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SUMMARY:SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! A hands-on monthly impact playshop!
DESCRIPTION:Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! \nA peer-led skill share to explore impact play \nHosted by @impossiblepain \nSpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted\, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play\, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them\, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction. \n7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!) \n7:15: DOORS CLOSE \n7:15-7:30: Review of rules and guidelines\, toys show-and-tell \n7:30-9: Socialize\, observe\, and practice impact play! \nSpankLab Rules & Guidelines \nFurther explanation will be provided at the event\, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife\, or email eventsassistant@wickedgrounds.com beforehand if you have questions \n\nAsk before touching people\nAsk before touching toys\nAsk before giving feedback\nUse common sense and trust your gut!\nSex-positive space\, not sex-active\nNo phones or photography\nVoyeurism is participation — It’s okay to just watch\nDungeon etiquette review\n\nPRESENTER \nimpossiblepain is an impact switch\, a gleeful sadist\, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe\, creative\, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021. \nYou are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain \nGROUP \nWant to learn more about SpankLab? Join our new group on FetLife! \nTICKETING \nTickets: $20-$40 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/24948d0eb4
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-wicked-grounds-presents-spanklab-a-hands-on-monthly-impact-playshop-4/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Impact Play 101: A Blind Top’s Perspective with Mistress Jaiyde
DESCRIPTION:Impact play is a consensual BDSM activity that involves hitting/striking another human being. Many people use this form of play for sexual gratification or in power exchange\, but others use it for different reasons\, including connection and catharsis. Examples of this include slapping\, punching\, kicking\, spanking\, caning\, and flogging. \nThis is a beginners guide to impact play\, and a core pillar of BDSM is safety. Topics will include but are not limited to: \n• the definition of impact play\n• anatomy of the human body and safety/first aid\n• impact play techniques\n• how to create an impact play scene. \nI will also share my experiences as a blind dominant and impact player. So\, let’s dive into the wonderful world of impact play. \nPRESENTER: \nMistress Jaiyde (she/her) is passionate about the disability/LGBTQ communities\, mental health\, homelessness among LGBTQ youth\, and alternative lifestyles. Born in Ohio and completely blind\, she has never allowed her disability to hinder her. Jaiyde is the author of nine books within the genres of erotic and LGBTQ romance\, containing themes of disability representation\, tough subjects\, and happily-ever-after’s. She is also the founder of #DisabledAndKinky\, a virtual community of enthusiasts who are passionate about disability and alternative lifestyles. \nIn her free time\, Jaiyde can be found reading\, creating/listening to music\, cooking/baking\, or watching soap operas/cartoons. Her motto is ”inability\, not disability”. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1529e3ddfb
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-impact-play-101-a-blind-tops-perspective-with-mistress-jaiyde/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250707T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Risk Profile with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:The purpose of this workshop is that everyone leaves with a better sense of where they are on the risk spectrum and how they can use harm and pleasure management to minimize unwanted risks. \nWe will have a hands-on approach and go through reflection questions as well as exercises\, while holding space so that everyone can share their own experiences and thoughts. \nWe will also offer extra material so everyone can repeat the process at their own pace and as many times as they need! \nFirst part: \n\nIntroduction to harm\, risk\, and pleasure from different points of view\nIntroduction to the history of harm reduction and why it applies to kink\nPolitics of harm and risk\nRisk aversion\, risk seeking\, risk acceptance\nSome questions to start thinking about how we relate to harm\, risk\, pleasure\, and loss\nSelf-consent: why it matters and how we can practice accountability\n\nSecond part: \n\nIntroduction to risk profiles: What are those? Why do I want one?\nHow to make your own risk profile\nQuestions to explore how risk feels in our body/mind\nExercises to map our own profile\nGroup discussion and sharing\n\nINSTRUCTORS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink\, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics\, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression\, and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet\, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/53b2187727
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-risk-profile-with-mel-and-memi/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250710T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Boundless Creativity: Innovative Ways to Use Rope in Play with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:When most people hear the word “rope\,” their minds drift to stunning suspensions and intricately woven patterns that adorn social media feeds. However\, this world extends far beyond these visual spectacles. In this engaging and insightful class\, we invite you to explore the more practical\, versatile\, and often overlooked aspects of bondage in intimate scenarios. Rope can complement various forms of play\, from sensual massage to role-play scenarios and so much more. \nOur time together will inspire you to think beyond traditional rope bondage\, encouraging you to enhance your experiences by blending modalities\, adding layers of excitement and creativity. Understanding and establishing clear communication before delving into any intimate activities is the bedrock of any successful and satisfying scene. We’ll explore effective strategies to negotiate boundaries\, desires\, and aftercare\, ensuring that both you and your partner feel safe and cherished throughout your time together. \nWhether you’re an experienced practitioner or just curious about the possibilities\, this class will empower you to incorporate rope into your scenes in exciting and unexpected ways. \n\nEssential knowledge about nerve anatomy\, how to identify safe zones for tying\, and recognize the signs of discomfort or distress\nWhere to buy quality materials and other essential supplies\nAdding bondage to other play activities\nUnlock the potentials of exploiting pressure points while someone is vulnerable\nElevate your sensory experiences\nEnhance trust\, fostering a deeper emotional connection\n\nThis workshop is meant to be an inclusive environment that is accommodating for all types of people. You can participate in a way that feels comfortable for you\, whether that’s having your camera on\, joining in the chat\, or remaining anonymous while taking in all the information. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any accessibility needs. \nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee is a Board-Certified Sexologist\, BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Qualified Hypnotist\, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach\, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University\, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers online workshops\, digital guides\, clothing\, aftercare items\, and more. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and mentor. She has been involved in the kink lifestyle\, professionally and personally\, for over 20 years and teaching for 15+ years. She has written and been quoted in numerous publications and has been utilized as an expert for media outlets. Miss Mackenzee is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and various relationship dynamics as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has brought her experiences and skills to various organizations such as Kink dot com\, Widener University\, TES\, SF Citadel\, Dark Odyssey\, VoxBody Studio\, Filthy FemDom\, Wicked Grounds\, Black Thorn/Sacred Muse\, Kinky Kollege\, Bound In Boston\, SheBop\, SADE\, Adventures in Sexuality\, Rochester Erotic Arts Festival\, EXXXotica\, and many others. \nShe teaches a full range of subjects including but not limited to energy play\, sex magick\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, hypnosis\, bedroom skills\, spirituality\, and the art of sadism. She prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgment. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. Miss Mackenzee has a passion for helping folks connect deeper with themselves and others to have hotter\, safer\, and more fulfilling intimacy. \nShe welcomes you to connect with her in a variety of ways:\nwww.MissMackenzee.com\nInstagram: MissMackenzeeagain\nTwitter: @MissMackenzee\nTikTok: @MissMackenzee\nYouTube: @officialmissmackenzee\nDiscord: https://discord.gg/Fk8bfBFU \nTICKETING: \n$20-$40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/dc980eea79
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-boundless-creativity-innovative-ways-to-use-rope-in-play-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250710T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Sub drop. Top drop. “A case of the Mondays.” \nWhatever we call it\, post-scene drop is frustrating\, irritating\, and isolating. It often makes us question — at least in the moment — what was otherwise an awesome scene. \nWhat is this awful mood we fall into after a scene\, and what the heck can we do about it? \nIn this class\, Miriam Green will draw on what we know about the neuropsychology of BDSM to help us better understand drop\, and build strategies for resilience when we face it. We’ll talk about: \n\nCommon misconceptions about drop\nWhat’s going on in the mind\, brain and body\nMind-body strategies for before\, during and after the scene to help us bounce back\nHow to change our narrative to avoid making drop worse\nThe best ways to effectively communicate after a scene — for good scenes and bad\n\nYou’ll come away with better self-understanding and a self-care toolkit to draw on when drop comes calling. Join us! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \n$20-$40 in advance. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \nPlease note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level\, please check Patreon for the promo code. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b1eac134a3
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dealing-with-drop-with-miriam-green-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250712T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250712T180000
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SUMMARY:Increasing Your Impact! A Daylong Impact Play Intensive with Miriam Green and impossiblepain
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’re new to impact play or want to take your play to the next level\, we’d love you to join us for a unique daylong impact play experience. This daylong intensive is for tops and bottoms alike who would like to deepen and refine their impact play skillset. \nWe’ll work together to create a unique\, hands-on immersion into impact play. We’ll cover negotiation and safety\, emotional engagement\, ergonomics\, and somatic and verbal communication for hands-on play. Through the day\, you’ll learn all the basics of impact play\, whether you prefer to play using your hands and fists\, or using rigid toys such as paddles\, canes\, tawses\, and some truly sadistic home-grown pervertables. \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \n\nNegotiation & co-creation for impact play\nErgonomics\, safety\, and communication\nHow to integrate impact play into creative\, dynamic scenes\nHow to play with your hands: slapping\, hitting\, spanking\, punching & more!\nHow to play with rigid and semi-rigid impact toys: paddles\, tawses\, belts\, canes\, and more!\nProcessing pain and other physical and emotional sensations\nBasic aftercare and post-scene preparation\nHow to create\, plan and manage an impact scene through our capstone make-your-own-scene exercise\n\nPlease note that we’ll concentrate on rigid and semi-rigid toys\, and we will not address floggers or whips in this class. \nYou do not need to come with a partner\, but you should come prepared to play! In the early part of the day\, we’ll try a lot on ourselves. Our afternoon capstone exercise will be a scene where you’ll apply your skills in a hands-on scene with a partner. \nPRESENTERS \nMiriam Green is a kink educator and coach with over twenty years’ experience in the public BDSM scene as a participant\, educator\, house top\, party host and former gear-slinger. A gleeful sadist and overly-dramatic masochist\, they own far too many canes for their own good. Mir owns Wicked Grounds\, a kink and sex-positive education business to help playful people find and traverse their kink journeys. \nimpossiblepain is an impact switch\, a gleeful sadist\, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe\, creative\, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. \nTogether\, Miriam Green and impossiblepain created San Francisco’s SpankLab in 2021\, and they have co-presented dozens of classes on impact play for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, and Dark Odyssey Surrender. \nPLEASE BRING: \n\nA water bottle and any must-have snacks\nA rigid or semi-rigid toy to practice with\, such as a cane\, paddle\, or strap.\nDon’t have any kink toys? No problem! Bring a pervertable\, such as a clean wooden spoon or a leather belt\nA sack lunch (or you may get something in the neighborhood)\nA notebook and pen (phones will be put away during parts of the class)\nAn open mind and sense of play!\n\nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4f7e84f70d
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/increasing-your-impact-a-daylong-impact-play-intensive-with-miriam-green-and-impossiblepain/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Intensives
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Beyond the Basics: Advanced Kink & BDSM with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Dive deeper into the world of Kink & BDSM in this next level class for enthusiasts seeking to advance and elevate their skills. We will expand beyond the basics into heavy impact\, predicament bondage\, and intense sensation play. Prepare to explore the edges with demos on punching\, kicking\, sensory deprivation\, orgasm control\, choking\, knife play\, electro stimulation\, and more! \nIf you are ready to thrive in your role as a Dominant\, Submissive\, or Switch – this space will empower your growth through discussions on scene planning\, dirty talk\, and power dynamics. \nWe will emphasize safety\, techniques\, and how to establish clear communication through live demonstration. \nThis class is open to all genders\, sexualities\, and experience levels. Come and play! \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, pleasure\, and consent through community organizing. Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating\, playing sadistically with flaming floggers\, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d240fbf2a9
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-beyond-the-basics-advanced-kink-bdsm-with-jamie-joy-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250716T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250716T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Holy Cow! - Intro to Hucow & Bovine Play with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:MOO-ve! Get out the hay! Discover ways to create a unique headspace\, explore multiple roles\, implement many forms of play\, & learn about multiple milking methods to fill you with udder pleasure! \nCowprint & cows have become all the rage in fashion & even in the bedroom. This class gives ideas on how to rocket into udder space. \nWe’ll steak out the multiple ways we can nurture our inner cow or bovine by: \n\nGetting deeper into Bovine Headspace\nBreast & chest torture & nipple stimulation\nLactation induction & STI safety around lactation\nNavigating what types of pumps or milkers to use!\nDiving into top & Handler roles (such as Farmer\, Rancher\, gulps or Butcher).\nBovine play as a masculine\, male\, or gender non-conforming person\n& so much MOO-re!\n\nJoin us\, chew the cud\, & love your cow. Built-in mind to be inclusive of any gender identity. Be seen and also herd. \nThe class also discusses the different types of dynamics involved in cow-centric pet play. Top\, bottom\, switch\, hucow\, bull\, ox\, farmer\, butcher\, or just curious\, this class is for you! \nTW: Includes sexual content\, genitalia\, concepts around ravishment\, & brief mentions of ancestral trauma\, misogyny\, & genocide. \nhuman-animal role-play event: no actual animals are involved with this event \nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V aka C.C. the Cow (she/her) is co-creator of the Hucow Pride Flag in 2023. She is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & Professional Dominatrix. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nShe is the self-proclaimed “Dairy Queen of the Hucow Herd”\, “Jewish American Pleasure Princess” & “Switchinatrix”. Lady V also identifies as a Bootblack\, Hucow & Mommy Domme. V has taught all over the United States for organizations & conferences such as Kinkfest\, Southeast Leatherfest\, Sex Positive World\, SubSpace Indy\, Leather Reign & more! \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as a Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. She has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, where she lives with her Mistress/Rancher in a 24/7 TPE where serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0328e9bbaf
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-holy-cow-intro-to-hucow-bovine-play-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250719T140000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: This is Your Brain on Kink. (Any Questions?) with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:While our relationships with kink are deeply personal and sometimes idiosyncratic\, the neuroscience of peak experiences can tell us a lot about what we all have in common. Learning about what happens in our brains when we play can lead to better communication and better scenes. \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \n\nThe four major neurotransmitters behind building a kink headspace\nHow and why edgeplay makes even well-planned scenes less predictable\nHow to stay in communication before\, during\, and after each scene\nWhat to know when negotiating for relationships\nThe causes of post-scene drop\, and how to deal with drop when it occurs\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1522ed9983
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-this-is-your-brain-on-kink-any-questions-with-miriam-green-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250721T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250721T200000
DTSTAMP:20260404T191758
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes\, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene. \nJoin us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about: \n\nNegotiation styles\nPre-scene negotiations\nHow to negotiate without killing the mood\nChecking in during and after the scene\nNegotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics\n\nDrawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic.This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4288277d4f
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-101-bdsm-negotiation-basics-with-miriam-green-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250722T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250722T200000
DTSTAMP:20260404T191758
CREATED:20250603T224045Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20250603T224045Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Making rules\, tasks\, and ongoing protocol is one of the cornerstones of D/s dynamics. But it can be daunting to figure out where to start\, how to create different structures of protocol for different spaces\, and how to maintain the strict container. \nWe’ll go over some tools that help make protocol easier to experiment with and implement\, such as the cartography of control areas\, the protocol game\, and levels of protocol. Ultimately\, protocol is all about creating adjustable\, adaptable guidelines that feed the dynamic and enhance D/s headspace. You’ll come away from this discussion with tools and structure to elevate your protocol in any situation. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING: \n$20-$40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1603a4303f
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-high-protocol-for-d-s-with-sinclair-sexsmith/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250726T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250726T130000
DTSTAMP:20260404T191758
CREATED:20250611T004428Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20250611T004428Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Discipline & Punishment with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Discipline – the other D in BDSM that rarely gets spoken about. Discipline is an important part of creating a successful power exchange dynamic\, and if you’re looking for some inspiration when it comes to training\, disciplining\, and punishing your submissive partner\, then this workshop is for you. \nWe will be covering topics such as: \n\nWhat is discipline and punishment?\nWhat is power exchange?\nHow\, when and why to punish your submissive\nCreating rules and consequences\nPunishment vs Funishment\nTop tips\, tricks and ideas for punishments\nDo’s and don’ts of discipline and punishment\nAftercare\n\nThis workshop is open to all\, whether you’re single or in a relationship\, and will leave you feeling confident in disciplining and punishing your partner as well as inspiring and empowering you to deepen your power exchange experiences. \nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework\, but the level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events and retreats. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 sliding scale. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4da7493055
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-discipline-punishment-with-sarah-butcher/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250730T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250730T200000
DTSTAMP:20260404T191758
CREATED:20250611T015334Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20250611T015334Z
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SUMMARY:What's Your Fetish: Objects\, Body Parts\, and Materials of Desire with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:Fetishes are often mentioned offhandedly in the world of kink and BDSM\, but what is a fetish really? Where do ours come from\, and what about our specific fetishes call to us? Whether you have a fetish for specific objects\, materials\, situations\, or body parts\, this is your chance to talk about yours. \nThose curious about fetishes can also learn more about both the theories around fetishes and the people who have them alike. Together\, let’s explore these powerful erotic draws and tools for sexual arousal. \nINSTRUCTOR: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist\, and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith\, and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. \nHis books include Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities (with Mollena Williams)\, Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\, Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\, and Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\, amongst many others. \nLee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world-class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e3dad7bd78
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/whats-your-fetish-objects-body-parts-and-materials-of-desire-with-lee-harrington/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250731T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20250731T210000
DTSTAMP:20260404T191758
CREATED:20250617T233836Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20250617T233836Z
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SUMMARY:SF: Fetish Games with Psychokitty
DESCRIPTION:This will be fun\, as we demonstrate several “naughty” games and inspire your own. There will be multi-person party games\, similar to People Ping Pong and the Three Legged Race\, explained and demonstrated\, as well as some more intimate challenges for those at home players. Class participation is highly encouraged. \nPRESENTER: \nRyan Psychokitty is a performance artist and improv actor\, starting at the Annoyance Theater of Improv of Chicago in the late 90s and has performed in New York\, San Francisco\, London\, Kobe\, and Osaka\, with performance images in Skin Two. He has presented classes at the SF Citadel\, Shibaricon\, TNG4\, Boundless\, and others. \nHe is the host of the new Dirty Talk Game Show here in San Francisco\, a former host of Shibaricon in Chicago\, is one of the founders of Wicked Grounds Kink Cafe and Boutique. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. Tickets will also be available at the door at a sliding scale of $30-$50. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/7c72885692
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-fetish-games-with-psychokitty/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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