Wicked Grounds

ONLINE: Creating BIPOC-Inclusive Kink Spaces with Lilithfoxx
2026-03-09 18:00 - 20:00 (America/Los_Angeles)
Dive deep into the complexities of allyship within the kink community, confronting the challenging realities faced by BIPOC individuals in spaces of alternative sexuality. Despite outward appearances of acceptance, many encounter systemic barriers, microaggressions, and biases that detract from their freedom and expression in what should be safe and empowering environments. This session is a call to action, moving beyond performative gestures and diversity statements to enact real change and foster genuine inclusivity.
Join us for a transformative exploration into creating more inclusive, empathetic, and supportive kink spaces where every individual can freely express and explore their sexuality. Participants will engage in meaningful learning, develop empathetic communication skills, and understand the nuances of allyship in a community context, fostering environments that actively support and celebrate BIPOC participants.
PRESENTER:
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is an accomplished Board-certified sexologist, educator, and professional speaker with a specialized focus on alternative sexuality, diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging (DEIB), LGBTQ+ and disability inclusion, and cultural competency in clinical, academic, and research settings. Presently, she is engaged in pursuing her AASECT Sexuality Educator certification, and is a student at The Kinsey Institute, demonstrating her commitment to the field and professional growth. Identifying as a BIPOC, Queer, and neurodivergent individual, Lilith brings a unique and valuable perspective to her work. This personal insight has been key in developing her specialty areas and contributing to a more inclusive conversation about sexuality and relationships. Lilith’s connection to alternative sexuality extends beyond her professional work. For over a decade, she has identified with kink and polyamorous communities, even stepping into the roles of community organizer and educator in these spaces for the past five years. She is also a skilled workshop facilitator, delivering sessions on relationships, sexuality, intimacy, and inclusion. Her workshops have reached global audiences through conferences around the world, ensuring a wide and diverse range of perspectives in her audience. Lilith draws on her experiences as a proud former sex worker to inform her professional approach and expertise, fostering a deeper understanding of the varied facets of sexuality. Her insights and expertise have been recognized and featured in major publications such as Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Glamour, Kinkly, Ask Men, Mashable, and many more.
Before her foray into sexuality education and consultancy, Lilith enjoyed a successful decade-long career in digital marketing. As a senior-level digital marketing director, SEO-specialist, web developer, and business consultant, she worked with businesses spanning from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. She continues to utilize these skills, providing marketing and business consulting services to sex-positive and adult-industry businesses.
Through her professional endeavors, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire, educate, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality, relationships, and intimacy.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/560f65fde1

ONLINE: Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam Green
2026-03-15 14:00 - 16:00
The traditional definition of magick is “the art and science of changing consciousness in conformity with Will.” We could also say it’s a way of moving and transforming energy and perception. In terms of our life work, magick is a set of tools that allows us to get out of our own way to more effectively do our work in the world.
The magickian’s tool kit includes techniques such as ecstatic trance, symbolic ritual, polarity work, breathing techniques, sensual immersion, and more. The sex magickian specifically works with the energies raised in solo or partnered play as fuel for their spellwork or life Work.
Those tools should seem very familiar to us kinksters. You may not be a magickian, but most of us are playing around in the magickian’s tool kit.
This class will explore some basic information on how to understand the potent energies invoked in D/s and S/m. We’ll talk about the nature of the soul, how to engage the deeper mind, creating a safe container for a scene, and what one can do with the energies we raise in BDSM play. Whether you believe in magick, want to believe in magick, or think this is all just a fun metaphor for how the mind works, you are sure to gain new tools and perspectives on BDSM play by attending this
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of kink classes online and in person throughout the Southwestern US, and have been teaching to magickal communities since long before teaching on kink. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
TICKETING:
Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up!
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a227b92c79

ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
2026-03-16 08:00 - 17:00
Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.
Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about:

Negotiation styles
Pre-scene negotiations
How to negotiate without killing the mood
Checking in during and after the scene
Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics

Drawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter, more fun, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. This series welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications.
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com
TICKETING:
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/451ed90c73

ONLINE: From Concept to Canvas: Creative Needle Play with Miss Mackenzee
2026-03-16 18:00 - 20:00
Have you seen BDSM pictures online of beautiful artwork with play piercings? Are you wondering how you can be the creator of your own jaw-dropping masterpieces? Well, then this workshop is for you! This is not a 101 class so having a working knowledge of sharps is beneficial. This course offers a comprehensive exploration into the world of creative expression through needle techniques, focusing not only on the practical implementation but also on the aesthetic and psychological dimensions.
Within our time together, you’ll gain an opportunity to discover new ways to express yourself through intricate designs and patterns on the body, enhancing both visual and sensory experiences. You can go simple using colored thread and ribbon or add in beads and needle caps so the designs can stay in longer while you parade around your living canvas. We will discuss ideas that range from simple to elaborate. You’ll also learn some exciting methods for torturing your bottom using predicament bondage and inducing endorphin rushes that will send them to further reaches of floaty space.
Delve deeper into:

Creating sensations beyond a standard little prick
What to have on hand in case things go wrong or someone feels sick
Making your bottom feel sexy with sharps woven in their skin
How to incorporate other types of play with needles
Learn how to prepare a safe environment to ensure a hygienic experience
Managing pain thresholds and difficult moments in a scene
And more!

PRESENTER:
Miss Mackenzee comes from a queer, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist, BDSM and Intimacy Educator, Certified Hypnotist, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor, Owner of Elysium Dungeon, Host of Kink, Intimacy, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast, Content Creator, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses, spicy digital guides, clothing, aftercare items, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications, been hired as an expert for various media outlets, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play, sex magic, bondage, power exchange, reveling in pleasure, sadism, bedroom skills, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter, safer, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality.
To view her full offerings, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0dcf260200

SF: Getting Started with Rope Intensive with PsychoKitty
2026-03-18 12:00 - 16:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
Have you seen people pulling out rope for a bondage scene, and it looks fun but overwhelming? Whether you’re new to rope or need a refresher, this class is perfect for you.
We will talk about how to choose the best rope for particular bondage styles, including samples of rope types to feel and explore the different advantages they offer.
We will work on some fundamental ties that can get you started, like single and double column ties. And most importantly, the good places on the body to put rope. Once we have the basics down we will cover classic ties including the ladder tie, box tie, and Futomomo.
Please come prepared to practice! You are welcome to come alone or with a partner. If you come solo, be prepared to practice with a fellow attendee. We will have some loaner rope available, but please bring your own rope and safety shears if you have them.
PRESENTER:
Ryan PsychoKitty is a performance artist and improv actor, starting at the Annoyance Theater of Improv of Chicago in the late 90s and has performed in New York, San Francisco, London, Kobe, and Osaka, with performance images in Skin Two. He has presented classes at the SF Citadel, Shibaricon, TNG4, Boundless, and others.
He is the host of the new Dirty Talk Game Show here in San Francisco, a former host of Shibaricon in Chicago, is one of the founders of Wicked Grounds Kink Café and Boutique.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3987c3674d

ONLINE: Edge of Glory: P-Spot & Cock Edging with Lady V
2026-03-18 18:00 - 20:00
🙏 We’re on the edge of an orgasm with this class on everything to do with edging & finding the great prophesied prostate! 🙏
Edging, a term to describe stimulating someone’s genital close to orgasm but not allowing them to cum is a great way to tease a partner into having an extremely powerful orgasm…or even torture them by endlessly not cumming (or even “ruining” their orgasm). 😼
Join Lady V, professional dominatrix & anal enthusiast on how to dip your fingers into learning about the art of prostate milking, a very powerful technique to bring someone to an orgasm without them even getting remotely erect. 🙀
😷 In this class, we’ll dive into: 😷

Finding one’s “P-Spot” 🔎
How to stimulate prostate with a light & heavy touch 👈
Angles & positions to get the best angle 🧘
Edging someone’s cock without touching them (yes, seriously) 🌬️
How to simultaneously use a mix of prostate stimuli & edging 🌪️
& SO MUCH MORE!

NOTE: This class is accessible to all genders & roles. We will however be focusing on mostly penis owners & AMAB bodies (Assigned Male at Birth). 🍆
PRESENTER:
Lady V aka C.C. the Cow (she/her) is co-creator of the Hucow Pride Flag in 2023. She is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer & Professional Dominatrix. She is the self-proclaimed “Dairy Queen of the Hucow Herd”, “Jewish American Pleasure Princess” & “Switchinatrix”.
Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as a Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. She has also served the community by facilitating public health events.
She hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. You can view all her links by clicking HERE!
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/bce6416e42

ONLINE: Head, Hair, and Face Bondage with Lee Harrington
2026-03-19 18:00 - 20:00
We look out into the world through our eyes, listen to it with our ears, breathe in every breath through our nose and mouth, and communicate our desires with smiles, sparkling looks, and verbal conversation. It is understandable why for many people, facial bondage is an invasion of personal space, an intimate form of play, and a hot way to get someone’s attention.
We will begin with making rope gags, tying hair bondage, and creating quick face ropes, but by the end of the class we will demonstrate constructing a complex head cage! Don’t let length of hair, extensions, or weaves hold you back though – we will share ideas on how to make this type of play accessible to everyone.
PRESENTER:
Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com.
TICKETING:
$30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2188c10296

LA: Play Lab with Wicked Grounds: Impact
2026-03-20 19:00 - 22:00
​Play Lab is a kinky skill share, come indulge in your passions or learn something new!
​Join us for this community-forward collaborative space where we tackle a different topic each month.
​This month’s topic: Impact Play!
​Hosted by Miriam Green of Wicked Grounds
​Bring your favorite gear, tools and toys if you have them. If you don’t have a thing or are just starting out, bring an open mind and a willingness to soak it all in.
​We welcome those of all experience levels! Curious newbies and seasoned kinksters alike can come together to build knowledge and practice in a casual, conversational setting. Think less of a play party, more of a kinky salon to collaborate and grow. To keep things open to folks at all experience levels, this space will be both sex positive and sex free.
​Our hosts and space monitors will be present to provide assistance and create a safer container for us to play and explore. (If you are an experienced kink practitioner interested in volunteering 30 minutes between 7:30 PM and 10:00 PM as a space monitor for free entry, contact nick@wickedgrounds.com for vetting.)
​Here’s a look at our schedule:
​6:30: Doors open
​7:00: Host presentation
7:15: DOORS CLOSE (Please pre-plan for transport and parking, see ACCESS section for more info)
7:15 – 7:30: Review of rules and guidelines, toys and gear show-and-tell
7:30 – 10: Conversation, mingling, moshing, kinky games, demos, and more!
​Rules & Guidelines
– Ask for consent before touching anyone or their belongings
​- Advice and feedback require consent granted unless it is a safety concern, in which case inform a space monitor or host
​- No critique without a compliment, stay constructive without judgement
​- Sex (any sort of hand, mouth, genital, etc. to genital contact with intent to arouse) is not permitted
​- We ask that genitals be covered, however uncovered nipples are permitted
​- No phones or photography allowed for the duration of this event
– Voyeurism is permitted, please watch and expect to be watched!
– FWB space etiquette review
​
​ABOUT OUR HOST:
​Miriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds, Society of Janus, Foundations, Dark Odyssey, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin, Houston, and the San Francisco Bay Area.
​
​TICKETING:
​Tickets: $30-$60 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
​The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
​​​We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance.
​If the regular ticket price is too much, use code KITTY to take $10 off our regular ticket price.
​ACCESS:
​Exact location details revealed upon registration, FWB is located in Downtown Los Angeles.
​Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.
​This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space.

LA: Wicked Grounds: Welcome to the LA Scene
2026-03-21 12:00 - 14:00
​New to the Los Angeles scene? Perhaps you’re just getting started adventuring into the public kink scene or kink overall?
​This new Kink 101 class gives you the basics on the LA-area BDSM scene, and is perfect whether you’re new to kink, new to the public scene, or want to learn more about local BDSM play and education. Join us for this quick orientation to the local kink scene. This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the local scene. This class is also a perfect intro to etiquette and protocols if you’re planning to get involved with local play parties and organizations.
​
​INSTRUCTORS:
​Miriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds, Society of Janus, Foundations, Dark Odyssey, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin, Houston, and the San Francisco Bay Area.
​Killmeat Nick (he/they/it/she) is the Events Manager for Wicked Grounds, educator, house Dom/Top offering Emcee-ing, kink tasters, performance, and party hosting. Dungeon Monitor with kink-aware CPR and bloodborne pathogen training. A queer trans gender transcend-er, erotic scholar, actor, model, legacy clown, and Emotional Support Animal. Active in the SF Bay Area scene since 2018, educator since 2021, and active in the LA scene since 2023.
​TICKETING:
​Tickets: $20 – $50 in advance, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
​The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
​We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance.
​ACCESS:
​Exact location details revealed upon registration, FWB is located in Downtown Los Angeles.
​Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.
​This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space.

LA: Wicked Grounds: This is Your Brain on Kink (Any Questions?)
2026-03-21 15:00 - 17:00
While our relationships with kink are deeply personal and sometimes idiosyncratic, the neuroscience of peak experiences can tell us a lot about what we all have in common. Learning about what happens in our brains when we play can lead to better communication and better scenes.
​Together, we’ll explore:

​The four major neurotransmitters behind building a kink headspace

​How and why edgeplay makes even well-planned scenes less predictable

​How to stay in communication before, during, and after each scene

​What to know when negotiating for relationships

​The causes of post-scene drop, and how to deal with drop when it occurs

​PRESENTER:
​​Miriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds, Society of Janus, Foundations, Dark Odyssey, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin, Houston, and the San Francisco Bay Area.
​​TICKETING:
​​Tickets: $20 – $50 in advance, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
​​The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
​​We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance.
​​ACCESS:
​​Exact location details revealed upon registration, FWB is located in Downtown Los Angeles.
​​Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.
​​This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space.

LA: Wicked Grounds: Kink Exploration Deep-Dive: A Daylong Intensive
2026-03-22 10:00 - 17:00
​Whether you’re new to exploring BDSM play or are an experienced player looking to go deeper, we invite you to join us for a special daylong BDSM intensive in downtown Los Angeles! Miriam Green will be leveraging a dozen years of kink education and coaching to dive deeply into refining your personal kink roadmap and how to get the most out of your kink journey.
​Throughout the day, we will cover:

​Discovering and honoring what turns you on

​Disentangling from others’ erotic projections

​Safely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism

​Troubleshooting common challenges in communication

​Managing ecstasy, frenzy, and drop

​Trying new skills in the bedroom and beyond

​Finding your voice and speaking freely

​Sharing the desires you’re afraid to voice

​This work will be completely accessible to brand new players, while deeply valuable for experienced kinksters.
​The day’s format
​We will meet from 10am – 5pm in a private downtown workshop space. The day’s work will be a mixture of lecture style, discussion, and a couple of breakout sessions. You will go home with optional homework!
​Please bring a notebook, pens, snacks, and a prepared sack lunch. We will have two 10-minute breaks and one 45-minute lunch break throughout the day.
​Previous students say:
​”Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do
​​PRESENTER:
​​​Miriam Green (they/ them) is the owner of Wicked Grounds and has been teaching in BDSM for over one dozen years for Wicked Grounds, Society of Janus, Foundations, Dark Odyssey, and other local and national BDSM organizations. Mir has been in the public BDSM scene for nearly 20 years in Austin, Houston, and the San Francisco Bay Area.
​​​TICKETING:
​​​Tickets: $90 – $180 in advance, or $100 – $180 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
​​​The regular ticket is $150. This is what most people should pay.
​​​We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance.
​​​ACCESS:
​​​Exact location details revealed upon registration, FWB is located in Downtown Los Angeles.
​​​Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.
​​​This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space.

ONLINE: Deepthroating: Techniques, Tips, and Comfort for Going Deeper with Lilithfoxx
2026-03-26 18:00 - 20:00
Unlock the secrets to deepthroating with Deepthroating 101: Techniques, Tips, and Comfort for Going Deeper. This class offers a supportive space to learn skills that bring confidence and comfort to an often-intimidating act. We’ll explore techniques for controlling breath, managing gag reflex, and finding positions that work best for deeper play, making the experience more enjoyable for both you and your partner. From practical tips on relaxation to advanced moves that allow you to gradually go further, this session covers it all. We’ll also discuss incorporating hand movements, exploring communication cues, and adding playful elements to make deepthroating a fun, pleasurable experience. Join us for a down-to-earth, informative class that’s all about helping you discover new levels of connection and intimacy.
PRESENTER:
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is an accomplished Board-certified sexologist, educator, and professional speaker with a specialized focus on alternative sexuality, diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging (DEIB), LGBTQ+ and disability inclusion, and cultural competency in clinical, academic, and research settings. Presently, she is engaged in pursuing her AASECT Sexuality Educator certification, and is a student at The Kinsey Institute, demonstrating her commitment to the field and professional growth. Identifying as a BIPOC, Queer, and neurodivergent individual, Lilith brings a unique and valuable perspective to her work. This personal insight has been key in developing her specialty areas and contributing to a more inclusive conversation about sexuality and relationships. Lilith’s connection to alternative sexuality extends beyond her professional work. For over a decade, she has identified with kink and polyamorous communities, even stepping into the roles of community organizer and educator in these spaces for the past five years. She is also a skilled workshop facilitator, delivering sessions on relationships, sexuality, intimacy, and inclusion. Her workshops have reached global audiences through conferences around the world, ensuring a wide and diverse range of perspectives in her audience. Lilith draws on her experiences as a proud former sex worker to inform her professional approach and expertise, fostering a deeper understanding of the varied facets of sexuality. Her insights and expertise have been recognized and featured in major publications such as Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Glamour, Kinkly, Ask Men, Mashable, and many more.
Before her foray into sexuality education and consultancy, Lilith enjoyed a successful decade-long career in digital marketing. As a senior-level digital marketing director, SEO-specialist, web developer, and business consultant, she worked with businesses spanning from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. She continues to utilize these skills, providing marketing and business consulting services to sex-positive and adult-industry businesses.
Through her professional endeavors, Lilithfoxx continues to inspire, educate, and foster a more inclusive understanding of sexuality, relationships, and intimacy.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/341ed7674e

SF: Let’s Get Knotty: Rope Bondage for Beginners with Jamie Joy
2026-03-28 12:00 - 14:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
Join us for a hands-on workshop learning and exploring the exciting world of Rope Bondage! Our experienced instructor will guide you through basic ties and harnesses, empowering you to explore the sensual and seductive possibilities of rope bondage in a relaxed and consensual environment.
We will cover:

Types of Rope
Safety Considerations
Three Foundational Ties
Essential Techniques
Aftercare

A limited supply of rope will be provided for hands-on practice. If you have your own rope, please bring it! This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. No partner required. Come and play!
PRESENTER:
Jamie Joy is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, pleasure, and consent through community organizing. Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating, playing sadistically with flaming floggers, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5a6b28a5e0

SF: Caning: From Sensual to Sadistic with Miriam Green (feat. impossiblepain)
2026-03-28 15:00 - 17:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
Curious about caning? Want to learn some basic theories of caning to get more out of both sensual and sadistic BDSM scenes? Join us for this fun, hands-on workshop!
We will cover:

Hands-on exploration of a wide variety of canes
How to build your cane collection
Warm-up and sensual play
Intense cathartic play
Discipline play
Using rhythm and cadence to build your caning scene
Building headspace in a scene

And much more!
PRESENTERS:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for nearly twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of classes ranging from Kink 101 topics to educating fellow educators and coaches. They own Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s home for kink education. Mir is an avid sadist who owns far too many canes for their own good.
impossiblepain is an impact switch, gleeful sadist, and accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe, creative, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. You are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain
Miriam Green and impossiblepain cofounded Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! in 2021. For the past several years, they have taught caning and other impact play techniques in this class, through house topping with AfterDark Events, at the Society of Janus BDSM Basics Workshop, and beyond. They also offered the caning sampler workshops for Dark Odyssey Surrender 2018 and 2019.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/bb00ad0ac6

ONLINE: Euphoric Sex for Trans Femmes with Lady V (feat. Empress & Nadya Oxblood)
2026-03-29 11:00 - 13:00
DISCLAIMER: This class is for trans femmes & people who love them. The class will explicitly show hands on nudity & sexuality.
Euphoric Sex for Trans Femmes is all about fundamental techniques, negotiation, & language during intimacy.
Gender dysphoria is when someone has an emotional or physical feeling that feels misaligned with their gender identity. Euphoric Sex for Trans Femmes is geared towards helping ourselves, our partners, and other loved ones experience the opposite of dysphoria: gender euphoria!
Join Lady V, Empress Oxblood & nadya oxblood in learning about affirming trans femmes mind, body & spirit in sensual scenarios. Find out what can make sex & sensuality more affirming to one’s gender with a plethora of tips & tricks.
We’ll dive into:

Creating euphoria through spicy & sensual words of affirmation
Adapting to different forms of sexual & non-sexual touch
Tips for navigating trans-cis intimacy
And, of course, practical techniques

We’ll explore how positive, gender-affirming physical, emotional, & mental intimacy can make ourselves and others feel more aligned with our beautiful, authentic selves. Let sexuality & sensuality become an affirming, safer space to be embodied with one’s gender.
Can’t make it? This class will be recorded & available for 7 days after the class to view on-demand.
PRESENTERS:
Lady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix.
She is an out, proud, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit, Michigan, she has settled in Oregon, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows, it doesn’t really matter to her.
She hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it.
Empress Oxblood (she/her) brings a bright, nurturing touch to even the most sadistic of scenes. She’s a pervertable witch, Trickster Goddess, and mischievous dominant who fucks a lot of trans women. She is the proud owner of her service dog, nadya oxblood, and serves as the treasurer for Sex Positive Portland, operations lead for Carnal Abyss, and an educator for Hitchin’ Bitches PDX.
nadya oxblood (she/her) is a writer, activist, submissive, and all-around dumb slut who seeks stillness through bondage and calm through pain. when she’s not serving on her knees or exploring the outer limits of what trans bodies can do, she likes to gaze longingly out the window and wonder why she’s like this.
TICKETING:
$30 suggested; sliding scale available for accessibility. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b5925b9a9d

SF: The Art of Domination & Submission with Jamie Joy
2026-03-29 12:00 - 14:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
Are you ready to step into your Dominant side and step up your kinky play? Are you looking to sink deeper into your Submissive role? This workshop will take you on a thrilling and immersive journey into the erotic world of consensual power exchange. Discover the profound intimacy and pleasure found in the trust of dominance and submission, where taking or giving up control can lead to more intense connection. Learn about all the types of Dominant and Submissive personas, elevate your communication and dirty talk skills, and gain essential tips in the areas of impact, bondage, and sensation play.
Through interactive practical exercises and explicit live demos, you will walk away empowered to create unforgettable experiences with your play partners. This space is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play!
PRESENTER:
Jamie Joy is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, pleasure, and consent through community organizing. Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating, playing sadistically with flaming floggers, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e69f47e2cc

ONLINE: Navigating Your Reputation in BDSM with Princess Rara
2026-03-31 18:00 - 20:00
In the kink community, relationships and connections are deeply intertwined, similar to a small, close-knit village where everyone is connected. In this unique environment, news and opinions about individuals can spread quickly. This means that your actions, behaviors, and interactions can significantly influence how you are perceived by others. Since everyone tends to know each other or share mutual acquaintances, maintaining a positive reputation becomes crucial. This class will help you understand the dynamics of reputation within the kink community, how it can impact your experiences, and why it’s important to manage it thoughtfully.
Key points include:

Community Dynamics: Learn how the kink community is like a small village where information spreads quickly and everyone is connected.
Reputation Impact: Understand how both good and bad information can shape your reputation and affect how you’re seen in the BDSM lifestyle.
Consequences of Reputation: Explore the benefits of having a positive reputation and the negative effects of a bad one, including how it can impact you online.
Risks of Ignoring Reputation: Recognize the risks of not paying attention to how your actions and behavior affect your reputation.
Building a Positive Reputation: Get tips and strategies for creating and maintaining a good reputation in the kink community.

PRESENTER:
Princess Rara (she/her) is a seasoned sadomasochist with nearly a decade of experience in the kink community. As the founder of the Pink Kink Podcast, she is dedicated to providing essential education and guidance in the world of kink, focusing on both foundational and advanced topics. Rara’s classes cover a wide range of subjects, including consent, risk management, specialized kink dynamics, long-distance relationships, practical skills, and successfully integrating into the kink community.
She is committed to fostering a safe and inclusive environment for exploring BDSM. Rara shares her expertise at major events such as Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Studio 58’s Naughty conventions, Black Rose Education, Kink School, and Reign of Fire. In the DC area, she contributes actively as a munch host, Demo/House Top, occasional Pro Domme, and party host in her private dungeon. Through her diverse roles, Rara empowers kinksters to communicate effectively, assert themselves confidently, and prioritize consent throughout their kink experiences.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. $30 suggested. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/92f86caabe

SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! A hands-on monthly impact playshop!
2026-04-01 19:00 - 21:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!
A peer-led skill share to explore impact play
Hosted by @impossiblepain
SpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction.
7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!)
7:15: DOORS CLOSE
Please note: late arrivals after 7:15 will not be admitted and will not be refunded. Plan accordingly!
7:15-7:30: Review of rules and guidelines, toys show-and-tell
7:30-9: Socialize, observe, and practice impact play!
SpankLab Rules & Guidelines
Further explanation will be provided at the event, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife, or email eventsassistant@wickedgrounds.com beforehand if you have questions

Ask before touching people
Ask before touching toys
Ask before giving feedback
Use common sense and trust your gut!
Sex-positive space, not sex-active
No phones or photography
Voyeurism is participation — It’s okay to just watch
Dungeon etiquette review

PRESENTER
impossiblepain is an impact switch, a gleeful sadist, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe, creative, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021.
You are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain
GROUP
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TICKETING
Tickets: $20-$40 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a90eb1cdc9

ONLINE: Full Moon Class: Elemental Magic in BDSM: A Two Part Series with Madam Rosie Rose
2026-04-02 18:00 - 20:00
This two-part course meets on both 3/4 and 4/2 at 6pm Pacific each evening.
Part 1:
When your energy is aligned, your dominance flows with clarity and presence—and your submission anchors into loyalty, devotion, and clarity of purpose. This immersive two part series teaches you how to return to that alignment using the four elements as practical tools for energetic mastery.
You’ll explore how air, fire, water, and earth each influence your unique power dynamic—and how to choose the right element to meet your needs in both dominant and submissive roles.
From grounding and breathwork to advanced energetic tools, each method is broken down by level and applied to your real-life dynamic.
We’ll conclude with a live altar demonstration, a Q&A integration space, and a brief introduction to flower essences—refined plant allies used in energetic recalibration.
You’ll leave with:
● A deeper understanding of your energetic blueprint
● Personalized tools to stabilize dominance or submission
● Clear examples of how each element affects power exchange
● A live altar-building demo using all four elements
● An introduction to flower essence support for advanced energetic refinement
Open to all roles, genders, and experience levels. No prior energy work necessary.
Part 2:
This extended version of Elemental Magic in BDSM deepens your connection to the lunar current—showing you how to layer the energy of the Full Moon into your power exchange practice.
Building on the foundational teachings of Elemental Magic 1.0, this class integrates lunar timing into your energetic blueprint, exploring how moon phases can magnify your intention, alignment, and clarity in dominance or submission. Whether you’re leading or yielding, you’ll walk away with tools that strengthen your flow through both chaos and stillness. Includes a live altar demonstration, Full Moon attunement tools, and a guided Q&A integration space.
You’ll leave with:
● A full Elemental Magic overview plus advanced moon-based energetic timing
● Tools to regulate emotional highs and lows within your D/s dynamic
● A deeper map of intuitive timing, intention, and energetic support
● A live altar-building demo and lunar alignment practices
● Guidance on how to incorporate flower essences and energetic practices with lunar precision
PRESENTER:
Madam Rosie Rose, the spiritual guide to Dommes, subs, and spicy content creators. Owner of Rose Garden of Kink, a sacred store for the D/s dynamic. She blends energy healing, flower essence work, and divination to support power exchange as a path to alignment. Driven by a passion to create safe, spiritually grounded spaces for healing within BDSM, kink, SWer, and polyamorous communities.
TICKETING:
$40-$80 sliding scale for the two-class series.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/93d3228fd1

ONLINE: Put a Sigil on It! with Miriam BatAsherah Green A hands-on, practical workshop for sex magick
2026-04-04 11:00 - 13:00
If you can state what you want, and draw even a little bit, you can do magick!
Join Miriam BatAsherah Green for this popular interactive workshop on formulating, creating, and charging magickal sigils. During this workshop, you will have the opportunity to create your own sigil, step by step. If you have studied or practiced sex magick, but want more guidance on easy practical applications, this is your class.
This workshop is open to people of any and all levels of magickal experience and all traditions. We aim to develop a magickal dialogue that includes and transcends specific traditions and practices. Past workshops have included Thelemites, chaos magickians, Reclaiming witches, Feris, Faeries, Wiccans, Druids, Buddhists, queer Christians, Church of All Worlds members, OTO folks, Golden Dawn magickians, and more.
PRESENTER:
Miriam BatAsherah Green is a Thelemite, Witch and educator living on the Mendocino coast of northern California.
With an academic background in Jewish studies, Mir has been actively studying Hermetic Qabala for twenty years and Jewish Kabbalah for nearly as long. Mir can read and speak Hebrew at the Hungry Little Caterpillar reading level. Miriam is a proud past member of Scarlet Woman Lodge and Blazing Star Oasis, OTO and is an initiated Reclaiming Witch. In addition to magickal and occult topics, Mir presents kink classes through Wicked Grounds.
You may find out more about Mir’s classes at MiriamBatasherahGreen.com, or book with Mir for personal coaching and consulting at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ca1185b1cd

ONLINE: Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green
2026-04-07 18:00 - 20:00
Sub drop. Top drop. “A case of the Mondays.”
Whatever we call it, post-scene drop is frustrating, irritating, and isolating. It often makes us question — at least in the moment — what was otherwise an awesome scene.
What is this awful mood we fall into after a scene, and what the heck can we do about it?
In this class, Miriam Green will draw on what we know about the neuropsychology of BDSM to help us better understand drop, and build strategies for resilience when we face it. We’ll talk about:

Common misconceptions about drop
What’s going on in the mind, brain and body
Mind-body strategies for before, during and after the scene to help us bounce back
How to change our narrative to avoid making drop worse
The best ways to effectively communicate after a scene — for good scenes and bad

You’ll come away with better self-understanding and a self-care toolkit to draw on when drop comes calling. Join us!
PRESENTER:
Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/002d00e8af

SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty
2026-04-08 19:00 - 21:00
Get tickets exclusively on Plura!
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Feeling social pressure to find someone to connect with?
We can’t promise love, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people, a lot of people, fast.
Our purpose is to encourage you to meet new people.
– Find people with similar kinks as yours.
– Find people with whom to explore new kinks.
– Find new friends.
– Find new people to play with.

People will be separated by appetite, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward.
The evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting, even if they aren’t your appetite.
Once the event has started, we can not add new people, so please be on time.
PRESENTER:
Ryan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender, or hosting events at the SF Citadel, Catalyst, and of course Wicked Grounds.
ACCESS:
In SF, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in.
We cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun), so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded.
Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

SF: Leading and Following: D/s Body Language Daylong Intensive with Alexandria of Click Your Heels
2026-04-11 10:00 - 17:00 | Folsom Street Community Center, 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, United States
This daylong intensive consists of material relevant for Dominants and submissives alike, plus a 45 minute break for lunch.
In this interactive class, we borrow leading and following techniques from partnered dance and apply it to D/s. No dance understanding is required. No partner is required.
Using simple concentration and dance techniques, we explore the internal mind/body connection for Dominants and submissives, non-verbal communication between the leader and follower, and how this works in 24/7, scenes, and more.
Info for Students:
Please bring a bottle of water for yourself. We recommend bringing a sack lunch and snacks, but there are some limited food options in the neighborhood. If you would like to take notes, please bring your preferred materials for that but it’s not necessary – if you just want to move and listen, that’s ok too.
PRESENTER:
Alexandria is the founder of Click Your Heels, known for inclusive coaching, workshops, and events centering somatic healing, dance, and physical self expression, all rooted in body-positivity. Her mission is to help everyone Come Home To Your Body. Since the 90’s she’s been teaching, performing, and exploring all sorts of movement, focused on improvisation and authenticity. Whether it’s one-on-one coaching or teaching hundreds in the audience, Alexandria is always helping us make new connections between our bodies, our brains, and our spirit. Teaching is her gift and her life’s work, movement is her joy and her medium. If you’re ready to build a lasting, loving, and deeply powerful relationship between you and your body, contact Alexandria now.
https://linktr.ee/clickyourheelsmovement
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/66081aebd2

ONLINE: As You Wish: Exploring Service in Your Relationship (Half-Day Intensive) with Miss Mackenzee
2026-04-11 11:00 - 15:00
Welcome to this transformative extended workshop designed to explore power exchange relationships with a service foundation. Whether you’re a curious newcomer or someone with experience seeking to dive deeper, this class promises to offer fresh insights into these deeply connected dynamics. If you’re uncertain about where to begin, this course will guide you in discovering what you truly desire from the arrangement you seek.
Throughout our time, we’ll engage in meaningful discussions about integrating intentional time into your dynamic, fostering a relationship where the authority figure genuinely appreciates and accepts what the submissive contributes. We will address potential challenges that may arise in service-oriented relationships, like feelings of being taken for granted by the s-type. You’ll receive guidance on nurturing reciprocal relationships, where Dominants also give back to those who provide support.
Live demonstrations and examples will illustrate various manifestations of service, enriching your understanding of how it can look in practice. We recognize the diversity within the BDSM community and that many individuals may not inherently identify as service-oriented however, they still wish to be invaluable to their top or Dominant. If any of this resonates with you, this seminar will equip you with tools to effectively manage your desires and make sure everyone finds fulfillment and purpose.
Delve deeper through conversations including:

Creative methods for incorporating service into your dynamic, infusing it with excitement and innovation
Understanding the responsibilities of all parties involved, fostering mutual respect and communication
Negotiating the terms and nuances of this aspect of your relationship to align with both partners’ desires
Anticipatory service and becoming attuned to your partner’s needs even before they’re expressed
Balancing service responsibilities with other life obligations
Setting healthy boundaries and honoring them
Navigating complications for people pleasers, ensuring personal well-being while striving to serve others
The role of rituals in reinforcing service dynamics
Considerations for chronic illness and neurodivergent folks
Addressing burnout to ensure mental safety
Psychological benefits of service-oriented relationships
Techniques for mindfulness and presence during these activities
How these types of dynamics can show devotion for the D-type

There will be 3.5 hours of teaching plus a 30-minute break in the middle so you can stretch your legs and get something to eat without missing anything! We will be going from beginner to more advanced concepts of service so this workshop is open to everyone and every level of experience.
PRESENTER:
Miss Mackenzee comes from a queer, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist, BDSM and Intimacy Educator, Certified Hypnotist, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor, Owner of Elysium Dungeon, Host of Kink, Intimacy, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast, Content Creator, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses, spicy digital guides, clothing, aftercare items, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications, been hired as an expert for various media outlets, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play, sex magic, bondage, power exchange, reveling in pleasure, sadism, bedroom skills, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter, safer, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality.
To view her full offerings, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f899ec8f16

ONLINE: The Littlest Sub: Balancing Multiple Dynamics with HypnoStory and PandaPet
2026-04-12 11:00 - 13:00
Daddy/little, Master/pet, Master/oblate, nesting partners, household management…these are all aspects of HypnoStory and panda’s relationship that coexist on a daily basis. Join them as they discuss their relationship journey and exploration of balancing their multiple facets in ways that fill both their cups. Then, they’ll share tools and techniques for developing and deepening your own combination of dynamics. Come with your identities and relationships in mind, and consider new ways to fill your cup as well.
PRESENTERS:
HypnoStory (they/them) loves to share the joy and power of hypnosis with most anyone who will listen. They have been doing various forms of hypnosis for over 25 years, and have taught for Charmed!, Entranced, Beguiled, NEEHU, KinkyCon, and The Fetish Fair Fleamarket among others. In addition to erotic and recreational hypnosis, they occasionally perform as a stage hypnotist and work with clients using hypnosis for personal growth. Together with their triad partners Yoshi and Panda, they run New Hampshire Hypnokink and CONsolation (a Discord server that presents kink education).
PandaPet (it/they) is a pansexual, polyamorous pet with a penchant for the use of alliteration. It has been a longstanding member of the New England and DC/NoVa communities, and has taught for a fair number of hypnosis and kink conferences. A tireless volunteer, it has also worked behind the scenes on educational programming at a handful of kink conventions for the past ten years. It co-founded CONsolation (a Discord community that offers kink education) with it’s master HypnoStory and partner Yoshi. Unashamedly itself in all things, it is an advocate for the darklings, pets, ageplayers, neurodivergent, and queerdos of our community.
TICKETING:
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f33db39563

ONLINE: Violet Wands 102: Beyond the First Spark with Electro Girly
2026-04-12 14:00 - 16:00
The first spark was only the beginning. In Violet Wand 102, we’ll journey deeper into the electric arts—where tingles become teases, and teases become torment, seduction, and surrender.
This class is about unlocking new ways to play, including:

How to safely play at higher intensities with confidence
Turning your own body into a conductor—electrified caresses, fingertip shocks, kisses, and full-body connection play
Using pervertables and toys with the body contact cable—transforming everyday objects (chains, silverware, brushes, jewelry) into conduits for current
Blending electro with floggers, knives, fire, and sensation toys for layered play
Playing with rhythm, pacing, and psychological build-up to heighten anticipation
Using rhythmic pulses to build suspense—then shattering it with sudden lightning strikes
Blending soft, sensual strokes with sharp, shocking surprises for delicious contrast
Branding with a violet wand—creating temporary or permanent marks and symbols with precision and safety

You’ll learn how to transform your wand into an instrument of suspense and desire—arcing between playful caresses and scenes that leave your partner trembling, laughing, moaning, or begging for more.
PRESENTER:
Electro Girly is an educator, performer, event coordinator, and Pro Dom at Sanctuary Studios in Los Angeles. She specializes in electro play, but her teaching sparks far beyond the electrical thrill. She entered the kink scene in 2017 and began professionally working in the community this year, guiding students through a wide range of sensation and edge play, including electro play, impact, wax, knife, sharps, and fire play—all explored with intense, intertwined sensuality that awakens the senses, heightens presence, and deepens connection.
Her classes blend technical skill, embodied awareness, and fearless curiosity, while cultivating a safe, consent-based, and comfortable space where students are free to push boundaries and explore intensity at their own pace. Questions are welcomed, curiosity is celebrated, and every participant is supported as they discover new edges of sensation, pleasure, and connection. Students leave inspired, empowered, and equipped with practical skills to bring artistry, passion, and transformative energy into their own play.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/46dfd34146

ONLINE: Light my Fire - Kinky Cannabis Play with Lady V
2026-04-15 18:00 - 20:00
Do you want to create that spark between you & your partner?
Marijuana, specifically Tetrahydrocannabinol (aka “THC”) can be a wonderful aphrodisiac for many people when they get freaky deaky in the dungeon or bedroom.
Ganja is great for connecting with your body, lessening anxiety & getting into the moment.
In “Kinky Cannabis Play” we’re finding all the fun ways to really make our play rip.
Join self-proclaimed professional stoner & pro dominatrix, Lady V, in packing your brain (& your bowl) with a ton of fresh, green ideas about sprinkling some kink & keef in your play!
In this class we’ll light up the details on:

Incorporating various forms of THC including flower, vapes, edibles & more.
Negotiation & assessing THC dosage levels for play
Techniques for incorporating THC into bondage, hypnosis, ravishment & even butt stuff
Tips for coming down quickly, maintaining a high & MORE!

Join us in learning about all these fun techniques to make your play a real smoke show!
Can’t make it? Recording available for 7 days!
Disclaimer: Neither Lady V nor Wicked Grounds are not responsible for the use or misuse of this information including injury, death, or bodily harm. The views and opinions of our presenters do not reflect the views and opinions of Wicked Grounds.
The information in this presentation has not been independently verified. No representation or warranty, expressed or implied, is made as to the fairness, accuracy or completeness of the presentation or the information contained herein & no reliance should be placed on it.
TLDR: Lady V isn’t a monolith of information. Do additional research as needed & play safer using your own knowledge & discretion.
PRESENTER:
@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer & pro domina.
Using her background in film, Lady V is able to use the power of improv to switch on a dime. Prior, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities.
Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events.
She is an out, proud, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit, Michigan, she has settled in Salem, Oregon, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows, it doesn’t really matter to her.
She hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it.
You can view more of her work at https://TheLadyV.Net or Fetlife at @‌The_Lady_V.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b11a39a304

ONLINE: Bratting Beyond Make Me: Navigating Misconceptions and Embracing the Brat with Princess Rara
2026-04-16 18:00 - 20:00
In BDSM, “bratting” is often misunderstood and may be seen as simply being rebellious or defiant. However, bratting is a legitimate kink that, like all kinks, should be approached with clear communication and consent. This class will explore how bratting is more than just pushing boundaries—it’s a specific dynamic that can add depth and playfulness to BDSM scenes. We’ll focus on treating bratting with the same respect and care as any other kink, emphasizing the importance of open communication and mutual consent. Learn how to embrace and incorporate brat behavior into your scenes safely and responsibly.
Key points include:

Understanding Bratting: Recognize that bratting can range from lighthearted playfulness to more assertive resistance.
Clearing Up Misconceptions: Work on clearing up the misunderstandings about what it means to be a brat.
Importance of Negotiations: Learn why negotiations are crucial in brat dynamics.
Boundaries and Limits: Understand the importance of setting and respecting boundaries and limits.
Safewords and Consent: Emphasize the need for safewords and clear consent in brat play.
Incorporating Playfulness: Get tips on how to add playful brat behavior into your scenes effectively.
Effective Communication: Develop strong communication skills to handle and embrace brat behavior in a responsible way

PRESENTER:
Princess Rara (she/her) is a seasoned sadomasochist with nearly a decade of experience in the kink community. As the founder of the Pink Kink Podcast, she is dedicated to providing essential education and guidance in the world of kink, focusing on both foundational and advanced topics. Rara’s classes cover a wide range of subjects, including consent, risk management, specialized kink dynamics, long-distance relationships, practical skills, and successfully integrating into the kink community.
She is committed to fostering a safe and inclusive environment for exploring BDSM. Rara shares her expertise at major events such as Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Studio 58’s Naughty conventions, Black Rose Education, Kink School, and Reign of Fire. In the DC area, she contributes actively as a munch host, Demo/House Top, occasional Pro Domme, and party host in her private dungeon. Through her diverse roles, Rara empowers kinksters to communicate effectively, assert themselves confidently, and prioritize consent throughout their kink experiences.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. We offer several price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1d2bb75425

ONLINE: Kink, Trauma Play, and Healing: A Research-Informed Deep Dive with Aidan
2026-04-18 11:00 - 14:00
If you have engaged in trauma play in kink, this class gives you a straightforward way to understand what was happening. Many kink practitioners who work with traumatic experiences through kink recognize the territory but often lack the language to describe it. Some leave a scene feeling steadier, while others feel more shaken, largely because no one ever taught them how to name the processes they just went through. People have been working through difficult emotions in kink for a long time, and research is only now beginning to catch up.
This class brings together community insight and current research tidbits to offer a clearer picture of the patterns, mechanics, and meanings people often find in trauma play. Without idealizing or pathologizing the practice, it provides a space to look closely at something many people know intimately and want to finally understand. Join us for a kinky deep-dive, with plenty of time for questions and chit-chat!
PRESENTER:
Aidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist, educator, researcher, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware, grounded in inclusive practices, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience, creating spaces where community voices are centered, respected, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research, he has developed and led community education programs on kink, consent, trauma awareness, and ethical non-monogamy.
At the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other.
TICKETING:
$30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ffa07f32c8

HYBRID: Primal Perversions: Primal Play with Lady V and Killmeat Nick
2026-04-18 18:00 - 19:30
This class will occur both online via Zoom and in-person in Downtown Los Angeles. ​Join us in-person here via Luma, live online, or register to watch the recording after!
​​Ever wanted to go ape shit? Invoke the lizard brain? Tired of being a civilized human?
​Connect with your inner beast through primal play!
​Primal Play is where us humans let down our masks of social expectations & allow ourselves to be our raw emotions & instincts. Primal play can be really fun to play with friends or sexy & sensual to practice with a lover.
​Join Bite Club Emcee Lady V & Wicked Grounds’ own Killmeat Nick in sinking your jaws into a class all about tapping into the animal inside of you (but not like that,… but maybe like that).
​Learn how to unleash your wild side, connecting to your most basal instincts, & tapping into your “inner animal”. Whether you’re “predator” or “prey”, we’re bound to make you howl with delight.
​We’ll howl loudly & proudly about about:

​Finding your primal identity
​Negotiation for primal play
​Inducing a primal headspace
​Wordless communication
​Dialing intensity and sensation
​Roles beyond predator and prey
​Options for sensory exploration
​& SO much more!

​Attending in-person? Join us for BITE CLUB!
​Stay after class to apply your newly learned skills for our Play Lab: BITE CLUB with Lady V starting at 8 PM and going ‘til midnight!
​Click HERE to learn more about BITE CLUB!
​ABOUT OUR INSTRUCTORS:
​Lady V aka C.C. the Cow (she/her) is co-creator of the Hucow Pride Flag in 2023. She is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer & Professional Dominatrix. She is the self-proclaimed “Dairy Queen of the Hucow Herd”, “Jewish American Pleasure Princess” & “Switchinatrix”.
​Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as a Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. She has also served the community by facilitating public health events.
​She hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. You can view all her links by clicking HERE!
​Killmeat Nick (any pronouns) is Events Manager for @WickedGrounds, sex educator, and house Top offering Emcee-ing, kink tasters, performance, and party hosting. Dungeon Monitor with kink-aware CPR and bloodborne pathogen training. (Re-certification scheduled for 3/25/26.)
​A QT gender transcend-er, erotic scholar, actor, model, legacy clown, and Emotional Support Animal. 🐾
​Active in the SF Bay Area scene since 2018, educator since 2021, and active in the LA scene since 2023.
TICKETING:
$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/45a9d7b97f
