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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle
DESCRIPTION:Many polyamorous “authorities” present kitchen-table groups as the holy grail of polyam interactions. While these relationship styles work well for many people\, structures that fall outside that framework can be equally positive and healthy. This class will focus on building parallel relationships\, being intentional about your choice of how much to interact with your partners’ wider networks\, and how to openly communicate about: \n\nHow to be entwined in someone’s life but not close with a meta\n“Stepping off the relationship escalator”\nHow to negotiate wanting a different level of interaction than a meta does\nBalancing D/s concerns with poly concerns\nMaximizing personal responsibility and minimizing stress on hinge partners\n\nPRESENTER: \nLaura Boyle is a relationship coach\, educator\, and author of Monogamy? In this Economy? Finances\, Childrearing\, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory. She’s the voice behind the Ready for Polyamory blog and podcast\, and has been an expert voice on polyamory in such publications as The Boston Globe and Cosmopolitan. She’s been polyamorous for nearly 20 years and has been teaching since 2018. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b5a15df977
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-beyond-the-kitchen-table-modes-and-models-of-parallel-polyamory-with-laura-boyle-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: From Little Princess to Rebellious Teen: An Ageplay Workshop with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:The idea behind this workshop is to explore the possibilities of ageplay and everything that is yet uncharted about it. We want to offer a cared for space for everyone interested in exploring how being a baby\, a child or a teen can feel\, and for them to be heard and not alone in their kinks and lifestyle. \nWe will cover the basics for anyone interested in diving into ageplay\, and show how tender\, fun and sexy playing with age can be\, knowing that we are doing a radical act of vulnerability with the intent of making people feel accepted and welcome them into this family (hahah) of practices. \nWhat the workshop will cover: \n\nWhat is ageplay: intro\, styles\, dynamics and more!\nKink shame and stigma surrounding ageplay (and how to de-pathologize)\nHow to negotiate for an ageplay scene\nSmall negotiation demo\nArchetypes and scene ideas\nHow to explore “little” and “big” spaces\nIdentity\, 24/7 dynamics and roles\n\nPRESENTERS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink\, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics\, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression\, and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet\, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/67b3f4cac6
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-from-little-princess-to-rebellious-teen-an-ageplay-workshop-with-mel-and-memi/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251214T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251214T160000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Domination 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Developing Your Dominant Side with Sarah Butcher
DESCRIPTION:Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single\, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be getting the results you desire\, this workshop is for you! \nI am welcoming Dominants/switches of all genders and orientations to The Art of Domination\, where I’ll be talking you through some of the basics of Domination\, how it works\, and how to find and create a fulfilling D/s dynamic with a partner whose kinks align with yours. Topics we’ll cover include: \n\nWhat is a Dom?\nQualities of a good Dominant\nBlocks to Domination & confidence building\nStepping into your masculine energy\nWhat type of Dominant are you?\nYour Dominant responsibilities\nLimits\, safewords & aftercare\nFinding the right submissive\nTraining your submissive\nTaking on board feedback\n\nThis workshop will encourage you to really think about your desires and reflect on how to adapt your Dominant style to get the most out of your BDSM experiences.\nPlease note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. \nPRESENTER: \nSarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City is an Integrative Kink Therapist\, Coach & Educator with over a decade of experience in the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters to consciously explore what BDSM means to them. With a holistic and therapeutic approach\, Sarah works with a variety of individuals and couples at different stages of their kink journey\, supporting them to discover their desires\, integrate their shadows\, and live in their truth through 1-1 sessions\, workshops\, events\, and retreats. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3bb72df8b1
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-domination-101-a-beginners-guide-to-developing-your-dominant-side-with-sarah-butcher/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Long Distance Polyamory w/ HG Wyndell
DESCRIPTION:Whether partners are 2 hours away or halfway around the world\, it can take a lot more than Google Calendar to make long-distance polyamorous relationships functional\, healthy\, and fulfilling. \nSometimes the distance is a six-month job placement\, sometimes it’s living thousands of miles apart. Distance will multiply the complexity already present in polyamorous\nrelationships. \nWe’ll discuss the challenges\, additional dynamics\, and helpful approaches to long-distance polyamory based on lived experience. Hopefully leaving you with more tools in your toolbox for figuring out how to make it work in healthy and fulfilling ways for you. \nPRESENTER: \nHG Wyndell is an activist\, educator\, and Spiritworker who is driven to facilitate accessible ritual spaces for folks seeking access to more deeply nourishing relationships with themselves and others. They are committed to living life through a lens of wonder\, and in our experience\, they don’t mess around when it comes to embracing the complex beingness of whoever is blessed to be in their presence and consideration. They weave their lived experiences with intentional relationship\, genuine gender expression\, ceremony\, creative arts\, chronic illness\, and embracing pleasure seamlessly with a whole lot of love and a good bit of magic into the rich curriculum they offer. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 scale. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5c4e43aefe
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-long-distance-polyamory-w-hg-wyndell-2/
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251217T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251217T210000
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SUMMARY:SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty
DESCRIPTION:Get tickets exclusively on Plura! \n— \nFeeling social pressure to find someone to connect with? \nWe can’t promise love\, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people\, a lot of people\, fast. \nOur purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. \n– Find people with similar kinks as yours. \n– Find people with whom to explore new kinks. \n– Find new friends. \n– Find new people to play with. \n  \nPeople will be separated by appetite\, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. \nThe evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite\, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting\, even if they aren’t your appetite. \nOnce the event has started\, we can not add new people\, so please be on time. \nPRESENTER: \nRyan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade\, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender\, or hosting events at the SF Citadel\, Catalyst\, and of course Wicked Grounds. \nACCESS: \nIn SF\, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. \nWe cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun)\, so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded. \nPlease do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave\, regardless of vaccination status.
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-kinky-speed-friending-with-psychokitty-7/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251221T140000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: BDSM & Attachment Styles w/ Sir Panda
DESCRIPTION:Attachments are emotional bonds formed in childhood\, and whether we form secure or insecure attachments is dependent upon how our needs for attention\, love\, and growth are met. The patterns set in place carry forward to how we form adult attachments\, including friendships\, romantic partners\, and the bonds of power exchange. \nThis presentation will examine the basics of Attachment Theory\, how attachment styles are expressed\, and how they are manifested in different BDSM identities and roles. The class will also touch on how to encourage secure attachment in ourselves and in our relationships with others. \nPRESENTER: \nSir Panda (He/Him) is a Dominant and sadist who lives his busy polyamorous and kinky life in the Seattle area with his wife and and his collared life partner. He has been a kink educator since he originated the Passport Program at the Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) in 2011\, teaching consent and BDSM basics to new members. In 2015\, Sir Panda founded the View From the Top dominant discussion group\, now hosted online on the fourth Tuesday of the month (https://thecspc.org/event). \nSir Panda has served in a variety of roles in the kink community\, including event host for Arborea Falls and the CSPC\, BDSM Lead for Fantasy Forrest Events\, and Program Lead for KinkFest 2023. He has been a presenter for the CSPC\, Pragmatically Kinking\, the Kink Center\, and Leather Reign\, and is currently an educator with D/s Pacific Northwest (www.dspnw.org). Sir Panda can be contacted on FetLife and Discord as SirPandaSeattle. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; $20-$40 scale. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c891594af4
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-bdsm-attachment-styles-w-sir-panda/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251223T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251223T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:So — what’d you do this year to move your kink journey forward? Join Sinclair in this workshop and do some reflection about where you have been\, who you met\, what scenes you had\, what you learned\, and how you engaged with community. \nLooking back at this past year in your kink life can point you toward what you want to change or focus on for this next year — so we’ll use our reflections to make some goals\, ideas\, bucket list\, or bingo card for next year. Sinclair will bring plenty of ideas and worksheets for you to reflect on your year\, and plan the one ahead. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8e134f7b41
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-your-year-in-kink-with-sinclair-sexsmith/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251229T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20251229T200000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: When No Doesn't Mean No: Negotiation and Communication for Consensual Nonconsent with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:How do you keep yourself safe when you want to feel you’re in real danger? How do you push someone past their breaking point and still leave room to repair the damage? Is there a way to forego hard limits and safewords and stay ethical in play? When you start to play on the edges of consent\, everything becomes a little bit trickier. \nIn this class\, vahavta draws on her experiences and stories from a decade years in a 24/7 consensual non-consent (“CNC”) relationship\, sharing tips and strategies for developing and staying within a personal risk profile\, playing with triggers\, communicating in-scene without “breaking character\,” and dealing with cognitive dissonance (“did I really want that?”) in drop. We will explore the mental and physical considerations and contingency plans needed to enter a CNC environment\, based on the desires and boundaries expressed by both bottoms and tops. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey eight years ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and Israel along the way. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service and is often found sporting large bruises\, writing\, or enjoying a good beer. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/34419a147c
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