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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Trauma Response As An s-Type with Oak
DESCRIPTION:All of us have experienced some form of trauma\, and many of us have experienced complex traumas. Trauma informs how we move through the world and within our relationships\, including D/s. Trauma response in submission is not a failure of submission; they’re pieces of us that have allowed us to survive. However\, when they show up inside a D/s dynamic\, they can get in the way of a grounded & chosen submission. \nThis interactive discussion asks how you tell the difference. Not just intellectually\, but in your body\, the moment\, and in the relationship. We’ll look at how nervous system activation shapes response\, and why a conditioned pattern can feel indistinguishable from a chosen one. \nWe’ll build language for what’s actually happening. We’ll look at what belongs to trauma\, to desire\, and what happens when the two have been living in the same room so long you’ve stopped noticing. \nThe frame we’ll return to the idea that submission is not the abandonment of the self. Submission is ideally an intentional offering of self. \nPRESENTER: \nOak is a community educator\, artist\, and collared & Owned sub with decades of work & event production in the Leather community. As the creator behind Oaken designs\, his artwork explores themes of devotion\, reverence\, and depravity through multiple mediums including resin work. Oak loves to facilitate conversations about ethical submission\, embodied consent\, and trauma-informed power. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1d34453683
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-trauma-response-as-an-s-type-with-oak/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Astrokink 101: Discovering Your Erotic Archetypes with Lila Hades\, The Unconventional Plutonian
DESCRIPTION:Your birth chart doesn’t just say who you are—it shows you how you want to be erotically met. \nWe will offer two related classes over two days. Feel free to attend one or both! Join us for Part 2 the following day here: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a5873b0dd0 \nWhat if your birth chart could tell you more than whom you are compatible with or what kind of career you should pursue? \nWhat if it could help you find language for desires you have struggled to name? \nWhat if astrology could offer a map—not of what you are destined to want\, but of the many ways you might explore your experience of pleasure\, power\, fantasy\, surrender\, intimacy\, and erotic expression? \nWelcome to AstroKink—where the planets help you discover your kink archetypes and your birth chart become a playground and framework for exploring desire\, power\, and possibility. \nWe’re talking: \n\nYour Venus as your pleasure style (romantic\, indulgent\, aesthetic\, or chaotic)\nYour Mars as how you pursue\, initiate\, and play with intensity\nYour Moon as your emotional needs in kink and power exchange\nYour Saturn as your edges\, limits\, discipline\, and restraint kinks\nYour Pluto as your intensity and shadow taboos that could lead to obsession or transformation\nAnd our exploring the other planetary archetypes\n\nIn this live virtual workshop\, we will: \n\nDiscuss and play with planetary archetypes as gateways into different kink dynamics (Brat\, Caregiver\, Ruler\, Trickster\, Devotee\, etc.)\nLearn new tools for communicating desires and boundaries with clarity\nDiscover shadow\, taboo\, and desire through Pluto and the 8th house\nExperience space to explore your personal astrology and kinky edges without shame or pressure\n\nAstroKink can be used as a tool for self-discovery\, communication\, creative experimentation with kink and your eroticism\, and relational reflection. \nYou might love the AstroKink approach to: \n\nFind language for desires or fantasies that have felt difficult to articulate.\nExplore your relationship with dominance\, submission\, service\, control\, surrender\, or erotic authority.\nUnderstand what helps you feel emotionally and physically safe enough to experiment.\nIdentify possible needs around boundaries\, negotiation\, pacing\, and aftercare.\nDevelop characters\, personas\, scenes\, rituals\, or roleplaying scenarios.\nExplore the emotional meaning beneath a fantasy without assuming you must enact it.\nExamine shame and inherited beliefs about pleasure.\nNotice where your desires contain tensions that deserve curiosity rather than forced resolution.\nGenerate new questions to discuss with a partner\, play partner\, or community.\nDiscover forms of pleasure and intimacy that do not revolve around conventional sex.\nCreate a more personal\, embodied\, and expansive relationship with your birth chart.\n\nYou do not need to be an experienced astrologer or kinkster to engage with this work. You also do not need to be sexually active or partnered. I look forward to exploring together! \nPRESENTER: \nLila Hades (she/they) is a queer\, neurodivergent word witch & author; trauma-informed conflict resolution practitioner; BDSM & kink educator; and astrologer who founded The Unconventional Plutonian (also known as UP). \nUP’s mission is to empower and inspire courageous personal & communal transformation through a radical and queer lens. Rooted in astrology\, storytelling and the mythic imagination\, BDSM and kink exploration\, and conflict resolution practices\, UP designs events\, kink coaching\, and classes as containers for embodiment\, consent\, and liberatory self-expression. The Unconventional Plutonian exists to cultivate acceptance\, resilience\, and more imaginative ways of being—with ourselves\, with one another\, and with the places we inhabit. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested; sliding scale available. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c4879df45b
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-astrokink-101-discovering-your-erotic-archetypes-with-lila-hades-the-unconventional-plutonian/
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DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261018T130000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Astrokink 201: Mapping Your Erotic Ecosystem with Lila Hades\, The Unconventional Plutonian
DESCRIPTION:Your desires do not exist in isolation—and neither do the planets in your birth chart.\nYou might crave surrender and resist vulnerability. You might long to be adored while feeling uncomfortable receiving attention. You might need emotional safety and still be drawn toward risk\, intensity\, taboo\, or transformation. \nThese tensions do not mean your desires are contradictory or broken. They may be part of what makes your erotic language uniquely yours. \nAstroKink 201 moves beyond interpreting one planet at a time and invites you to explore your birth chart as an interconnected erotic ecosystem. We will examine how your planetary placements\, houses\, and aspects interact to create layers of desire\, conflict\, curiosity\, power\, and possibility. \nRather than asking\, “What is my kink according to my chart?” we will ask: \n\nWhich parts of my erotic self work together—and which parts want different things?\nWhere might I experience tension between desire\, safety\, vulnerability\, and control?\nWhat kinds of roles\, dynamics\, fantasies\, or forms of intimacy allow multiple parts of me to be expressed?\nHow can I translate my chart into experiments without treating astrology as destiny?\nWhat does my chart reveal about the deeper emotional meaning beneath what turns me on?\n\nIn this live virtual workshop\, we will: \n\nLearn how aspects between planets can reveal erotic chemistry\, tension\, inhibition\, amplification\, and internal contradiction.\nExplore how house placements show where pleasure\, power\, fantasy\, intimacy\, visibility\, service\, and transformation may become especially meaningful.\nPractice synthesizing multiple placements rather than interpreting each planet separately.\nExamine the relationship between desire and safety through combinations involving Venus\, Mars\, the Moon\, Saturn\, and Pluto.\nExplore the 5th\, 7th\, 8th\, and 12th houses as distinct landscapes of play\, partnership\, intimacy\, taboo\, fantasy\, and surrender.\nIdentify recurring erotic themes and develop your own constellation of kink archetypes.\nTranslate your chart into prompts for negotiation\, boundaries\, pacing\, aftercare\, and relational communication.\nUse astrology to inspire characters\, scenes\, rituals\, power dynamics\, and roleplaying scenarios.\nExplore how two charts might interact without reducing compatibility to a simple “good” or “bad” match.\nCreate a personal AstroKink experiment: a scene concept\, fantasy inquiry\, embodiment practice\, communication prompt\, or ritual inspired by your chart.\n\nAstroKink 201 is not about allowing astrology to dictate what you should want or what you must enact through kink. A birth chart cannot replace consent\, communication\, compatibility\, or self-knowledge. Instead\, it can offer a symbolic language for approaching your desires and kink exploration with greater curiosity\, imagination\, and compassion. \nYou do not need to be sexually active\, partnered\, or highly experienced with kink to participate. Familiarity with the planets and basic birth-chart language will be helpful. \nAttending AstroKink 101—or having comparable foundational knowledge of the AstroKink planetary archetypes—is recommended. We will offer AstroKink 101 on 10/17 at 2pm Pacific and you may get ticketing here to attend live or through the recording. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c4879df45b
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-astrokink-201-mapping-your-erotic-ecosystem-with-lila-hades-the-unconventional-plutonian/
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261021T180000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Energetic & Fluid Vampirism A class with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:This ain’t a stroll through Spirit Halloween\, baby bat… Join real life bloodsucker\, The Lady V\, for a class you can really sink your teeth deep into. \nVampirism\, while often portrayed within a mythological framework\, is practiced in reality. The root of Vampirism is playing with energy\, & dare I say occasionally… romance. \nVampirism can be explored through fluids like spit\, urine\, cum\, & blood. Fluids not your thing? Energy is delicious as well… \nDISCLAIMER: This is NOT a Blood Play class. This includes elements of Blood & other Fluid based play but non-fluid based Vampirism is completely valid & often practiced. \nIn this class we’ll take a bite into: \n\nVampire/thrall dynamics\, feeding during hookups or with play partners\nEnergetic vs fluid-based vampirism\nUsing vampirism as a spiritual & energetic tool for connection\, submission & release\nHow to give\, receive & recycle energy as a vampire & how to ethically engage\nNegotiation frameworks\, disclosure\, STI considerations\n& MORE!\n\nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer\, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix based out of Los Angeles\, CA & Portland\, OR. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US & internationally. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events\, play parties\, educational intensives\, & so much more. \nPrior to jumping into pursuing sex education as a full time passion\, Lady V served as a Behavioral Services Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. Her work around modular\, individualistic care & advocacy has sense shifted to the larger world of sex positivity and kink. \nStay in touch with her: \nWebsite: TheLadyV.net\nFetlife: @The_Lady_V\nInstagram: @Switchinatrix \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a9b2eb0a6a
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261101T180000
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SUMMARY:Diving Deep Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires - A Six Week Course with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out\, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \n\n\nEngage in a journey of self-discovery\n\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \nDiscovering and honoring what turns you on \nSafely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism \nTrying new skills in the bedroom and beyond \nDeepening your insights into your own desires \nDisentangling from others’ erotic projections \nFinding your voice and speaking freely \nSharing the desires you’re afraid to voice \n\nAbout Miriam Green\n\nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds\, San Francisco’s leader in BDSM education and community building. \nHow we’ll engage\nThe six week course will run live from November 1 – December 14\, 2026. \nThis class will include six total weeks of content and homework\, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Monday evenings (all recorded for later participation if needed)\, and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.) \nOur three 90-minute live group sessions will be offered via Zoom on Monday\, November 2; Monday\, November 23; and Monday\, December 7 – all at 6pm Pacific time. \nSessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live. \nIs this course for you?\n\nDo you get stuck when asked “what do you want in intimate relationships?”\nAre you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks?\nHave you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism?\nDo you want a deep understanding of the physical and psychological responses you have to kink?\nDo you want to connect deeply with others?\n\nThen yes: this course is for you! \nPrevious students say …\n“Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have\, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years\, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do \nTICKETING: \nhttps://wickedgroundsannex.teachable.com/p/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-your-desires_2026
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-erotic-desires-a-six-week-course-with-miriam-green/
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SUMMARY:Month of Mindfulness 2027
DESCRIPTION:Building simple\, sustainable daily practice to support ourselves in our kink and queer explorations\, relationships and everyday lives. \nWe’ll have daily work throughout January 2027. \n \n\n\n\n\n\nDaily practice is for everyone\n\nWhat’s the most important part of a daily practice? The daily part. \nWe’ll spend a month together exploring daily practices that tend to help most folks lead lives with deeper meaning\, more resilience\, and greater focus. \nSpoiler: Not every technique out there will work for you\, and that’s okay! We’ll explore together several practices that tend to help most people\, most of the time. By the end of the month\, you’ll be ready to launch your own personal practice that suits your needs! \n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nWhat we’ll do\nThroughout the full month of January 2027\, you’ll receive and explore: \n\nWritten & video instruction to understand the psychology of daily habits\nWritten & video instruction to explore the application of our habits to a sex-positive life\nLive guided meditation sessions at least five days each week\nPre-recorded meditation sessions with Miriam Green that you can use during the program and beyond\nDaily writing prompts\nWeekly suggestions for mindfulness field trips\nSupport in establishing and maintaining your personal New Year’s resolutions\nAnd more!
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/month-of-mindfulness-2027/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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