:This daylong intensive consists of material relevant for Dominants and submissives alike\, plus a 45 minute break for lunch. \nIn this interactive class\, we borrow leading and following techniques from partnered dance and apply it to D/s. No dance understanding is required. No partner is required. \nUsing simple concentration and dance techniques\, we explore the internal mind/body connection for Dominants and submissives\, non-verbal communication between the leader and follower\, and how this works in 24/7\, scenes\, and more. \nInfo for Students: \nPlease bring a bottle of water for yourself. We recommend bringing a sack lunch and snacks\, but there are some limited food options in the neighborhood. If you would like to take notes\, please bring your preferred materials for that but it’s not necessary – if you just want to move and listen\, that’s ok too. \nPRESENTER: \nAlexandria is the founder of Click Your Heels\, known for inclusive coaching\, workshops\, and events centering somatic healing\, dance\, and physical self expression\, all rooted in body-positivity. Her mission is to help everyone Come Home To Your Body. Since the 90’s she’s been teaching\, performing\, and exploring all sorts of movement\, focused on improvisation and authenticity. Whether it’s one-on-one coaching or teaching hundreds in the audience\, Alexandria is always helping us make new connections between our bodies\, our brains\, and our spirit. Teaching is her gift and her life’s work\, movement is her joy and her medium. If you’re ready to build a lasting\, loving\, and deeply powerful relationship between you and your body\, contact Alexandria now. \nhttps://linktr.ee/clickyourheelsmovement \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/66081aebd2
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-leading-and-following-d-s-body-language-daylong-intensive-with-alexandria-of-click-your-heels/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Intensives
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260412T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260412T130000
DTSTAMP:20260225T044118Z
CREATED:20260225T044118Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T044118Z
UID:6185-1775991600-1775998800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Littlest Sub: Balancing Multiple Dynamics with HypnoStory and PandaPet
DESCRIPTION:Daddy/little\, Master/pet\, Master/oblate\, nesting partners\, household management…these are all aspects of HypnoStory and panda’s relationship that coexist on a daily basis. Join them as they discuss their relationship journey and exploration of balancing their multiple facets in ways that fill both their cups. Then\, they’ll share tools and techniques for developing and deepening your own combination of dynamics. Come with your identities and relationships in mind\, and consider new ways to fill your cup as well. \nPRESENTERS: \nHypnoStory (they/them) loves to share the joy and power of hypnosis with most anyone who will listen. They have been doing various forms of hypnosis for over 25 years\, and have taught for Charmed!\, Entranced\, Beguiled\, NEEHU\, KinkyCon\, and The Fetish Fair Fleamarket among others. In addition to erotic and recreational hypnosis\, they occasionally perform as a stage hypnotist and work with clients using hypnosis for personal growth. Together with their triad partners Yoshi and Panda\, they run New Hampshire Hypnokink and CONsolation (a Discord server that presents kink education). \nPandaPet (it/they) is a pansexual\, polyamorous pet with a penchant for the use of alliteration. It has been a longstanding member of the New England and DC/NoVa communities\, and has taught for a fair number of hypnosis and kink conferences. A tireless volunteer\, it has also worked behind the scenes on educational programming at a handful of kink conventions for the past ten years. It co-founded CONsolation (a Discord community that offers kink education) with it’s master HypnoStory and partner Yoshi. Unashamedly itself in all things\, it is an advocate for the darklings\, pets\, ageplayers\, neurodivergent\, and queerdos of our community. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f33db39563
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-littlest-sub-balancing-multiple-dynamics-with-hypnostory-and-pandapet/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260416T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260416T200000
DTSTAMP:20260225T044953Z
CREATED:20260225T044953Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T044953Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Bratting Beyond Make Me: Navigating Misconceptions and Embracing the Brat with Princess Rara
DESCRIPTION:In BDSM\, “bratting” is often misunderstood and may be seen as simply being rebellious or defiant. However\, bratting is a legitimate kink that\, like all kinks\, should be approached with clear communication and consent. This class will explore how bratting is more than just pushing boundaries—it’s a specific dynamic that can add depth and playfulness to BDSM scenes. We’ll focus on treating bratting with the same respect and care as any other kink\, emphasizing the importance of open communication and mutual consent. Learn how to embrace and incorporate brat behavior into your scenes safely and responsibly. \nKey points include: \n\nUnderstanding Bratting: Recognize that bratting can range from lighthearted playfulness to more assertive resistance.\nClearing Up Misconceptions: Work on clearing up the misunderstandings about what it means to be a brat.\nImportance of Negotiations: Learn why negotiations are crucial in brat dynamics.\nBoundaries and Limits: Understand the importance of setting and respecting boundaries and limits.\nSafewords and Consent: Emphasize the need for safewords and clear consent in brat play.\nIncorporating Playfulness: Get tips on how to add playful brat behavior into your scenes effectively.\nEffective Communication: Develop strong communication skills to handle and embrace brat behavior in a responsible way\n\nPRESENTER: \nPrincess Rara (she/her) is a seasoned sadomasochist with nearly a decade of experience in the kink community. As the founder of the Pink Kink Podcast\, she is dedicated to providing essential education and guidance in the world of kink\, focusing on both foundational and advanced topics. Rara’s classes cover a wide range of subjects\, including consent\, risk management\, specialized kink dynamics\, long-distance relationships\, practical skills\, and successfully integrating into the kink community. \nShe is committed to fostering a safe and inclusive environment for exploring BDSM. Rara shares her expertise at major events such as Dark Odyssey Winter Fire\, Studio 58’s Naughty conventions\, Black Rose Education\, Kink School\, and Reign of Fire. In the DC area\, she contributes actively as a munch host\, Demo/House Top\, occasional Pro Domme\, and party host in her private dungeon. Through her diverse roles\, Rara empowers kinksters to communicate effectively\, assert themselves confidently\, and prioritize consent throughout their kink experiences. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1d2bb75425
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bratting-beyond-make-me-navigating-misconceptions-and-embracing-the-brat-with-princess-rara/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260419T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260419T160000
DTSTAMP:20260331T180115Z
CREATED:20260331T180115Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260331T180115Z
UID:6246-1776607200-1776614400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Service With Purpose with Master Retro Bella
DESCRIPTION:Service doesn’t just appear out of thin air. As a Master\, your role goes beyond commanding obedience. It’s about shaping service that’s intentional\, fulfilling\, and deepens the connection between you and your submissive. In this class\, you’ll learn how to guide your submissive toward a deeper understanding of their role\, fostering a sense of purpose in their service that aligns with your authority. \nIn this hour\, We’ll cover: \n\nHow to shape service\n-Techniques for reinforcing obedience\n-How to build devotion\n-Sustaining the dynamic\n\nPRESENTER: \nMaster Retro Bella is a Latina High Femme Master and Leather woman from Bakersfield\, California. Her pronouns are She/Her/Hers. She is the first woman to earn the title of 2023 Southwest Master and became the first person of Latin descent to hold the 2024 International Master title. She is passionate about Latinx/ne representation in M/s and Leather spaces. This passion fueled her to create the Latine Leather Pride flag\, which debuted at South Plains Leatherfest in 2025\, and to become the founder of Latinos in Leather. Recognized as one of the Onyx Pearls’ “Young 8\,” she carries the pearl name Amara Pearl. Currently\, Master Retro Bella curates the Latinx Queer Chronicles on Substack\, which showcases the intersectionality of queerness and Latinidad. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/18fe500c6c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-service-with-purpose-with-master-retro-bella/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260420T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260420T200000
DTSTAMP:20260331T180415Z
CREATED:20260331T180415Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260331T180415Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Monster Matchmaking: Assessing Compatibility for Emotional Sadomasochism with SuspendDisbelief
DESCRIPTION:Who should we trust to (consensually) hurt our feelings? Wait\, what even are feelings? In a scarcity mindset\, we sometimes focus on the specifics of fulfilling a fantasy and forget to establish whether our scene partner(s) are right for the job. This class zooms in on motivations for and compatibility during emotional sadomasochism from a bottom’s perspective. \nSuspendDisbelief applies an academic lens to almost a decade of experience being consensually bullied in public to help fellow masochists gain insight into their play desires. \nPRESENTER: \nSuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer\, non-monogamous power exchange and sadomasochism nerd. Her hobby of choice has been getting hurt in public since 2017\, but she has been fantasizing about powerlessness and crushing on former boy scouts exclusively for their knowledge of knots for far longer than that. On top of bottoming for power exchange and physical+emotional sadism\, she started tying herself in 2019 and swiftly snowballed down the pipeline toward rope topping. She uses the chaos goblin energy bestowed upon her by her ADHD to enhance her teaching and help people like her “get it”. She currently helps facilitate and teaches monthly for Hitchin’ Bitches DC. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/44d0ee7bfc
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-monster-matchmaking-assessing-compatibility-for-emotional-sadomasochism-with-suspenddisbelief/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260423T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260423T200000
DTSTAMP:20260225T045215Z
CREATED:20260225T045215Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T045215Z
UID:6194-1776967200-1776974400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Blunt Talk: Boundaries and Consent While Using Cannabis with Lilith Foxx
DESCRIPTION:As cannabis use (THC and CBD) becomes more normalized\, understanding its impact on consent within kink and BDSM dynamics and play is vital. \nLed by Board-certified sexologist Lilithfoxx\, this workshop delves into the unique considerations that arise when cannabis is present in BDSM and kink situations. Participants will learn strategies for discussing preferences and consent beforehand\, mitigating risks\, recognizing how cannabis might affect consent communication\, and staying aware of nonverbal cues and intoxication levels. The insights and tools provided will foster healthy\, consensual connections in scenarios where cannabis is part of the equation. \nPRESENTER: \nLilithfoxx (she/her) is a BIPOC\, queer\, neurodivergent\, kinky and polyamorous marketing professional turned Board-certified sexologist\, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator\, professional speaker\, coach\, and Diversity\, Equity\, Inclusion\, and Belonging (DEIB) consultant. She is a graduate of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University’s Human Sexuality Intensive program\, and is certified by Johns Hopkins University in psychological first aid. \nHer work focuses on the intersectionality of marginalized identities\, alternative sexuality\, and social justice. Informed by her personal and professional experiences\, she provides BDSM and nonmonogamy cultural competency consulting for clinical\, academic\, and research settings\, and facilitates workshops on sexuality justice and inclusion. Her expertise has been featured in several publications including Cosmopolitan\, Glamour\, Kinkly\, Men’s Health\, and in LiveJasmin’s ‘Life in Red’ docu-series. \nThrough her professional endeavors\, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire\, educate\, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality\, relationships\, and intimacy. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/84a84ab28b
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-blunt-talk-boundaries-and-consent-while-using-cannabis-with-lilith-foxx/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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