Month: December 2025

This Week with Wicked Grounds (12/4 – 12/14)

December 4, 2025 By Miriam Green

Hello kinksters – We had some of the best feedback you can ever want in our business last night, from a couple of different people in different conversations. In essence: your classes gave me permission to play the way I’ve always wanted to play. That’s the thing about kink and sex-positive culture. Yes, there are lots of tropes out there. And sure, there are people in the kink world that will put forth their ideals as the One True Right and Only Way. But in the real world of thriving play and relationships, there isn’t one way. There is a wide range of potential, and what works great for one person might not for another. Our goal has always been to help people find the next steps on their own personal erotic roadmaps, by building tools for developing confidence, banishing guilt, and allowing room to evolve as individuals in relationships and communities. I am delighted when we’re able to get it right and make a difference. This also seems to be a theme of the week, as several of our instructors explore the many right ways of doing things, from D/s and polyamory to age play and bondage! We have a lot of classes this week, including both online classes and several live in the SF Bay Area. Let’s take a look at what you can expect this week: This Week! Thursday, Dec 4 Online: Let’s make some magic! Join Madam Rosie Rose online tonight for her second class on bringing full moon energy into play, Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM. (This is a free-standing class, and you do not need to have attended the previous class to take part!) Advanced ticketing required. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Friday, Dec 5 No live programming today, but you can always check out our video classes and other digital downloads at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com​. Saturday, Dec 6 It’s first Saturday, which means we have some great programming for you in San Francisco! San Francisco, CA: Is this the year you’ll get out and get connected with the San Francisco Bay Area kink scene? Let’s make it happen for you! Join us for Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Wicked Grounds’ Miriam Green, where we’ll explore all the venues, organizations, instructors, parties, and more that make the San Francisco Bay Area scene so special. You’ll learn how to benefit from participating in your local scene, events, and parties and how to make the most of it all! Door tickets will be available, but advanced ticketing is always recommended. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. San Francisco, CA: Get a unique perspective on the world of violet wands, zappers, TENS units and other electroplay toys today in our live class Electro Play from the Bottom with pangressive. Tops and bottoms alike will learn all about the wide variety of sensations and pain that can be inflicted using electricity. The instructor, pangressive (he/they), will be bottoming, assisted by demo top Addy (she/her). pangressive will explain the similarities and differences of a wide range of electro toys, and will describe what they feel like. Advanced ticketing is recommended, and can be obtained through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Sunday, Dec 7 We have both in-person and online classes today! Oakland, CA: Whether you’re curious about stripping for personal play, or want to take your burlesque, drag, bondage, or other erotic performances to the next level for the stage, you’ll want to join Alexandria from Click Your Heels in Oakland today. Starting at 10am, we’ll explore the personal side of building confidence and personal style into stripping in a 3.5 hour workshop Stripping 101. You’ll learn everything you need to know to make the most of stripping for the bedroom, dungeon, or other personal play. Want to truly master the art of stripping for an audience? Make the day of it and stick around after our lunch break for Stripping for the Spotlight. We have ticketing available to attend just for the morning, or for the full-day workshop, at ​Forbidden Tickets​ and ​Plura​. Online: Join UK educator and kink-aware therapist Sarah Butcher online today for An Introduction to Submission: Exploring Submissive Roles. This class will be valuable for tops and bottoms alike to understand the wide range of possibilities in submission and other authority exchange. Advanced ticketing required to either attend live online or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: This afternoon we will also offer part two of our Shadow, Power & the Erotic Self: A Ritual Descent with Sir Scott, however, registration is already closed. Monday, Dec 8 Online: Looking for something a little different in the world of bondage? Join us online tonight for Chain Bondage for Beginners with CTW. Advanced ticketing required to attend live or through the recording within one week of the class date. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Tuesday, Dec 9 We have two online classes tonight! Online: If you’re brand new to kink – or you’re just frustrated with how your scene communication is going – join us online with Miriam Green for BDSM Negotiation Basics. We’ll cover the basic ideas around consent in kink, the best questions to ask (and how), and even what’s going on in your brain that impacts how you communicate – or have challenges communicating – before, during, and after your scenes. Drawing on twelve years of teaching and thousands of conversations with kinksters like you, Mir will help you demystify scene communications. Advanced ticketing required to attend either live or through the recording. Get yours through ​Forbidden Tickets​ or ​Plura​. Online: There are a lot of styles of non-monogamy, and not all styles are right for all people and relationships. Let’s widen the frame on some models that work tonight in Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory. Advanced ticketing required to attend either live or through the recording. Get yours

Wicked Grounds Event Roster (last updated 12/2)

December 2, 2025 By Miriam Green

We have a LOT of new events coming up for the end of this year and the beginning of the next one. We invite you to join us for the ones that best fit your journey right now. We recognize that every kink journey is different, which is part of why we’re committed to offering a range of classes on sex-positive culture, non-monogamy, kink, BDSM, and even the world of sacred sexuality for everyone from beginner’s to advanced practitioners. Love us? Make a ​monthly membership contribution​. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Links below are to ​Forbidden Tickets​. If you’re a Plura member, check the ​Plura​ app. We typically have Plura tickets ready between 2-4 weeks before each event; at this moment, each of the events listed below has ticketing available on both platforms. Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach out for one-time or ongoing coaching sessions at ​WickedGroundsAnnex.com​. Not sure if coaching is the right fit for you? We offer ​10-15 minute exploration sessions​ to learn more and ensure we’re a good fit. The Roundup! Daylong & Multi-week Intensives 12/7 2pm PST – 5pm PST: ​Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria from Click Your Heels​ (Oakland, CA) January 2026: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) February – March 2026: ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​ (ONLINE) May 2026: ​Kink Class Incubator​ (ONLINE) November – December 2026. ​Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires​ (ONLINE) S/m & the physical side of play NEW 12/3 7pm PST: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with imposssiblepain​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/6 3pm PST: ​Electro Play from the Bottom with Pangressive​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/13 2pm PST: ​Violet Wands 101 with Electro Girly​ (ONLINE) NEW 12/16 7pm PST: ​Holiday Fetish Games with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 1/4 2pm PST: ​Violet Wands 102 with Electrogirly​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/7 7pm PST: ​Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with imposssiblepain​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 1/11 11am PST: ​Discipline and Punishment with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/11 2pm PST: ​Make Me a Masochist: Changing Your Relationship With Pain with vahavta​ (ONLINE) Bondage & Fetish 12/8 6pm PST: ​Chain Bondage for Beginners with CTW​ (ONLINE) NEW 12/15 6pm PST: ​Entangled Desires: Rope for Sex and Intimacy with Jamie Joy​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/12 6pm PST: ​Twisted Ties: Sadististic Rope Play with Jamie Joy​ (ONLINE) D/s, role play & the mental side of play 12/4 6pm PST: ​Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM with Madam Rosie​ (ONLINE) 12/7 11am PST: ​An Introduction to Submission: Exploring Submissive Roles with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) 12/13 6pm PST: ​Finding Your Powers: The 10 Sides of What Gets called “D/s” with Lee Harrington​ (ONLINE) 12/14 11am PST: ​From Little Princess to Rebellious Teen: An Ageplay Workshop with Mel and Memi​ (ONLINE) 12/14 2pm PST: ​Domination 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Developing Your Dominant Side with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) 12/29 6pm PST: ​When No Doesn’t Mean No: Negotiation and Communication for Consensual Nonconsent with vahavta​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/11 11am PST: ​Discipline and Punishment with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/18 11am PST: ​Rules and Rituals for Power Play with Sarah Butcher​ (ONLINE) Polyamory 12/9 6pm PST: ​Beyond the Kitchen Table: Modes and Models of Parallel Polyamory with Laura Boyle of Ready for Polyamory​ (ONLINE) 12/17 6pm PST: ​Long Distance Polyamory with HG Wyndell​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/15 6pm PST: ​WTF is Relationship Anarchy? with Laura Boyle of Ready For Polyamory​ (ONLINE) Hypnokink 1/24 11am PST: ​Hypnokink 101 with Faun​ (ONLINE) Movement 12/7 10am PST – 1:15 pm PST: ​Stripping 101 with Alexandria​ (Oakland, CA) 12/7 2pm PST – 5pm PST: ​Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria from Click Your Heels​ (Oakland, CA) NEW 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) Sexy Times 12/7 10am PST – 1:15 pm PST: ​Stripping 101 with Alexandria​ (Oakland, CA) 12/7 2pm PST – 5pm PST: ​Stripping for the Spotlight with Alexandria from Click Your Heels​ (Oakland, CA) 12/18 6pm PST: ​Advanced Blowjobs: Mastering Techniques for Ultimate Pleasure with Lilith Foxx​ (ONLINE) 12/22 6pm PST: ​The Ultimate Guide for Teasing and Orgasm Control with Miss Mackenzee​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/4 10am – 5pm PST: ​Flexibility For Kink + Erotic Movement: A Daylong Movement Workshop​ (Oakland, CA) NEW 1/10 2pm PST: ​Vaginal Fisting with Mel and Memi​ (ONLINE) Self-knowledge, negotiation & consent 12/9 6pm PST: ​Kink 101 BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) 12/21 2pm PST: ​BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda​ (ONLINE) 12/23 6pm PST: ​Your Year In Kink with Sinclair Sexsmith​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/7 6pm PST: ​Dealing with Drop with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/13 6pm PST: ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics with Miriam Green​ (ONLINE) Community: Friends, dating, relationships & kink culture! 12/6 Noon PST: ​Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Miriam Green​ (San Francisco, CA) NEW 12/17 7pm PST: ​Kinky Speed Friending with Psychokitty​ (San Francisco, CA) 12/21 2pm PST: ​BDSM & Attachment Styles with Sir Panda​ (ONLINE) 12/30 6pm PST: ​Get This Party Started: Event Organizing & Hosting with Lady V​ (ONLINE) NEW 1/10 11am PST: ​Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them with Hardy Haberman​ (ONLINE) Spirituality, Magick, and Occult (with Magickal Crossroads) 12/4 6pm PST: ​Elemental Magic & Lunar Energy in BDSM with Madam Rosie​ (ONLINE) NEW 12/28 2pm PST: ​Sex Magick for Kinksters with Miriam BatAsherah Green​ (ONLINE) January 2026: ​Month of Mindfulness for Kinksters​ (ONLINE) February – March 2026: ​All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know​ (ONLINE) Self-Directed Digital Downloads ​Diving Deep (video class)​ ​KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics (video class)​ ​KINK 202: Advanced Negotiation for Dynamics & Relationships (video class)​ ​Private Joy: Sadomasochism for Solo & Distance Play (video class)​ ​Kink Self-Discovery Workbook (self-directed template)​ ​Aftercare Kit Checklist​