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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Monster Matchmaking: Assessing Compatibility for Emotional Sadomasochism with SuspendDisbelief
DESCRIPTION:Who should we trust to (consensually) hurt our feelings? Wait\, what even are feelings? In a scarcity mindset\, we sometimes focus on the specifics of fulfilling a fantasy and forget to establish whether our scene partner(s) are right for the job. This class zooms in on motivations for and compatibility during emotional sadomasochism from a bottom’s perspective. \nSuspendDisbelief applies an academic lens to almost a decade of experience being consensually bullied in public to help fellow masochists gain insight into their play desires. \nPRESENTER: \nSuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer\, non-monogamous power exchange and sadomasochism nerd. Her hobby of choice has been getting hurt in public since 2017\, but she has been fantasizing about powerlessness and crushing on former boy scouts exclusively for their knowledge of knots for far longer than that. On top of bottoming for power exchange and physical+emotional sadism\, she started tying herself in 2019 and swiftly snowballed down the pipeline toward rope topping. She uses the chaos goblin energy bestowed upon her by her ADHD to enhance her teaching and help people like her “get it”. She currently helps facilitate and teaches monthly for Hitchin’ Bitches DC. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/44d0ee7bfc
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-monster-matchmaking-assessing-compatibility-for-emotional-sadomasochism-with-suspenddisbelief/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: ESM 102: Resilience Skills for Emotional S/m with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:Emotional S/m can offer some of the most intense and transformative experiences in kink\, and also some of the most challenging to navigate sustainably. In ESM 102: Resilience Skills for Emotional Sadomasochism\, vahavta will take us beyond basic negotiation and communication to focus on what it actually takes to keep this kind of play sustainable for your brain\, body\, and life. \nWe’ll discuss how we can better prepare for and navigate the complex nuances between consensual emotional suffering and genuine psychological damage\, and walk away with practical methods for building tailored personal resilience while outside of play so that you can lean in more consciously and fully when it begins—not the sort of resilience that protects you from intensity\, but one that allows you to metabolize it fully and keep coming back for more. \nFor ESM players who are familiar with their desires and ready to develop the skills needed for long-term sustainability in psychological edgeplay. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey about a decade ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and internationally. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer multiple price points\, so cost is less of a barrier to attendance. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b75238e241
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-esm-102-resilience-skills-for-emotional-s-m-with-vahavta/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dark Roleplaying with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:We have been “playing pretend” since we were young\, but kinky sexuality opens up new and potentially taboo forms of roleplaying. Join us as we explore the shadowy realms of our fantasies and make-believe we can try on: abduction\, torture\, snuff\, fantastical realms\, and anything else our twisted minds can dream up. We will discuss the joys of playing consensually in our closets\, why these dark desires turn us on\, how to bring up these taboo interests with our partners\, negotiating our interests\, and troubleshooting the challenges these types of fantasies can elicit. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/174c1f46d0 \nWe offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dark-roleplaying-with-lee-harrington/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Baring Your Emotional Jugular: Active Bottoming For Emotional Sadism Play
DESCRIPTION:Sticks and stones may break your bones\, but words… can actually do some serious damage\, right? Emotional sadomasochism (ESM) is incredibly fun but also incredibly high-risk\, and mitigating that risk can seem like a lot of work. It turns out that handing someone a metaphorical map of your emotional landscape makes it a bit easier for them to navigate without breaking things. But how do we make an accurate map\, and how do we draw it in a way that makes sense for our partner? \nWe’ll discuss skills such as scene negotiation\, vulnerability/authenticity\, discovering and communicating your desires and aftercare needs\, and flirting with your sadists in a non-pushy way. SuspendDisbelief aims to prove that bottoms can actively participate in and guide their own play-destruction while having fun! \nPRESENTER: \nSuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer\, non-monogamous power exchange and sadomasochism nerd. Her hobby of choice has been getting hurt in public since 2017\, but she has been fantasizing about powerlessness and crushing on former boy scouts exclusively for their knowledge of knots for far longer than that. On top of bottoming for power exchange and physical+emotional sadism\, she started tying herself in 2019 and swiftly snowballed down the pipeline toward rope topping. She uses the chaos goblin energy bestowed upon her by her ADHD to enhance her teaching and help people like her “get it”. She currently helps facilitate and teaches monthly for Hitchin’ Bitches DC. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a9ea90dc25 \nWe offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. \nSo – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nPatreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month’s discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! \nIf cost is a barrier at any level\, please use the “Volunteer List” to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. \nACCESS: \nThis will be a live\, online class offered through Zoom. To participate\, you may need to download the free\, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class *will not* be recorded. \nZoom now provides closed captioning\, which will be available for this event.
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-baring-your-emotional-jugular-active-bottoming-for-emotional-sadism-play/
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Negotiating and Communicating for Emotional S/M with vahavta
DESCRIPTION:Humiliation\, degradation\, objectification\, and other emotion-based play can\, for some people\, provide some of the most intense or playful kink experiences. But as a more abstract kink\, it can be challenging to negotiate effectively. Add the complicated nature of safewording when emotions have already been affected\, and you have a recipe for some potentially major pitfalls. In this class\, join experienced emotional masochist vahavta to explore your interest in emotional play\, discuss some of the possibilities for its directions (both good and bad!)\, and learn how to communicate with partners to minimize harm and maximize the experience you want. \nPRESENTER: \nvahavta began her kink journey about a decade ago and has been grateful to get to teach\, play\, and learn in communities in North Carolina\, Chicago\, St. Louis\, and internationally. Today\, she serves her husband in a 24/7 CNC-based Total Power Exchange with heavy elements of emotional play and service. vahavta is disabled\, Jewish\, and femme\, and believes in approaching kink with a firm understanding of intersectional context. As an educator\, she aims to give honest and risk-aware information that applies to the realities of human behavior\, focusing largely on the “how” and asking people to consider their personal capabilities\, interests\, and readiness. Passionate about community collaboration\, vahavta is proud to run the Risk Evaluation Database (RED) and contribute regularly to kink blogs and her own Fetlife writing index. In all aspects of her life\, she strives to be a work in progress. \nTICKETING:  \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/02ba119b6e
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