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SUMMARY:SF: Dating While Kinky with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Whether you prefer online dating\, speed dating\, blind dates\, or the million other ways we meet people\, it’s hard enough to be yourself and just get to know the someone — or several someones — best for you. \nAdd a desire for fetish/ kink/ leather/ BDSM to the mix\, and things get even trickier. When do you talk about kink? How do you talk about it? How do you get what you want safely? \nIn this Kink 101 session\, we’ll talk about a variety of strategies for navigating the dating world as a kinkster\, including: \n\nDating resources in the kink community\nOnline dating sites/ apps that work for kinksters\, and a lot that don’t . . .\nHow to navigate those first few crucial dates\nRed flags and green lights to watch for\nBasic negotiations\nChoosing Mx. Right Now\, and Mx. Right\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for twenty years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \n$35 suggested. Sliding scale available for those for whom cost is a barrier to participation. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/13d3b3d440
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Negotiation Skills for subs & Bottoms with Faun
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’re brand-spanking new to the scene\, or you’ve been involved for years\, negotiating a new scene or with a new partner can be a daunting concept for kinky submissives and anyone on the lower side of the D/s slash. \nIn this workshop led by a sub with extensive experience Domming\, we’ll examine the do’s and don’ts of effective negotiating communication\, how to navigate the scene\, ways to identify important traits in compatible play partners\, and guide kinksters of all levels and experiences to co-creating the scenes they’ve always wanted to have! \nThere will also be a live demonstration of pick-up play negotiation and an open Q&A at the end. \nPRESENTER: \nFaun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years\, he always felt that something was missing. One day\, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories\, and the rest is history. Now\, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun\, and on Fet as deerfaun. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1b04693c63
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-negotiation-skills-for-subs-bottoms-with-faun-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Making rules\, tasks\, and ongoing protocol is one of the cornerstones of D/s dynamics. But it can be daunting to figure out where to start\, how to create different structures of protocol for different spaces\, and how to maintain the strict container. \nWe’ll go over some tools that help make protocol easier to experiment with and implement\, such as the cartography of control areas\, the protocol game\, and levels of protocol. Ultimately\, protocol is all about creating adjustable\, adaptable guidelines that feed the dynamic and enhance D/s headspace. You’ll come away from this discussion with tools and structure to elevate your protocol in any situation. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ff2cee7972
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-high-protocol-for-d-s-with-sinclair-sexsmith-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260507T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Seducing Your sub: How to Create Erotic Tension & Keep Your sub Coming Back For More with Marla Renee Stewart
DESCRIPTION:If you’ve been in the D/s world\, you know that some subs can be finicky on their search for the right Dominant. Finding the sub that works for you takes patience\, but most of all it takes the Dominant to pick up on the right cues that would draw the sub in. \nIn this workshop\, you’re going to understand how to use seduction to your advantage to get your subs to not only do what you want when you want it\, but for them to beg you for more attention and more erotic play time. Whether you are a beginner or a professional\, this will help you run the long (and successful) game when it comes to your kinky endeavors. This workshop is for every gender identity and sexual orientation. \nPRESENTER: \nMarla Renee Stewart\, MA\, CSE (she/her) is a 3x award-winning sexologist\, author\, and sexual strategist at Velvet Lips Sex Education. With over two decades in kink\, Miss Marla proudly identifies as a sensual sadist and professional top\, specializing in techniques such as impact play\, breath play\, dirty talk\, and sensual genital torment. Her work centers on empowering erotic autonomy and dismantling sexual shame—especially for Black\, queer\, and kinky communities. As Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference\, Marla co-created the largest BIPOC dungeon in the world\, offering a transformative space for exploration and healing. She also trains therapists\, counselors\, and educators in understanding and supporting the unique needs of Black queer and kinky relationships with cultural competency and care. Through her workshops\, writings\, and fierce advocacy\, Marla continues to lead the movement for sexual liberation with unflinching power and sensuality. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1ca7b17af2
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260510T140000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Listening with Empathy with Master Retro Bella
DESCRIPTION:One of the most common traits among failed scenes\, negotiations\, and contract discussions is misunderstanding the intent behind a verbal statement. Oftentimes the intent is buried behind “under talk” and lack of trust. This can be particularly challenging when communication is already at a standstill. Join me as we explore how to regain trust and relearn how to listen with empathy. \nIn this class\, we will be covering: \n\nWhat is “Under talk” and how can we recognize it in our speech\nReading body language or the lack of body language\nLearning how to become a more empathic person\nRebuilding trust after a communication break down\nHow to create a safe place for private talks\n\nPRESENTER: \nMaster Retro Bella is a Latina High Femme Master and Leather woman from Bakersfield\, California. Her pronouns are She/Her/Hers. She is the first woman to earn the title of 2023 Southwest Master and became the first person of Latin descent to hold the 2024 International Master title. She is passionate about Latinx/ne representation in M/s and Leather spaces. This passion fueled her to create the Latine Leather Pride flag\, which debuted at South Plains Leatherfest in 2025\, and to become the founder of Latinos in Leather. Recognized as one of the Onyx Pearls’ “Young 8\,” she carries the pearl name Amara Pearl. Currently\, Master Retro Bella curates the Latinx Queer Chronicles on Substack\, which showcases the intersectionality of queerness and Latinidad. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/412287efca
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260517T110000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Strangers in the Night: Fray Sexuality\, Relationships & YOU! with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:Fray Sexuality is often described as an attraction to new and/or unfamiliar people\, often with little to no interpersonal connection previously. \nBeing Fray Sexual doesn’t mean you can’t have or maintain relationships. It doesn’t mean you’re cold or “not capable of love”. Its just a different layer of how someone is sexually attracted to people & practices their sexuality. \nFray Sexuality is often looked down upon instead of celebrated for what it is. This class helps us understand what Fray Sexuality is\, how to navigate being Fray Sexual\, & how to support a partner who’s Fray. \nJoin Lady V in the messy fray that is Fray Sexuality! In this class we’ll cover: \n\nSetting & maintaining boundaries with primary partners\nGetting needs met and navigating points of safety when getting intimate with strangers\nMaintaining primary & romantic relationships while being fray sexual\nCreating connection points outside of sexuality & romance\nBalancing respect with (sub)conscious objectification\n\nThis class is geared towards fellow fray sexuals\, partners of fray sexuals & the curious! The class is heavily geared toward consensual non-monogamy. \nCan’t make it? Recording available for 7 days! \nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & pro domina. \nUsing her background in film\, Lady V is able to use the power of improv to switch on a dime. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nYou can view more of her work at https://TheLadyV.Net or Fetlife at @‌The_Lady_V. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5d70f380ca
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-strangers-in-the-night-fray-sexuality-relationships-you-with-lady-v/
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260528T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Unfuck Your Relationship Escalator: (Re)Building Healthy Relationship Foundations with Lilith Foxx
DESCRIPTION:No matter your level of experience with non-monogamy\, “The Relationship Escalator” is bound to sneak up on you a time or two! But what if that’s not a bad thing? \nLilithfoxx has been a Non-hierarchal\, Relationship Anarchist\, Switchy Polyam for the better part of a decade. She’ll teach you how to avoid the fuckups and reframe The Escalator as a way to strengthen and build your non-monogamous relationships to stand the test of time. Topics of discussion include: \n-“The Relationship Escalator” (TRE) – what it is\, how it can be problematic\, and its unexpected perks.\n-How TRE can hide in plain sight and look different based on a number of factors – including kink\, social and power differentials.\n-Setting goals in relationships and dynamics that are authentic to you and your partner(s).\n-Using TRE as a catalyst for positive change in relationships and communication. \nThis class is suitable for anyone\, regardless of relationship orientation. Attendees will learn healthy ways to communicate needs and build relationships that are applicable to all styles of love and relationships. \nPRESENTER: \nLilithfoxx (she/her) is an accomplished Board-certified sexologist\, educator\, and professional speaker with a specialized focus on alternative sexuality\, diversity\, equity\, inclusion\, and belonging (DEIB)\, LGBTQ+ and disability inclusion\, and cultural competency in clinical\, academic\, and research settings. Presently\, she is engaged in pursuing her AASECT Sexuality Educator certification\, and is a student at The Kinsey Institute\, demonstrating her commitment to the field and professional growth. Identifying as a BIPOC\, Queer\, and neurodivergent individual\, Lilith brings a unique and valuable perspective to her work. This personal insight has been key in developing her specialty areas and contributing to a more inclusive conversation about sexuality and relationships. Lilith’s connection to alternative sexuality extends beyond her professional work. For over a decade\, she has identified with kink and polyamorous communities\, even stepping into the roles of community organizer and educator in these spaces for the past five years. She is also a skilled workshop facilitator\, delivering sessions on relationships\, sexuality\, intimacy\, and inclusion. Her workshops have reached global audiences through conferences around the world\, ensuring a wide and diverse range of perspectives in her audience. Lilith draws on her experiences as a proud former sex worker to inform her professional approach and expertise\, fostering a deeper understanding of the varied facets of sexuality. Her insights and expertise have been recognized and featured in major publications such as Cosmopolitan\, Men’s Health\, Glamour\, Kinkly\, Ask Men\, Mashable\, and many more. \nBefore her foray into sexuality education and consultancy\, Lilith enjoyed a successful decade-long career in digital marketing. As a senior-level digital marketing director\, SEO-specialist\, web developer\, and business consultant\, she worked with businesses spanning from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. She continues to utilize these skills\, providing marketing and business consulting services to sex-positive and adult-industry businesses. \nThrough her professional endeavors\, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire\, educate\, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality\, relationships\, and intimacy. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0ad19b7bfc
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