ONLINE: Your Kink Is Not My Kink – But Is Your Kink OK? with Sir Panda

The guideline of “Your Kink Is Not My Kink” (YKINMK) has become foundational in the sex positive and BDSM communities as the standard for acceptance of diversity – and as the gold standard to avoid shaming. But what happens when we struggle with another’s kink, to the point of becoming judgmental, disturbed, or even triggered?

This class will review types of play (including edge play) that might “squick” or trigger us, and why. We’ll examine how to overcome our own biases, discuss what to report and what not to report, and how to reach the tolerance of Your Kink Is OK.

PRESENTER:

Sir-Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant living in the Kansas City metro area. He has been a kink educator since he began teaching consent and BDSM basics at Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture in 2011. He has taught for Fetish Con, Leather Reign, the Kink Center, Pragmatic Kink, Wicked Grounds, and the Venusian Society. He especially focuses on the mental and relationship aspects of kink and polyamory, drawing on over 30 years of experience and a passion for research.

Sir Panda is a Certified Professional Life Coach, an Accredited Relationship Coach, a Mental Health First Aider, a consent advocate, and a member of the Social Psychology Network. Find him on FetLife as Sir-Panda or Instagram and Substack as RealSirPanda. To learn more or to book a coaching session, please visit www.dsoutreach.com.

TICKETING:

$30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.

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