Wicked Grounds

ONLINE: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
2026-06-09 18:00 - 20:00 (America/Los_Angeles)
Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.
Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about:

Negotiation styles
Pre-scene negotiations
How to negotiate without killing the mood
Checking in during and after the scene
Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics

Drawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter, more fun, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. This series welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications.
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com
TICKETING:
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c8583cea91

ONLINE: Tease and Denial with Mel and Memi
2026-06-10 18:00 - 20:00
In this workshop we will go over the psychological impacts of teasing, discuss how to find your tease, give examples of how to use these components in scenes and demo some examples.
We want to explore how riding the edge of pleasure can inform how we occupy our desires, live out our kinks, and fuel each other’s passions.
What the workshop will cover:

Why we love teasing and edging
Psychological impacts of edging and teasing
Styles and finding what type of denial/tease works for you

Examples:

Scenes
Day to day dynamics
In combination with chastity
Digitally
Demo of some styles

PRESENTERS:
Mel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events, support groups and workshops for the kinky, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster, he has been doing kink for the last ten years, identifies as sub-leaning switch, and is a sex worker (ProDomme).
One of his greatest passions is thinking about power, risk, and self-consent in the context of kink, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink, pleasure, risk, and depathologization for the last nine years.
Memi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person, who is a lifestyle kinkster, a history teacher, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks, relationships, dynamics, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power, oppression, and the complex history behind kink, the space where didactics and kink meet, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around.
TICKETING:
$30 suggested. We make a sliding scale available to increase accessibility. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ab7257bf16

ONLINE: Building Confidence in the Bedroom: Own Your Energy with Dolly Diatima
2026-06-11 18:00 - 20:00
There is a moment when everything shifts, when you stop worrying about being perceived and instead start taking control of the energy of the room.
This class is about stepping into that moment and stepping into your full power.
Through guided exercises, intentional movement, and a little bit of acting technique and sex magic, you will learn how to drop into your body and move without hesitation or nerves. In this class, we will explore the power of eye contact, stillness, silence, and drawing your partner or partners’ focus to you, as well as how to get out of your head and stay fully present. We will cover using your voice and subtle cues to build tension and connection, as well as how to let go of any self-consciousness as you step into your sexiest self.
This class isn’t about scripts or perfection but instead about awareness, control, and owning your desires.
No rushing. No second-guessing. Just you, fully present and completely in control of the energy you bring.
PRESENTER:
Dolly Diatima is a Persian American professional dominatrix, writer, fetish model, and lifestyle kinkster. As a nonbinary and neurodivergent sex worker on the ace spectrum, they offer a unique perspective into kink and sexuality which they work to bring into their sessions as a domme as well as into their writings and classes. They are currently one semester away from a BA in Philosophy and can often be found discussing the intersection of kink and philosophical concepts on their blog. After graduation, they plan to pursue an AASECT sexuality educator certification. In their spare time, they enjoy drawing in the pop surrealism style, watching extreme horror films, and collecting vintage fashion. They reside in the San Francisco Bay Area with their big beautiful tuxedo cat, Ligeia.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/24ba4f4b68

ONLINE: Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam Green
2026-06-13 11:00 - 13:00
The traditional definition of magick is “the art and science of changing consciousness in conformity with Will.” We could also say it’s a way of moving and transforming energy and perception. In terms of our life work, magick is a set of tools that allows us to get out of our own way to more effectively do our work in the world.
The magickian’s tool kit includes techniques such as ecstatic trance, symbolic ritual, polarity work, breathing techniques, sensual immersion, and more. The sex magickian specifically works with the energies raised in solo or partnered play as fuel for their spellwork or life Work.
Those tools should seem very familiar to us kinksters. You may not be a magickian, but most of us are playing around in the magickian’s tool kit.
This class will explore some basic information on how to understand the potent energies invoked in D/s and S/m. We’ll talk about the nature of the soul, how to engage the deeper mind, creating a safe container for a scene, and what one can do with the energies we raise in BDSM play. Whether you believe in magick, want to believe in magick, or think this is all just a fun metaphor for how the mind works, you are sure to gain new tools and perspectives on BDSM play by attending this class.
PRESENTER:
Miriam BatAsherah Green has been in the public kink scene for twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of kink classes online and in person throughout the Southwestern US, and have been teaching to magickal communities since long before teaching on kink. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
TICKETING:
Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up!
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c0023ae7ba

ONLINE: Put a Sigil on It! with Miriam BatAsherah Green A hands-on, practical workshop for sex magick
2026-06-13 14:00 - 16:00
If you can state what you want, and draw even a little bit, you can do magick!
Join Miriam BatAsherah Green for this popular interactive workshop on formulating, creating, and charging magickal sigils. During this workshop, you will have the opportunity to create your own sigil, step by step. If you have studied or practiced sex magick, but want more guidance on easy practical applications, this is your class.
This workshop is open to people of any and all levels of magickal experience and all traditions. We aim to develop a magickal dialogue that includes and transcends specific traditions and practices. Past workshops have included Thelemites, chaos magickians, Reclaiming witches, Feris, Faeries, Wiccans, Druids, Buddhists, queer Christians, Church of All Worlds members, OTO folks, Golden Dawn magickians, and more.
PRESENTER:
Miriam BatAsherah Green is a Thelemite, Witch and educator living on the Mendocino coast of northern California.
With an academic background in Jewish studies, Mir has been actively studying Hermetic Qabala for twenty years and Jewish Kabbalah for nearly as long. Mir can read and speak Hebrew at the Hungry Little Caterpillar reading level. Miriam is a proud past member of Scarlet Woman Lodge and Blazing Star Oasis, OTO and is an initiated Reclaiming Witch. In addition to magickal and occult topics, Mir presents kink classes through Wicked Grounds.
You may find out more about Mir’s classes at MiriamBatasherahGreen.com, or book with Mir for personal coaching and consulting at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/991d00100b
