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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Erotic Humiliation with Mel and Memi
DESCRIPTION:In this workshop we will offer guidance\, ideas\, and tips on how to start playing with shame\, humiliation\, embarrassment and degradation/ objectification. We will cover several kinks through the lens of trauma-informed practices and queer politics\, looking into the complexities of the intersection between the sexual politics of shame and pleasure. \nWe will cover negotiation strategies\, self-consent\, risk management and scene ideas. \nTopics covered: \n\nWhat is erotic humiliation\nWhat is not\nPolitics of shame (intersectionality and care)\nDifferences between embarrassment\, shame\, humiliation\, degradation/ objectification\nPre-care and self-consent tips\nHow to negotiate from a top and bottom perspective\nDemo of a negotiation\nSubtypes of kinks: bimbofication\, sissyfication\, forced petplay/ ageplay\, dumbification\, dollification\, playing with bodily fluids\, verbal humiliation\, nakedness\, and a couple more!\nHow to dirty talk for humiliation\nDemo and reflection\n\nINSTRUCTORS: \nMel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina\, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events\, support groups and workshops for the kinky\, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster\, he has been doing kink for the last ten years\, identifies as sub-leaning switch\, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). \nOne of his greatest passions is thinking about power\, risk\, and self-consent in the context of kink and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink\, pleasure\, risk\, and depathologization for the last nine years. \nMemi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person\, who is a lifestyle kinkster\, a history teacher\, and an early-career researcher in history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a big variety of kinks\, relationships\, dynamics and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power\, oppression and the complex history behind kink\, the space where didactics and kink meet and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d2543640e8
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-erotic-humiliation-with-mel-and-memi-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260425T150000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260425T170000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Badass Boundaries: The Discipline of Power with Buzz Stingyear
DESCRIPTION:This is not a healing circle.\nThis is a standards reset. \nBadass Boundaries is for dominant-identifying men who are serious about leading with integrity. True dominance is not chaos\, rather it is clarity before intensity. When your protocol is explicit and solid\, trust deepens and your authority strengthens. \nThis course teaches you how to eliminate ambiguity and operate at a higher standard of consent and accountability. \nOperational Objectives:\nDefine the Area of Engagement: Establish boundaries clearly before action begins. \nBuild Enthusiastic Buy-In: Move beyond reluctant compliance into active participation. \nMaintain Signal Integrity: Use communication systems that protect both intensity and safety. \nPractice Zero-Defect Accountability: Own every outcome. No excuses. No deflection. \nYour word is the contract. Your discipline is the power. \nWhy Attend: The Tactical Advantage \nAmbiguity erodes trust. Precision builds it. \nMany consent violations don’t come from malice\, but come from assumption\, ego\, or skipping negotiation. In high-intensity dynamics\, this is a liability. When boundaries are vague\, leadership becomes fragile. \nConsent is not a leash. It is a green light. \nWhen the protocol is clear\, action becomes cleaner\, safer\, and more powerful. Stop guessing and defending yourself. Start leading with confidence and integrity. \nPRESENTER: \nBuzz_Stingyear is a late-blooming kinkster who grew up in a money-driven\, Trump-aligned household. He internalized a rigid worldview that took years of effort to unravel. With a doctorate in Counseling Psychology\, he strives to align his personal growth with his training. Entering the public kink community exposed him to the transformative power of feedback\, accountability\, and consent culture. Behaviors once normalized in his vanilla world were challenged and reexamined. Buzz remains committed to self growth\, becoming less reactive and more compassionate\, and supporting others in finding connection\, safety\, and self-awareness within the kink community. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5323f9556b
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-badass-boundaries-the-discipline-of-power-with-buzz-stingyear/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260426T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260426T130000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Autism and Kink with John Pendal
DESCRIPTION:In this workshop\, we look at the overlap between autism and kink. \n\nWhat is autism\, and what’s the right language to use?\nWhy might an autistic person be attracted to a kinky environment?\nCan BDSM be used as a form of sensory regulation?\nWhat’s the difference between neurotypical and autistic communication?\nWhat would be useful to know if you’re playing with a neurodivergent person?\nAnd how can you negotiate a scene with someone who doesn’t know where masking ends and they begin?\n\nThis workshop isn’t just for autistic folk\, it can help anyone who feels like an outsider or would like to create a more inclusive environment. \nPRESENTER: \nExperienced BDSM educator and comedian John Pendal joins us all the way from London\, England. \nIn 2003\, John became the 25th person (and only Brit) to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then\, he has traveled worldwide teaching SM education\, giving speeches\, acting as a master of ceremonies\, or doing stand-up comedy. \nHe has taught workshops at Down and Dirty (Melbourne)\, Inferno\, Lupercalia (Edmonton)\, Minnesota Leather Pride\, Mr. Leatherman Toronto\, Palm Springs Leather Pride\, Rome BDSM Conference (Italy)\, SINSations in Leather\, Spring in the South (Atlanta)\, Tribal Fire (Oklahoma)\, and Thunder in the Mountains (Denver). \nwww.johnpendal.com \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9e5f32fdbd
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-autism-and-kink-with-john-pendal/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260426T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260426T160000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Creating Practical Slave Positions with HannahtheScribe
DESCRIPTION:In this class\, we’ll cover how to create and maintain a custom slave position repertoire for everyday use. We’ll talk about figuring out where positions would help your protocols\, rituals\, and routines\, how to design each position for practicality and aesthetics\, positions you might want to consider (like vanilla friendly versions\, hand signals for all parties\, transition and motion positions)\, addressing accessibility needs\, and how to practice and optimize for success. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session. \nPRESENTER: \nHannah The Scribe (she/her) is a 24/7 high protocol service slave/homemaker and lifestyle masochist in an irrevocable consent dynamic. She’s also a Leathergirl\, the author of more than a dozen books\, and a kink educator. She’s the founder of Las Vegas TNG (The Next Generation) and serves on the Board of Directors of the Leather Leadership Conference\, as well as organizing vanilla meetups. She lives in Las Vegas with her Mistress/wife and their two cats. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/55755ca673
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-creating-practical-slave-positions-with-hannahthescribe/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260427T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260427T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
CREATED:20260331T181847Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260331T181847Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Handling Their Precious Bits: CBT for Beginners and Beyond with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:Are you intrigued by the thrill of surrendering your most sensitive areas\, or perhaps excited by the idea of exploring vulnerability in a different way with a partner? This workshop is for those who are new and feel hesitant all the way to more advanced players in their CBT journey. We will explore a variety of methods and safety protocols that will empower you to enjoy this form of play with confidence. Participants will gain insights about different aspects\, including predicament bondage\, impact techniques\, electro play\, and more without causing lasting damage. Let’s discuss the various ways to utilize clips\, clamps\, and weights to truly make your partner squirm. You will discover verbal skills\, mind games\, and other seductive teasing techniques to drive your lover wild. Learn essential negotiation skills to ensure informed consent in your erotic experiences. Our time will help you to understand the psychological effects when engaging in these activities such as fear and arousal and how to utilize them to your advantage. \nDive deeper into topics including: \n\nExploring pleasure as a tool for torment\nGentler and more playful ideas for the nervous\nSecrets to amplify excitement and sensitivity\nRestraint techniques for exposure and access\nHelp with pain processing\nNecessities for effective aftercare\nRecommendations for toys and gear\nAnd much more\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee comes from a queer\, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist\, BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Certified Hypnotist\, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach\, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University\, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses\, spicy digital guides\, clothing\, aftercare items\, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications\, been hired as an expert for various media outlets\, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play\, sex magic\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, sadism\, bedroom skills\, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter\, safer\, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality. \nTo view her full offerings\, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/424ff79cae
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-handling-their-precious-bits-cbt-for-beginners-and-beyond-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260427T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260526T180000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
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SUMMARY:Kink Class Incubator from Concept to Launch
DESCRIPTION:Ready to take charge of your curriculum?\n\nSince 2019\, Wicked Grounds Annex has provided resources for our instructors and would-be instructors to develop stronger\, more impactful\, more engaging classes — along with strategies to find\, engage\, and build communities with the best students for their content. \nWe can help you change kink culture for the better by refining your course ideas and optimizing your marketing approach. This course will improve classes and marketing for experienced and new instructors alike. \n  \n\nOur approach\n\nIn this class\, you’ll learn what you need to get a basic start teaching in kink\, polyamory\, fetish\, magick — or any other peer-taught subject. Of course\, we’d be delighted if you plan to teach with Wicked Grounds\, but our goal is to create great teachers who can teach anywhere. \n  \nThroughout May 2026\, you will learn to: \nRefine and sharpen your core message \nFigure out what you really want to say — what only you can \nDifferentiate your class based on your experience and knowledge \nMarket your class in ways that really work \nInclude your students\, and learn as you teach \nGive a class that makes a difference \nEngage your audience and build your fans \nHow we’ll engage\nStarting Monday\, April 27\, we’ll engage in four major sections of work as you refine your concept\, discover your audience\, and take your class from concept to outline. \nYou’ll use the same approach that Miriam Green — a retired marketing consultant — uses to develop\, market\, and continually improve their classes. \nThis course will include four full weeks of self-directed coursework (which you may complete at your schedule and repeat as many times as you need) along with four or five 90-minute live sessions starting at 6pm Pacific: Mondays on April 27\, May 4\, May 11\, and May 18\, and concluding Tuesday\, May 26. \nStudents who join without a prior description and outline should plan to attend starting Monday\, April 27 for some basic concepts in class development. More advanced students are welcome to join April 27 but can opt to start May 4. \nAll live sessions will be recorded for those who cannot attend live or wish to review the session. You may also book additional consulting time with Mir as an add-on\, which may be completed during or after the class period. \n\nAbout Miriam Green\n\nMiriam Green has been a BDSM and kink educator since 2014\, when they acquired Wicked Grounds. Mir teaches 4-5 classes per month on average for Wicked Grounds and has also taught repeat engagements for Society of Janus\, Dark Odyssey Events\, Foundations\, Arizona Power Exchange (APEX)\, Desert Dominion\, and several other organizations and events. \nBefore joining the BDSM world\, Mir was a marketing\, brand and product development research consultant for several Fortune 500 companies under their day-to-day name\, and they leverage their niche marketing & product development knowledge in their own marketing and this class. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://wickedgroundsannex.teachable.com/p/kink-class-incubator-from-concept-to-launch111
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/kink-class-incubator-from-concept-to-launch/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260429T080000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260429T170000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
CREATED:20260430T015620Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T015620Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Cellaring: Refining Your Skills as an Older Kinkster with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’ve been practicing BDSM for decades\, or are just finding your path as a kinkster later in life\, you probably have distinct questions & needs that just aren’t addressed in general BDSM classes. We’ll talk about: \n\n\nHonoring ourselves as our kink journey & relationships evolve \n\nCreating D/s and other kink dynamics that fit with the rest of our life\nHow the neuropsychology of kink is really good for neuroplasticity!\nEvolving our skills and techniques over time to honor our changing bodies\nSelf-care\, resilience\, balance and access\nRecognizing our shifting privilege in communities\, and using it mindfully\n\nThis class is targeted to the needs of kinksters in middle age and beyond (as defined by your own experience) and is open to everyone who is interested. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. For over a dozen years\, they have taught a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky as well as technique classes on impact play. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nThe suggested ticket price is $30. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a74fa4ef9b
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-cellaring-refining-your-skills-as-an-older-kinkster-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260429T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260429T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
CREATED:20260331T182453Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260331T182453Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Holy Cow! - Intro to Hucow & Bovine Play with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:MOO-ve! Get out the hay! Discover ways to create a unique headspace\, explore multiple roles\, implement many forms of play\, & learn about multiple milking methods to fill you with udder pleasure! \nCowprint & cows have become all the rage in fashion & even in the bedroom. This class gives ideas on how to rocket into udder space. \nWe’ll steak out the multiple ways we can nurture our inner cow or bovine by: \n\nGetting deeper into Bovine Headspace\nBreast & chest torture & nipple stimulation\nLactation induction & STI safety around lactation\nNavigating what types of pumps or milkers to use!\nDiving into top & Handler roles (such as Farmer\, Rancher\, gulps or Butcher).\nBovine play as a masculine\, male\, or gender non-conforming person\n& so much MOO-re!\n\nJoin us\, chew the cud\, & love your cow. Built-in mind to be inclusive of any gender identity. Be seen and also herd. \nThe class also discusses the different types of dynamics involved in cow-centric pet play. Top\, bottom\, switch\, hucow\, bull\, ox\, farmer\, butcher\, or just curious\, this class is for you! \nTW: Includes sexual content\, genitalia\, concepts around ravishment\, & brief mentions of ancestral trauma\, misogyny\, & genocide. \nhuman-animal role-play event: no actual animals are involved with this event \nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V aka C.C. the Cow (she/her) is co-creator of the Hucow Pride Flag in 2023. She is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & Professional Dominatrix. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nShe is the self-proclaimed “Dairy Queen of the Hucow Herd”\, “Jewish American Pleasure Princess” & “Switchinatrix”. Lady V also identifies as a Bootblack\, Hucow & Mommy Domme. V has taught all over the United States for organizations & conferences such as Kinkfest\, Southeast Leatherfest\, Sex Positive World\, SubSpace Indy\, Leather Reign & more! \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as a Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. She has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, where she lives with her Mistress/Rancher in a 24/7 TPE where serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6b84f48464
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-holy-cow-intro-to-hucow-bovine-play-with-lady-v-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260430T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
CREATED:20260331T182745Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260331T182745Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Dungeons Demystified: Navigating Etiquette\, Attire\, and Atmosphere in BDSM Spaces with Princess Rara
DESCRIPTION:Exploring a BDSM dungeon for the first time can be exciting yet a bit overwhelming. This class is designed to help you feel comfortable and confident by explaining what to expect and how to behave in these unique spaces. Whether you’re going to a public dungeon or a private play party\, this session will give you the tools you need to navigate these environments with ease. \nKey Topics Covered: Understanding the Dungeon Environment: \n\nPublic vs. Private Dungeons: Learn the differences between public and private dungeons and what you can expect from each.\nTypical Layout and Equipment: Get familiar with common features and equipment you might find in a dungeon.\n\nDungeon Etiquette: General Conduct: Discover how to behave respectfully and responsibly while in a dungeon. \n\nConsent and Boundaries: Understand the importance of respecting personal and scene boundaries.\nCommunication Protocols: Learn how to communicate effectively\, including the use of safe words and signals.\n\nAttire and Appearance: Dress Codes: Find out what to wear\, from casual kink outfits to more formal fetish attire\, to fit in and feel comfortable. \n\nPersonal Grooming: Get tips on grooming to match dungeon norms and maintain a presentable appearance.\n\nParticipating and Observing: \n\nActive Participation: Learn how to engage in scenes safely and respectfully.\nRespectful Observation: Understand the dos and don’ts of observing others without intruding on their experience.\n\nSafety and Hygiene: \n\nCleanliness Standards: Ensure both personal and equipment hygiene are up to standard.\nEmergency Protocols: Know what to do in case of an emergency and understand the role of dungeon monitors.\n\nBuilding Confidence: Overcoming Nerves: Get strategies to manage anxiety and enjoy your experience. \nCommunity and Support: Learn how to find and connect with supportive kink communities and mentors. \nBy the end of this class\, you’ll have a clear understanding of dungeon etiquette\, how to dress appropriately\, and how to conduct yourself with confidence and respect. Join us to gain the knowledge you need to become a knowledgeable and respectful participant in the BDSM community. \nPRESENTER: \nPrincess Rara (she/her) is a sadomasochist\, kink educator\, and the founder of Pink Kink—a platform that includes a podcast\, boutique\, and educational institute dedicated to helping kinksters build confident\, ethical kink lives. With ten years in the BDSM community\, she brings a blend of experience\, honesty\, and humor to everything she teaches. \nHer classes cover both foundational and advanced topics\, always with a focus on real-world application\, consent\, and personal growth. Known for her warm\, inclusive\, and engaging teaching style\, Rara doesn’t talk at her students—she creates space for discussion\, story-sharing\, and connection. Her goal is to meet people where they are\, help them feel seen and validated\, and support their journey toward more intentional and empowered kink. \nRara has taught for organizations including Dark Odyssey\, Studio 58\, and Wicked Grounds. In the DC area\, she’s also a munch host\, Demo/House Top\, occasional Pro Domme\, and party host in her private dungeon. No matter the setting\, she is committed to creating spaces where kinksters of all kinds feel respected\, supported\, and safe to explore who they are. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/e403e95d62
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-dungeons-demystified-navigating-etiquette-attire-and-atmosphere-in-bdsm-spaces-with-princess-rara-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T080000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T170000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
CREATED:20260430T004825Z
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UID:10000363-1777708800-1777741200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: Dating While Kinky with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Whether you prefer online dating\, speed dating\, blind dates\, or the million other ways we meet people\, it’s hard enough to be yourself and just get to know the someone — or several someones — best for you. \nAdd a desire for fetish/ kink/ leather/ BDSM to the mix\, and things get even trickier. When do you talk about kink? How do you talk about it? How do you get what you want safely? \nIn this Kink 101 session\, we’ll talk about a variety of strategies for navigating the dating world as a kinkster\, including: \n\nDating resources in the kink community\nOnline dating sites/ apps that work for kinksters\, and a lot that don’t . . .\nHow to navigate those first few crucial dates\nRed flags and green lights to watch for\nBasic negotiations\nChoosing Mx. Right Now\, and Mx. Right\n\nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for twenty years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \n$35 suggested. Sliding scale available for those for whom cost is a barrier to participation. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/13d3b3d440
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-dating-while-kinky-with-miriam-green-2/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T120000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T140000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061254
CREATED:20260430T004113Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T004113Z
UID:10000361-1777723200-1777730400@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:New to the local public scene? This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on the San Francisco BDSM scene\, and is perfect whether you’re new to kink\, new to the public scene\, or want to learn more about local BDSM play and education. Join us for this quick orientation to the local kink scene. This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the San Francisco kink scene. This class is also a perfect intro to etiquette and protocols if you’re planning to get involved with local play parties and organizations. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for 20 years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They are also the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nTickets: $20 – $50 in advance\, or $30 – $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/11a6c01da9
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-welcome-to-the-sf-bay-area-scene-with-miriam-green-7/
LOCATION:Trellis Coworking and Events\, 981 Mission St\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260502T160000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T004516Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T004516Z
UID:10000362-1777730400-1777737600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Negotiation Skills for subs & Bottoms with Faun
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’re brand-spanking new to the scene\, or you’ve been involved for years\, negotiating a new scene or with a new partner can be a daunting concept for kinky submissives and anyone on the lower side of the D/s slash. \nIn this workshop led by a sub with extensive experience Domming\, we’ll examine the do’s and don’ts of effective negotiating communication\, how to navigate the scene\, ways to identify important traits in compatible play partners\, and guide kinksters of all levels and experiences to co-creating the scenes they’ve always wanted to have! \nThere will also be a live demonstration of pick-up play negotiation and an open Q&A at the end. \nPRESENTER: \nFaun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years\, he always felt that something was missing. One day\, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories\, and the rest is history. Now\, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun\, and on Fet as deerfaun. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1b04693c63
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-negotiation-skills-for-subs-bottoms-with-faun-2/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260504T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260504T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T013547Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T013547Z
UID:10000364-1777917600-1777924800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Blown Away: Oral Sex for Every Body with Jamie Joy
DESCRIPTION:Get ready to blow your partner’s mind as we dive into the stimulating world of oral seduction for all bodies! From licking and sucking to kissing and teasing\, discover how to use your mouth\, lips\, and tongue to deliver truly satisfying pleasure. \nWe’ll explore anatomy\, tantalizing techniques\, positioning\, breath and pacing\, toy additions\, and more! Level up on the art of going down with creative tips on anticipation\, rhythm\, and intensity that build confidence for both giver and receiver. Through interactive exercises\, you’ll learn how to ask for what you want\, give helpful feedback\, and elevate your dirty talk – so oral sex feels more hot and connected for everyone. \nThis workshop is open to all genders\, sexualities\, and experience levels and perfect for anyone looking to deepen their oral skills. Come and play! \nPRESENTER: \nJamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy\, consent\, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools\, health clinics\, college campuses\, adult sex shops\, national conferences\, BDSM dungeons\, non-profits\, community organizations\, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late\, throw an unforgettable party\, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1cc1fa0dd6
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-blown-away-oral-sex-for-every-body-with-jamie-joy/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260505T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260505T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T013958Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T013958Z
UID:10000365-1778004000-1778011200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: So\, You Want to Start a Munch! with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Perhaps you’ve been interested in starting an event for a while. Or maybe hadn’t personally considered starting an event\, but there is something you’ve been wanting to see in your local community\, and no one else has stepped up. \nLet Miriam Green from Wicked Grounds help you! Over the past seventeen years\, Wicked Grounds has worked with dozens of people and organizations to help them launch their own events and munches\, and in our early life as a cafe we hosted literally thousands of munches over fourteen years. In addition to their work through Wicked Grounds\, Miriam Green has personal experience launching several munches\, discussion groups\, and play labs. \nThis session is designed to help you talk through munch and event ideas and bring them to life — including defining your group\, logistics\, creating engaging events\, and social outreach. \nExisting munch or discussion group leaders are also welcome to attend to troubleshoot challenges with their events. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. For over a dozen years\, they have taught a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky as well as technique classes on impact play. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nTICKETING: \nThe suggested ticket price is $30. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6ee0c42f9a
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-so-you-want-to-start-a-munch-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260331T182124Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T014123Z
UID:10000358-1778090400-1778097600@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: High Protocol for D/s with Sinclair Sexsmith
DESCRIPTION:Making rules\, tasks\, and ongoing protocol is one of the cornerstones of D/s dynamics. But it can be daunting to figure out where to start\, how to create different structures of protocol for different spaces\, and how to maintain the strict container. \nWe’ll go over some tools that help make protocol easier to experiment with and implement\, such as the cartography of control areas\, the protocol game\, and levels of protocol. Ultimately\, protocol is all about creating adjustable\, adaptable guidelines that feed the dynamic and enhance D/s headspace. You’ll come away from this discussion with tools and structure to elevate your protocol in any situation. \nPRESENTER: \nSINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch\, a leather dominant\, and a writer\, focusing on individual\, interpersonal\, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission\, social & restorative justice\, the energetic body\, trauma\, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999\, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable\, long term D/s. As a leather community member\, titleholder\, and organizer\, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues\, including International Ms. Leather\, Dark Odyssey\, SXSW\, Harvard\, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection\, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica\, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award\, and they have edited 7 queer erotica anthologies; their latest book is Daddy4Daddy: Queer Kink Erotica. Find Sinclair online at http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair \nTICKETING \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ff2cee7972
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-high-protocol-for-d-s-with-sinclair-sexsmith-3/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260506T210000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T014543Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T014543Z
UID:10000366-1778094000-1778101200@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! A hands-on monthly impact playshop!
DESCRIPTION:Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! \nA peer-led skill share to explore impact play \nHosted by @impossiblepain \nSpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted\, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play\, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them\, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction. \n7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!) \n7:15: DOORS CLOSE \nPlease note: late arrivals after 7:15 will not be admitted and will not be refunded. Plan accordingly! \n7:15-7:30: Review of rules and guidelines\, toys show-and-tell \n7:30-9: Socialize\, observe\, and practice impact play! \nSpankLab Rules & Guidelines \nFurther explanation will be provided at the event\, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife\, or email eventsassistant@wickedgrounds.com beforehand if you have questions \n\nAsk before touching people\nAsk before touching toys\nAsk before giving feedback\nUse common sense and trust your gut!\nSex-positive space\, not sex-active\nNo phones or photography\nVoyeurism is participation — It’s okay to just watch\nDungeon etiquette review\n\nPRESENTER \nimpossiblepain is an impact switch\, a gleeful sadist\, and an accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe\, creative\, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021. \nYou are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain \nGROUP \nWant to learn more about SpankLab? Join our new group on FetLife! \nTICKETING \nTickets: $20-$40 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/72e3b23396
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/sf-wicked-grounds-presents-spanklab-a-hands-on-monthly-impact-playshop-12/
LOCATION:Folsom Street Community Center\, 1286 Folsom Street\, San Francisco\, CA\, 94103\, United States
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260507T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260507T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T015103Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T015103Z
UID:10000367-1778176800-1778184000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Seducing Your sub: How to Create Erotic Tension & Keep Your sub Coming Back For More with Marla Renee Stewart
DESCRIPTION:If you’ve been in the D/s world\, you know that some subs can be finicky on their search for the right Dominant. Finding the sub that works for you takes patience\, but most of all it takes the Dominant to pick up on the right cues that would draw the sub in. \nIn this workshop\, you’re going to understand how to use seduction to your advantage to get your subs to not only do what you want when you want it\, but for them to beg you for more attention and more erotic play time. Whether you are a beginner or a professional\, this will help you run the long (and successful) game when it comes to your kinky endeavors. This workshop is for every gender identity and sexual orientation. \nPRESENTER: \nMarla Renee Stewart\, MA\, CSE (she/her) is a 3x award-winning sexologist\, author\, and sexual strategist at Velvet Lips Sex Education. With over two decades in kink\, Miss Marla proudly identifies as a sensual sadist and professional top\, specializing in techniques such as impact play\, breath play\, dirty talk\, and sensual genital torment. Her work centers on empowering erotic autonomy and dismantling sexual shame—especially for Black\, queer\, and kinky communities. As Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference\, Marla co-created the largest BIPOC dungeon in the world\, offering a transformative space for exploration and healing. She also trains therapists\, counselors\, and educators in understanding and supporting the unique needs of Black queer and kinky relationships with cultural competency and care. Through her workshops\, writings\, and fierce advocacy\, Marla continues to lead the movement for sexual liberation with unflinching power and sensuality. \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/1ca7b17af2
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-seducing-your-sub-how-to-create-erotic-tension-keep-your-sub-coming-back-for-more-with-marla-renee-stewart/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260510T140000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260510T160000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T020103Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T020103Z
UID:10000369-1778421600-1778428800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Listening with Empathy with Master Retro Bella
DESCRIPTION:One of the most common traits among failed scenes\, negotiations\, and contract discussions is misunderstanding the intent behind a verbal statement. Oftentimes the intent is buried behind “under talk” and lack of trust. This can be particularly challenging when communication is already at a standstill. Join me as we explore how to regain trust and relearn how to listen with empathy. \nIn this class\, we will be covering: \n\nWhat is “Under talk” and how can we recognize it in our speech\nReading body language or the lack of body language\nLearning how to become a more empathic person\nRebuilding trust after a communication break down\nHow to create a safe place for private talks\n\nPRESENTER: \nMaster Retro Bella is a Latina High Femme Master and Leather woman from Bakersfield\, California. Her pronouns are She/Her/Hers. She is the first woman to earn the title of 2023 Southwest Master and became the first person of Latin descent to hold the 2024 International Master title. She is passionate about Latinx/ne representation in M/s and Leather spaces. This passion fueled her to create the Latine Leather Pride flag\, which debuted at South Plains Leatherfest in 2025\, and to become the founder of Latinos in Leather. Recognized as one of the Onyx Pearls’ “Young 8\,” she carries the pearl name Amara Pearl. Currently\, Master Retro Bella curates the Latinx Queer Chronicles on Substack\, which showcases the intersectionality of queerness and Latinidad. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/412287efca
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-listening-with-empathy-with-master-retro-bella/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260512T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260512T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T020504Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T020504Z
UID:10000370-1778608800-1778616000@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes\, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn’t necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene. \nJoin us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We’ll talk about: \n\nNegotiation styles\nPre-scene negotiations\nHow to negotiate without killing the mood\nChecking in during and after the scene\nNegotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics\n\nDrawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene\, we’ll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter\, more fun\, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. This series welcomes all genders\, orientations\, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications. \nPRESENTER: \nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over one dozen years in the Austin\, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds. \nYou may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com \nTICKETING: \nThe regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/a0f2b6209a
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-kink-101-bdsm-negotiation-basics-with-miriam-green-11/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260514T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260514T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T021204Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T021204Z
UID:10000371-1778781600-1778788800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:ONLINE: Crafting A Psycho-Emotive Ritual Scene with Keiden Bren
DESCRIPTION:Have you been looking to add that sacred element into your kink scenes? Learn how to bring the Woo into your kink scenes with psycho-emotive elements to create deep emotional experiences. In this class we will discuss various elements of sacred sexuality\, what goes into creating ceremony and ritual\, and what a psycho-emotive experience entails to learn how to craft your scene. \nPRESENTER: \nKeiden Bren is a neurodivergent queer kinky pagan artist living with MS. They have a deep passion for identity\, communication\, and language which fuels their desire to create safe spaces for people to just be themselves and to generate learning experiences to grow. With a professional background and volunteer experience in Security and Event Operations\, they have developed a penchant for the technical writing of operations\, policies\, and procedures with a focus on inclusive training and revising outdated content. They have taught classes and lead workshops in various communities on a wide range of topics with a focus on well-being\, connection\, sexuality\, and spirituality. \nIn addition to their work in security and education\, Keiden is also a drummer\, a sacred fire tender\, a member of the Universal Temple of Spirits\, a first-degree initiate in the Stone Circle Wicca tradition\, an ordained Priest by the Order of the Golden Gryphon\, a graduate of Gryphon’s Grove School of Shamanism\, and an honorary member of the Seattle based Night Crew Paranormal Society. \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d8a85d204c
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-crafting-a-psycho-emotive-ritual-scene-with-keiden-bren/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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ORGANIZER;CN="Wicked Grounds":MAILTO:Events@WickedGrounds.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260515T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260515T210000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T021843Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T021843Z
UID:10000372-1778871600-1778878800@wickedgrounds.com
SUMMARY:Wicked Grounds Play Lab: R&R!
DESCRIPTION:​Wicked Grounds Play Lab: Rope & Restraint!\n​​Play Lab is a kinky skill share\, come indulge in your passions or learn something new!\n​​This month’s topic: Rope & Restraint with Day Dream \n​Rope\, cuffs\, chains\, zip ties\, clothes\, plastic wrap\, and other creative ways to tie and restrain will be available for use\, come and play with us! \n​​An immersive experience for all skill levels. \n​Join us for this community-forward collaborative space where we tackle a different topic each month. \n​​Bring your favorite gear\, tools and toys if you have them. If you don’t have a thing or are just starting out\, bring an open mind and a willingness to soak it all in. \n​​We welcome those of all experience levels! Curious newbies and seasoned kinksters alike can come together to build knowledge and practice in a casual setting. To keep things open to folks at all experience levels\, this space will be both sex positive and sex free. \n​​Our hosts and space monitors will be present to provide assistance and create a safer container for us to play and explore. (If you are an experienced kink practitioner interested in volunteering for free or reduced entry\, contact nick@wickedgrounds.com for vetting.) \n​​Here’s a look at our schedule: \n​6:30: Doors open \n​7:00: Host presentation \n7:15: DOORS CLOSE (Please pre-plan for transport and parking\, see below for more info) \n7:15 – 7:30: Review of rules and guidelines\, toys and gear show-and-tell \n7:30-8: Group negotiation \n​​ 8 – 9: Conversation\, mingling\, practice\, kinky games\, demos\, and more! \n​9:30: Lights on\, clean up\, everyone out! \n​ \n\n\n​​Rules & Guidelines \n\n\n​​Advice and feedback require consent granted unless it is a safety concern\, in which case inform a space monitor or host \n\n\n​​No critique without a compliment\, stay constructive without judgement \n\n\n​​Sex (any sort of hand\, mouth\, genital\, etc. to genital contact with intent to arouse) is not permitted \n\n\n​​We ask that genitals be covered\, however uncovered nipples are permitted \n\n\n​​No phones or photography allowed for the duration of this event \n\n\n​​Voyeurism is permitted\, please watch and expect to be watched! \n\n\n​​FWB space etiquette review \n\n\n\n\n​​ABOUT OUR HOST: \n​Day Dream is a professional pervert and amateur aerialist. She has been tying for four years as a sub-leaning switch and self-suspender. \n​​TICKETING: \n​​Tickets: $30-$50 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \n​​The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. \n​​​​We offer multiple price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. \n​​If the regular ticket price is too much\, use code KITTY to take $10 off our regular ticket price. \n​​This event is an inclusive\, queer\, and sex-positive safe space.
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/wicked-grounds-play-lab-rr/
CATEGORIES:In Person,Social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260516T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260516T130000
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Mindful Brainwashing with Aidan Sunassee
DESCRIPTION:If you have engaged in brainwashing or conditioning in kink\, you have probably spent time wrestling with the implications of your practice. To what extent is it acceptable to deliberately shape someone’s mind\, their responses\, their sense of self? Dynamics built around long-term conditioning carry their own particular stigma\, even within kink communities\, and that stigma makes it harder to think clearly about what’s happening. \nSome people find their way into sustainable\, deeply satisfying dynamics that focus on shaping one partner to the other’s liking\, and then have to reckon with the discomfort that comes with it. How do you talk honestly with someone who is actively being shaped to think in particular ways\, even when they asked for that very change? Some also run into rougher territory\, such as identity confusion or dynamics that started with good intentions and lost the plot somewhere along the way. \nWhile brainwashing is a word often heard in the kink community\, research into influence\, behavior shaping\, and identity is only now beginning to catch up with what communities have been doing for decades. The goal is also to sit with the word brainwashing itself and learn about what it means to each of us\, the history it may carry\, and what about it might be worth reclaiming. \nPRESENTER: \nAidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist\, educator\, researcher\, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware\, grounded in inclusive practices\, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience\, creating spaces where community voices are centered\, respected\, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM\, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA\, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research\, he has developed and led community education programs on kink\, consent\, trauma awareness\, and ethical non-monogamy. \nAt the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/af0f9455c3
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-mindful-brainwashing-with-aidan-sunassee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260517T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260517T130000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T022910Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Strangers in the Night: Fray Sexuality\, Relationships & YOU! with Lady V
DESCRIPTION:Fray Sexuality is often described as an attraction to new and/or unfamiliar people\, often with little to no interpersonal connection previously. \nBeing Fray Sexual doesn’t mean you can’t have or maintain relationships. It doesn’t mean you’re cold or “not capable of love”. Its just a different layer of how someone is sexually attracted to people & practices their sexuality. \nFray Sexuality is often looked down upon instead of celebrated for what it is. This class helps us understand what Fray Sexuality is\, how to navigate being Fray Sexual\, & how to support a partner who’s Fray. \nJoin Lady V in the messy fray that is Fray Sexuality! In this class we’ll cover: \n\nSetting & maintaining boundaries with primary partners\nGetting needs met and navigating points of safety when getting intimate with strangers\nMaintaining primary & romantic relationships while being fray sexual\nCreating connection points outside of sexuality & romance\nBalancing respect with (sub)conscious objectification\n\nThis class is geared towards fellow fray sexuals\, partners of fray sexuals & the curious! The class is heavily geared toward consensual non-monogamy. \nCan’t make it? Recording available for 7 days! \nPRESENTER: \n@The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator\, community organizer & pro domina. \nUsing her background in film\, Lady V is able to use the power of improv to switch on a dime. Prior\, she served as the Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. \nLady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. \nShe is an out\, proud\, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit\, Michigan\, she has settled in Salem\, Oregon\, with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE where she serves as the majordomo for her leather family\, the Atomic Army. Lady V considers herself both a lifestyle & professional switch. Any way the wind blows\, it doesn’t really matter to her. \nShe hopes to inspire others to enjoy sex positivity from an authentic place\, as well as embrace their spiritual place within sex positivity & find healing within it. \nYou can view more of her work at https://TheLadyV.Net or Fetlife at @‌The_Lady_V. \nTICKETING: \n$20 – $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/5d70f380ca
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-strangers-in-the-night-fray-sexuality-relationships-you-with-lady-v/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260518T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260518T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T023621Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260430T023621Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Channeling the Energy: Tantra and Rope with Miss Mackenzee
DESCRIPTION:“Attending this class was an absolutely transformative experience! From the moment we started\, we knew we were in for something special. Miss Mackenzee seamlessly guided us through an enlightening journey that highlighted the profound connection between my partner and I. The class beautifully integrated the principles of Tantra with the intricate art of rope bondage\, fostering a deep sense of trust and communication. Every exercise was designed to cultivate intimacy and presence\, allowing us to explore our boundaries safely while deepening our emotional bond. By the end\, we felt more connected not just to each other but also to ourselves. This class is a must for anyone looking to explore new dimensions of togetherness in a safe and supportive environment. We left feeling empowered\, refreshed\, and closer than ever!” – Lauren B. \nThis workshop is designed for igniting the spark of erotic desire between you and your lover. We’ll go through the ancient art of tantra and add in the more modern flow of rope to provide a truly tantalizing and intoxicating time. Learn to play even more with the primal energy that is rooted deep in us all\, from beginners to experienced. We will be engaging with this captivating bondage tool as an active party with our partners\, connecting you as one. Be prepared to feel the passion ignited and feel your level of intimacy with your partners grow. You’ll feel more connected\, both spiritually and physically\, to your partners than ever before. There is no need to have any prior rope knowledge for this class. This isn’t about pretty intricate work or proper knots. This is about being in the moment and just enjoying your experience. \nOther points of conversation will include: \n\nWorking through your chakras and channeling their energy\nHow meditation and guided imagery can help center you for more connection\nFree time to explore with your partner or solo\nExercises to feel unbelievably closer to your partner\nLocating and strengthening your kegels for more pleasure\n\nAnd much more! \nPRESENTER: \nMiss Mackenzee comes from a queer\, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist\, BDSM and Intimacy Educator\, Certified Hypnotist\, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach\, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor\, Owner of Elysium Dungeon\, Host of Kink\, Intimacy\, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast\, Content Creator\, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University\, which makes and sells beautiful one of a kind BDSM toys and furniture as well as offers on demand courses\, spicy digital guides\, clothing\, aftercare items\, and more. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications\, been hired as an expert for various media outlets\, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10\,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play\, sex magic\, bondage\, power exchange\, reveling in pleasure\, sadism\, bedroom skills\, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter\, safer\, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality. \nTo view her full offerings\, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com \nTICKETING: \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/7a3c8f7839
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-channeling-the-energy-tantra-and-rope-with-miss-mackenzee/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260519T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20260519T200000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20260430T024305Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE: Simplest Toybag: Creative Uses for One Rope with Lee Harrington
DESCRIPTION:Tired of lugging around a full toybag? Imagine grabbing a single length of rope and having everything you need for a night of delight. In this class\, we’ll explore how one piece of rope can become a leash\, an improvised whip\, a gag\, a blindfold\, a makeshift vibrator\, a tool for intense sensation play\, and more. Bring a 15-30 foot rope if you’d like to play along and discover how versatile this familiar friend can truly be. Let’s unlock new possibilities and learn fresh tricks with the rope you already love or have just begun to explore. \nPRESENTER: \nLee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator\, gender explorer\, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality\, psychology\, faith and desire\, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering\, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink\, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams)\, “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond\,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé\,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities\,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator\, academic\, adult film performer\, world class sexual adventurer\, outspoken philosopher\, polytheist priest/ess\, kink/bondage expert\, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. \nTICKETING: \n$30 suggested. We offer several price points\, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. \nhttps://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/693ffb5f25
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/online-simplest-toybag-creative-uses-for-one-rope-with-lee-harrington/
CATEGORIES:Online,Workshops
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261101T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20261214T180000
DTSTAMP:20260430T061255
CREATED:20251125T033222Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251125T033222Z
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SUMMARY:Diving Deep Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires - A Six Week Course with Miriam Green
DESCRIPTION:The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out\, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires?\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \n\n\nEngage in a journey of self-discovery\n\nThis six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). \nTogether\, we’ll explore: \nDiscovering and honoring what turns you on \nSafely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism \nTrying new skills in the bedroom and beyond \nDeepening your insights into your own desires \nDisentangling from others’ erotic projections \nFinding your voice and speaking freely \nSharing the desires you’re afraid to voice \n\nAbout Miriam Green\n\nMiriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin\, Houston\, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community\, BDSM negotiations\, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds\, San Francisco’s leader in BDSM education and community building. \nHow we’ll engage\nThe six week course will run live from November 1 – December 14\, 2026. \nThis class will include six total weeks of content and homework\, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Monday evenings (all recorded for later participation if needed)\, and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.) \nOur three 90-minute live group sessions will be offered via Zoom on Monday\, November 2; Monday\, November 23; and Monday\, December 7 – all at 6pm Pacific time. \nSessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live. \nIs this course for you?\n\nDo you get stuck when asked “what do you want in intimate relationships?”\nAre you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks?\nHave you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism?\nDo you want a deep understanding of the physical and psychological responses you have to kink?\nDo you want to connect deeply with others?\n\nThen yes: this course is for you! \nPrevious students say …\n“Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have\, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir’s inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you’ve been playing for five minutes or fifty years\, this class is a game-changer!” – Ari Can-Do \nTICKETING: \nhttps://wickedgroundsannex.teachable.com/p/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-your-desires_2026
URL:http://wickedgrounds.com/event/diving-deep-discovering-and-voicing-erotic-desires-a-six-week-course-with-miriam-green/
CATEGORIES:Intensives,Online
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