ONLINE: Violet Wand 101 with Electrogirly
2025-10-12 14:00 - 16:00 (America/Los_Angeles)
Step into the charged world of violet wand play—a mesmerizing electro toy that blends sensation, sound, and light into one electrifying experience. Using high-voltage, low-current, high-frequency electricity, the violet wand can create everything from soft, teasing caresses to sharp, deliciously torturous intensity. Its touch can be wicked, seductive, and just the right kind of cruel—offering a range of sensations that are as playful as they are intense. While often known for its sting, this tool is just as capable of delivering slow, sensual waves that build and build.
In this class, we’ll explore the essentials—like how glass electrodes interact with the skin, ways to play with the body contact attachment that turns you into a human conductor, and the creative use of pervertables, everyday objects that take on a whole new spark. We’ll also dive into some more intermediate techniques, such as layering sensations to build intensity, experimenting with rhythm and pacing, and combining attachments for surprising effects. Along the way, we’ll cover the foundational practices that keep violet wand play rooted in safety, consent, and connection.
Whether you’re totally new or brushing up on the basics, this hands-on session offers a playful, curiosity-fueled space to build skills and explore the electric possibilities.
Let Electro Girly guide you into the glow—this is your invitation to plug in and play.
PRESENTER:
Electro Girly is an Educator, performer, event coordinator and Pro Dom at Sanctuary Studios in Los Angeles whose specialty and passion is electro play. She entered the kink scene in 2017 and discovered electro play in 2021, quickly dedicating herself to the craft with intensity and focus. Starting with demo and taster booths, she fell in love with introducing people to the spark of electricity—the way their curiosity turned to excitement and understanding as sensation transformed into connection. That joy now fuels her work as a teacher, where she leads classes on the violet wand with a blend of technical skill, embodied presence, and femme Dom power. Her approach balances precision and creativity with safety and care, creating space for students to explore the charged interplay of pain and pleasure, push their limits in consent-forward ways, and tap into kink as a language of empowerment and intimacy.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/af66cac512
We several price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and available to watch after.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Hypnokink on the Ace Spectrum with Faun
2025-10-13 18:00 - 20:00
Even in this day and age, it can still be incredibly difficult for kinksters on the ace spectrum to feel like they belong in kinky spaces. Knowing that kink isn’t inherently sexual is one thing, and figuring out how to get our needs met without making ourselves uncomfortable is another. If this sounds like you, allow me to introduce you to the beauty that is hypnokink!
In this class, we’ll discuss the ways in which kink itself can be validating and cozy for acespec people, and explore specifics about how we can interact with hypnokink from any position or role without compromising boundaries or comfort levels. The class is open to all, so if you or a loved one is on the ace spectrum, or you’re just curious, please come join us!
PRESENTER:
Faun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years, he always felt that something was missing. One day, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories, and the rest is history. Now, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun, and on Fet as deerfaun.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9bf51a9b8f

ONLINE: Tune In to Your Menopause Experience with Lasara Firefox Allen
2025-10-14 18:00 - 20:00
This workshop is a practical and affirming guide to navigating the menopause transition. Learn the physiology of the stages—perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause—and discover tools to support your body, mind, and spirit along the way. We’ll explore how nutrition, exercise, sleep, mindfulness, and self-advocacy can support wellness during this time. You’ll also create your own Menopause Manifesto, a personal roadmap to help you claim an empowered relationship with this potent transformation.
PRESENTER:
Lasara Firefox Allen, MSW (they/them), is The Genderqueer Menopause Coach, founder of a trauma-informed, gender-expansive menopause care practice serving trans, nonbinary, and genderqueer individuals. Not finding needed resources when they hit perimenopause, Lasara began self-educating to advocate for their own care. That journey ignited their commitment to change the landscape of menopause care for queer and trans communities.
Lasara is a certified Menopause Doula through The Menopause School and a menopause coach with a thriving practice. They are the author of Genderqueer Menopause (forthcoming from North Atlantic Books, 2025), and Magickal Menopause (forthcoming from Llewellyn, 2026).
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/fcfbb4c7a5

ONLINE: From ‘Boys Will Be Boys’ to Boundaries: Healing Consent Culture in BDSM with Buzz Stingyear
2025-10-15 18:00 - 20:00
Have you ever felt that kink community wasn’t there for you? Are you confronting unhelpful worldviews around consent that you’ve struggled to shift? Would you like to learn how to be less reactive or annoyed and more open to your [potential] partners’ perspectives? If so, this class is for you!
This course explores the emotional, social, and psychological dimensions of consent beyond the basics. Participants will unpack common resistance to consent culture and deepen their understanding through reflection, dialogue, and experiential practice. Learn when “boys will be boys” or “it’s just my way” is applicable to consent culture. Even those of us who are profoundly dedicated to the ideas of consent sometimes resist the culture and practices of consent. Or we are not even aware that what we are doing is related to kink and therefore think it is not under the purview of consent.
In this workshop, you will learn to:

Understand what “nuance” in consent means and why it matters
Explore how context and assumptions impact BDSM consent
Determine whether you can be a badass or a Dominant/Top and still be religious about consent
Examine the conflict that arises when your authentic self conflicts with another’s authentic self in relation to consent
Unpack personal resistance to consent practices and replace resistance with enthusiasm
Identify personal experiences with clear vs. unclear consent

PRESENTER:
Buzz_Stingyear is a late-blooming kinkster who grew up in a money-driven, Trump-aligned household. He internalized a rigid worldview that took years of effort to unravel. With a doctorate in Counseling Psychology, he strives to align his personal growth with his training. Entering the public kink community exposed him to the transformative power of feedback, accountability, and consent culture. Behaviors once normalized in his vanilla world were challenged and reexamined. Buzz remains committed to self growth, becoming less reactive and more compassionate, and supporting others in finding connection, safety, and self-awareness within the kink community.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a332d6e3c3

ONLINE: Dungeons Demystified: Navigating Etiquette, Attire, and Atmosphere in BDSM Spaces with Princess Rara
2025-10-16 18:00 - 20:00
Exploring a BDSM dungeon for the first time can be exciting yet a bit overwhelming. This class is designed to help you feel comfortable and confident by explaining what to expect and how to behave in these unique spaces. Whether you’re going to a public dungeon or a private play party, this session will give you the tools you need to navigate these environments with ease.
Key Topics Covered: Understanding the Dungeon Environment:
– Public vs. Private Dungeons: Learn the differences between public and private dungeons and what you can expect from each.
– Typical Layout and Equipment: Get familiar with common features and equipment you might find in a dungeon.
Dungeon Etiquette: General Conduct: Discover how to behave respectfully and responsibly while in a dungeon.
– Consent and Boundaries: Understand the importance of respecting personal and scene boundaries.
– Communication Protocols: Learn how to communicate effectively, including the use of safe words and signals.
Attire and Appearance: Dress Codes: Find out what to wear, from casual kink outfits to more formal fetish attire, to fit in and feel comfortable.
– Personal Grooming: Get tips on grooming to match dungeon norms and maintain a presentable appearance.
Participating and Observing:
– Active Participation: Learn how to engage in scenes safely and respectfully.
– Respectful Observation: Understand the dos and don’ts of observing others without intruding on their experience.
Safety and Hygiene:
– Cleanliness Standards: Ensure both personal and equipment hygiene are up to standard.
– Emergency Protocols: Know what to do in case of an emergency and understand the role of dungeon monitors.
Building Confidence: Overcoming Nerves: Get strategies to manage anxiety and enjoy your experience.
Community and Support: Learn how to find and connect with supportive kink communities and mentors.
By the end of this class, you’ll have a clear understanding of dungeon etiquette, how to dress appropriately, and how to conduct yourself with confidence and respect. Join us to gain the knowledge you need to become a knowledgeable and respectful participant in the BDSM community.
PRESENTER:
Princess Rara (she/her) is a sadomasochist, kink educator, and the founder of Pink Kink—a platform that includes a podcast, boutique, and educational institute dedicated to helping kinksters build confident, ethical kink lives. With ten years in the BDSM community, she brings a blend of experience, honesty, and humor to everything she teaches.
Her classes cover both foundational and advanced topics, always with a focus on real-world application, consent, and personal growth. Known for her warm, inclusive, and engaging teaching style, Rara doesn’t talk at her students—she creates space for discussion, story-sharing, and connection. Her goal is to meet people where they are, help them feel seen and validated, and support their journey toward more intentional and empowered kink.
Rara has taught for organizations including Dark Odyssey, Studio 58, and Wicked Grounds. In the DC area, she’s also a munch host, Demo/House Top, occasional Pro Domme, and party host in her private dungeon. No matter the setting, she is committed to creating spaces where kinksters of all kinds feel respected, supported, and safe to explore who they are.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2c8b9ee91e
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Sex-Positive Menopause for Genderqueer Folx with Lasara Firefox Allen
2025-10-18 11:00 - 13:00
This workshop offers a grounded, embodied, and celebratory approach to sexuality through and beyond menopause. We’ll explore desire shifts, identity transitions, and the physiological and emotional changes that may affect intimacy. Expect frank talk about genitourinary syndrome of menopause, changes in sensation, dysphoria and euphoria, and ways to stay connected to pleasure, consent, and self-affirmation. This space is sex-positive, kink-aware, and rooted in liberation.
PRESENTER:
Lasara Firefox Allen, MSW (they/them), is The Genderqueer Menopause Coach, founder of a trauma-informed, gender-expansive menopause care practice serving trans, nonbinary, and genderqueer individuals. Not finding needed resources when they hit perimenopause, Lasara began self-educating to advocate for their own care. That journey ignited their commitment to change the landscape of menopause care for queer and trans communities.
Lasara is a certified Menopause Doula through The Menopause School and a menopause coach with a thriving practice. They are the author of Genderqueer Menopause (forthcoming from North Atlantic Books, 2025), and Magickal Menopause (forthcoming from Llewellyn, 2026).
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/167aea94d0
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Dark Moon Menopause: Crafting a Magickal Menopause Practice with Lasara Firefox Allen
2025-10-18 14:00 - 16:00
Menopause is a liminal threshold—a time rich with potential for magickal transformation. In this workshop, you’ll craft a unique and personalized daily practice to support your transition. Using both pragmatic and mystical tools, we’ll explore how to ride the waves of your menopause experience consciously and powerfully. You’ll leave with concrete rituals and tools, as well as an attunement to the deep mystery of this “dark moon” phase of life.
PRESENTER:
Lasara Firefox Allen, MSW (they/them), is The Genderqueer Menopause Coach, founder of a trauma-informed, gender-expansive menopause care practice serving trans, nonbinary, and genderqueer individuals. Not finding needed resources when they hit perimenopause, Lasara began self-educating to advocate for their own care. That journey ignited their commitment to change the landscape of menopause care for queer and trans communities.
Lasara is a certified Menopause Doula through The Menopause School and a menopause coach with a thriving practice. They are the author of Genderqueer Menopause (forthcoming from North Atlantic Books, 2025), and Magickal Menopause (forthcoming from Llewellyn, 2026).
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6886a423c9
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Edge of Glory: P-Spot & Cock Edging with Lady V
2025-10-19 11:00 - 13:00
🙏 We’re on the edge of an orgasm with this class on everything to do with edging & finding the great prophesied prostate! 🙏
Edging, a term to describe stimulating someone’s genital close to orgasm but not allowing them to cum is a great way to tease a partner into having an extremely powerful orgasm…or even torture them by endlessly not cumming (or even “ruining” their orgasm). 😼
Join Lady V, professional dominatrix & anal enthusiast on how to dip your fingers into learning about the art of prostate milking, a very powerful technique to bring someone to an orgasm without them even getting remotely erect. 🙀
😷 In this class, we’ll dive into: 😷
– Finding one’s “P-Spot” 🔎
– How to stimulate prostate with a light & heavy touch 👈
– Angles & positions to get the best angle 🧘
– Edging someone’s cock without touching them (yes, seriously) 🌬️
– How to simultaneously use a mix of prostate stimuli & edging 🌪️
– & SO MUCH MORE!
NOTE: This class is accessible to all genders & roles. We will however be focusing on mostly penis owners & AMAB bodies (Assigned Male at Birth). 🍆
PRESENTER:
Lady V aka C.C. the Cow (she/her) is co-creator of the Hucow Pride Flag in 2023. She is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer & Professional Dominatrix. She is the self-proclaimed “Dairy Queen of the Hucow Herd”, “Jewish American Pleasure Princess” & “Switchinatrix”.
Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as a Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. She has also served the community by facilitating public health events.
She hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. You can view all her links by clicking HERE!: https://i.mtrbio.com/lady-v
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5bcaf4915b
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Baring Your Emotional Jugular: Active Bottoming For Emotional Sadism Play
2025-10-19 14:00 - 16:00
Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words… can actually do some serious damage, right? Emotional sadomasochism (ESM) is incredibly fun but also incredibly high-risk, and mitigating that risk can seem like a lot of work. It turns out that handing someone a metaphorical map of your emotional landscape makes it a bit easier for them to navigate without breaking things. But how do we make an accurate map, and how do we draw it in a way that makes sense for our partner?
We’ll discuss skills such as scene negotiation, vulnerability/authenticity, discovering and communicating your desires and aftercare needs, and flirting with your sadists in a non-pushy way. SuspendDisbelief aims to prove that bottoms can actively participate in and guide their own play-destruction while having fun!
PRESENTER:
SuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer, non-monogamous power exchange and sadomasochism nerd. Her hobby of choice has been getting hurt in public since 2017, but she has been fantasizing about powerlessness and crushing on former boy scouts exclusively for their knowledge of knots for far longer than that. On top of bottoming for power exchange and physical+emotional sadism, she started tying herself in 2019 and swiftly snowballed down the pipeline toward rope topping. She uses the chaos goblin energy bestowed upon her by her ADHD to enhance her teaching and help people like her “get it”. She currently helps facilitate and teaches monthly for Hitchin’ Bitches DC.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a9ea90dc25
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class *will not* be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Mindfuck Me: Fear & Psychological Edge Play with Jamie Joy
2025-10-20 18:00 - 20:00
Fear is at the core of many facets of kink — an erotic edge that electrifies the body and makes the mind ache with anticipation. This workshop plunges into the thrilling world of psychological fear play, taking play beyond the physical and into the deliciously twisted world of the mind.
Together, we’ll explore the emotional landscape of fear, how to negotiate boundaries, and create scenes that are both terrifying and hot. From dark role plays to seductive dirty talk, you’ll learn how to play with fear to deepen intimacy and connection.
Get ready to explore a wide range of mindfuck styles including suspense, threats, tricks, mystery, confusion, manipulation, and more – while incorporating techniques such as knife play, consensual non-consent, orgasm control, breath play, sensory deprivation, and blood play.
Whether you crave the rush of being unraveled or the exhilaration of pulling the strings, this workshop offers practical tools, interactive exercises, and live demonstrations to help you approach psychological edge play with confidence, creativity, and care. Come discover how getting inside someone’s head can unlock the deepest surrender — and the dirtiest fantasies.
PRESENTER:
Jamie Joy is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, pleasure, and consent through community organizing. Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating, playing sadistically with flaming floggers, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/551d8a9a37
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class *will* be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
2025-10-21 18:00 - 20:00
Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.
Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about:
– Negotiation styles
– Pre-scene negotiations
– How to negotiate without killing the mood
– Checking in during and after the scene
– Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics
Drawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter, more fun, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic.This series welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications.
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/32cc11a798
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up!
If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.
ACCESS:
Attend online anywhere via Zoom! To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class. This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.
This class will be recorded and provided to ticketed attendees the day after the class.

Polyamory Troubleshooting: The Coach Is In! with Alexandria
2025-10-22 08:00 - 17:00
So you’ve been doing poly for a minute now, and some stuff has come up. You’ve got questions, quandaries, confusions! Excellent! Bring them to class! Let’s tackle them together, with a light-hearted, can-do attitude.
Polyamory can mean infinite possibilities, yet, the very freedom that makes it compelling can also lead to challenges that feel unique or uncharted. Layered with the (sometimes hidden) forces of patriarchy, capitalism, colonialism and other prejudices, how can we navigate the unexpected and support the best, juiciest outcomes for all involved?
Alexandria is a 2nd generation practitioner of intentional, ethical poly, and she is a coaching and communication expert with more than two decades of training and experience.
In this Q+A style workshop, please bring your real-life polyamorous issues, both big and small! With nonjudgmental insight, good-hearted expertise, and a toolbox of powerhouse relationship skills we’ll work as a team to help you realize happy, healthy relationships. Join us in exploring what’s possible and expanding our understanding of what is required to make poly run smoothly. The coach is in!
INSTRUCTOR:
Alexandria has been teaching dance and movement since 1998, including private lessons, small group studio classes, and large public classes of 100+. Her repertoire includes pole for all bodies, ballet for real life, belly dance, floorwork, high heels dancing, lap dancing, Flexibility 4 Life, salsa, merengue, bachata, cha-cha, east coast swing, social waltz, feminine sensual movement, rhythm training, body confidence, non-verbal communication, and more. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is “All bodies, all genders, all ages: come home to your body”. Her teaching emphasizes reclaiming your body and self-love, strength, flexibility, improvisation, and musicality.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/49f00427d4
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Shadow, Power & the Erotic Self: A Ritual Descent with Sir Scott
2025-10-22 08:00 - 17:00
This is not a ‘nice’ workshop. This is sacred edge-play with the parts of ourselves we exile. In this 2-session online ritual descent, we enter the underworld of the erotic psyche to explore the power and beauty of the shadow self through kink, archetypes, and conscious embodiment.
Through poetic reflection, shadow persona work, kink-informed ritual tools, and energetic excavation, you’ll meet the parts of yourself that dominate, collapse, mask, and burn. You’ll also discover what these shadows truly long for—and how they can become allies in your erotic power.
This is an immersive and emotionally rich journey. Come with courage, curiosity, and a willingness to feel.
Format & Timing:
• 2 Online Sessions – 2 hours each (Zoom or preferred platform)
• Optional homework between sessions (Shadow Persona Quiz, journaling, sigil work)
• Includes downloadable handouts, ritual worksheets, and reflection pages
Who This Is For:
• Kink-curious or seasoned practitioners exploring shadow integration
• Erotic explorers seeking spiritual depth and psychological insight
• Educators, therapists, facilitators, or ritualists looking to deepen their shadow-informed practices
All genders, orientations, and identities welcome. This is a queer- and neurodivergent-welcoming space. Nudity, live scenes, or sexual activity are not part of this class. Adult themes and intense material will be engaged with care.
**FAQ Highlights**
**Q: Will this involve live scenes or nudity?**
A: No. This is a teaching, reflection, and ritual exploration class, not a play party.
**Q: What if I’m new to kink or shadow work?**
A: Perfect. Come as you are. Everything is framed accessibly, with optional entry points.
**Q: Do I have to share anything personal?**
A: Sharing is welcome but never required. We’ll offer solo, private options for every practice.
PRESENTER:
🔥 Scott – “FireOnTheMtnTop”
Scott Croushore is a kink educator, ritual facilitator, and licensed therapist with over two decades of experience guiding people into sacred erotic transformation. He is the creator of the Sacred Fire Kink Archetype system and co-creator of Silver Edge Kink. His work blends deep psychology, mythic kink, and ritual embodiment.
TICKETING:
$40 – $80 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8e8038ea1c
We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Spicy Tarot with HG Wyndell
2025-10-22 18:00 - 20:00
Come and join a discussion on how we can mix the art of tarot with our kinky adventures. We’ll talk about using cards to create scene ideas, playing with archetypes, getting out of our heads, and opening up questions we might not have thought to ask. A working understanding of tarot will be helpful to get the most out of this workshop.
PRESENTER:
HG Wyndell is an activist, educator, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder, and in our experience, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship, genuine gender expression, ceremony, creative arts, chronic illness, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer.
TICKETING:
$30 suggested; $20-$40. We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/05e5e41a4e
If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
This class will be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Sex Toys 101: Enhancing Pleasure and Connection with the Right Tools with Lilith Foxx
2025-10-23 18:00 - 20:00
Ready to explore the world of sex toys but not sure where to start? Sex Toys 101: Enhancing Pleasure and Connection with the Right Tools is the perfect class for anyone curious about adding new sensations to their intimate life. This session covers a wide range of toys, from vibrators and dildos to couples’ toys, anal toys, and more, helping you understand the unique benefits each can bring to solo and partnered play.
We’ll discuss choosing the right materials, cleaning and care tips, and how to introduce toys into your routine with confidence and ease. Whether you’re shopping for your first toy or expanding your collection, this class provides approachable guidance, empowering you to find the tools that best match your desires and enhance connection. Join us for an inclusive, playful exploration of the wonderful world of pleasure products!
PRESENTER:
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is an accomplished Board-certified sexologist, educator, and professional speaker with a specialized focus on alternative sexuality, diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging (DEIB), LGBTQ+ and disability inclusion, and cultural competency in clinical, academic, and research settings. Presently, she is engaged in pursuing her AASECT Sexuality Educator certification, and is a student at The Kinsey Institute, demonstrating her commitment to the field and professional growth. Identifying as a BIPOC, Queer, and neurodivergent individual, Lilith brings a unique and valuable perspective to her work. This personal insight has been key in developing her specialty areas and contributing to a more inclusive conversation about sexuality and relationships. Lilith’s connection to alternative sexuality extends beyond her professional work. For over a decade, she has identified with kink and polyamorous communities, even stepping into the roles of community organizer and educator in these spaces for the past five years. She is also a skilled workshop facilitator, delivering sessions on relationships, sexuality, intimacy, and inclusion. Her workshops have reached global audiences through conferences around the world, ensuring a wide and diverse range of perspectives in her audience. Lilith draws on her experiences as a proud former sex worker to inform her professional approach and expertise, fostering a deeper understanding of the varied facets of sexuality. Her insights and expertise have been recognized and featured in major publications such as Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Glamour, Kinkly, Ask Men, Mashable, and many more.
Before her foray into sexuality education and consultancy, Lilith enjoyed a successful decade-long career in digital marketing. As a senior-level digital marketing director, SEO-specialist, web developer, and business consultant, she worked with businesses spanning from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. She continues to utilize these skills, providing marketing and business consulting services to sex-positive and adult-industry businesses.
Through her professional endeavors, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire, educate, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality, relationships, and intimacy.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1dcd3e19c2
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Genitorture for Vulvas with Miss Mackenzee
2025-10-23 18:00 - 20:00
Enter a realm where primal instincts meet exploration and the human body’s resilience is both celebrated and respected. This comprehensive class is designed to guide participants through the nuanced layers of rough body play, emphasizing consent, communication, and technique.
Explore the spectrum of sensation play that keeps your partner guessing, teetering on the brink of release, only to be pulled back for more. Whether you’re a curious beginner or a kink enthusiast, join us to learn how to skillfully deliver intense pleasure and pain while preserving your partner’s trust and safety. Discover techniques for using unexpected sensations to heighten suffering and compliance. Learn how to torture your partner’s sensitive area in multiple ways without ruining them for next time. We’ll cover tantalizing practices like applying TENS pads and using electricity to stimulate your bottom in unimaginable ways as well as mastering the “cuntpunt” with precision.
Let’s talk about the different ways you can use clips and clamps to really make your partner squirm. Bring your curiosity and an open mind, leave with new skills and ideas to elevate your intimate and adventurous encounters. There should be a delicate balance of intensity that can help promote mutual enjoyment which we’ll discuss together. This class promises not just to educate but to ignite your passion for innovative play as you learn to command these methods with confidence and care. A ballgag will only help quiet one set of lips after this class!
Delve deeper into:
– Impact play techniques tailored for delicate areas
– Key safety and negotiation strategies to protect everyone involved
– Teasing and orgasm control as tools for ultimate torment
– Unique methods for creating novel torturous experiences
– Aftercare practices to ensure the wellbeing of all partners
– Recognizing risks and avoiding injuries
– Exploring nerve endings and pleasure points within the vulva
This workshop is presented in gender-neutral terms, in recognition that not all people who have vulvas are women. This class is a safe space for LGBTQA people and attendees are expected to respect that.
This workshop is meant to be an inclusive environment that is accommodating for all types of people. You can participate in a way that feels comfortable for you, whether that’s having your camera on, joining in the chat, or remaining anonymous while taking in all the information. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any accessibility needs.
PRESENTER:
Miss Mackenzee is a trauma-informed International BDSM and Intimacy Educator, Certified Hypnotist, Kink Lifestyle & Professional Dominant Coach, Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach, Owner of Elysium Dungeon, Host of Kink, Intimacy, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast, Content Creator, and Writer. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University. She has taken over 10,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and mentor. She has been involved in the kink lifestyle, professionally and personally, for over 20 years and has been teaching for 15+ years. Miss Mackenzee is the founder of Crafty Goddess Gallery, which makes and sells beautiful, one-of-a-kind BDSM toys and furniture created from resin and wood.
Miss Mackenzee is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and couples, as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has brought her experiences and skills to various organizations such as Kink.com, Widener University, TES, SF Citadel, Dark Odyssey, VoxBody Studio, Filthy FemDom, Wicked Grounds, Black Thorn/Sacred Muse, Kinky Kollege, Bound In Boston, SheBop, SADE, Adventures in Sexuality, Rochester Erotic Arts Festival, EXXXotica, and many others.
Mindfulness is a practice that she incorporates into her everyday life, and enjoys helping others become more in tune with themselves and their partner(s). She teaches a full range of subjects, including but not limited to energy play, Tantra, bondage, power exchange, reveling in pleasure, hypnosis, sexuality, spirituality, and the art of sadism. She prides herself on creating a fostering environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their kinks, sexuality, and individuality.. Every workshop is taught with passion and includes intentional energy. She welcomes people to be free and honest with themselves and their desires. Miss Mackenzee aims to be a guide for those exploring various forms of intimacy including BDSM play. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. All her workshops are taught from a place of understanding that we all come from various walks of life that have informed how we engage with others. Miss Mackenzee aims to make a space for people to explore in ways that feel comfortable and authentic to them and their process.
She welcomes you to connect with her in a variety of ways:
www.MissMackenzee.com
Instagram: MissMackenzeeagain
Twitter: @MissMackenzee
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e2c13db103
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
2025-10-28 08:00 - 17:00
Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.
Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about:

Negotiation styles
Pre-scene negotiations
How to negotiate without killing the mood
Checking in during and after the scene
Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics

Drawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter, more fun, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic.This series welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications.
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/df100a4d48

ONLINE: Beyond Spicy: Writing the Taboo with Sinclair Sexsmith
2025-10-28 18:00 - 20:00
Step into the charged, alluring world of forbidden desires in this two-hour erotica writing workshop. We’ll explore what makes something taboo—whether rooted in culture, power, fantasy, or the edges of consent—and how to write it with heat, depth, and care. We all know the thrill of a dark romance novel—the delicious tension, the forbidden spark, the way it keeps us turning pages late into the night. This workshop shows you how to bring that same intensity to your own writing.
Through discussion, guided prompts, and optional sharing, you’ll discover how to balance erotic detail with emotional resonance, craft scenes that pulse with tension, and navigate risky subject matter without losing the spark. No experience necessary—just curiosity and openness. Leave with fresh writing, sharper skills, and the confidence to take your stories beyond spicy into the deliciously dangerous.
PRESENTER:
SINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch, a leather dominant, and a writer, focusing on individual, interpersonal, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission, social & restorative justice, the energetic body, trauma, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable, long-term D/s. As a leather community member, titleholder, and organizer, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues, including International Ms. Leather, Dark Odyssey, SXSW, Harvard, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/cc9f8ec7b6
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class *will not* be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Dark Roleplaying with Lee Harrington
2025-10-29 18:00 - 20:00
We have been “playing pretend” since we were young, but kinky sexuality opens up new and potentially taboo forms of roleplaying. Join us as we explore the shadowy realms of our fantasies and make-believe we can try on: abduction, torture, snuff, fantastical realms, and anything else our twisted minds can dream up. We will discuss the joys of playing consensually in our closets, why these dark desires turn us on, how to bring up these taboo interests with our partners, negotiating our interests, and troubleshooting the challenges these types of fantasies can elicit.
PRESENTER:
Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/174c1f46d0
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Tied and True: Introduction to Rope Bondage with SuspendDisbelief
2025-10-30 18:00 - 20:00
This 101-level course is aimed toward anybody who has barely touched rope but wants to, who would like a refresher, or who, much like the presenter, was repeatedly betrayed by their neurodivergence while trying to learn rope and would benefit from novel ways to look at the basics. It provides opportunities to learn basic risk awareness, pros and cons of rope materials, and building blocks such as single column knots and connecting rope.
This class in particular aims to provide a “grab-bag” of several ways to achieve each step, allowing students to pick what works for them from both topping and bottoming perspectives.
If you have at least one 24-30ft length of rope and a cutting tool, please have them handy. You can bring but do not need a partner for this class. We will work under the philosophy that there is no “one true way” you must perfectly carry out, but a few tips can help keep beginners safer.
PRESENTER:
SuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer, non-monogamous power exchange and sadomasochism nerd. Her hobby of choice has been getting hurt in public since 2017, but she has been fantasizing about powerlessness and crushing on former boy scouts exclusively for their knowledge of knots for far longer than that. On top of bottoming for power exchange and physical+emotional sadism, she started tying herself in 2019 and swiftly snowballed down the pipeline toward rope topping. She uses the chaos goblin energy bestowed upon her by her ADHD to enhance her teaching and help people like her “get it”. She currently helps facilitate and teaches monthly for Hitchin’ Bitches DC.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/90a4e4eafd
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class *will not* be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Welcome to the Public Kink Scene! with Miriam Green
2025-11-01 11:00 - 13:00
New or curious about your local public scene? This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on how to get involved with your local kink scene, wherever you live!
This class is perfect whether you’re new to kink, new to the public scene, or want to learn more about resources for BDSM play and education. We’ll discuss:
– Etiquette and culture
– What to expect
– Types of events: education, entertainment, mixers, and more!
– How to evaluate a reputable event or group
– What to expect and do at a public play party
Join us for this quick orientation to making the most of your local kink scene. This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the public kink scene. This class is also a perfect introduction to etiquette and protocols. That will be a huge help if you’re planning to get involved with local play parties and organizations.
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com
TICKETING:
This month’s class will be online only.
Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up!
$20 – $40 sliding scale
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8d168756eb
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.
ACCESS:
Attend online anywhere via Zoom! To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class. This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.
This class will be recorded and provided to ticketed attendees within 2-3 business days of the class.

INTENSIVE: Diving Deep Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires
2025-11-02 - 2025-12-13
Diving Deep
Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires
(November 2 – December 13, 2025)
The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?
This six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase).

Engage in a journey of self-discovery

This six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase).
Together, we’ll explore:

Discovering and honoring what turns you on
Safely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism
Trying new skills in the bedroom and beyond
Deepening your insights into your own desires
Disentangling from others’ erotic projections
Finding your voice and speaking freely
Sharing the desires you’re afraid to voice

About Miriam Green

Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s leader in BDSM education and community building.
How we’ll engage
The six week course will run live from November 2 – December 13, 2025.
This class will include six total weeks of content and homework, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Sunday afternoons (all recorded for later participation if needed), and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.)
Our three live sessions will be offered via Zoom on Sunday, November 2, Sunday, November 23, and Sunday December 7 – all at 10 am Pacific / 1pm Eastern / 6pm GMT.
Sessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live.

ONLINE: Consent, Accountability, and Neurodivergence with Adam
2025-11-02 11:00 - 14:00
How does neurodivergence affect consent mistakes, incidents, and violations? How does it affect boundaries, grappling with hurt and harm (and discerning between the two), and accountability at the personal, interpersonal, and community levels?
In this participatory workshop, we will dive into these questions with case studies and real-life examples. We’ll look through a trauma- and disability justice-informed lens, and talk about common patterns, subjective interpretations, ascriptions, and communication–based on neurotypes, socialization, and lived experience. There will be opportunities for community members to share their experiences.
INSTRUCTOR:
Adam is a community organizer, mediator, consent educator, and ongoing learner. Their passions lie at the intersections of disability justice, trauma-informed care, consent, embodied somatics, and responses to and prevention of harm – including transformative justice and community accountability. They desire to help people play and communicate in safer, skillful ways that are trauma-, power-, and risk-informed. Adam is an educator with several groups including The Consent Academy advocating for consent from the individual level to the systemic. They also do consent and accountability work in many contexts and community spaces, including progressive organizing groups, and are building out some exciting new projects around this in progressive organizing spaces as well as the kink+ world.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a3354f4636
We offer ticketing at multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
The regular ticket is $45 for this three-hour class. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford on our $30-$80 sliding scale.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $15. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Tips for House Topping with Miriam Green
2025-11-04 18:00 - 20:00
Are you called to house top and share your skills, but not sure where to start? Perhaps you’re already house topping but want to have better experiences not just for your bottoms but for yourself! Maybe you’ve been puzzled by some key challenges to communicating and gliding into these mini-scenes and want to learn key techniques to make house topping fun again!
We’ll cover:
– Speed negotiations for fast & safe play
– Key questions to maintain clear communication through the scene
– How to calibrate topping to difference levels of experience
– Maintaining boundaries & personal standards in the face of others’ expectations
– Being an ethical psychopomp for new players
Level: Advanced.
This class is designed for three main audiences: People who are new to house topping and want to make this form of edutainment fun for everyone; people who have experience house topping and want to get even better at going as deeply as this format allows while acting ethically and protecting boundaries for self and others; and party organizers who want to offer safe, fun and ethical house topping & sampler party experiences in our communities. While we’ll be focused on the experience of the more common “house top,” we’ll also cover information that will be of use to house bottoms.
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com
TICKETING:
Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up!
$20 – $40 sliding scale
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ae2eeab31d
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.
ACCESS:
Attend online anywhere via Zoom! To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class. This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.
This class will be recorded and provided to ticketed attendees within 2-3 business days of the class.

ONLINE: Empowered/Responsible Dominance: Building Trust, Holding Power with Integrity with Sir Scott
2025-11-05 18:00 - 20:00
Step into your role as a dominant with clarity, confidence, and care. This class is designed for individuals exploring or deepening their journey in consensual dominance within alternative lifestyle relationships.
Whether you’re new to power exchange or refining your existing skills, Empowered/Responsible Dominance offers a guided path toward authentic leadership, emotional intelligence, and ethical authority.
In this class, participants will learn how responsible dominance is not about control for control’s sake—but about cultivating mutual trust, creating intentional structure, and stewarding the emotional, physical, and psychological safety of power exchange dynamics.
We’ll explore:
– The difference between empowered dominance and domineering behavior
– Emotional, physical, and psychological boundaries—how to define, communicate, and honor them
– Understanding risk dynamics through frameworks like SSC, RACK, and PRICK
– Conflict resolution strategies and pressure-free negotiation techniques
– Aftercare and emotional support as essential acts of responsible leadership
– Signs of predatory or manipulative behavior in submissives
– Building connection through trust, ritual, and emotional attunement
## This class is not just for Dominants!
This class is focused on education, empowerment, and emotional maturity.
It is kink-aware and trauma-informed. All dynamics and identities are welcome.
PRESENTER:
🔥 Scott – “FireOnTheMtnTop”
Scott is a lifestyle Dominant, Sadist, Daddy, and Primal Edge Player with over 18 years in the kink community. He’s a founding Director of G.O.D.S., creator of Colorado KNKE Kinky Camping, and a seasoned Dungeon Monitor, lifestyle event Emcee, and presenter.
As a Dominant, Scott teaches that leadership in kink is sacred work—rooted in care, emotional safety, and integrity. He’s known for creating grounded, real-world conversations about power and play that help people feel seen, strong, and turned on by their truth.
✨ Lecee
Lecee is the “yin” to Scott’s Dominant fire—his little “s.” She’s been active in the lifestyle for 8 years and brings playful insight, emotional wisdom, and lived experience as a submissive.
Together, she and Scott co-create containers that are intimate, brave, and authentic. Her presence helps others feel permission to explore new desires, embrace vulnerability, and rewrite the old stories they were told about sex, surrender, and and worthiness.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9dae6b758a
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with impossiblepain
2025-11-05 19:00 - 21:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!
A peer-led skill share to explore impact play
Hosted by @impossiblepain
SpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction.
7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!)
7:15: ***DOORS CLOSE***
7:15-7:30: Review of rules and guidelines, toys show-and-tell
7:30-9: Socialize, observe, and practice impact play!
SpankLab Rules & Guidelines
Further explanation will be provided at the event, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife, or email eventsassistant@wickedgrounds.com beforehand if you have questions
– Ask before touching people
– Ask before touching toys
– Ask before giving feedback
– Use common sense and trust your gut!
– Sex-positive space, not sex-active
– No phones or photography
– Voyeurism is participation — It’s okay to just watch
– Dungeon etiquette review
PRESENTER
impossiblepain is an impact switch, a gleeful sadist, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe, creative, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021.
You are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain
GROUP
Want to learn more about SpankLab? Join our new group on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/308041
TICKETING
Tickets: $20-$40 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/25170691c2
ACCESS
In SF, this class will be held at the Folsom Street Community Center, at 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA 94103, near 9th and Folsom.
Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.
This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space.

ONLINE: Full Moon Class 1: Elemental Magic in BDSM with Madam Rose
2025-11-06 18:00 - 20:00
Full Moon in Taurus
When your energy is aligned, your dominance flows with clarity and presence—and your submission anchors into loyalty, devotion, and clarity of purpose. This immersive 2-hour workshop teaches you how to return to that alignment using the four elements as practical tools for energetic mastery.
You’ll explore how air, fire, water, and earth each influence your unique power dynamic—and how to choose the right element to meet your needs in both dominant and submissive roles.
From grounding and breathwork to advanced energetic tools, each method is broken down by level and applied to your real-life dynamic.
We’ll conclude with a live altar demonstration, a Q&A integration space, and a brief introduction to flower essences—refined plant allies used in energetic recalibration.
You’ll leave with:
● A deeper understanding of your energetic blueprint
● Personalized tools to stabilize dominance or submission
● Clear examples of how each element affects power exchange
● A live altar-building demo using all four elements
● An introduction to flower essence support for advanced energetic refinement
Open to all roles, genders, and experience levels. No prior energy work necessary.
PRESENTER:
Madam Rosie Rose, the spiritual guide to Dommes, subs, and spicy content creators. Owner of Rose Garden of Kink, a sacred store for the D/s dynamic. She blends energy healing, flower essence work, and divination to support power exchange as a path to alignment. Driven by a passion to create safe, spiritually grounded spaces for healing within BDSM, kink, SWer, and polyamorous communities.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/213d65f4b4
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Tease and Denial with Mel and Memi
2025-11-08 11:00 - 13:00
In this workshop we will go over the psychological impacts of teasing, discuss how to find your tease, give examples of how to use these components in scenes and demo some examples.
We want to explore how riding the edge of pleasure can inform how we occupy our desires, live out our kinks, and fuel each other’s passions.
What the workshop will cover:
– Why we love teasing and edging
– Psychological impacts of edging and teasing
– Styles and finding what type of denial/tease works for you
Examples:
– Scenes
– Day to day dynamics
– In combination with chastity
– Digitally
– Demo of some styles
PRESENTERS:
Mel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events, support groups and workshops for the kinky, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster, he has been doing kink for the last ten years, identifies as sub-leaning switch, and is a sex worker (ProDomme).
One of his greatest passions is thinking about power, risk, and self-consent in the context of kink, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink, pleasure, risk, and depathologization for the last nine years.
Memi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person, who is a lifestyle kinkster, a history teacher, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks, relationships, dynamics, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power, oppression, and the complex history behind kink, the space where didactics and kink meet, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ab3f62bba1
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class!
This class will be recorded and distributed after.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Trance Work 101 with Keiden Bren
2025-11-09 14:00 - 16:00
Have you ever been curious about trance work or trance states but didn’t know where to start? This class is for you if you have ever been curious about different pathways into altered states of consciousness.
The basics of trance work and inducing a trance state will be covered in class. We will also:
– talk about the basics of trance work
– discuss trance as a spectrum of altered state of consciousness
– talk about the safety considerations in trance work
– go over various methods of trance induction -discuss resources for further exploration.
No matter your level of experience, whether you want to explore trance as a meditative practice, integrate trance work into your spiritual practice, just like learning about new things, or want to learn new trance induction methods, this class has something for everyone.
PRESENTER:
Keiden Bren is a neurodivergent queer kinky pagan artist living with MS. They have a deep passion for identity, communication, and language which fuels their desire to create safe spaces for people to just be themselves and to generate learning experiences to grow. With a professional background and volunteer experience in Security and Event Operations, they have developed a penchant for the technical writing of operations, policies, and procedures with a focus on inclusive training and revising outdated content. They have taught classes and lead workshops in various communities on a wide range of topics with a focus on well-being, connection, sexuality, and spirituality.
In addition to their work in security and education, Keiden is also a drummer, a sacred fire tender, a member of the Universal Temple of Spirits, a first-degree initiate in the Stone Circle Wicca tradition, an ordained Priest by the Order of the Golden Gryphon, a graduate of Gryphon’s Grove School of Shamanism, and an honorary member of the Seattle based Night Crew Paranormal Society.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/15f14fdd81
We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.
So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class may be recorded for instructor use but is not guaranteed available for later viewing.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

ONLINE: Sensations Playground: Exploring Edge, Sensuality & Intensity with Electro Girly
2025-11-10 18:00 - 20:00
Step into a world where touch becomes a language and sensation transforms into art. This class invites you to explore the full spectrum of sensation play—from teasing and tantalizing to intense and electrifying. You’ll learn how to safely harness tools that awaken the body and mind, opening the door to new levels of presence, trust, and thrill.
We’ll dive into claws and pinwheels, exploring light scratches, rolling tingles, and textured stimulation that tease and excite every nerve. Wax play introduces warmth and contrast, letting you experience the delicious interplay of hot and cold across the skin. Knife sensation play brings a heightened edge: you’ll explore scratchy and slick movements along the skin, using textured blades to create a thrilling yet fully controlled experience. Safety techniques are emphasized at every step, ensuring that the play is intense but completely consensual and risk-aware.
Beyond tactile play, we’ll explore the pulse of electro play, using electricity to deepen sensation and connection, and the controlled intensity of fire play, where flames awaken the senses in a safe, guided way. By the end of the class, you’ll have practical skills, safety techniques, and the confidence to integrate these tools into your own play—whether you’re exploring alone or with a partner. Participants will also gain advanced skills to elevate their practice and explore sensation with greater precision, control, and artistry.
PRESENTER:
Electro Girly is an educator, performer, event coordinator, and Pro Dom at Sanctuary Studios in Los Angeles. She specializes in electro play, but her teaching sparks far beyond the electrical thrill. She entered the kink scene in 2017 and began professionally working in the community this year, guiding students through a wide range of sensation and edge play, including electro play, impact, wax, knife, sharps, and fire play—all explored with intense, intertwined sensuality that awakens the senses, heightens presence, and deepens connection.
Her classes blend technical skill, embodied awareness, and fearless curiosity, while cultivating a safe, consent-based, and comfortable space where students are free to push boundaries and explore intensity at their own pace. Questions are welcomed, curiosity is celebrated, and every participant is supported as they discover new edges of sensation, pleasure, and connection. Students leave inspired, empowered, and equipped with practical skills to bring artistry, passion, and transformative energy into their own play.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e6c8d7b6d6
Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds!
If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis.
ACCESS:
This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class!
This class will be recorded and distributed after.
Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.
