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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Edging and Tease Techniques: How to Build Anticipation and Prolong Pleasure for Maximum Satisfaction with Lilithfoxx
DESCRIPTION:Master the art of anticipation with Edging and Tease Techniques: How to Build Anticipation and Prolong Pleasure for Maximum Satisfaction. This class dives into the tantalizing world of edging\, a technique that brings partners to the edge of climax\, only to pull back for heightened arousal and stronger release. You’ll learn how to apply teasing techniques that build suspense\, keep desire simmering\, and create a powerful connection. \nWe’ll cover pacing\, communication cues\, and how to find the right balance between control and surrender\, so both you and your partner can enjoy the journey as much as the destination. Perfect for those looking to deepen intimacy and explore new dimensions of pleasure\, this class offers fun\, accessible insights to help you turn up the heat and keep things sizzling. Join us to add a new level of excitement to your intimate life through the art of tease and delay. \nPRESENTER: \nLilithfoxx (she/her) is an accomplished Board-certified sexologist\, educator\, and professional speaker with a specialized focus on alternative sexuality\, diversity\, equity\, inclusion\, and belonging (DEIB)\, LGBTQ+ and disability inclusion\, and cultural competency in clinical\, academic\, and research settings. Presently\, she is engaged in pursuing her AASECT Sexuality Educator certification\, and is a student at The Kinsey Institute\, demonstrating her commitment to the field and professional growth. Identifying as a BIPOC\, Queer\, and neurodivergent individual\, Lilith brings a unique and valuable perspective to her work. This personal insight has been key in developing her specialty areas and contributing to a more inclusive conversation about sexuality and relationships. Lilith’s connection to alternative sexuality extends beyond her professional work. For over a decade\, she has identified with kink and polyamorous communities\, even stepping into the roles of community organizer and educator in these spaces for the past five years. She is also a skilled workshop facilitator\, delivering sessions on relationships\, sexuality\, intimacy\, and inclusion. Her workshops have reached global audiences through conferences around the world\, ensuring a wide and diverse range of perspectives in her audience. Lilith draws on her experiences as a proud former sex worker to inform her professional approach and expertise\, fostering a deeper understanding of the varied facets of sexuality. Her insights and expertise have been recognized and featured in major publications such as Cosmopolitan\, Men’s Health\, Glamour\, Kinkly\, Ask Men\, Mashable\, and many more. \nBefore her foray into sexuality education and consultancy\, Lilith enjoyed a successful decade-long career in digital marketing. As a senior-level digital marketing director\, SEO-specialist\, web developer\, and business consultant\, she worked with businesses spanning from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. She continues to utilize these skills\, providing marketing and business consulting services to sex-positive and adult-industry businesses. \nThrough her professional endeavors\, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire\, educate\, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality\, relationships\, and intimacy. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c8de234bd1
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-edging-and-tease-techniques-how-to-build-anticipation-and-prolong-pleasure-for-maximum-satisfaction-with-lilithfoxx/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260928T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260928T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T215436Z
CREATED:20260914T215436Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Mind Games and Predicament Play with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:Have you ever wanted to take control of your partner and have them writhing with anticipation without ever having touched their body? Then this may be the class for you! There’s all types of extreme forms of mindfucks but they may be too extreme for some folks or not exactly what you’re looking for in your experience. \nThis workshop is designed to help you dip your toes into psychological play which is certainly a way to make things fun and exciting each time you play even if you only have a few toys or a limited skillset as a Top. Toying with the mind really helps create vulnerability in your bottom which will really keep them guessing. Got a bottom with an overactive brain? Try some predicaments as it helps the bottom focus on the present and get them into a more floaty headspace. \nThere is a saying “dominate their mind and the body will follow” which is so true and we’ll talk about ways to expand on that in your play. Within this workshop\, we’ll go from soft and gentle to more extreme scenarios to mess with your partner and mess with their reality in such a deliciously deviant way. \nOther topics to be discussed: \n\nPreparing yourself to be on the receiving end of these types of activities\nLearning how to be one step ahead of your bottom\nGetting into your partner’s mind in order to play around\nExamples and ways to use this play in all kinds of kink situations\nWhat is everyone’s responsibilities within this type of scene\nDiscovering ways a bottom can help aid in the experience\nHow to play with this playfully or sadistically\nWays to negotiate effectively for this type of play including discovering your limits\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee comes from a queer\, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist\, BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Certified Hypnotist\, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach\, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University\, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses\, spicy digital guides\, clothing\, aftercare items\, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications\, been hired as an expert for various media outlets\, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play\, sex magic\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, sadism\, bedroom skills\, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter\, safer\, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality. \nTo view her full offerings\, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/734cefdbcb
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-mind-games-and-predicament-play-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260929T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260929T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: How To Bake a Sex Party (And Other Delicious Experiences) with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory
DESCRIPTION:Learn how to cook up a deliciously sexy event for yourself! Laura talks about how to create a fun\, safe and intimate space\, pick out themes\, set intention and learn what tools you need for a successful play party. We’ll address parties of varying sizes\, moods\, and modes so that folks who are intrigued by the idea of hosting but intimidated by the logistics – or very organization-brained but concerned about the vibe – can get a sense of how to make these come together to build the custom event they and their desired group need. \nLaura has over 10 years of sex- and kink- inclusive event hosting experience and wants to share it with you! \nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a relationship coach\, educator\, and author of Monogamy? In this Economy? Finances\, Childrearing\, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory. She’s the voice behind the Ready for Polyamory blog and podcast\, and has been an expert voice on polyamory in such publications as The Boston Globe and Cosmopolitan. She’s been polyamorous for nearly 20 years and has been teaching since 2018. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5059f1ada4
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-how-to-bake-a-sex-party-and-other-delicious-experiences-with-laura-boyle-of-ready-for-polyamory/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261001T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261001T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T215841Z
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LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T215841Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Contract Systems with HannahtheScribe
DESCRIPTION:In this class\, we’ll cover how to create and maintain a customizable contract system for power exchange dynamics. We’ll explore how to create a vow/ oath that grants overarching power to your dynamic throughout any changes in details\, recommended things to include in your main contract\, and tips for how to organize it. \nWe’ll also talk about having multiple contracts within your system\, that may cover things like switching\, role play\, special situations\, polyamory\, training\, or projects\, as well as how to officialize not necessarily enforced information. For other important pieces beyond power exchange\, we’ll talk about self contracts. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session. \nPRESENTER: \nHannah The Scribe (she/her) is a 24/7 high protocol service slave/ homemaker and lifestyle masochist in an irrevocable consent dynamic. She’s also a Leathergirl\, the author of more than a dozen books\, and a kink educator. She’s the founder of Las Vegas TNG (The Next Generation) and serves on the Board of Directors of the Leather Leadership Conference\, as well as organizing vanilla meetups. She lives in Las Vegas with her Mistress/wife and their two cats. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3be9d73cd3
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-contract-systems-with-hannahthescribe/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261004T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261004T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T220044Z
CREATED:20260914T220044Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T220044Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 201: Advanced BDSM Negotiations - Relationships\, Dynamics\, and Contracts with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Join us for a Kink 201 session exploring negotiating how to think about and create long-term D/s dynamics and kinky relationships that work! We’ll talk about: \n\nSetting your own must-haves and red flags\nNegotiating for play partner relationships\nD/s relationships & contracts\nHow to maintain relationships over time\nAnd more!\n\nBuilding on our negotiation basics\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. \nThis workshop is designed for kinksters with some experience and knowledge of how to negotiate for BDSM play and scenes but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications in ongoing relationships. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds\, Society of Janus\, Foundations\, Dark Odyssey\, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for over 20 years in Austin\, Houston\, and the San Francisco Bay Area. \nTICKETING: \n$20\, $30\, and $40 price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9da4e37f0a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-201-advanced-bdsm-negotiations-relationships-dynamics-and-contracts-with-miriam-green-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261007T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261007T210000
DTSTAMP:20260914T220258Z
CREATED:20260914T220258Z
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SUMMARY:SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! A hands-on monthly impact playshop!
DESCRIPTION:Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! \nA peer-led skill share to explore impact play \nHosted by @impossiblepain \nSpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted\, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play\, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them\, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction. \n7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!) \n7:15: DOORS CLOSE \nPlease note: late arrivals after 7:15 will not be admitted and will not be refunded. Plan accordingly! \n7:15-7:30: Review of rules and guidelines\, toys show-and-tell \n7:30-9: Socialize\, observe\, and practice impact play! \nSpankLab Rules & Guidelines \nFurther explanation will be provided at the event\, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife\, or email eventsassistant@wickedgrounds.com beforehand if you have questions \n\nAsk before touching people\nAsk before touching toys\nAsk before giving feedback\nUse common sense and trust your gut!\nSex-positive space\, not sex-active\nNo phones or photography\nVoyeurism is participation — It’s okay to just watch\nDungeon etiquette review\n\nPRESENTER \nimpossiblepain is an impact switch\, a gleeful sadist\, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe\, creative\, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021. \nYou are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain \nGROUP \nWant to learn more about SpankLab? Join our new group on FetLife! \nTICKETING \nTickets: $20-$40 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9ef0479572
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-wicked-grounds-presents-spanklab-a-hands-on-monthly-impact-playshop-17/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261008T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261008T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Sub drop. Top drop. “A case of the Mondays.” \nWhatever we call it\, post-scene drop is frustrating\, irritating\, and isolating. It often makes us question — at least in the moment — what was otherwise an awesome scene. \nWhat is this awful mood we fall into after a scene\, and what the heck can we do about it? \nIn this class\, Miriam Green will draw on what we know about the neuropsychology of BDSM to help us better understand drop\, and build strategies for resilience when we face it. We’ll talk about: \n\nCommon misconceptions about drop\nWhat’s going on in the mind\, brain and body\nMind-body strategies for before\, during and after the scene to help us bounce back\nHow to change our narrative to avoid making drop worse\nThe best ways to effectively communicate after a scene — for good scenes and bad\n\nYou’ll come away with better self-understanding and a self-care toolkit to draw on when drop comes calling. Join us! \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/95399eca57
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dealing-with-drop-with-miriam-green-6/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261010T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261010T130000
DTSTAMP:20260914T220945Z
CREATED:20260914T220945Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T220945Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Monster Fucking in a Mundane World with Faun
DESCRIPTION:Quick—what’s wrong with Venom\, the Xenomorph Queen\, and the Minotaur? Answer: They’re super fun to fantasize about… but also super fictional. Good news: the fun doesn’t have to end with your fantasy! \nHumans have always had a fascination with the monstrous\, and to this day find ways to connect with it through ritual and play. Luckily for you\, this means that new-fangled technology isn’t the only way to get dicked down by Cthulhu. Whether you’re playing by yourself or with a partner\, this class will help you create the monsterfucking scene of your dreams. \nTogether\, we will: \n\nExplore the history of monstrous attraction\nInvestigate what our favorite monsters say about us\nLearn how to create a monsterfucking headspace and indulge the fantasy\nIdentify and create potential templates for solo or partnered scenes\nDiscuss pervertables & augmentables\nEnjoy the strange\, the unreal\, and the impossible!\n\nSo don’t leave that steamy werewolf breeding scene on your brain’s cutting room floor–you don’t need a feature film budget to get the climax you deserve. \nPRESENTER: \nFaun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years\, he always felt that something was missing. One day\, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories\, and the rest is history. Now\, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun\, and on Fet as deerfaun. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/07582d0490
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-monster-fucking-in-a-mundane-world-with-faun/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261010T120000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261010T150000
DTSTAMP:20260914T221339Z
CREATED:20260914T221339Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T221339Z
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SUMMARY:SF: Leading and Following: D/s Body Language
DESCRIPTION:In this interactive class\, we borrow leading and following techniques from partnered dance and apply it to D/s. No dance understanding is required. No partner is required. \nUsing simple concentration and dance techniques\, we explore the internal mind/body connection for Dominants and submissives\, non-speaking body language communication between the leader and follower\, and how this works in 24/7\, scenes\, and more. \nInfo for Students: \nBe prepared to move barefoot. (No shoes are allowed in the studio space.) Please bring a bottle of water for yourself. If you would like to take notes\, please bring your preferred materials for that but it’s not necessary – if you just want to move and listen\, that’s ok too. \nPRESENTER: \nAlexandria has been teaching dance and movement since 1998\, including private lessons\, small group studio classes\, and large public classes of 100+. Her repertoire includes pole for all bodies\, ballet for real life\, belly dance\, floorwork\, high heels dancing\, lap dancing\, Flexibility 4 Life\, salsa\, merengue\, bachata\, cha-cha\, east coast swing\, social waltz\, feminine sensual movement\, rhythm training\, body confidence\, non-verbal communication\, and more. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is “All bodies\, all genders\, all ages: come home to your body”. Her teaching emphasizes reclaiming your body and self-love\, strength\, flexibility\, improvisation\, and musicality. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2d5134413f
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-leading-and-following-d-s-body-language/
LOCATION:Mukunda Studio\, 1250 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261011T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261011T130000
DTSTAMP:20260914T221615Z
CREATED:20260914T221615Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T221615Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Knife Play: Fear and Sensation with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory
DESCRIPTION:Knife play is a really fun form of edge play (no pun intended). \nAimed at people of all skill levels\, this class will cover: \n\nKnife play-specific safety and negotiations.\nWhich questions to ask and what to keep in mind when creating your knife play scene.\nTypes of knives and edged tools you can use for play and where to get them.\n\nWe will cover everything from small play-specific knives to razor sharp hatchets. We will also discuss where to find quality knives without breaking the bank. Fear play\, and the psychology behind it. You can use knives for a variety of scenarios involving fear\, and in this class you will learn specific techniques of how to tap into your partner’s instincts to make them seem genuine. \nSensation play using different types of blades. We will explore several techniques for making sharp knives safe\, and making dull knives seem sharp and dangerous. We will also talk about different areas of the body and how they respond to the sensations you can produce in them. We will cover using multiple knives at once to invoke different type of feelings in your partner. \nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a relationship coach\, educator\, and author of Monogamy? In this Economy? Finances\, Childrearing\, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory. She’s the voice behind the Ready for Polyamory blog and podcast\, and has been an expert voice on polyamory in such publications as The Boston Globe and Cosmopolitan. She’s been polyamorous for nearly 20 years and has been teaching since 2018. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9eda97bd8a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-knife-play-fear-and-sensation-with-laura-boyle-of-ready-for-polyamory/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261011T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261011T160000
DTSTAMP:20260914T223315Z
CREATED:20260914T223315Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T223315Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Trauma Response As An s-Type with Oak
DESCRIPTION:All of us have experienced some form of trauma\, and many of us have experienced complex traumas. Trauma informs how we move through the world and within our relationships\, including D/s. Trauma response in submission is not a failure of submission; they’re pieces of us that have allowed us to survive. However\, when they show up inside a D/s dynamic\, they can get in the way of a grounded & chosen submission. \nThis interactive discussion asks how you tell the difference. Not just intellectually\, but in your body\, the moment\, and in the relationship. We’ll look at how nervous system activation shapes response\, and why a conditioned pattern can feel indistinguishable from a chosen one. \nWe’ll build language for what’s actually happening. We’ll look at what belongs to trauma\, to desire\, and what happens when the two have been living in the same room so long you’ve stopped noticing. \nThe frame we’ll return to the idea that submission is not the abandonment of the self. Submission is ideally an intentional offering of self. \nPRESENTER: \nOak is a community educator\, artist\, and collared & Owned sub with decades of work & event production in the Leather community. As the creator behind Oaken designs\, his artwork explores themes of devotion\, reverence\, and depravity through multiple mediums including resin work. Oak loves to facilitate conversations about ethical submission\, embodied consent\, and trauma-informed power. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1d34453683
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-trauma-response-as-an-s-type-with-oak/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261014T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261014T210000
DTSTAMP:20260914T223652Z
CREATED:20260914T223652Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T223652Z
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SUMMARY:Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty
DESCRIPTION:We can’t promise love\, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people\, a lot of people\, fast. \nOur purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. \n– Find people with similar kinks as yours. \n– Find people with whom to explore new kinks. \n– Find new friends. \n– Find new people to play with. \n  \nPeople will be separated by appetite\, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. \nThe evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite\, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting\, even if they aren’t your appetite. \nOnce the event has started\, we can not add new people\, so please be on time. \n  \nPRESENTER: \nRyan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade\, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender\, or hosting events at the SF Citadel\, Catalyst\, and of course Wicked Grounds. \n  \nACCESS: \nIn SF\, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. \nWe cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun)\, so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded. \nPlease do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave\, regardless of vaccination status.
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/kinky-speed-friending-with-psychokitty-3/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261015T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261015T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T224027Z
CREATED:20260914T224027Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T224027Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Ethical Self Harm A class with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:Many engage in physical “self harm” as a psychosomatic outlet of release when they feel distressed or depressed with no outlet or validation. \nThis class aims to instead redirect real physical self harm into using our tools of BDSM for temporary playful pain. \nJoin former “cutter” turned self sadomasochist\, Lady V\, in redirecting that negative energy into something cathartic\, fun\, & potentially healing. \nWhat is ethical self harm vs self harm? \nEthical self harm is a tool for self regulation without causing further emotional or physical distress. This includes not leaving permanent marks that could leave reminders of a time of distress. \nWe’ll give some ideas & structure around: \n\nUsing toys & tools safely on yourself\nLaying down your own code of ethics & self boundaries\nTurning self harm into self love & play.\nUse of orgasms to flip moods & rewards\n\nDISCLAIMER: This is not a celebration of self harm\, a form of or replacement for therapy or treatment. This is a mitigation of more dangerous methods or permanent forms of self harm\, like cutting\, in lieu of something that can be an emotional outlet or fun. \nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix based out of Los Angeles\, CA & Portland\, OR. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US & internationally. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events\, play parties\, educational intensives\, & so much more. \nPrior to jumping into pursuing sex education as a full time passion\, Lady V served as a Behavioral Services Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. Her work around modular\, individualistic care & advocacy has sense shifted to the larger world of sex positivity and kink. \nYou can view more of her work at her website at TheLadyV.net\, Fetlife at @‌The_Lady_V\, or Instagram at @Switchinatrix or @TheLadyV. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a810166528
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-ethical-self-harm-a-class-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261017T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261017T130000
DTSTAMP:20260914T224514Z
CREATED:20260914T224514Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T224514Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Your Kink Is Not My Kink - But Is Your Kink OK? with Sir Panda
DESCRIPTION:The guideline of “Your Kink Is Not My Kink” (YKINMK) has become foundational in the sex positive and BDSM communities as the standard for acceptance of diversity – and as the gold standard to avoid shaming. But what happens when we struggle with another’s kink\, to the point of becoming judgmental\, disturbed\, or even triggered? \nThis class will review types of play (including edge play) that might “squick” or trigger us\, and why. We’ll examine how to overcome our own biases\, discuss what to report and what not to report\, and how to reach the tolerance of Your Kink Is OK. \nPRESENTER: \nSir-Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant living in the Kansas City metro area. He has been a kink educator since he began teaching consent and BDSM basics at Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture in 2011. He has taught for Fetish Con\, Leather Reign\, the Kink Center\, Pragmatic Kink\, Wicked Grounds\, and the Venusian Society. He especially focuses on the mental and relationship aspects of kink and polyamory\, drawing on over 30 years of experience and a passion for research. \nSir Panda is a Certified Professional Life Coach\, an Accredited Relationship Coach\, a Mental Health First Aider\, a consent advocate\, and a member of the Social Psychology Network. Find him on FetLife as Sir-Panda or Instagram and Substack as RealSirPanda. To learn more or to book a coaching session\, please visit www.dsoutreach.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/939f0b3229
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-your-kink-is-not-my-kink-but-is-your-kink-ok-with-sir-panda/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261017T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261017T160000
DTSTAMP:20260914T224843Z
CREATED:20260914T224843Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T224843Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Astrokink 101: Discovering Your Erotic Archetypes with Lila Hades\, The Unconventional Plutonian
DESCRIPTION:Your birth chart doesn’t just say who you are—it shows you how you want to be erotically met. \nWe will offer two related classes over two days. Feel free to attend one or both! Join us for Part 2 the following day here: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a5873b0dd0 \nWhat if your birth chart could tell you more than whom you are compatible with or what kind of career you should pursue? \nWhat if it could help you find language for desires you have struggled to name? \nWhat if astrology could offer a map—not of what you are destined to want\, but of the many ways you might explore your experience of pleasure\, power\, fantasy\, surrender\, intimacy\, and erotic expression? \nWelcome to AstroKink—where the planets help you discover your kink archetypes and your birth chart become a playground and framework for exploring desire\, power\, and possibility. \nWe’re talking: \n\nYour Venus as your pleasure style (romantic\, indulgent\, aesthetic\, or chaotic)\nYour Mars as how you pursue\, initiate\, and play with intensity\nYour Moon as your emotional needs in kink and power exchange\nYour Saturn as your edges\, limits\, discipline\, and restraint kinks\nYour Pluto as your intensity and shadow taboos that could lead to obsession or transformation\nAnd our exploring the other planetary archetypes\n\nIn this live virtual workshop\, we will: \n\nDiscuss and play with planetary archetypes as gateways into different kink dynamics (Brat\, Caregiver\, Ruler\, Trickster\, Devotee\, etc.)\nLearn new tools for communicating desires and boundaries with clarity\nDiscover shadow\, taboo\, and desire through Pluto and the 8th house\nExperience space to explore your personal astrology and kinky edges without shame or pressure\n\nAstroKink can be used as a tool for self-discovery\, communication\, creative experimentation with kink and your eroticism\, and relational reflection. \nYou might love the AstroKink approach to: \n\nFind language for desires or fantasies that have felt difficult to articulate.\nExplore your relationship with dominance\, submission\, service\, control\, surrender\, or erotic authority.\nUnderstand what helps you feel emotionally and physically safe enough to experiment.\nIdentify possible needs around boundaries\, negotiation\, pacing\, and aftercare.\nDevelop characters\, personas\, scenes\, rituals\, or roleplaying scenarios.\nExplore the emotional meaning beneath a fantasy without assuming you must enact it.\nExamine shame and inherited beliefs about pleasure.\nNotice where your desires contain tensions that deserve curiosity rather than forced resolution.\nGenerate new questions to discuss with a partner\, play partner\, or community.\nDiscover forms of pleasure and intimacy that do not revolve around conventional sex.\nCreate a more personal\, embodied\, and expansive relationship with your birth chart.\n\nYou do not need to be an experienced astrologer or kinkster to engage with this work. You also do not need to be sexually active or partnered. I look forward to exploring together! \nPRESENTER: \nLila Hades (she/they) is a queer\, neurodivergent word witch & author; trauma-informed conflict resolution practitioner; BDSM & kink educator; and astrologer who founded The Unconventional Plutonian (also known as UP). \nUP’s mission is to empower and inspire courageous personal & communal transformation through a radical and queer lens. Rooted in astrology\, storytelling and the mythic imagination\, BDSM and kink exploration\, and conflict resolution practices\, UP designs events\, kink coaching\, and classes as containers for embodiment\, consent\, and liberatory self-expression. The Unconventional Plutonian exists to cultivate acceptance\, resilience\, and more imaginative ways of being—with ourselves\, with one another\, and with the places we inhabit. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; sliding scale available. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c4879df45b
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-astrokink-101-discovering-your-erotic-archetypes-with-lila-hades-the-unconventional-plutonian/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261018T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261018T130000
DTSTAMP:20260914T225230Z
CREATED:20260914T225230Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T225230Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Astrokink 201: Mapping Your Erotic Ecosystem with Lila Hades\, The Unconventional Plutonian
DESCRIPTION:Your desires do not exist in isolation—and neither do the planets in your birth chart.\nYou might crave surrender and resist vulnerability. You might long to be adored while feeling uncomfortable receiving attention. You might need emotional safety and still be drawn toward risk\, intensity\, taboo\, or transformation. \nThese tensions do not mean your desires are contradictory or broken. They may be part of what makes your erotic language uniquely yours. \nAstroKink 201 moves beyond interpreting one planet at a time and invites you to explore your birth chart as an interconnected erotic ecosystem. We will examine how your planetary placements\, houses\, and aspects interact to create layers of desire\, conflict\, curiosity\, power\, and possibility. \nRather than asking\, “What is my kink according to my chart?” we will ask: \n\nWhich parts of my erotic self work together—and which parts want different things?\nWhere might I experience tension between desire\, safety\, vulnerability\, and control?\nWhat kinds of roles\, dynamics\, fantasies\, or forms of intimacy allow multiple parts of me to be expressed?\nHow can I translate my chart into experiments without treating astrology as destiny?\nWhat does my chart reveal about the deeper emotional meaning beneath what turns me on?\n\nIn this live virtual workshop\, we will: \n\nLearn how aspects between planets can reveal erotic chemistry\, tension\, inhibition\, amplification\, and internal contradiction.\nExplore how house placements show where pleasure\, power\, fantasy\, intimacy\, visibility\, service\, and transformation may become especially meaningful.\nPractice synthesizing multiple placements rather than interpreting each planet separately.\nExamine the relationship between desire and safety through combinations involving Venus\, Mars\, the Moon\, Saturn\, and Pluto.\nExplore the 5th\, 7th\, 8th\, and 12th houses as distinct landscapes of play\, partnership\, intimacy\, taboo\, fantasy\, and surrender.\nIdentify recurring erotic themes and develop your own constellation of kink archetypes.\nTranslate your chart into prompts for negotiation\, boundaries\, pacing\, aftercare\, and relational communication.\nUse astrology to inspire characters\, scenes\, rituals\, power dynamics\, and roleplaying scenarios.\nExplore how two charts might interact without reducing compatibility to a simple “good” or “bad” match.\nCreate a personal AstroKink experiment: a scene concept\, fantasy inquiry\, embodiment practice\, communication prompt\, or ritual inspired by your chart.\n\nAstroKink 201 is not about allowing astrology to dictate what you should want or what you must enact through kink. A birth chart cannot replace consent\, communication\, compatibility\, or self-knowledge. Instead\, it can offer a symbolic language for approaching your desires and kink exploration with greater curiosity\, imagination\, and compassion. \nYou do not need to be sexually active\, partnered\, or highly experienced with kink to participate. Familiarity with the planets and basic birth-chart language will be helpful. \nAttending AstroKink 101—or having comparable foundational knowledge of the AstroKink planetary archetypes—is recommended. We will offer AstroKink 101 on 10/17 at 2pm Pacific and you may get ticketing here to attend live or through the recording. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c4879df45b
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-astrokink-201-mapping-your-erotic-ecosystem-with-lila-hades-the-unconventional-plutonian/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261019T183000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261019T203000
DTSTAMP:20260914T225554Z
CREATED:20260914T225554Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T225554Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Grief and Kink with pangressive
DESCRIPTION:Learn and share about the human process of grief as it intersects kink. pangressive does grief and other counseling professionally\, and facilitates a grief support group every fall for a major Bay Area health organization. \nGain reassurance and learn about common emotional responses\, secondary losses\, tips on coping with grief\, tips on being with a loved one or friend who is grieving\, the power of writing\, and the power of ritual and tradition\, as we practice these as kinksters. Grief is a normal part of the human journey\, and it has its place in our kink lives too. \nThis class will be helpful to anyone who wants strategies about handling grief\, whether that’s from losing a loved one\, a relationship\, or any other meaningful loss. \nPRESENTER: \npangressive (he/they)\, a bottom-leaning switch\, is the host of Current Events\, the Bay Area’s electro munch. They are also the host of BABKA (Bay Area Bi/Pan Kinky Alliance) and co-host of P6 (Partially Prenegotiated Pansexual Prison Play Party)\, a private group that produces group CNC/free use scenes. pangressive has been in the kink scene since 2001\, when he walked into Seattle’s storied former dungeon club The Wet Spot and said he wanted to get beaten up. They have played in the Seattle\, Boston/New England\, and Bay Area scenes\, with some experience in the D.C. scene as well. His scene experience includes both pansexual and gay male spaces. pangressive enjoys tight bondage of all kinds\, impact\, clips and clamps\, hot wax\, and occasional sexual content in scenes in addition to electro. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e7a1b56170
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-grief-and-kink-with-pangressive/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261021T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261021T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T225913Z
CREATED:20260914T225913Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T225913Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Energetic & Fluid Vampirism A class with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:This ain’t a stroll through Spirit Halloween\, baby bat… Join real life bloodsucker\, The Lady V\, for a class you can really sink your teeth deep into. \nVampirism\, while often portrayed within a mythological framework\, is practiced in reality. The root of Vampirism is playing with energy\, & dare I say occasionally… romance. \nVampirism can be explored through fluids like spit\, urine\, cum\, & blood. Fluids not your thing? Energy is delicious as well… \nDISCLAIMER: This is NOT a Blood Play class. This includes elements of Blood & other Fluid based play but non-fluid based Vampirism is completely valid & often practiced. \nIn this class we’ll take a bite into: \n\nVampire/thrall dynamics\, feeding during hookups or with play partners\nEnergetic vs fluid-based vampirism\nUsing vampirism as a spiritual & energetic tool for connection\, submission & release\nHow to give\, receive & recycle energy as a vampire & how to ethically engage\nNegotiation frameworks\, disclosure\, STI considerations\n& MORE!\n\nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix based out of Los Angeles\, CA & Portland\, OR. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US & internationally. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events\, play parties\, educational intensives\, & so much more. \nPrior to jumping into pursuing sex education as a full time passion\, Lady V served as a Behavioral Services Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. Her work around modular\, individualistic care & advocacy has sense shifted to the larger world of sex positivity and kink. \nStay in touch with her: \nWebsite: TheLadyV.net\nFetlife: @The_Lady_V\nInstagram: @Switchinatrix \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a9b2eb0a6a
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-energetic-fluid-vampirism-a-class-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261022T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261022T200000
DTSTAMP:20260914T230206Z
CREATED:20260914T230206Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260914T230206Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Backdoor Basics: A Guide to Anal Play with Lilithfoxx
DESCRIPTION:Explore new avenues of pleasure with Backdoor Basics: A Guide to Anal Play. This class is designed to help you navigate anal play with confidence\, knowledge\, and comfort\, whether you’re a curious beginner or looking to enhance your current experience. \nWe’ll cover essential techniques for safe and pleasurable exploration\, from preparation and relaxation tips to choosing the right tools and lubrication. You’ll learn about anatomy and sensation\, communication tips to discuss boundaries and comfort levels\, and ways to ease into anal play with confidence. \nEmphasizing consent\, hygiene\, and relaxation\, this class provides a judgment-free space to learn how to make anal play a fun\, enjoyable part of your intimate life. Join us to expand your understanding and discover the potential for pleasure beyond the basics. \nPRESENTER: \nLilithfoxx (she/her) is an accomplished Board-certified sexologist\, educator\, and professional speaker with a specialized focus on alternative sexuality\, diversity\, equity\, inclusion\, and belonging (DEIB)\, LGBTQ+ and disability inclusion\, and cultural competency in clinical\, academic\, and research settings. Presently\, she is engaged in pursuing her AASECT Sexuality Educator certification\, and is a student at The Kinsey Institute\, demonstrating her commitment to the field and professional growth. Identifying as a BIPOC\, Queer\, and neurodivergent individual\, Lilith brings a unique and valuable perspective to her work. This personal insight has been key in developing her specialty areas and contributing to a more inclusive conversation about sexuality and relationships. Lilith’s connection to alternative sexuality extends beyond her professional work. For over a decade\, she has identified with kink and polyamorous communities\, even stepping into the roles of community organizer and educator in these spaces for the past five years. She is also a skilled workshop facilitator\, delivering sessions on relationships\, sexuality\, intimacy\, and inclusion. Her workshops have reached global audiences through conferences around the world\, ensuring a wide and diverse range of perspectives in her audience. Lilith draws on her experiences as a proud former sex worker to inform her professional approach and expertise\, fostering a deeper understanding of the varied facets of sexuality. Her insights and expertise have been recognized and featured in major publications such as Cosmopolitan\, Men’s Health\, Glamour\, Kinkly\, Ask Men\, Mashable\, and many more. \nBefore her foray into sexuality education and consultancy\, Lilith enjoyed a successful decade-long career in digital marketing. As a senior-level digital marketing director\, SEO-specialist\, web developer\, and business consultant\, she worked with businesses spanning from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. She continues to utilize these skills\, providing marketing and business consulting services to sex-positive and adult-industry businesses. \nThrough her professional endeavors\, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire\, educate\, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality\, relationships\, and intimacy. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/90a1f33836
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-backdoor-basics-a-guide-to-anal-play-with-lilithfoxx/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261101T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261214T180000
DTSTAMP:20251125T033222Z
CREATED:20251125T033222Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251125T033222Z
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SUMMARY:Diving Deep Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires - A Six Week Course with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out\, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \n\n\nEngage in a journey of self-discovery\n\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \nDiscovering and honoring what turns you on \nSafely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism \nTrying new skills in the bedroom and beyond \nDeepening your insights into your own desires \nDisentangling from others’ erotic projections \nFinding your voice and speaking freely \nSharing the desires you’re afraid to voice \n\nAbout Miriam Green\n\nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds\, San Francisco’s leader in BDSM education and community building. \nHow we’ll engage\nThe six week course will run live from November 1 – December 14\, 2026. \nThis class will include six total weeks of content and homework\, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Monday evenings (all recorded for later participation if needed)\, and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.) \nOur three 90-minute live group sessions will be offered via Zoom on Monday\, November 2; Monday\, November 23; and Monday\, December 7 – all at 6pm Pacific time. \nSessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live. \nIs this course for you?\n\nDo you get stuck when asked “what do you want in intimate relationships?”\nAre you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks?\nHave you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism?\nDo you want a deep understanding of the physical and psychological responses you have to kink?\nDo you want to connect deeply with others?\n\nThen yes: this course is for you! \nPrevious students say …\n“Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have\, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years\, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do \nTICKETING: \nhttps://wickedgroundsannex.teachable.com/p/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-your-desires_2026
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-erotic-desires-a-six-week-course-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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SUMMARY:Month of Mindfulness 2027
DESCRIPTION:Building simple\, sustainable daily practice to support ourselves in our kink and queer explorations\, relationships and everyday lives. \nWe’ll have daily work throughout January 2027. \n \n\n\n\n\n\nDaily practice is for everyone\n\nWhat’s the most important part of a daily practice? The daily part. \nWe’ll spend a month together exploring daily practices that tend to help most folks lead lives with deeper meaning\, more resilience\, and greater focus. \nSpoiler: Not every technique out there will work for you\, and that’s okay! We’ll explore together several practices that tend to help most people\, most of the time. By the end of the month\, you’ll be ready to launch your own personal practice that suits your needs! \n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nWhat we’ll do\nThroughout the full month of January 2027\, you’ll receive and explore: \n\nWritten & video instruction to understand the psychology of daily habits\nWritten & video instruction to explore the application of our habits to a sex-positive life\nLive guided meditation sessions at least five days each week\nPre-recorded meditation sessions with Miriam Green that you can use during the program and beyond\nDaily writing prompts\nWeekly suggestions for mindfulness field trips\nSupport in establishing and maintaining your personal New Year’s resolutions\nAnd more!
URL:https://wickedgrounds.com/event/month-of-mindfulness-2027/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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