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SUMMARY:ONLINE: An Introduction to Submission: Exploring Submissive Roles with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand your submissive desires more deeply? Do you want to feel confident in what you want and find a Dom that’s right for you? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or still don’t know if submission is your thing\, this workshop is for you. \nPerhaps you have a little experience but the experiences you’ve had so far don’t quite live up to your expectations\, or you want some tips on how to fully embrace your submissive side with a new or existing partner… \nI am welcoming subs/switches of all genders and orientations to this introduction to submission\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the different elements of submission\, how it works\, and how to find a Dom that’s right for you. Topics we’ll cover include: \n– What is a submissive?\n– What are the benefits of submitting?\n– Blocks to submission\n– making the most of your submissive experience\n– Subspace/subdrop\n– Your responsibilities as a submissive\n– Embracing your feminine energy\n– What to look for in a Dom\n– Saying “no” \nThis workshop will encourage you to think about what you want and feel confident in your kinks. \nMy workshops provide a safe space for open-minded people who are curious to learn more about BDSM practices. \nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but the level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience in the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events\, and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/df13e244f8 \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \nIf that would be a barrier to attendance\, use the $20 option. If you’re able to be generous\, paying at the $40 level allows us to make tickets accessible to those who need the discount. \nChoose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-an-introduction-to-submission-exploring-submissive-roles-with-sarah-butcher/
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251209T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251209T200000
DTSTAMP:20260417T154919
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle
DESCRIPTION:Many polyamorous “authorities” present kitchen-table groups as the holy grail of polyam interactions. While these relationship styles work well for many people\, structures that fall outside that framework can be equally positive and healthy. This class will focus on building parallel relationships\, being intentional about your choice of how much to interact with your partners’ wider networks\, and how to openly communicate about: \n\nHow to be entwined in someone’s life but not close with a meta\n“Stepping off the relationship escalator”\nHow to negotiate wanting a different level of interaction than a meta does\nBalancing D/s concerns with poly concerns\nMaximizing personal responsibility and minimizing stress on hinge partners\n\nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a relationship coach\, educator\, and author of Monogamy? In this Economy? Finances\, Childrearing\, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory. She’s the voice behind the Ready for Polyamory blog and podcast\, and has been an expert voice on polyamory in such publications as The Boston Globe and Cosmopolitan. She’s been polyamorous for nearly 20 years and has been teaching since 2018. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b5a15df977
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-beyond-the-kitchen-table-modes-and-models-of-parallel-polyamory-with-laura-boyle-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251213T110000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Finding Your Powers: The 10 Sides of What Gets called "D/s" with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:Have you ever talked about wanting a power exchange relationship or mentioned your interest in dominant/submissive scenes\, only to realize you’re on a completely different wavelength than the person you were speaking with? It’s likely because there are at least 8 distinct concepts wrapped up in those terms—each unique in its own way! \nJoin international sexuality author and educator Lee Harrington for an eye-opening exploration of the 10 key dimensions of power\, desire\, and authority. Learn how these elements shape our experiences and deepen our connections in the world of kink and beyond\, and how you can help you and those you connect with line up your relationships and desires. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/55002f7872 \nWe offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nSo – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning\, which will be available for this event.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-finding-your-powers-the-10-sides-of-what-gets-called-d-s-with-lee-harrington/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Domination 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Developing Your Dominant Side with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be getting the results you desire\, this workshop is for you! \nI am welcoming Dominants/switches of all genders and orientations to The Art of Domination\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the basics of Domination\, how it works\, and how to find and create a fulfilling D/s dynamic with a partner whose kinks align with yours. Topics we’ll cover include: \n\nWhat is a Dom?\nQualities of a good Dominant\nBlocks to Domination & confidence building\nStepping into your masculine energy\nWhat type of Dominant are you?\nYour Dominant responsibilities\nLimits\, safewords & aftercare\nFinding the right submissive\nTraining your submissive\nTaking on board feedback\n\nThis workshop will encourage you to really think about your desires and reflect on how to adapt your Dominant style to get the most out of your BDSM experiences.\nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience in the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events\, and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3bb72df8b1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-domination-101-a-beginners-guide-to-developing-your-dominant-side-with-sarah-butcher/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251217T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Long Distance Polyamory w/ HG Wyndell
DESCRIPTION:Whether partners are 2 hours away or halfway around the world\, it can take a lot more than Google Calendar to make long-distance polyamorous relationships functional\, healthy\, and fulfilling. \nSometimes the distance is a six-month job placement\, sometimes it’s living thousands of miles apart. Distance will multiply the complexity already present in polyamorous\nrelationships. \nWe’ll discuss the challenges\, additional dynamics\, and helpful approaches to long-distance polyamory based on lived experience. Hopefully leaving you with more tools in your toolbox for figuring out how to make it work in healthy and fulfilling ways for you. \nPRESENTER: \nHG Wyndell is an activist\, educator\, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder\, and in our experience\, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship\, genuine gender expression\, ceremony\, creative arts\, chronic illness\, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 scale. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5c4e43aefe
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-long-distance-polyamory-w-hg-wyndell-2/
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251223T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:So — what’d you do this year to move your kink journey forward? Join Sinclair in this workshop and do some reflection about where you have been\, who you met\, what scenes you had\, what you learned\, and how you engaged with community. \nLooking back at this past year in your kink life can point you toward what you want to change or focus on for this next year — so we’ll use our reflections to make some goals\, ideas\, bucket list\, or bingo card for next year. Sinclair will bring plenty of ideas and worksheets for you to reflect on your year\, and plan the one ahead. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8e134f7b41
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-your-year-in-kink-with-sinclair-sexsmith/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251229T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: When No Doesn't Mean No: Negotiation and Communication for Consensual Nonconsent with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:How do you keep yourself safe when you want to feel you’re in real danger? How do you push someone past their breaking point and still leave room to repair the damage? Is there a way to forego hard limits and safewords and stay ethical in play? When you start to play on the edges of consent\, everything becomes a little bit trickier. \nIn this class\, vahavta draws on her experiences and stories from a decade years in a 24/7 consensual non-consent (“CNC”) relationship\, sharing tips and strategies for developing and staying within a personal risk profile\, playing with triggers\, communicating in-scene without “breaking character\,” and dealing with cognitive dissonance (“did I really want that?”) in drop. We will explore the mental and physical considerations and contingency plans needed to enter a CNC environment\, based on the desires and boundaries expressed by both bottoms and tops. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey eight years ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and Israel along the way. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service and is often found sporting large bruises\, writing\, or enjoying a good beer. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/34419a147c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-when-no-doesnt-mean-no-negotiation-and-communication-for-consensual-nonconsent-with-vahavta/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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