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SUMMARY:ONLINE: From ‘Boys Will Be Boys’ to Boundaries: Healing Consent Culture in BDSM with Buzz Stingyear
DESCRIPTION:Have you ever felt that kink community wasn’t there for you? Are you confronting unhelpful worldviews around consent that you’ve struggled to shift? Would you like to learn how to be less reactive or annoyed and more open to your [potential] partners’ perspectives? If so\, this class is for you! \nThis course explores the emotional\, social\, and psychological dimensions of consent beyond the basics. Participants will unpack common resistance to consent culture and deepen their understanding through reflection\, dialogue\, and experiential practice. Learn when “boys will be boys” or “it’s just my way” is applicable to consent culture. Even those of us who are profoundly dedicated to the ideas of consent sometimes resist the culture and practices of consent. Or we are not even aware that what we are doing is related to kink and therefore think it is not under the purview of consent. \nIn this workshop\, you will learn to: \n\nUnderstand what “nuance” in consent means and why it matters\nExplore how context and assumptions impact BDSM consent\nDetermine whether you can be a badass or a Dominant/Top and still be religious about consent\nExamine the conflict that arises when your authentic self conflicts with another’s authentic self in relation to consent\nUnpack personal resistance to consent practices and replace resistance with enthusiasm\nIdentify personal experiences with clear vs. unclear consent\n\nPRESENTER: \nBuzz_Stingyear is a late-blooming kinkster who grew up in a money-driven\, Trump-aligned household. He internalized a rigid worldview that took years of effort to unravel. With a doctorate in Counseling Psychology\, he strives to align his personal growth with his training. Entering the public kink community exposed him to the transformative power of feedback\, accountability\, and consent culture. Behaviors once normalized in his vanilla world were challenged and reexamined. Buzz remains committed to self growth\, becoming less reactive and more compassionate\, and supporting others in finding connection\, safety\, and self-awareness within the kink community. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a332d6e3c3
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dungeons Demystified: Navigating Etiquette\, Attire\, and Atmosphere in BDSM Spaces with Princess Rara
DESCRIPTION:Exploring a BDSM dungeon for the first time can be exciting yet a bit overwhelming. This class is designed to help you feel comfortable and confident by explaining what to expect and how to behave in these unique spaces. Whether you’re going to a public dungeon or a private play party\, this session will give you the tools you need to navigate these environments with ease. \nKey Topics Covered: Understanding the Dungeon Environment: \n– Public vs. Private Dungeons: Learn the differences between public and private dungeons and what you can expect from each.\n– Typical Layout and Equipment: Get familiar with common features and equipment you might find in a dungeon. \nDungeon Etiquette: General Conduct: Discover how to behave respectfully and responsibly while in a dungeon. \n– Consent and Boundaries: Understand the importance of respecting personal and scene boundaries.\n– Communication Protocols: Learn how to communicate effectively\, including the use of safe words and signals. \nAttire and Appearance: Dress Codes: Find out what to wear\, from casual kink outfits to more formal fetish attire\, to fit in and feel comfortable. \n– Personal Grooming: Get tips on grooming to match dungeon norms and maintain a presentable appearance. \nParticipating and Observing: \n– Active Participation: Learn how to engage in scenes safely and respectfully.\n– Respectful Observation: Understand the dos and don’ts of observing others without intruding on their experience. \nSafety and Hygiene: \n– Cleanliness Standards: Ensure both personal and equipment hygiene are up to standard.\n– Emergency Protocols: Know what to do in case of an emergency and understand the role of dungeon monitors. \nBuilding Confidence: Overcoming Nerves: Get strategies to manage anxiety and enjoy your experience. \nCommunity and Support: Learn how to find and connect with supportive kink communities and mentors. \nBy the end of this class\, you’ll have a clear understanding of dungeon etiquette\, how to dress appropriately\, and how to conduct yourself with confidence and respect. Join us to gain the knowledge you need to become a knowledgeable and respectful participant in the BDSM community. \nPRESENTER: \nPrincess Rara (she/her) is a sadomasochist\, kink educator\, and the founder of Pink Kink—a platform that includes a podcast\, boutique\, and educational institute dedicated to helping kinksters build confident\, ethical kink lives. With ten years in the BDSM community\, she brings a blend of experience\, honesty\, and humor to everything she teaches. \nHer classes cover both foundational and advanced topics\, always with a focus on real-world application\, consent\, and personal growth. Known for her warm\, inclusive\, and engaging teaching style\, Rara doesn’t talk at her students—she creates space for discussion\, story-sharing\, and connection. Her goal is to meet people where they are\, help them feel seen and validated\, and support their journey toward more intentional and empowered kink. \nRara has taught for organizations including Dark Odyssey\, Studio 58\, and Wicked Grounds. In the DC area\, she’s also a munch host\, Demo/House Top\, occasional Pro Domme\, and party host in her private dungeon. No matter the setting\, she is committed to creating spaces where kinksters of all kinds feel respected\, supported\, and safe to explore who they are. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2c8b9ee91e \nWe offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dungeons-demystified-navigating-etiquette-attire-and-atmosphere-in-bdsm-spaces-with-princess-rara/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Baring Your Emotional Jugular: Active Bottoming For Emotional Sadism Play
DESCRIPTION:Sticks and stones may break your bones\, but words… can actually do some serious damage\, right? Emotional sadomasochism (ESM) is incredibly fun but also incredibly high-risk\, and mitigating that risk can seem like a lot of work. It turns out that handing someone a metaphorical map of your emotional landscape makes it a bit easier for them to navigate without breaking things. But how do we make an accurate map\, and how do we draw it in a way that makes sense for our partner? \nWe’ll discuss skills such as scene negotiation\, vulnerability/authenticity\, discovering and communicating your desires and aftercare needs\, and flirting with your sadists in a non-pushy way. SuspendDisbelief aims to prove that bottoms can actively participate in and guide their own play-destruction while having fun! \nPRESENTER: \nSuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer\, non-monogamous power exchange and sadomasochism nerd. Her hobby of choice has been getting hurt in public since 2017\, but she has been fantasizing about powerlessness and crushing on former boy scouts exclusively for their knowledge of knots for far longer than that. On top of bottoming for power exchange and physical+emotional sadism\, she started tying herself in 2019 and swiftly snowballed down the pipeline toward rope topping. She uses the chaos goblin energy bestowed upon her by her ADHD to enhance her teaching and help people like her “get it”. She currently helps facilitate and teaches monthly for Hitchin’ Bitches DC. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a9ea90dc25 \nWe offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nSo – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class *will not* be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning\, which will be available for this event.
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