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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Domination 101 with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be getting the results you desire\, this workshop is for you! \nI am welcoming Dominants/switches of all genders and orientations to The Art of Domination\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the basics of Domination\, how it works\, and how to find and create a fulfilling D/s dynamic with a partner whose kinks align with yours. Topics we’ll cover include: \n\nWhat is a Dom?\nQualities of a good Dominant\nBlocks to Domination & confidence building\nStepping into your masculine energy\nWhat type of Dominant are you?\nYour Dominant responsibilities\nLimits\, safewords & aftercare\nFinding the right submissive\nTraining your submissive\nTaking on board feedback\n\nThis workshop will encourage you to really think about your desires and reflect on how to adapt your Dominant style to get the most out of your BDSM experiences. \nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5eba3348fc
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-domination-101-with-sarah-butcher/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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SUMMARY:SF: Leading and Following: Nonverbal D/s A sensuous dance and movement class with Alexandria from Click Your Heels!
DESCRIPTION:In this interactive class\, we borrow leading and following techniques from partnered dance and apply it to D/s. No dance understanding is required. No partner is required. \nUsing simple concentration and dance techniques\, we explore the internal mind/body connection for Dominants and submissives\, non-verbal communication between the leader and follower\, and how this works in 24/7\, scenes\, and more. \nInfo for Students: \nBe prepared to move barefoot. (No shoes are allowed in the studio space.) Please bring a bottle of water for yourself. If you would like to take notes\, please bring your preferred materials for that but it’s not necessary – if you just want to move and listen\, that’s ok too. \nPRESENTER: \nAlexandria has been teaching dance and movement since 1998\, including private lessons\, small group studio classes\, and large public classes of 100+. Her repertoire includes pole for all bodies\, ballet for real life\, belly dance\, floorwork\, high heels dancing\, lap dancing\, Flexibility 4 Life\, salsa\, merengue\, bachata\, cha-cha\, east coast swing\, social waltz\, feminine sensual movement\, rhythm training\, body confidence\, non-verbal communication\, and more. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is “All bodies\, all genders\, all ages: come home to your body”. Her teaching emphasizes reclaiming your body and self-love\, strength\, flexibility\, improvisation\, and musicality. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0728e393cd
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-leading-and-following-nonverbal-d-s-a-sensuous-dance-and-movement-class-with-alexandria-from-click-your-heels/
LOCATION:Mukunda Studio\, 1250 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250615T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250615T130000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Daddy Issues: Daddy Dynamics & You with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:NOTE: Workshop is accessible to ALL genders of Daddy & sides of the slash….yes\, even subby daddies. We <3 submissive & switchy daddies. Workshop is not necessarily geared towards ageplay or ABDL\, but inclusive of it.\nDaddy\, don’t stop! No seriously\, dude.\nLearn about Daddy Dynamics in this workshop dedicated to the Daddy who understands from the inside & out (& its not just because their fist is inside me). \nWhat are Daddy Dynamics?\nA Daddy dynamic is a relationship or short term play where one player is “Daddy” & typically plays a parental or semi-nurturing type figure within the scene or short to long term dynamics. \n“Daddy” dynamics are HIGHLY modular to the people involved & the interests in their preferred types of play. Daddies can be scary sadists to submissive sweethearts who want to please their Princex\, Princes\, & Princesses. \nDaddy Dynamics can be everything from light & fluffy to dark & demented…maybe even a mix of both depending on your tastes! \nIn this class we’ll dive into:\n\nFiguring out what kind of archetype resonates with you as a Daddy or finding the right Daddy(s)\nFiguring out what type of dynamic works best (ex. Daddy Dom/little\, Princex/daddy sub\, etc.)\nPickup play or short term dynamics & integrating Daddy elements into play\nKeeping things fresh & healthy in long-term Daddy dynamics\nHow to heal after a dynamic has ended\nIncluding others into dynamics such as other submissives\, Princexes\, & other Care Givers.\nHow any gender can be “Daddy” & what it means to be “Daddy” to someone\n\nWhy Learn From Lady V?\nLady V has been in & out of Daddy/girl dynamics for the last several years. While once swearing up & down she could never call a man “Daddy”\, now EVERYONE’S HER DADDY. \nMany of her dynamics have been everything from long term relationships (LTRs) to occasional play partners to pick up play. Some include submissive daddies to Daddies with strong backhands. \nWhile not currently in a Daddy dynamic\, Lady V still plays with DD/lg & Princess/daddy sub dynamics as a Pro Domme & a lifestyle switch.\nDISCLAIMER: We do not advocate for incest or anything in a similar vein. This is only roleplay between consenting adults. Also not all of us have Daddy issues because of our biological Father’s\, but thanks for assuming. 🖤\nPRESENTER: \nLady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. You can perv more of her social media & body of work by clicking HERE \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 sliding scale. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2ce6793293
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-daddy-issues-daddy-dynamics-you-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250621T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250621T200000
DTSTAMP:20250501T234637Z
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SUMMARY:Pedi Pain: Impact and Pressure Points for Feet w/ HG Wyndell
DESCRIPTION:Our feet are fascinating. Each one has 26 bones\, 33 joints\, 19 muscles\, 107 ligaments\, and thousands of nerve endings per square inch. They are capable of providing a huge amount of information to our body/brains about what they are experiencing. \nImpact play for the feet (sometimes called bastinado) and pressure points are a rich playground for a variety of sensations. We will talk about foot anatomy\, safety\, and consent\, along with a live demo of the tools and ideas for playtime. \nPRESENTER: \nHG Wyndell is an activist\, educator\, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder\, and in our experience\, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship\, genuine gender expression\, ceremony\, creative arts\, chronic illness\, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 sliding scale. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d04a70988a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/pedi-pain-impact-and-pressure-points-for-feet-w-hg-wyndell/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250804T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250804T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations - Relationships & Dynamics with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Join us for a Kink 201 session exploring negotiating how to think about and create long-term D/s dynamics and kinky relationships that work! We’ll talk about: \n\nSetting your own must-haves and red flags\nNegotiating for play partner relationships\nD/s relationships & contracts\nHow to maintain relationships over time\nAnd more!\n\nBuilding on our negotiation basics\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. \nThis workshop is designed for kinksters with some experience and knowledge of how to negotiate for BDSM play and scenes but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications in ongoing relationships. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0e65cff365
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-201-advanced-bdsm-negotiations-relationships-dynamics-with-miriam-green-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250830T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250830T180000
DTSTAMP:20250715T000018Z
CREATED:20250715T000018Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Archetypes of Power & Surrender: A Two Part Series with FireOnTheMtnTop / Sir Scott and Lecee
DESCRIPTION:This is a two-part class to build on your skills! We’ll meet on both 8/21 and 8/30. \n🔥 BDSM isn’t just play—it’s transformation. 🔥 \nIn this evocative and powerful two-part online series\, you’ll explore the deep currents of power\, submission\, polarity\, shadow\, and ritual through the lens of archetypes. These aren’t roles you act out—they’re energies that move through you. Sacred. Primal. Mythic. \nWhether you’re Dominant\, submissive\, Switch\, or still finding your way\, this class offers an unforgettable map of the 18 core archetypes that shape how we love\, lead\, surrender\, resist\, and transform in kink. \nYou’ll get: \n\nA custom Archetype Quiz to identify your dominant energetic patterns\nA guided tour through each archetype’s essence\, shadow\, and ritual signature\nA set of archetype one-pagers for self-study and scene inspiration\nFrameworks for polarity pairing\, energy mapping\, and transformation scenes\nJournaling\, reflection\, and optional integration rituals between sessions\n\n✨ This is not a 101 class. This is for those ready to meet themselves in the fire. Expect laughter\, tears\, archetypal awakenings\, and mythic-level “aha” moments. \nSession One (Aug 21): \n\nIntroduction to archetypes in kink and power exchange\nHow to read and interpret your quiz results\nOverview of the 18 archetypes and their core patterns\nExploration of polarity\, projection\, and sacred role resonance\nJournaling + guided prompts\n\nSession Two (Aug 30): \n\nDeep-dive into selected archetypes based on quiz responses\nPairing dynamics: sacred matches\, mirrors\, challengers\nHow to build scenes and rituals based on archetypal energies\nIntegration practices\, shadow work\, and transformation pathing\nFinal collective invocation\n\nPresented by Sacred Fire Kink — where submission is a sacrament\, and Dominance is a vow. \nPRESENTERS: \n🔥 Scott – “FireOnTheMtnTop” \nScott is a lifestyle Dominant\, Sadist\, Daddy\, and Primal Edge Player with over 18 years in the kink community. He’s a founding Director of G.O.D.S.\, creator of Colorado KNKE Kinky Camping\, and a seasoned Dungeon Monitor\, lifestyle event Emcee\, and presenter. \nAs a Dominant\, Scott teaches that leadership in kink is sacred work—rooted in care\, emotional safety\, and integrity. He’s known for creating grounded\, real-world conversations about power and play that help people feel seen\, strong\, and turned on by their truth. \n✨ Lecee \nLecee is the “yin” to Scott’s Dominant fire—his little “s.” She’s been active in the lifestyle for 8 years and brings playful insight\, emotional wisdom\, and lived experience as a submissive. \nTogether\, she and Scott co-create containers that are intimate\, brave\, and authentic. Her presence helps others feel permission to explore new desires\, embrace vulnerability\, and rewrite the old stories they were told about sex\, surrender\, and and worthiness. \nTICKETING: \n$40-$80 sliding scale for the two-class series. \nPlease pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/cf7ee1759c
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-archetypes-of-power-surrender-a-two-part-series-with-fireonthemtntop-sir-scott-and-lecee-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250907T150000
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SUMMARY:OAK: Leading and Following: Nonverbal D/s (by Click Your Heels) Make the most of your natural instincts with Alexandria of Click Your Heels!
DESCRIPTION:In this interactive class\, we borrow leading and following techniques from partnered dance and apply it to D/s. No dance understanding is required. No partner is required. \nUsing simple concentration and dance techniques\, we explore the internal mind/body connection for Dominants and submissives\, non-verbal communication between the leader and follower\, and how this works in 24/7\, scenes\, and more. \nInfo for Students: \nBe prepared to move barefoot. (No shoes are allowed in the studio space.) Please bring a bottle of water for yourself. If you would like to take notes\, please bring your preferred materials for that but it’s not necessary – if you just want to move and listen\, that’s ok too. \nPRESENTER: \nAlexandria has been teaching dance and movement since 1998\, including private lessons\, small group studio classes\, and large public classes of 100+. Her repertoire includes pole for all bodies\, ballet for real life\, belly dance\, floorwork\, high heels dancing\, lap dancing\, Flexibility 4 Life\, salsa\, merengue\, bachata\, cha-cha\, east coast swing\, social waltz\, feminine sensual movement\, rhythm training\, body confidence\, non-verbal communication\, and more. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is “All bodies\, all genders\, all ages: come home to your body”. Her teaching emphasizes reclaiming your body and self-love\, strength\, flexibility\, improvisation\, and musicality. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/09ae288b7a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/oak-leading-following-daylong-d-s-intensive-by-click-your-heels-make-the-most-of-your-natural-instincts-with-alexandria-of-click-your-heels/
LOCATION:East Bay Community Space\, 507 55th Street\, Oakland\, CA\, 94609\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Online
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251001T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251001T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Gasp & Glow: Breathwork as Sensation Play with M'kali-Hashiki
DESCRIPTION:Breath is the quiet implement that changes everything. Intentional breathing becomes a sensation dial—turning intensity up\, easing panic\, and deepening connection. Bottoms learn to ride impact longer with less overwhelm; Tops learn to read breath\, pace scenes\, and co-regulate without buying a single new toy. \nExpect nerdy-meets-sacred vibes\, plenty of guided practice\, and an easy aftercare exhale you can use anywhere. \nFor all genders\, bodies\, roles\, and experience levels—perfect for kinksters who crave fresh tools without extra gear. \nLearning Objectives \n\nUse three bottom-friendly breath patterns to expand capacity and stay present.\nRead breath cues as a Top to adjust rhythm\, force\, and pacing.\nNegotiate breath-based safety signals when words are wobbly.\nDown-regulate both partners with an after-scene exhale sequence.\n\nPRESENTER: \nAbout M’kali-Hashiki (she/her/hers): I was given the name Mkali Hashiki by a Priest of Oshun in the Ifa tradition (I added the hyphen & apostrophe to help with pronounciation). It means “fierce passion” in Swahili. I believe that we are all entitled to have passion in our lives\, and to understand how being connected to our passion & creativity enhances our lives & the lives of those around us. It is my fierce passion for a happy\, healthy\, world that motivates everything I do. \nI’m a Certified Sexological Bodyworker; a Certified Sound\, Voice\, & Music Healer; and a Certified Tantric Sacred Intimate. I’m also a former Gynecological Teaching Associate (teaching medical students how to perform painless\, patient-centered pelvic & breast exams using my body as the demo model)\, a published essayist; a former professional social justice organizer; and an Ifa devoteé. I’m a fat\, Black\, queer\, womanist\, polyamorous\, kinky\, first generation Northern-born\, middle-aged dyke Burn Survivor with moderate to severe PTSD. My cultural upbringing & lived experiences of struggling to love myself in a world that hates all of my identities (some more than others) informs every aspect of my work. \nI have a complex sexuality & sexual history. I have personal experience with polyamory\, nonmonogamy\, BDSM\, and achieving mystical states during sex. I am—and have always been—a “sexual outlaw”\, as well as being a “triple minority” (Black\, female\, and queer); this has allowed me to view society’s standards on sexuality with a critical eye. As a Scorpio\, I have always been curious and intrigued by sexuality\, and feel that my erotic sense is the most calibrated of all my senses\, and is the filter through which I experience the world. \nI am currently addressing 30 plus years of undiagnosed & untreated PTSD. I understand the ways in which our triggers hide from us\, popping up when we least expect it; the ways trauma can influence even the most mundane actions in our day-to-day lives; the ways minor triggers substitute for the major ones. Even though my traumatic incident was not sexual trauma\, it still had an impact on my erotic growth & sexual development. \nI have been deeply influenced personally\, professionally\, and politically by Audre Lorde’s essay “The Uses Of The Erotic: The Erotic As Power” (if you haven’t read it\, you need to!). I believe her point that in order to maintain itself\, oppression requires the repression of the erotic. Because of my politics\, spirituality\, and lived experiences; because of the lies we are constantly told about what sex should be\, about what is normal and acceptable; and because of the sexual truths that are vilified; I view my work in FiercePassions as a form of political rebellion. \nFiercePassions.com \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/31b56b623a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-gasp-glow-breathwork-as-sensation-play-with-mkali-hashiki/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251028T080000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251028T170000
DTSTAMP:20251029T012436Z
CREATED:20251029T012436Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes\, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene. \nJoin us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about: \n\nNegotiation styles\nPre-scene negotiations\nHow to negotiate without killing the mood\nChecking in during and after the scene\nNegotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics\n\nDrawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic.This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/df100a4d48
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-101-bdsm-negotiation-basics-with-miriam-green-7/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251213T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251213T130000
DTSTAMP:20251022T183658Z
CREATED:20250925T231610Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251022T183658Z
UID:5633-1765623600-1765630800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Finding Your Powers: The 10 Sides of What Gets called "D/s" with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:Have you ever talked about wanting a power exchange relationship or mentioned your interest in dominant/submissive scenes\, only to realize you’re on a completely different wavelength than the person you were speaking with? It’s likely because there are at least 8 distinct concepts wrapped up in those terms—each unique in its own way! \nJoin international sexuality author and educator Lee Harrington for an eye-opening exploration of the 10 key dimensions of power\, desire\, and authority. Learn how these elements shape our experiences and deepen our connections in the world of kink and beyond\, and how you can help you and those you connect with line up your relationships and desires. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/55002f7872 \nWe offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nSo – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning\, which will be available for this event.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-finding-your-powers-the-10-sides-of-what-gets-called-d-s-with-lee-harrington/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251214T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251214T130000
DTSTAMP:20251029T014340Z
CREATED:20251029T014340Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251029T014340Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: From Little Princess to Rebellious Teen: An Ageplay Workshop with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:The idea behind this workshop is to explore the possibilities of ageplay and everything that is yet uncharted about it. We want to offer a cared for space for everyone interested in exploring how being a baby\, a child or a teen can feel\, and for them to be heard and not alone in their kinks and lifestyle. \nWe will cover the basics for anyone interested in diving into ageplay\, and show how tender\, fun and sexy playing with age can be\, knowing that we are doing a radical act of vulnerability with the intent of making people feel accepted and welcome them into this family (hahah) of practices. \nWhat the workshop will cover: \n\nWhat is ageplay: intro\, styles\, dynamics and more!\nKink shame and stigma surrounding ageplay (and how to de-pathologize)\nHow to negotiate for an ageplay scene\nSmall negotiation demo\nArchetypes and scene ideas\nHow to explore “little” and “big” spaces\nIdentity\, 24/7 dynamics and roles\n\nPRESENTERS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink\, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics\, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression\, and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet\, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/67b3f4cac6
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-from-little-princess-to-rebellious-teen-an-ageplay-workshop-with-mel-and-memi/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251214T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251214T160000
DTSTAMP:20251029T014833Z
CREATED:20251029T014833Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251029T014833Z
UID:5827-1765720800-1765728000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Domination 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Developing Your Dominant Side with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be getting the results you desire\, this workshop is for you! \nI am welcoming Dominants/switches of all genders and orientations to The Art of Domination\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the basics of Domination\, how it works\, and how to find and create a fulfilling D/s dynamic with a partner whose kinks align with yours. Topics we’ll cover include: \n\nWhat is a Dom?\nQualities of a good Dominant\nBlocks to Domination & confidence building\nStepping into your masculine energy\nWhat type of Dominant are you?\nYour Dominant responsibilities\nLimits\, safewords & aftercare\nFinding the right submissive\nTraining your submissive\nTaking on board feedback\n\nThis workshop will encourage you to really think about your desires and reflect on how to adapt your Dominant style to get the most out of your BDSM experiences.\nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience in the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events\, and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3bb72df8b1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-domination-101-a-beginners-guide-to-developing-your-dominant-side-with-sarah-butcher/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251221T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251221T160000
DTSTAMP:20251029T021019Z
CREATED:20251029T021019Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251029T021019Z
UID:5834-1766325600-1766332800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM & Attachment Styles w/ Sir Panda
DESCRIPTION:Attachments are emotional bonds formed in childhood\, and whether we form secure or insecure attachments is dependent upon how our needs for attention\, love\, and growth are met. The patterns set in place carry forward to how we form adult attachments\, including friendships\, romantic partners\, and the bonds of power exchange. \nThis presentation will examine the basics of Attachment Theory\, how attachment styles are expressed\, and how they are manifested in different BDSM identities and roles. The class will also touch on how to encourage secure attachment in ourselves and in our relationships with others. \nPRESENTER: \nSir Panda (He/Him) is a Dominant and sadist who lives his busy polyamorous and kinky life in the Seattle area with his wife and and his collared life partner. He has been a kink educator since he originated the Passport Program at the Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) in 2011\, teaching consent and BDSM basics to new members. In 2015\, Sir Panda founded the View From the Top dominant discussion group\, now hosted online on the fourth Tuesday of the month (https://thecspc.org/event). \nSir Panda has served in a variety of roles in the kink community\, including event host for Arborea Falls and the CSPC\, BDSM Lead for Fantasy Forrest Events\, and Program Lead for KinkFest 2023. He has been a presenter for the CSPC\, Pragmatically Kinking\, the Kink Center\, and Leather Reign\, and is currently an educator with D/s Pacific Northwest (www.dspnw.org). Sir Panda can be contacted on FetLife and Discord as SirPandaSeattle. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 scale. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c891594af4
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-attachment-styles-w-sir-panda/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251222T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251222T200000
DTSTAMP:20251029T021512Z
CREATED:20251029T021512Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251029T021512Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Ultimate Guide for Teasing and Orgasm Control with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:Within sensuality and intimacy\, there’s a profound art to the delicate dance of teasing and orgasm control. Welcome to a transformative exploration dedicated to elevating connective pleasure. This guide is designed to be your compass\, steering you through the mysterious and exhilarating waters of orgasm control. Whether you’re relishing a quiet dinner date or merely spending a relaxed evening at home\, you’ll learn how to subtly entice your partner until every shared glance and whispered word simmers with latent passion. You’ll master edging and how to keep desire teetering on the brink\, building a tantalizing tension that makes the eventual release all the more cathartic. \nExplore the sensory spectrum\, playing with different stimuli to bring your partner to the brink of ecstasy\, heightening sensitivity and anticipation with each controlled tease. Within our time lies the secret to how even the smallest detail can play a part in more intense and powerful orgasms. Discover how to use denial as a pleasure tool or utter torment for your partner. Learn how to adapt to your partner’s unique preferences and anatomy\, ensuring that the pleasure you build is as personalized as it is exhilarating. Before engaging with this type of intimacy with your partner\, it’s essential to gain an understanding of consent\, boundaries\, and the importance of connecting afterwards. Think you can learn just by searching on Google? Think again. By the time this workshop is over\, you’ll gain practical skills that can’t be learned by hitting a search engine. \nMore topics to be discussed: \n\nTantalizing techniques for all genders and body types\nUnderstanding timing\, rhythm and pacing and how it affects the mood\nKnowing when enough is enough and considerations for neurodivergent folks\nThe dynamics of power exchange to enhance mutual satisfaction and deep connection\nHow to incorporate a range of toys and devices\, from subtle to adventurous\nThe fine line between encouragement and humiliation\, and learning how to skillfully navigate both to amplify arousal\nDeveloping your vocabulary and tone to tantalize and ignite your partner’s imagination and desire\nExciting demonstrations to see practical skills put into action\n\nThis workshop is meant to be an inclusive environment that is accommodating for all types of people. You can participate in a way that feels comfortable for you\, whether that’s having your camera on\, joining in the chat\, or remaining anonymous while taking in all the information. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any accessibility needs. \nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee is a trauma-informed International BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Certified Hypnotist\, Kink Lifestyle & Professional Dominant Coach\, Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Writer. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and mentor. She has been involved in the kink lifestyle\, professionally and personally\, for over 20 years and has been teaching for 15+ years. Miss Mackenzee is the founder of Crafty Goddess Gallery\, which makes and sells beautiful\, one-of-a-kind BDSM toys and furniture created from resin and wood. \nMiss Mackenzee is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and couples\, as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has brought her experiences and skills to various organizations such as Kink.com\, Widener University\, TES\, SF Citadel\, Dark Odyssey\, VoxBody Studio\, Filthy FemDom\, Wicked Grounds\, Black Thorn/Sacred Muse\, Kinky Kollege\, Bound In Boston\, SheBop\, SADE\, Adventures in Sexuality\, Rochester Erotic Arts Festival\, EXXXotica\, and many others. \nMindfulness is a practice that she incorporates into her everyday life\, and enjoys helping others become more in tune with themselves and their partner(s). She teaches a full range of subjects\, including but not limited to energy play\, Tantra\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, hypnosis\, sexuality\, spirituality\, and the art of sadism. She prides herself on creating a fostering environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their kinks\, sexuality\, and individuality.. Every workshop is taught with passion and includes intentional energy. She welcomes people to be free and honest with themselves and their desires. Miss Mackenzee aims to be a guide for those exploring various forms of intimacy including BDSM play. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. All her workshops are taught from a place of understanding that we all come from various walks of life that have informed how we engage with others. Miss Mackenzee aims to make a space for people to explore in ways that feel comfortable and authentic to them and their process. \nShe welcomes you to connect with her in a variety of ways: \nwww.MissMackenzee.com \nInstagram: MissMackenzeeagain \nTwitter: @MissMackenzee \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f074e64153
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-ultimate-guide-for-teasing-and-orgasm-control-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251223T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251223T200000
DTSTAMP:20251029T021956Z
CREATED:20251029T021956Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251029T021956Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:So — what’d you do this year to move your kink journey forward? Join Sinclair in this workshop and do some reflection about where you have been\, who you met\, what scenes you had\, what you learned\, and how you engaged with community. \nLooking back at this past year in your kink life can point you toward what you want to change or focus on for this next year — so we’ll use our reflections to make some goals\, ideas\, bucket list\, or bingo card for next year. Sinclair will bring plenty of ideas and worksheets for you to reflect on your year\, and plan the one ahead. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8e134f7b41
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-your-year-in-kink-with-sinclair-sexsmith/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260103T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260103T160000
DTSTAMP:20251210T023602Z
CREATED:20251210T023602Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251210T023602Z
UID:5919-1767448800-1767456000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Fun with Wax! with Laura Boyle
DESCRIPTION:The basics of wax play! \nIn this class we cover: \n\nWax play-specific safety and negotiations\nQuestions to ask and what to keep in mind when creating your wax play scene\nThe difference between candles and flameless wax\, temperatures\, and type of safe wax for play\nA demonstration of both candle and flameless wax on a bottom on various body parts as different sensations are created\nWays to combine wax with other types of play\nCleanup\, and aftercare\n\nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a relationship coach\, educator\, and author of Monogamy? In this Economy? Finances\, Childrearing\, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory. She’s the voice behind the Ready for Polyamory blog and podcast\, and has been an expert voice on polyamory in such publications as The Boston Globe and Cosmopolitan. She’s been polyamorous for nearly 20 years and has been teaching since 2018. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/eb6c5d471d
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-fun-with-wax-with-laura-boyle-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260103T150000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260103T170000
DTSTAMP:20251210T023012Z
CREATED:20251210T023012Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251210T023012Z
UID:5916-1767452400-1767459600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: This is Your Brain on Kink. (Any Questions?) with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:While our relationships with kink are deeply personal and sometimes idiosyncratic\, the neuroscience of peak experiences can tell us a lot about what we all have in common. Learning about what happens in our brains when we play can lead to better communication and better scenes. \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \n\nThe four major neurotransmitters behind building a kink headspace\nHow and why edgeplay makes even well-planned scenes less predictable\nHow to stay in communication before\, during\, and after each scene\nWhat to know when negotiating for relationships\nThe causes of post-scene drop\, and how to deal with drop when it occurs\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com \nTICKETING: \nTickets: $20 – $50 in advance\, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b4ab3274d4
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-this-is-your-brain-on-kink-any-questions-with-miriam-green/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260105T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260105T200000
DTSTAMP:20251210T024625Z
CREATED:20251210T024625Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251210T024625Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Chain Bondage for Beginners: In-Line Single Columns with CTW & Fischer Garrett
DESCRIPTION:In-line columns are so called because they are built in the middle of the line after assembling a single column. This class builds on the content taught in Chain Bondage for Beginners demonstrating building in-line single columns and good practices using them. This presentation is great for self- and partnered-bondage participants and beginners! \nAs a virtual presentation\, the presenters are not able to give live feedback\, but viewers are still welcome to follow along with their own materials. If you wish to purchase your own starter kit ahead of time\, we recommend two 6-feet lengths of grade 30\, 1/4-inch proof coil zinc-plated chain and six 1/4-inch stainless steel screw-pin anchor shackles. \nPRESENTERS: \nCecilia T. Winters (‘CTW’ – She/Her) is your typical queer Millennial. Born at the start of the internet age\, she has always benefited from information at her fingertips. She identifies as bisexual and ethically non-monogamous. She has served as a dungeon and playspace monitor\, a demo top for a number of local and national kink events\, and as a presenter. Her non-kink interests include reading\, making lists\, watching early 2000s crime dramas\, and learning about ancient human cultures. \nFischer Garrett (‘Mister’ – He/Him) is a bisexual\, polyamorous top. His time spent in the lifestyle has led him through a journey of self discovery\, from once being totally monogamous to being a relationship anarchist; from wanting nothing to do with bondage to developing a way to practice bondage in a relatively unperformed and under-documented fashion. In the past several years he has volunteered for larger kink events as a member of a consent incident response team\, a dungeon/playspace monitor\, and recently as a presenter. He is a huge fan of costumes and masks\, and it is not unusual to know that he is around but often in clever and sometimes strange disguises. \nTogether they are coauthors of the first book on chain bondage\, The Art of Chain: A Guide to Steel Restraint (Mystic Productions\, 2022). www.theartofchain.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/422734ac33
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-chain-bondage-for-beginners-in-line-single-columns-with-ctw-fischer-garrett/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260107T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260107T200000
DTSTAMP:20251210T025821Z
CREATED:20251210T025821Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251210T025821Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101 with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:Who doesn’t love the look of a well-polished boot that catches the light and catches your eye? \nLeather pieces have the ability to outlast many of their original owners…with care. In this class\, we’ll teach you the basics of making your leathers look nice and last\, as well as cleaning and caring for your leathers. \nBootblacking can be a service to the community or dynamic\, a form of worship\, an art form\, a practice of technique\, a side hustle\, a spiritual practice\, or all of the above! \nLearn how to easily clean and care for your favorite boots\, whip\, or vest! We’ll also show you how to discern between oil tan and polished leather and how to treat them appropriately. \nAfter the class portion\, there will be a brief workshop where you will work on your leather with guidance from the instructor. It is BYOL (Bring Your Own Leather). Synthetic leathers are welcome! \nPRESENTER: \nLady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, Bootblack & Professional Dominatrix. She formerly served as a resident bootblack for the Portland Eagle\, as well as 50 Shades of STFU & Jiffy Kink play parties. Lady V has also Bootblacked at various conferences\, flea markets\, cigar parties\, & play parties across the US. \nLady V became a believer in leather the first time she saw The Arnold’s ass in leather pants watching Terminator 2. Since then she has become an enthusiastic leather fetishist & has touched enough leather to make a dairy farmer blush. Lady V\, who is also a hucow\, is quite literally “leather”. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, where she lives with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE dynamic. She serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9df620d5eb
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-so-fresh-so-clean-bootblacking-leather-care-101-with-lady-v-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260108T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260108T200000
DTSTAMP:20251125T025444Z
CREATED:20251125T025444Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251125T025444Z
UID:5883-1767895200-1767902400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Sub drop. Top drop. “A case of the Mondays.” \nWhatever we call it\, post-scene drop is frustrating\, irritating\, and isolating. It often makes us question — at least in the moment — what was otherwise an awesome scene. \nWhat is this awful mood we fall into after a scene\, and what the heck can we do about it? \nIn this class\, Miriam Green will draw on what we know about the neuropsychology of BDSM to help us better understand drop\, and build strategies for resilience when we face it. We’ll talk about: \n\nCommon misconceptions about drop\nWhat’s going on in the mind\, brain and body\nMind-body strategies for before\, during and after the scene to help us bounce back\nHow to change our narrative to avoid making drop worse\nThe best ways to effectively communicate after a scene — for good scenes and bad\n\nYou’ll come away with better self-understanding and a self-care toolkit to draw on when drop comes calling. Join us! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/81e7134fd0
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dealing-with-drop-with-miriam-green-4/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260110T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260110T130000
DTSTAMP:20251125T030043Z
CREATED:20251125T030043Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251125T030043Z
UID:5886-1768042800-1768050000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them with Hardy Haberman
DESCRIPTION:Sacred cows make the best burgers. \nA frank and honest discussion of what is being called “old Guard” protocols and the myths and reality surrounding them. Provocative and entertaining\, this interactive program brings years of experience and a grasp of the true history of Gay Leather Culture into focus. \nPRESENTER: \nHardy Haberman is from Dallas\, Texas. He has been active in the leather community since the mid-70’s\, and a member of many BDSM and Fetish organizations including Dallas Motorcycle Club\, NLA-Dallas and a founding member of Inquisition-Dallas. \nConsidering himself a “Pain Technologist\,” he specializes in CBT and has an unusual fondness for clips clamps and clothespins\, as well as more esoteric SM play. Professionally he is a semi-retired marketing specialist and filmmaker. His documentary on the leather lifestyle “LEATHER” has won numerous awards and appeared in festivals around the world\, and his latest film\, “Out of the Darkness\, The Reality of SM” is currently being used by healthcare professionals around the world. \nOutside work\, he is a gay activist\, author & speaker on aspects of the SM/Leather scene. His books “The Family Jewels\, A guide to male genital play and torment” published by Greenery Press and “More Family Jewels”\, Playing With Pain” And “Soul of a Second Skin” published by Nazca Plain. His latest book “Shouts in the WIlderness\, Daily Meditations for Leatherfolk” is currently available on amazon.com. He also writes a regular column in the Dallas Voice newspaper. \nHe was awarded NLAI’s Man of the Year award in 1999 and the NLA-I Lifetime Achievement award in 2007. He received the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Leather Leadership award.He has also been honored to be a Judge at both IML and ILSb. \nHe previously served as co-chair of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation in Washington\, DC. \nHe and his boy Patrick have lived together in Dallas for the past 30 years with numerous cats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0572b8546a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-old-guard-protocols-and-why-you-dont-need-them-with-hardy-haberman/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260111T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260111T130000
DTSTAMP:20251210T031410Z
CREATED:20251210T031410Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251210T031410Z
UID:5936-1768129200-1768136400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Discipline & Punishment with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Discipline – the other D in BDSM that rarely gets spoken about. Discipline is an important part of creating a successful power exchange dynamic\, and if you’re looking for some inspiration when it comes to training\, disciplining\, and punishing your submissive partner\, then this workshop is for you. \nWe will be covering topics such as: \n\nWhat is discipline and punishment?\nWhat is power exchange?\nHow\, when and why to punish your submissive\nCreating rules and consequences\nPunishment vs Funishment\nTop tips\, tricks and ideas for punishments\nDo’s and don’ts of discipline and punishment\nAftercare\n\nThis workshop is open to all\, whether you’re single or in a relationship\, and will leave you feeling confident in disciplining and punishing your partner as well as inspiring and empowering you to deepen your power exchange experiences. \nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework\, but the level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b103532ec5
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-discipline-punishment-with-sarah-butcher-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260117T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260117T130000
DTSTAMP:20260102T024935Z
CREATED:20260102T024614Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260102T024935Z
UID:5968-1768647600-1768654800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Ass to Grass: Fitness as a Tool of Domination with MF Dom
DESCRIPTION:Fitness is a multi-layered practice with benefits that extend far beyond aesthetics\, and in many ways\, kink operates the same way. Both can be tools for healing\, transformation\, power exchange\, and sensual exploration. The body’s responses to movement\, pleasure\, strain\, endorphins\, and challenge can be intentionally woven into kink to build richer\, more connected scenes or even empower a thriving 24/7 D/s dynamic. \nThis class explores how to integrate fitness principles with kink play. We will use the gym\, free weights\, bodyweight training\, conditioning\, and mobility work to prepare both doms and subs to experience kink through a heightened physical\, emotional\, and erotic lens. \nPRESENTER: \nMF Dom: Dominant | Educator | 8 Years Experience \nDominance is more than control; it’s an experience in trust. How do we set up a scene that allows the sub to trust you with whatever will happen next? How do we create and acknowledge boundaries and ensure they will be respected so that within them you both can revel in the pleasure of suspense\, pain\, and tension? With eight years of practice in BDSM\, MF Dom brings a grounded\, intentional approach to power exchange that gets you both there by balancing intensity with care. \nMF Dom specializes in impact play\, wax play\, electro play\, and aftercare. He guides partners and students through the physical and emotional rhythms of trust\, sensation\, and release. His demonstrations and lessons emphasize safety\, consent\, and connection\, inviting others to explore the power of awareness and touch. \nWhether leading a workshop or curating a scene\, MF Dom’s presence reminds participants that true dominance isn’t about taking\, it’s about both partners giving each other a mind-blowing experience built with trust and respect. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/94c9c2ddc0
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-ass-to-grass-fitness-as-a-tool-of-domination-with-mf-dom/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T130000
DTSTAMP:20260102T025159Z
CREATED:20260102T025159Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260102T025159Z
UID:5971-1768734000-1768741200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Rules and Rituals for Power Play with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:BDSM goes way beyond a spank\, a choke and a hair pull\, so forget the fluffy handcuffs because in this workshop\, we will go beyond the surface to explore the powerful tools which are rules and rituals. \nWherever you are in your kink journey\, rules and rituals can provide a new and exciting way to incorporate power play into your kinky relationship or dynamic. In this workshop\, you will discover the psychological side of BDSM & Kink\, and how you can incorporate it into your play sessions to deepen your connection and go beyond bondage. \nWe will cover: \n\nThe roles of Dominant & submissive\nWhat are rules & rituals\nWhy use them?\nNegotiation and communication\nYour kinky love language\nHow to include rules & rituals into your play/lifestyle\n\nSingles\, couples and more welcome. All you need is yourself and an open mind. \nPlease note this is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework\, but the level of participation depends on what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/99d8bdd4b9
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-rules-and-rituals-for-power-play-with-sarah-butcher-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260118T160000
DTSTAMP:20260102T033122Z
CREATED:20260102T033122Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260102T033122Z
UID:5974-1768744800-1768752000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: The Archetypes of Power & Surrender: A Two Part Series with FireOnTheMtnTop / Sir Scott and Lecee
DESCRIPTION:This is a two-part class to build on your skills! We’ll meet on both 1/18 and 1/29. \n🔥 BDSM isn’t just play—it’s transformation. 🔥 \nIn this evocative and powerful two-part online series\, you’ll explore the deep currents of power\, submission\, polarity\, shadow\, and ritual through the lens of archetypes. These aren’t roles you act out—they’re energies that move through you. Sacred. Primal. Mythic. \nWhether you’re Dominant\, submissive\, Switch\, or still finding your way\, this class offers an unforgettable map of the 18 core archetypes that shape how we love\, lead\, surrender\, resist\, and transform in kink. \nYou’ll get: \n\nA custom Archetype Quiz to identify your dominant energetic patterns\nA guided tour through each archetype’s essence\, shadow\, and ritual signature\nA set of archetype one-pagers for self-study and scene inspiration\nFrameworks for polarity pairing\, energy mapping\, and transformation scenes\nJournaling\, reflection\, and optional integration rituals between sessions\n\n✨ This is not a 101 class. This is for those ready to meet themselves in the fire. Expect laughter\, tears\, archetypal awakenings\, and mythic-level “aha” moments. \nSession One (Jan 18): \n\nIntroduction to archetypes in kink and power exchange\nHow to read and interpret your quiz results\nOverview of the 18 archetypes and their core patterns\nExploration of polarity\, projection\, and sacred role resonance\nJournaling + guided prompts\n\nSession Two (Jan 29): \n\nDeep-dive into selected archetypes based on quiz responses\nPairing dynamics: sacred matches\, mirrors\, challengers\nHow to build scenes and rituals based on archetypal energies\nIntegration practices\, shadow work\, and transformation pathing\nFinal collective invocation\n\nPresented by Sacred Fire Kink — where submission is a sacrament\, and Dominance is a vow. \nPRESENTERS: \n🔥 Scott – “FireOnTheMtnTop” \nScott is a lifestyle Dominant\, Sadist\, Daddy\, and Primal Edge Player with over 18 years in the kink community. He’s a founding Director of G.O.D.S.\, creator of Colorado KNKE Kinky Camping\, and a seasoned Dungeon Monitor\, lifestyle event Emcee\, and presenter. \nAs a Dominant\, Scott teaches that leadership in kink is sacred work—rooted in care\, emotional safety\, and integrity. He’s known for creating grounded\, real-world conversations about power and play that help people feel seen\, strong\, and turned on by their truth. \n✨ Lecee \nLecee is the “yin” to Scott’s Dominant fire—his little “s.” She’s been active in the lifestyle for 8 years and brings playful insight\, emotional wisdom\, and lived experience as a submissive. \nTogether\, she and Scott co-create containers that are intimate\, brave\, and authentic. Her presence helps others feel permission to explore new desires\, embrace vulnerability\, and rewrite the old stories they were told about sex\, surrender\, and and worthiness. \nTICKETING: \n$40-$80 sliding scale for the two-class series. \nPlease pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/232616f81a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-the-archetypes-of-power-surrender-a-two-part-series-with-fireonthemtntop-sir-scott-and-lecee-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260127T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260127T200000
DTSTAMP:20260121T031947Z
CREATED:20260121T031947Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T031947Z
UID:6013-1769536800-1769544000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Making rules\, tasks\, and ongoing protocol is one of the cornerstones of D/s dynamics. But it can be daunting to figure out where to start\, how to create different structures of protocol for different spaces\, and how to maintain the strict container. \nWe’ll go over some tools that help make protocol easier to experiment with and implement\, such as the cartography of control areas\, the protocol game\, and levels of protocol. Ultimately\, protocol is all about creating adjustable\, adaptable guidelines that feed the dynamic and enhance D/s headspace. You’ll come away from this discussion with tools and structure to elevate your protocol in any situation. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/dbdb8a6970
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-high-protocol-for-d-s-with-sinclair-sexsmith-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260131T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260131T160000
DTSTAMP:20260121T033300Z
CREATED:20260121T033300Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T033300Z
UID:6018-1769868000-1769875200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Used & Abused: The Art of Erotic Objectification with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Erotic Objectification is a deeply charged facet of kink that centers power\, identity\, and desire through transformational play. This workshop dives into the deliciously dehumanizing world of becoming a thing — and how that experience can unlock profound connection and catharsis. \nTogether\, we’ll explore the psychological landscape of objectification\, how to negotiate boundaries\, design roles and scenes that are both hot and affirming\, and bring fantasies to life while embracing the healing power of surrender and control. \nGet ready to explore a wide range of objectification styles including toys\, tools\, holes\, props\, dolls\, displays\, furniture\, urinals\, ashtrays\, bimbos\, property\, and more!\nWhether you’re longing to be used or yearning to use someone well\, this workshop offers interactive exercises and explicit live demos to help you approach objectification with confidence\, creativity\, and care. Come discover how reducing someone to an object can build the deepest trust — and the dirtiest scenes. \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/da16d45717
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-used-abused-the-art-of-erotic-objectification-with-jamie-joy/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260201T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260201T163000
DTSTAMP:20260121T034210Z
CREATED:20260121T034210Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T034210Z
UID:6021-1769943600-1769963400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Curiosity to Connoisseur: A Newbie Intensive with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:So you’ve watched a movie that had an underlying kinky theme or maybe you have always known there was a darker side to your fantasies. Have you found yourself aroused when reading spicy fantasy books\, wishing to be one of the characters? Regardless of what piqued your interest\, this intensive is the place for you as it’s designed for anyone who is looking to expand their understanding of BDSM. \nWhether you think you’re dominant\, submissive\, or somewhere in-between\, you’ll gain comprehensive knowledge and skills. Let’s begin your exploration by mastering the essential terminology\, empowering you to communicate confidently within the lifestyle. Let’s discuss the concept of informed consent to ensure that your experiences are intentional and mutually enjoyable. We will help you to feel confident and safe in your journey\, going from newbie to intermediate and beyond. Our time will guide you through this exciting\, expansive community in a non-judgmental or pressured way. \nLearn fundamental psychology\, enhancing your appreciation of the dynamics at play. Gain insights on how to recognize and prepare for common pitfalls you may encounter on your path. Understanding the vital responsibilities that accompany your participation in these types of activities is essential which we will go over. Discover crucial dos and don’ts for kinksters as well as respectful dungeon etiquette to thrive at public events or spaces. This is ALL the information we wish we had when we first started! \nDelve deeper with topics including: \n\nBreaking free from the shame of engaging in alternative sexualities\nRelationship dynamics\, identities\, and finding what’s right for you\nJournal prompts to explore your desires further\nBuilding your arsenal for your kinky persona\nIdentifying red flags and problematic\, dangerous behaviors early to keep yourself protected\nHelp with avoiding injuries and when to seek medical assistance\nEssential items for your safety kit\nThe difference between a healthy power exchange relationship and a toxic one\nProper vetting techniques\nBuilding your negotiation skills for satisfying kink adventures\nHow the experience can change in public versus private\nWhat happens to the brain and its chemicals during play and intimate encounters\nPlanning and setting up for the experience you desire\nPreparing your body and mind for kinky fun\nUnderstanding what drop is and how to combat it\nThe importance of aftercare\n\nThis intensive will include 5 hours of education and a 30 minute break in the middle. Regardless of identity or experience level\, all are welcome to join this class as we all have something to learn! \nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee comes from a queer\, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist\, BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Certified Hypnotist\, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach\, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University\, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses\, spicy digital guides\, clothing\, aftercare items\, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications\, been hired as an expert for various media outlets\, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play\, sex magic\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, sadism\, bedroom skills\, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter\, safer\, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality. \nTo view her full offerings\, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/503ca8fb05
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-curiosity-to-connoisseur-a-newbie-intensive-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260203T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260203T200000
DTSTAMP:20260121T035046Z
CREATED:20260121T035046Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T035046Z
UID:6028-1770141600-1770148800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Tips for House Topping with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Are you called to house top and share your skills\, but not sure where to start? Perhaps you’re already house topping but want to have better experiences not just for your bottoms but for yourself! Maybe you’ve been puzzled by some key challenges to communicating and gliding into these mini-scenes and want to learn key techniques to make house topping fun again! \nWe’ll cover: \n\nSpeed negotiations for fast & safe play\nKey questions to maintain clear communication through the scene\nHow to calibrate topping to difference levels of experience\nMaintaining boundaries & personal standards in the face of others’ expectations\nBeing an ethical psychopomp for new players\n\nLevel: Advanced. \nThis class is designed for three main audiences: People who are new to house topping and want to make this form of edutainment fun for everyone; people who have experience house topping and want to get even better at going as deeply as this format allows while acting ethically and protecting boundaries for self and others; and party organizers who want to offer safe\, fun and ethical house topping & sampler party experiences in our communities. While we’ll be focused on the experience of the more common “house top\,” we’ll also cover information that will be of use to house bottoms. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com \nTICKETING: \nPlease note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level\, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up! \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/84f752c7bf
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-tips-for-house-topping-with-miriam-green-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260204T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260204T200000
DTSTAMP:20260121T035435Z
CREATED:20260121T035435Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260121T035435Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Fatal Follicles: Hair Pulling for Harlots! with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:The art of pulling hair starts at the roots. Join Lady V in getting a fist full of skills & techniques around using your bottom’s hair as their own worst enemy. \nWe’ll condition our skills by: \n\nUsing hair pulling for movement\, power\, sensuality\, or pain\nHitting the sweet spots & getting the right amount of hair\nDo’s & don’ts of playing with textured hair\nUsing other body hair for leverage\nNegotiation around hair health\, pain\, & neck injuries\n\nWhy take this workshop?\nSo often people will pull hair from awkward angles that can break hair\, cause injury or just be downright painful in a non-fun way. This can be a sexy & sensual guide in making your hair pulling game stand up & stand out! \nPlease note\, this class is accessible to all genders & kink roles. \nPRESENTER: \nLady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & dominatrix. \nUsing her background in film\, Lady V is able to use the power of improv to switch on a dime. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US & virtually internationally. Lady V also tours nationally with the pet & primal themed wrestling night\, Bite Club. She currently serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ed19e0eb6e
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